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yorkshire123

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I have to be honest I'm disappointed at the mixture of patronising and naive drivel from most of the other posters on this thread.  But that's the internet for you I guess.

Nieve drivel from a man that reads cosmo, you couldn't make it up  :D

Yes that was a "mixture of patronising and naive drivel" but thats what makes this forum unique & growing by the day.

Offline CBPaul

Nieve drivel from a man that reads cosmo, you couldn't make it up  :D

Yes that was a "mixture of patronising and naive drivel" but thats what makes this forum unique & growing by the day.

 :lol:

Yeah maybe I should start a thread asking for peoples' experiences using sugar daddy websites. Oh, wait...

Actually I think I won't bother.

Pot calls kettle black on the patronising front.

Perhaps you should have put 'I only want replies from those having direct first hand experience in being a sugar daddy and are willing to do all the hard work for me, otherwise don't bother replying'.

Others have offered you very good advice and links, perhaps it's time to investigate for yourself.

That was neither drivel nor patronising  ;)

Rochdull lad

  • Guest
Yeah maybe I should start a thread asking for peoples' experiences using sugar daddy websites. Oh, wait...

Actually I think I won't bother.

Nieve drivel from a man that reads cosmo, you couldn't make it up  :D

Yes that was a "mixture of patronising and naive drivel" but thats what makes this forum unique & growing by the day.


Imagine someone beginning a thread on any Internet Message Board [let alone one like this] and imagining that he could dictate the terms in which that thread would develop.

Ah, bless!  :rolleyes:

Offline cunnyhunt

Nieve drivel from a man that reads cosmo, you couldn't make it up  :D

Maybe "he" reads it when "he" has "his" nails done.   :hi:

Offline Matium

I'll look back at that thread.  Also puzzled why Matium doesn't want to share his experience,

I have contributed to this thread.

I gave the link to the thread on Saafe showing the contempt that prostitutes have for Sugar Daddies and I gave the list of the main Sugar Daddy sites. But all that is rather academic for people if they don't have the money. Being a Sugar Daddy is far more expensive than being a punter.

Being a punter, I was able to weed out all the prostitutes on the site, at least the ones who contacted me.



As soon as you let your emotions get involved then like me you'll get fucked.

Offline smiths

I have contributed to this thread.

I gave the link to the thread on Saafe showing the contempt that prostitutes have for Sugar Daddies and I gave the list of the main Sugar Daddy sites. But all that is rather academic for people if they don't have the money. Being a Sugar Daddy is far more expensive than being a punter.

Being a punter, I was able to weed out all the prostitutes on the site, at least the ones who contacted me.

If you measure success by "pénétrations" with civvy girls then I was very successful but I fell in love with one girl and when I tested her saying I had lost all my money, she stopped seeing me.

As soon as you let your emotions get involved then like me you'll get fucked.

Talking about the dangers involved from your own personal experiences of getting emotionally attached to one of these women seems to be great information for the OP to me. :thumbsup:

cockneybstrd

  • Guest
I would be curious to know what the OP was looking to get out of being a Sugar Daddy or what his expectations would be.

As Matium has given you his views on using the sites (and if you have a proper look his views and experiences on the Hotel bar area too)

I ve given my views too. I.E I avoided using the sites and used reward ad's through CL.

So those that have done something along these lines have tried to help.

Gav Lee

  • Guest
I would be curious to know what the OP was looking to get out of being a Sugar Daddy or what his expectations would be.

As Matium has given you his views on using the sites (and if you have a proper look his views and experiences on the Hotel bar area too)

I ve given my views too. I.E I avoided using the sites and used reward ad's through CL.

So those that have done something along these lines have tried to help.

Your comments have been helpful Cockney and Matium has now posted exactly the sort of feedback about his experience I was hoping to get and Smiths has been helpful in all his posts.

The reason I posted is because most of my punting is with regulars and I am curious to know if any on here have used a sugar daddy website to have a similar setup to a regular prossie, and if so how it worked.  My expectation is that the sugar daddy route is just another form of prostitution but it would work differently in practice compared to a nice straightforward punt where you turn up, get out the cash and get your clothes off.  I'm interested to know how it works though eg how you get the girl into bed, how up front it is that cash is being exchanged for sex.

What has bugged me is posters like CBPaul who said "expect a lot of pandering to her whims" and rolf3323313 saying "she will expect the gift in a Tiffany box" both sounding like they have actual experience of the setup but from the rest of the thread it's clear it was just bullshit.

Offline Daffodil

What has bugged me is posters like CBPaul who said "expect a lot of pandering to her whims" and rolf3323313 saying "she will expect the gift in a Tiffany box" both sounding like they have actual experience of the setup but from the rest of the thread it's clear it was just bullshit.

