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Offline randyandy1174

So question to all you punters out there.

Have you ever thought I would like to become a male escort offering services to ladys?

Have you thought about it?
Have you done this?
How much does it cost to advertise on Adultwork?
What was your first client like?

Just pondering the thought...

Offline Kinkykate78

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satyromaniac

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Unless you are model fit, a qualified masseur and or hung like a donkey then you are goin to have a very dusty phone.
Women know they don’t need to pay for sexual services. The fattest, ugliest women could go in to any boozer and announce she wants sex and at least one guy will fuck her.
« Last Edit: March 22, 2019, 12:20:47 pm by satyromaniac »

Offline thekingreturns

I think if you are a male escort on AW 99% of your bookings will probably be men


Offline Happyjose

I suspect if you want to make any dough you're going to have to revise your plan and suck a lot of cocks

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« Last Edit: March 22, 2019, 01:18:04 pm by Happyjose »

Offline bhudda

I think it would save you and everyone else a lot of time if you just dug out and read one of the other 27 threads on this topic

Offline randyandy1174

Could you forward on the threads?

satyromaniac

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Could you forward on the threads?

Jesus, how lazy are you?

This is your thread, you are the one showing interest in this particular topic, yet you can’t be fucked to search yourself??!!

Just go to the advanced search link in the top right corner and type in “male escorts”
« Last Edit: March 22, 2019, 01:48:51 pm by satyromaniac »

Offline randyandy1174

Wasnt sure how to, thanks for the advice.

Offline hawkzville

Best of luck!

I tried to do the same thing - well, sort of...…… for those of you who remember the days when the pound-in-a-pot strip pubs in London weren't the slick operations they are now, but were pretty much single mum amateurs earning a few quid whilst the children were at school (so late 90's early 00's)…. well I got to know some of the regular girls pretty well and even dated one for a while; anyhow, some of them did escorting but in the more traditional non-sex sense of the word - so accompanying men to dinners/functions etc - anyhow, by chance it came up that one of them was asked for a recommendation for a "reliable middle-aged bloke who could hold his own at a business function" to accompany a female CEO to a function, and as they only had younger men on their books one of the girls put my name forward! So I did it - 4 hours, a free meal and wine for the princely sum of £100 I recall. I'd never been so nervous in my life as it was such an horrendous feeling to be paid to be someone, be somewhere you didn't know/want to be just for money. It gave me an insight (or 1% of an insight) into how it must feel to truly sell yourself...…… there was no "hanky panky", purely professional, though I was given a sort of script into how I knew/what my connection was with the person I was with, so it felt a bit like being in a play...… I was asked a couple of times after by the agency if I wanted to do some more work, but declined, partly because of the "weird" feeling, but also because the second person they wanted me to see was older than my mother!!

Offline randyandy1174

Wow sounds interesting.

I guess its only when you go through with it you know how it feels.


Offline theejaculator

Just think of the stress...... women just have to open their legs apply lube and lie back and think of the money (ok I know they have the stress of dealing with nutters etc)...... but men they have to 'perform'. Just think about handing back that £50 when you couldn't get it up for 17 stone granny wrinkles .....

Offline willie loman

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Unless you are model fit, a qualified masseur and or hung like a donkey then you are goin to have a very dusty phone.
Women know they don’t need to pay for sexual services. The fattest, ugliest women could go in to any boozer and announce she wants sex and at least one guy will fuck her.

Yes woman have the chance to stagger home in the rain with an ugly drunk who takes ages to come, that is the reality. I m always astonished that men think woman have the upper hand when it comes to sex, very few woman in or out of relationships are getting much quality shagging.

Offline punterman99

So question to all you punters out there.

Have you ever thought I would like to become a male escort offering services to ladys?

Have you thought about it?
Have you done this?
How much does it cost to advertise on Adultwork?
What was your first client like?

Just pondering the thought...

I thought about it when I was 25 but not now I'm 65.... :scare:
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Offline freeze44

Just think of the stress...... women just have to open their legs apply lube and lie back and think of the money (ok I know they have the stress of dealing with nutters etc)...... but men they have to 'perform'. Just think about handing back that £50 when you couldn't get it up for 17 stone granny wrinkles .....

Fair point! Think if the op determined to do it then might have to offer special services!! The mind boggles!

Offline NigelF

Yes woman have the chance to stagger home in the rain with an ugly drunk who takes ages to come, that is the reality.

