I don't mean to offend anyone by opening this topic so please consider this as you are replying to my own answer for the question on hand:
Whether it is alright or not to kiss the girl when punting ?
I have been doing this dirty biz for some time now.
Having grown with religion as an important part in my life, I was ashamed initially of what I was doing and always had guilty feelings when doing it but, seeing that my official relationships were never active like I wanted ( in a nimphomaniac way ), I became a hard user until it got to feel normal. This normality came also from a decision I took in life, that of becoming an atheist.
I now have no remorse when doing anything like it and I do not consider it cheating if I'm also involved in a normal relationship. It's a pleasure thing that does not have to involve feelings.
Now, coming from a somewhat different background, I have little to no respect at all for this "profession" or the "ladies" that practice it. No, I don't mean it as a stereotype so it could also be "gents", depending how you view it.
The profession involves dropping all conventional and ethic values through the sale of the body. Their self esteem is bashed to the ground, the spirit is lost and the ideals of the conventional are forgotten. One would think of it this way from the outside. They, however, manage to hide the pain, maybe with the help of the easy financial gain, afterall money is a good way to forget hard stuff in one's life.
On that note, I would like to say that although I have no respect for it, I do however appreciate it in that it serves its purpose.
Ok so, this plus the fact that it's the grossest thing what the ladies are doing, taking all that cock and cum in their face, through the mouth, teeth, tongue and going all the way to the stomach, I ask myself, how could I possibly get in a situation where I would kiss the slut to either get her or myself in the mood for banging. Never done it, one major rule I have is never do it, fucking is one thing, but getting all those cocks and all that cum in my mouth, no way no no.
Sure, wash hard as they might, still can't get my silly ideas off my mind, the nightmares with the cock monsters chasing me through the woods until I get to the edge of a cliff and that's when I jump and fall all the way down and fall and fall then suddenly I'm awake sweating massively and with the heart racing of fear, fear of the cock monsters... I know these ideas would surely come to haunt me at night.
Leaving jokes aside, what do you think ? Am I overreacting ? Sure, I would love to also kiss a hottie dottie if I'm already paying for sex, we're all no good scumbags in a way as a whole, buuut can I live with it ?
Can you ?