FFS, sensitive soul aren't you?  :rolleyes:

cockneybstrd

  • Guest

The reason I posted is because most of my punting is with regulars and I am curious to know if any on here have used a sugar daddy website to have a similar setup to a regular prossie, and if so how it worked.  My expectation is that the sugar daddy route is just another form of prostitution but it would work differently in practice compared to a nice straightforward punt where you turn up, get out the cash and get your clothes off.  I'm interested to know how it works though eg how you get the girl into bed, how up front it is that cash is being exchanged for sex.


Well as I said I used CL. So an exchange of emails where I am very direct about what I am looking for in exchange for my reward. Normally followed by a phone call to weed out the dreamers. (All done via the punting phone and the punting email address)

With regards to bird I fucked for the kettle.

Met her at Westfield had a coffee went to John Lewis bought the kettle. Had a bite to eat went back to mine and got my cock out.

rolf32313

  • Guest

What has bugged me is posters like CBPaul who said "expect a lot of pandering to her whims" and rolf3323313 saying "she will expect the gift in a Tiffany box" both sounding like they have actual experience of the setup but from the rest of the thread it's clear it was just bullshit.
OK so we has a cosmo reader who judging by their mood swings would appear to have the painters in at the moment. Are you sure you're seeking services?

You have been told many times it's an spectrum, their are girls who operate at the high end and those who operate at the low end and a lot in between.

Maybe instead of blaming everyone else for not giving you the answer you want you should blame yourself for not asking the right question in the first place... Since you expect everyone on this board to wait on you hand and foot I will oblige, please fill in the gaps:

"Hi, I'm gav and I'm finding the financial burden of punting a little straining at the moment and is wondering if Sugar daddy'ing is a viable alternative. I'm looking to 'donate' £<Please fill in here>/month (so not top league by any stretch of the imagination) and is wondering if anyone has any experience of sugar daddy'ing at this contribution level? I.e. what sites operate at this level (their is no point joining a site where the women are looking for successful high earners!), what can I expect for this money? If you have info drop everything to respond ASAP"

Oh, Don't thank me, I like everyone else is here to serve you sir. Shall I tell chef to prepare you lunch sir?

« Last Edit: July 02, 2014, 02:06:07 pm by rolf32313 »

Offline CBPaul


What has bugged me is posters like CBPaul who said "expect a lot of pandering to her whims" and rolf3323313 saying "she will expect the gift in a Tiffany box" both sounding like they have actual experience of the setup but from the rest of the thread it's clear it was just bullshit.

Had I pretended that I had first hand experience then it would have been bullshit, as I recall you specifically asked me if it were so and I replied stating no - it was an opinion. Last time I looked this was a forum and members are free to interact - that's the whole point. Ironic thing is I was trying to help  :dash:

To me a sugar daddy is an older man who pays a younger girl, whether it be money or items, over a long-ish period of time. Unlike punting as we tend to discuss on here whereby you turn up, pay, fuck for designated time and then go if you are a sugar daddy you'll have a lot more interaction - getting stuff she wants, paying fees or whatever - hence pandering to her whims. Lets face it she'll be no shrinking violet if she actively pursues the sugar daddy option.

As it happens most of my comments seem to have been confirmed, especially with regards to the sums of money involved. So less of the bullshit.

Once one gets her claws into a sensitive sole like you she'll bleed you dry. 

Gav Lee

  • Guest
Hilarious the number of posters on this thread taking offence while accusing me of being sensitive.

Anyway I've now seen a thread on the off topic board that smiths talked about and that seems to have some useful info.

rolf32313

  • Guest
Hilarious the number of posters on this thread taking offence while accusing me of being sensitive.

Anyway I've now seen a thread on the off topic board that smiths talked about and that seems to have some useful info.
We are all just so glad we could help you and please accept our unreserved apologies that Matium took so long to respond to your original post. You can be sure that he has been spoken sternly and is now fully aware of what is expected of him in terms of a timely response when requests like this one come in from you in the future.
 

Offline CBPaul

Hilarious the number of posters on this thread taking offence while accusing me of being sensitive.

Anyway I've now seen a thread on the off topic board that smiths talked about and that seems to have some useful info.

More irritated than offended Gav. Anyway, good news that you've found the thread you need, what took so long, didn't anyone hand the link on a plate. Out of interest was it in the list of 78 I suggested yesterday ?

cockneybstrd

  • Guest
To be honest and its no offense Gav unless you have a bit about of a bastard about you and know how to manipulate situations to your own ends. You could end up getting rinsed

What you need to remember is those on the 'professional' websites have generally had quite a lot of experience of manipulating men and unless you know how to deal with people like that you could well end up getting fucked over.

Gav Lee

  • Guest
More irritated than offended Gav. Anyway, good news that you've found the thread you need, what took so long, didn't anyone hand the link on a plate. Out of interest was it in the list of 78 I suggested yesterday ?
Yes I'm more irritated than offended CBP but there you go.  You are a lot of sensitive souls on here aren't you?