Any woman who isn't ugly and even many who are, will have a lot of decent and sometimes good looking guys hitting on them. It's rare they will settle for someone they think is ugly although it does happen and in those cases it's for other reasons and them being "ugly" isn't as bad as it sounds to us (as women tend to care less). But when they want good looks, it's easy for them to get it (or at least easier than it is for 99% of men). The exception is if they have rare, specific tastes or very high standards (because the best looking men are often tough to get). In those cases though, Tinder (or similar apps/sites) provide the solution, except perhaps for old or ugly women (or those who live in a very rural location). 

As for taking ages to cum due to being drunk, a woman can pretty much dictate when the guy will leave whenever they want. As such, the guy does not need to be drunk nor does it mean he'll take too long too cum, especially since when not drunk most guys have the opposite problem. Anyway, there's still no guarantees with male escorts.

I m always astonished that men think woman have the upper hand when it comes to sex, very few woman in or out of relationships are getting much quality shagging.

I agree that many seem to exaggerate how easy it is for women (especially if they don't want to risk embarrassing themselves or being labelled as slut etc - which is very important for most women) but how could you not think women have the upper hand when it comes to getting sex? The only advantage men have is that we have many more characteristics and potential "tactics" that can allow us to get sex (because looks aren't as important for us) and age is less important for us too. Those things actually make being a man an often underrated thing IMO.

It's true that many women don't get much quality shagging but the only reason women don't get much quality shagging is because they "settle" for  whatever they're getting and either don't know about or are too lazy or afraid to take the necessary and easy steps to get good sex. Basically, that means getting themselves out there, being very slightly forward (nothing drastic but most women are reluctant to do anything to move things forward, except when drunk) or just going on Tinder. Some women are also afraid/reluctant to have many different sexual partners (which is often necessary to find good sex unless you get lucky). Women absolutely do have the upper hand, the fact that some of them don't make use of it does not prove your point.

Tinder proves my point excellently, ANY woman (or at least any under the age of 60) can set up profile and as long as they have photos that aren't trash quality and live in a built up area, they will have plenty of matches. Yes, quite a lot of duds in there but it's still quite low effort for them to arrange a stream of at least decent looking men to come round straight to their place and fuck. The only guys who can do that look like male models.

There is some demand for male escorts (from women) but it's low (extremely low in comparison to female escorts) and it's exactly what the guy you quoted said:
Unless you are model fit, a qualified masseur and or hung like a donkey then you are goin to have a very dusty phone.
« Last Edit: March 22, 2019, 06:24:59 pm by NigelF »

Offline Corky

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Unless you are model fit, a qualified masseur and or hung like a donkey then you are goin to have a very dusty phone.
Women know they don’t need to pay for sexual services. The fattest, ugliest women could go in to any boozer and announce she wants sex and at least one guy will fuck her.

This is so true

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I find it highly unlikely that young, sexy ladies would pay to have sex with me......

Offline Moresomes

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 The fattest, ugliest women could go in to any boozer and announce she wants sex and at least one guy will fuck her.

She'd be killed in the rush where I drink.

Offline Hurley

Ooof a gay for pay thread, we haven’t had one of those for a while.

Offline Steely Dan

« Last Edit: March 22, 2019, 08:39:02 pm by Steely Dan »

Offline Malvolio

To go back to the OPs initial question - I would have no wish to do this even if I could as it's not the most dignified way of making a living.

Offline One Eyed Snake

I’ve often thought about it but being a 65 yr old , ugly fat bastard Don’t think I’d get much work.

Offline bhudda

I’ve often thought about it but being a 65 yr old , ugly fat bastard Don’t think I’d get much work.

Im sure there are prossies who fit that description making a living

Offline One Eyed Snake

Im sure there are prossies who fit that description making a living
Yes but at least they’ll have some kind of fanny not a hairy arse ole.

Offline stevedave

I think if you are a male escort on AW 99% of your bookings will probably be men

99.999999 is probably more accurate.

Offline Plan R

The fattest, ugliest women could go in to any boozer and announce she wants sex and at least one guy will fuck her.

It's easy to be a slut.
It's hard to be a stud
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Offline dieseldriver

This become a male escort ripoff was a big thing back in the eighties. Loads advertising in free mags like Time Out, FridayAds and more.
Ladies joined free, but men had to pay something in the region of £20+. Once application form/photo/joining fee sent, immediate reply to say congratulations, your application accepted. Then sit back and wait for the phone to ring. Oh yes, the phone did ring. But not from ladies requiring your service! Must have been around 8/9 escort agencies? And only one guaranteed your fee refunded if not required after a period of a few months. Might have been three months? Was the only agency to refund my fee. The requests for my fee returned by the others ignored......

brandonpete

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Look up old Coronation street episodes...Ken Barlow Male Escort!.....this just shows how old and sad I am.

