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d712

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Nah man, don't do it  :dash: :dash:

You may not care now because your single but what about the future? When you got a wife and kids? Once they got your name and address..that's it...

Think with your head..not the Tadger.

When I have a wife and kids? Now that's a depressing thought!

d712

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How would she or anyone know that the name and address provided is genuine?

d712

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I would not do that.
Person receiving the money (WG) will see an email with "Name Surname sent you money"

But will that be the name on the payment card or the name you registered under?

Offline Steely Dan

A few have given you advice about how to be a fool and do what you are asking.  But they were being kind.  I think they, too, are aligned with the UKP view:

The consensus from UKP is
-NEVER pay a deposit.
-NEVER give real name and address.
-And don't ask for advice on here if you have no intention of following it.

Will you follow any of the advice here?  If not, why did you post?  One more rule ... plenty of fish. This means there are other escorts, of equal charms, who will have dinner with you without a deposit or your RL name.


Offline Fuzzyduck

nope, for small amounts you don't need to verify. You should anyway verify email address and phone (burner).
when you reach 1k or so depending on the country you will be asked to verify name and address

I meant that surely PayPal would validate the name given against the address from the electoral roll or other data sources but, from what you're saying, I guess they don't.

Offline Fuzzyduck

A few have given you advice about how to be a fool and do what you are asking.  But they were being kind.  I think they, too, are aligned with the UKP view:

The consensus from UKP is
-NEVER pay a deposit.
-NEVER give real name and address.
-And don't ask for advice on here if you have no intention of following it.

Will you follow any of the advice here?  If not, why did you post?  One more rule ... plenty of fish. This means there are other escorts, of equal charms, who will have dinner with you without a deposit or your RL name.

Wise words, SD. OP has had enough guidance, and more than anyone with zero contribution to the site deserves. Let him work it out from here.
« Last Edit: November 07, 2018, 11:52:46 pm by Fuzzyduck »

Offline marcello

But will that be the name on the payment card or the name you registered under?
Name you register under.
Although, bank that issues the card will not share the info on your name with Paypal.
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Anyway I wouldn't do it any other way from the one I suggested.

d712

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A few have given you advice about how to be a fool and do what you are asking.  But they were being kind.  I think they, too, are aligned with the UKP view:

The consensus from UKP is
-NEVER pay a deposit.
-NEVER give real name and address.
-And don't ask for advice on here if you have no intention of following it.

Will you follow any of the advice here?  If not, why did you post?  One more rule ... plenty of fish. This means there are other escorts, of equal charms, who will have dinner with you without a deposit or your RL name.

I do appreciate the advice here and have said so several times.

I asked for advice because I thought what she was asking me to provide is unusual and I wanted to see if others had the same impression. I didn't come on here with a decision already made about whether or not I would take the advice. You have to wait and see what is said before making an informed decision.

I haven't ruled out the booking at this stage but as I mentioned previously I have texted her to say that I am not happy to share my personal details. If she insists upon this then I won't go ahead with it.

Offline marcello

I meant that surely PayPal would validate the name given against the address from the electoral roll or other data sources but, from what you're saying, I guess they don't.
They don't. Given enough email addresses, phone numbers, devices and internet connections you can have x paypal accounts.
Proper verification with documents is done manually by their employers once a certain amount on the account is reached.

d712

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They don't. Given enough email addresses, phone numbers, devices and internet connections you can have x paypal accounts.
Proper verification with documents is done manually by their employers once a certain amount on the account is reached.

So when a payment is made is the recipient provided with the name on the payment card or the name that payer registered under?

So for example if Joe Bloggs (real name) registered as John Smith (fake name) would it appear to the recipient that he was paid by Joe Bloggs or John Smith?

d712

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Wise words, SD. OP has had enough guidance, and more than anyone with zero contribution to the site deserves. Let him work it out from here.

Admittedly I haven't posted reviews on here but I provided a warning about Penny Pocket (External Link/Members Only) when I found out she was posting derogatory comments about her clients on her tumblr account.

Hopefully some people found that helpful.
« Last Edit: November 08, 2018, 12:08:30 am by d712 »

Offline marcello

So when a payment is made is the recipient provided with the name on the payment card or the name that payer registered under?

So for example if Joe Bloggs (real name) registered as John Smith (fake name) would it appear to the recipient that he was paid by Joe Bloggs or John Smith?
John Smith
Nonetheless, do not use only one Paypal account. It's pretty much as the punter phone thing on UKP.

d712

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John Smith
Nonetheless, do not use only one Paypal account. It's pretty much as the punter phone thing on UKP.

Thanks. Punter phone thing? What's that?

Online myothernameis

Thanks. Punter phone thing? What's that?

Buy a cheap phone, and only use thus phone for punting

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Just out of curiousity, if payments can be made anonymously then wouldn't be possible to just provide a false name and address? How would the WG be able to verify it?

