A few have given you advice about how to be a fool and do what you are asking. But they were being kind. I think they, too, are aligned with the UKP view:
The consensus from UKP is
-NEVER pay a deposit.
-NEVER give real name and address.
-And don't ask for advice on here if you have no intention of following it.
Will you follow any of the advice here? If not, why did you post? One more rule ... plenty of fish. This means there are other escorts, of equal charms, who will have dinner with you without a deposit or your RL name.