Offline Doc Holliday

pay wall - but here is recent story of a M for F escort. 
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or try this
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or
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Unable to read those Times links as they require a subscription?
Here is the down market version from the Sun External Link/Members Only

There are so many clichés and stereotypes in there it’s untrue .. or rather very suspicious.
Not to mention contradictions like booked up for days but then says only sees one a week?

There probably is a very small niche MF market, but very few will actually manage to get into that market. There are some who if they do succeed to tap into that market are then likely to take the lion’s share of it. Mr James is one of these.

This is marketing genius. The website is slick and FFS get yourself that amount of coverage in publications like the Times and Cosmopolitan etc and you must surely reach that tiny market that is beyond most would be studs?
Now I have no idea if this guy is good at his job but he is certainly good at marketing and must have contacts in the right places to get that sort of publicity which the thousands of guys on AW with their low resolution cock pics etc can only dream about.

So having achieved this massive coup in publicity does it actually increase your client base? Not sure about the frustrated business women types flooding in, but of course it will encourage male readers to contemplate doing the same and who better to help them and offer advice including setting up a slick website than External Link/Members Only

The only money ever made in straight male escorting has been from those promoting it and exploiting the gullible men amongst us (as per post above about the eighties) and this is just another example.



Offline datwabbit

Search aw and look at all the male sp's on there. Check out the number of reviews.

Go onto UKE and look at the male sp's on there. You won't get any business but it'll give you an idea of the effort needed.

Join an agency

It seems male sp's put a lot less effort into their venture than female ones. It's a business not a free shag.

Online scutty brown

Try asking the question on SAAFE and see the responses you'll get..........
Essentially the only market is for male escorts who are young, suck cock and open their assholes

Offline Doc Holliday

Try asking the question on SAAFE and see the responses you'll get..........
Essentially the only market is for male escorts who are young, suck cock and open their assholes

Indeed ... although I suspect the market for gays is not that lucrative either?

I recall around 2004 having a discussion with an SP. She was setting up an internet based escort agency and she was considering including a male escort component. This was when the internet was just starting to take off on a larger scale within the paid sex industry. Exciting times. She knew historically there had been no real market for this, but thought the internet may be an opportunity for this to change?
I said I was dubious and my pessimism appears to have been justified.

Ironically of course what the internet has subsequently produced, is a portal for women to access casual sex but not having to pay for it.

Offline dynatron

unless you can be guaranteed to perform whilst looking at someone who realy does turn you off then whats the point-very demanding and pressurising i would guess great when u have a lady who you fancy but i guess theres always viagra

Offline thumbspot

Seems to be a demand on the cuckhold circuit.  Certainly the high rating males on AW seem to mostly have feedback from other blokes paying them to bang their Mrs (or also hire a female escort to act as your Mrs).

I guess it you were really into that it would be safer to book a male escort than some random from the pub.

Charges a fraction of the hourly rate of equivalent female escorts.

Offline GreyDave

 :hi: Reminds me of the scene in the old TV show "Freinds" when Joey is out of work nothing on the horizion says his agent but .....

There`s always Gay Porn Joey they still want you  :D :D :D :D

Offline willie loman

Any woman who isn't ugly and even many who are, will have a lot of decent and sometimes good looking guys hitting on them. It's rare they will settle for someone they think is ugly although it does happen and in those cases it's for other reasons and them being "ugly" isn't as bad as it sounds to us (as women tend to care less). But when they want good looks, it's easy for them to get it (or at least easier than it is for 99% of men). The exception is if they have rare, specific tastes or very high standards (because the best looking men are often tough to get). In those cases though, Tinder (or similar apps/sites) provide the solution, except perhaps for old or ugly women (or those who live in a very rural location). 

As for taking ages to cum due to being drunk, a woman can pretty much dictate when the guy will leave whenever they want. As such, the guy does not need to be drunk nor does it mean he'll take too long too cum, especially since when not drunk most guys have the opposite problem. Anyway, there's still no guarantees with male escorts.
If you want to know what woman think about dating and one night stands and male sexual performance, go to mumsnet and read the forum posts about dating etc, you will soon see how bleak life is for most woman, decent men in or out of the bedroom are very rare.
I agree that many seem to exaggerate how easy it is for women (especially if they don't want to risk embarrassing themselves or being labelled as slut etc - which is very important for most women) but how could you not think women have the upper hand when it comes to getting sex? The only advantage men have is that we have many more characteristics and potential "tactics" that can allow us to get sex (because looks aren't as important for us) and age is less important for us too. Those things actually make being a man an often underrated thing IMO.