No good asking me, I've already said I can't help with deposits, I would never pay one so no need for me to know how to.

d712

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Buy a cheap phone, and only use thus phone for punting

Thanks, I understand now. I misread the message first time.

Offline Lizzie_Lockhart

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There are 2 obvious reasons I can think of that an SP would set up hoops like this to jump through:

1. Risk management - ID/Address to provide to her security buddy and deposit to ensure that she's not out of pocket if the client doesn't show up.

2. Intention to scam - The SP has no intention of honouring the booking and has nefarious intentions for your personal info.

Without details of the lady in question I'm not sure how anyone could help you figure out which is more likely. 

I have a similar procedure in place for the former reasons, especially for non-AW bookings or bookings from clients with little to no AW feedback and especially especially for longer bookings or something out of the ordinary

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Offline threechilliman

Ask her for her full name and address!! :lol:

Offline cueball

Thanks. In what ways can deposits be paid without revealing your name?

I've been asked to make the payment via PayPal.
Tell her it's full payment of cash only at the start of the booking and nothing else. No deposits, no home info, no risks. She's in public all the time, no risk to her.

Don't be a fool and jump through hoops that you don't need to.

That's the way I'd play it anyway.

Online rocket88

Home and work circumstances mean that I keep personal life completely separate from punting. That means a 'punting name' - to give a real name and address I think would be far too risky. On the deposit thing - I have lost a considerable amount of time with SPs radio silence when I get to the postcode as agreed - I wouldn't want to lose money as well!

d712

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Hello

Thanks for all your responses. Just to update you I texted her last night to say that I was happy to provide a deposit (if it doesn't include my full name, although I didn't mention that bit) but not with sharing my personal details.

She has asked if I want to pay the full amount on the day and I've said yes.

So as it stands the booking is going ahead.

d712

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Home and work circumstances mean that I keep personal life completely separate from punting. That means a 'punting name' - to give a real name and address I think would be far too risky. On the deposit thing - I have lost a considerable amount of time with SPs radio silence when I get to the postcode as agreed - I wouldn't want to lose money as well!

Yes, I do the same when providing a name and email address.  :thumbsup:

Offline JamesKW

Why not  just go on one of the many supper clubs on meetup.com in your area,there are bound to be women there and they pay for themselves.You can make up all your own details.

Offline Derrick101

Hello

Thanks for all your responses. Just to update you I texted her last night to say that I was happy to provide a deposit (if it doesn't include my full name, although I didn't mention that bit) but not with sharing my personal details.

She has asked if I want to pay the full amount on the day and I've said yes.

So as it stands the booking is going ahead.

Looking forward to the review  :hi:

d712

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Why not  just go on one of the many supper clubs on meetup.com in your area,there are bound to be women there and they pay for themselves.You can make up all your own details.

Because this is a dinner date with a slight twist  ;)

I'll go into the details after the booking  :thumbsup:

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Because this is a dinner date with a slight twist  ;)

I'll go into the details after the booking  :thumbsup:

You're moving the goalposts now, you didn't say that in your OP, have you just thought of that bit. Typical troll behaviour.    :thumbsdown:

d712

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You're moving the goalposts now, you didn't say that in your OP, have you just thought of that bit. Typical troll behaviour.    :thumbsdown:

No, I'm not moving the goalposts.

This thread is about the arrangements being made ahead of the booking (it also says this in the subject title) not the booking itself.

As far as the details of the booking are concerned, I've said I'll go into that later and I will.

Offline datwabbit

Link please? Someone might be able to tell you if you'll be ripped off.

Push back on the PayPal and go for a voucher code.

She's not the only escort in your area so you can walk away.

Offline datwabbit

Because this is a dinner date with a slight twist  ;)

I'll go into the details after the booking  :thumbsup:

Proposing?

Romantic devil.


Offline Turtle1

Everyone has told the OP to be careful and not do it, he insists on going through. Up to you.

1. It’s a wind up
2. OP is just very confused
3. OP is just after attention

Which one is it

Offline oinki


Is it an odd thing for her to ask?


Obvious answer is yes.

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I have met the lady before but not for a one to one booking and I'm not worried about being ripped off.

If you are not worried about being ripped off then why are you posting this?

Troll.

d712

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Everyone has told the OP to be careful and not do it, he insists on going through. Up to you.

1. It’s a wind up
2. OP is just very confused
3. OP is just after attention

Which one is it

None of them.

If you read my messages again you'll see that I have never insisted on going ahead with it.

d712

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Obvious answer is yes.

If you are not worried about being ripped off then why are you posting this?

Troll.

If you think I'm a troll then I'd like to know what the word is for someone who doesn't read messages properly.

