As others have said, there comes a time in life when finding a good massage with someone who knows you and your likes can be best.
I have a Thai masseuse who says she is 60 but may be a little more, who cares, with a figure many women half her age would give their eye teeth for. It has taken a long time but it takes place in her house and has slowly built up over time but we are now both naked from the start and I get a good massage with quality oil plenty of body to body contact although very relaxing with no liberties taken as I know what is coming, so just a relaxing half hour. Then after starting out as a quick "can I massage you" she now also gets a full body massage to her liking taking about the same length of time. Then the fun bit starts an intimate massage which builds up to RO and her legs clamped around my neck and an explosive orgasm. then it's my turn for similar treatment. Whilst we get on quite well anyway, there is no other intimacy, kissing etc but as she says "We are now both very happy". She is right, everything is relaxed and at a pace that brings enjoyment. At £50 the hour now it's a bargain to me.
So why do I bother seeking out escorts every now and again that usually ends up in disappointment costing twice as much, usually they are not really interested in older guys, just want to take your money and get you out and you don't "perform" as you would like? I need to learn to stick to what I enjoy even after I leave.