It's true that many women don't get much quality shagging but the only reason women don't get much quality shagging is because they "settle" for  whatever they're getting and either don't know about or are too lazy or afraid to take the necessary and easy steps to get good sex. Basically, that means getting themselves out there, being very slightly forward (nothing drastic but most women are reluctant to do anything to move things forward, except when drunk) or just going on Tinder. Some women are also afraid/reluctant to have many different sexual partners (which is often necessary to find good sex unless you get lucky). Women absolutely do have the upper hand, the fact that some of them don't make use of it does not prove your point.

Tinder proves my point excellently, ANY woman (or at least any under the age of 60) can set up profile and as long as they have photos that aren't trash quality and live in a built up area, they will have plenty of matches. Yes, quite a lot of duds in there but it's still quite low effort for them to arrange a stream of at least decent looking men to come round straight to their place and fuck. The only guys who can do that look like male models.

There is some demand for male escorts (from women) but it's low (extremely low in comparison to female escorts) and it's exactly what the guy you quoted said:

if you want to know the reality for woman go to mums net, life is very bleak for a single woman.
« Last Edit: March 23, 2019, 05:57:26 pm by willie loman »

Offline HarryZZ

Apart from it been a complete non starter through lack of custom, let's stay it were the other way around and it's women who were the ones willing to pay for sex and men could sell themselves, you couldn't have 5 clients a day, well I certainly couldn't, perhaps when I was 17 but not in my 50s.

Offline Doc Holliday

... perhaps when I was 17

which would be illegal  ;)

Joking apart plenty of female 'escorts' don't see five a day either. Maybe by choice or lack of demand ... but that's a separate topic.

Offline Belgarion

So question to all you punters out there.

Have you ever thought I would like to become a male escort offering services to ladys?

Have you thought about it?
Have you done this?
How much does it cost to advertise on Adultwork?
What was your first client like?

Just pondering the thought...

You will do very well. Prepare your ring piece as you'll be ridden by men.

Offline peter purves

So question to all you punters out there.

Have you ever thought I would like to become a male escort offering services to ladys?

Have you thought about it?
Have you done this?
How much does it cost to advertise on Adultwork?
What was your first client like?

Just pondering the thought...

SEXPERT Male ‘sex consultant’ hired by women for £1,000 a night to show them what they’re missing out on with their husbands

He told The Times: “The women I see have lost touch with their sexual energy because their feminine essence has not been nurtured for a very long time. They contact me to help them reconnect with that.”

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Offline Doc Holliday

SEXPERT Male ‘sex consultant’ hired by women for £1,000 a night to show them what they’re missing out on with their husbands

He told The Times: “The women I see have lost touch with their sexual energy because their feminine essence has not been nurtured for a very long time. They contact me to help them reconnect with that.”

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As I posted earlier you really do have to admire this guy's marketing skills. Whether he possesses any other relevant skills I have no idea?  :D

Offline Punterperson1971

As I posted earlier you really do have to admire this guy's marketing skills. Whether he possesses any other relevant skills I have no idea?  :D
And I bet the women are 18 stone mingers.

Offline peter purves

As I posted earlier you really do have to admire this guy's marketing skills. Whether he possesses any other relevant skills I have no idea:D

He now runs a consultancy service that helps men take their first steps in escorting– and says there are two rules to being a great lover.

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Offline Doc Holliday

He now runs a consultancy service that helps men take their first steps in escorting– and says there are two rules to being a great lover.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=242895.msg2485359#msg2485359


Offline yorkshirepunter3333

A long time ago, I was working away and I got chatty with a bloke who was a male escort, he only entertained the ladies, he did ok, he did have to shag the ugly ones but he also got to have fun with the OKish ones. He was pretty normal looking, probs went to the gym... but fick me, I go to the gym most days!! but I dont think I could pull it off :)

100% agree with the comments above, most blokes will shag any women, so its kinda easy for women to get sex, but maybe some ladies like the buzz of booking someone for it?

Offline Hobbit

The only people that hire male escorts are gays, fat chicks or rich milfs.  :D So you are not going to attract supermodels unless you are an extremely handsome man and have a 10" cock. In which case, you would not need to be a male escort.  :hi:
« Last Edit: March 26, 2019, 02:39:43 pm by Hobbit »