Because if you weren't one of those people you would already know that I was concerned about sharing my personal details and that I have also said that I will not go ahead with the booking if she insists upon this.

Offline Fuzzyduck

None of them.

If you read my messages again you'll see that I have never insisted on going ahead with it.

What all go through all 35 of them, about this topic, which I think most people are bored of?
If you feel compelled to reply to this, you will prove to me that turtle called it right with option 3: attention seeker.


d712

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What all go through all 35 of them, about this topic, which I think most people are bored of?
If you feel compelled to reply to this, you will prove to me that turtle called it right with option 3: attention seeker.

Nice attempt at trying to have the last word but as you have replied to me then your logic (which I don't agree with by the way) would make you an attention seeker as well.

People may be bored of the topic but if they then decide to add to it by writing messages claiming I wrote things which I didn't then I'm going to correct them.

And if they are saying incorrect stuff because they haven't read the messages properly in the first place then that's their fault not mine.

Offline bbwandy72

Thanks for your response. If I pay a deposit then won't she find out my full name anyway?
I have a paypal account in my punting name for precisely that reason.

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No, I'm not moving the goalposts.

This thread is about the arrangements being made ahead of the booking (it also says this in the subject title) not the booking itself.

As far as the details of the booking are concerned, I've said I'll go into that later and I will.

What is going to happen in the booking has a major influence on what arrangements are made prior. To put it as simply as I can, you make a booking for a dinner date as per your first post, you'll be meeting in public so no need for her to know your details. If you intend to go somewhere after then she's going to want to know where and have some security arrangements in place so will want more information.

d712

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I have a paypal account in my punting name for precisely that reason.

Yes, quite right. Very sensible.

David1471

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Thanks for your response. If I pay a deposit then won't she find out my full name anyway?

I think PAYPAL only use an email
you could set up a new one
use a fake name

d712

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I think PAYPAL only use an email
you could set up a new one
use a fake name

Thanks, as it turns out I won't have to pay a deposit now.

I'm waiting to hear back from her after my last text before deciding to go ahead with the booking.

To be honest I don't think it will happen.

brandonpete

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JUST DON'T DO IT...you're being either 'set up'...a blackmail stunt or a fairly major Rip Off,being 'groomed' or worse...save your money...take me out,at least I can take to places where you'll get shagged properly and leave with a smile on your face!

d712

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JUST DON'T DO IT...you're being either 'set up'...a blackmail stunt or a fairly major Rip Off,being 'groomed' or worse...save your money...take me out,at least I can take to places where you'll get shagged properly and leave with a smile on your face!

Haha!

I won't be sharing my personal details so I don't think any of the things you mentioned could happen.

d712

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Just to let you know, I went ahead with the dinner date and it was fine.

There was no deposit paid and I didn't have to give her my personal details.

The girl in question is a glamour model rather than an escort and she didn't want me to name her on any escort forums.

I can provide a review if you like but without the girl's name I don't think it would be much use to anyone.

Offline theoldmaggot

Just to let you know, I went ahead with the dinner date and it was fine.

There was no deposit paid and I didn't have to give her my personal details.

The girl in question is a glamour model rather than an escort and she didn't want me to name her on any escort forums.

I can provide a review if you like but without the girl's name I don't think it would be much use to anyone.

Might as well said fuck all

 :dash:

Also, just read the first opening post whereas you said you have met her previously before, however you only just brought up now that she a glamour model?

Too many inconsistencies within this thread/post.  :timeout:
« Last Edit: November 20, 2018, 10:55:29 pm by theoldmaggot »

d712

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Sorry.

I did say I would let people know how the booking went and if I didn't do that people would be justified in criticising me.

But she doesn't want me to name her.

What can I do?

Offline Steely Dan


The girl in question is a glamour model rather than an escort and she didn't want me to name her on any escort forums.
So did you give her money and have sex? She doesn't fuck for money? If she does then she is an escort. 

Also providing comments here is not her choice. Your choice.  If this was never about a punt, post on some other site.

d712

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So did you give her money and have sex? She doesn't fuck for money? If she does then she is an escort. 

Also providing comments here is not her choice. Your choice.  If this was never about a punt, post on some other site.

Read my original post.

Offline hillingdonpete

Sorry.

I did say I would let people know how the booking went and if I didn't do that people would be justified in criticising me.

But she doesn't want me to name her.

What can I do?

What do you mean "What can I do?"

Post a review.
People gave you their time and patience.
Show a little gratitude and some balls.
Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all the others.



d712

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What do you mean "What can I do?"

Post a review.
People gave you their time and patience.
Show a little gratitude and some balls.
Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all the others.

Doesn't anyone actually read the messages on here? LOL

I've already offered to write a review less than half an hour ago...

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=228896.msg2348896#msg2348896
« Last Edit: November 20, 2018, 11:12:25 pm by d712 »