TBH I stopped reading your posts in the middle of the thread so I've no idea if you had mentioned it.

Gav Lee

  • Guest
To be honest and its no offense Gav unless you have a bit about of a bastard about you and know how to manipulate situations to your own ends. You could end up getting rinsed

What you need to remember is those on the 'professional' websites have generally had quite a lot of experience of manipulating men and unless you know how to deal with people like that you could well end up getting fucked over.

It's a fair point Cockney.  Also interesting that Matium seems in the minority in getting anything productive out of sugar daddy websites on the off topic thread, plenty of posters who've found they signed up paid their membership but then struggled to meet real women through them. I guess that sort of website would be a prime candidate to have staff in EE contacting members to string them along.  I won't be rushing into paying anything.

rolf32313

  • Guest
Yes I'm more irritated than offended CBP but there you go.  You are a lot of sensitive souls on here aren't you?

TBH I stopped reading your posts in the middle of the thread so I've no idea if you had mentioned it.
Gav, on reflection, I think with your level of social skills Sugar daddy'ing isn't for you.

Offline CBPaul

Yes I'm more irritated than offended CBP but there you go.  You are a lot of sensitive souls on here aren't you?

TBH I stopped reading your posts in the middle of the thread so I've no idea if you had mentioned it.

Ah, pity as you went and missed the helpful bit  :D

Gav, on reflection, I think with your level of social skills Sugar daddy'ing isn't for you.

I think on many levels sugar daddy'ing isn't for him.

Offline CBPaul

Just a comment, stumbled across this profile whilst looking a bit further afield than usual

 External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

Wrong on so many levels, to me this illustrates the potential fuck-up that awaits the unprepared.


vorian

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Just a comment, stumbled across this profile whilst looking a bit further afield than usual

 External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

Wrong on so many levels, to me this illustrates the potential fuck-up that awaits the unprepared.

What a shit profile, what is it Adam writes "Fuck Off And Die"

Offline Matium

"Q. Do you do FREE BAREBACK?    A. No I do not. I charge an extra £50 for bareback as this is my health and I get checked regularly."

 :scare:

Gav Lee

  • Guest
Gav, on reflection, I think with your level of social skills Sugar daddy'ing isn't for you.

You poor sensitive thing you.

Offline finn5555

Hilarious the number of posters on this thread taking offence while accusing me of being sensitive.

Anyway I've now seen a thread on the off topic board that smiths talked about and that seems to have some useful info.

Well I hope you have found what you are seeking Information wise Gav this thread is so tedious  :dash:

Offline CBPaul

What a shit profile, what is it Adam writes "Fuck Off And Die"

So shit I didn't know where to start and didn't have the time or the inclination to list all of the failings. I wonder if the extra 50 quid is danger money or if it covers the cost of a private checkup afterwards.

Offline Tailpipe

I think the web sites are shit and its very hard to fine anyone who is not nuts. Plus you just do not know what you are getting into. 

But as a concept of this having a hooker on tap where by you enter into some form of arrangement will work for some people

However in London I suspect the entry level is around £1500 a month and some soapy city boys pay 5k amonth.

For that you get to see a mid twenties Fit as fuck EE/other once a week, however she could will have another 2 or 3 guys paying the same.

You will get the I love you bade texts on the Days you don,t see her if you are into that,  :vomit:

So a smart girl can bag 5k a week having three blokes in her life that she is comfortable with and would not have to worry about much.

From the the punters point of view you get to fuck the same girl every week and its cost you £1,500 a month that may work for some.

I have been there done it got the Tee shirt as they say. Its bollocks for the Most part and ends up doing your head in.

But I am sure its possible for some to find a comprise that works for both parties. People can do as they wish with there money its not for me to judge anyone.

Offline GreyDave

 :D :D :D
This is entertainig
Rolf and Tailpipe are spot on (as always) I expect Jimmy Red Cabs got a fare or is he playing Sugar Daddy in Thailand?
 :cool:
This site is a pay to shag advisory service, it excells at this fullstop  :yahoo:


Gav Lee

  • Guest
I think the web sites are shit and its very hard to fine anyone who is not nuts. Plus you just do not know what you are getting into. 

But as a concept of this having a hooker on tap where by you enter into some form of arrangement will work for some people

However in London I suspect the entry level is around £1500 a month and some soapy city boys pay 5k amonth.

For that you get to see a mid twenties Fit as fuck EE/other once a week, however she could will have another 2 or 3 guys paying the same.

You will get the I love you bade texts on the Days you don,t see her if you are into that,  :vomit:

So a smart girl can bag 5k a week having three blokes in her life that she is comfortable with and would not have to worry about much.

From the the punters point of view you get to fuck the same girl every week and its cost you £1,500 a month that may work for some.

I have been there done it got the Tee shirt as they say. Its bollocks for the Most part and ends up doing your head in.

But I am sure its possible for some to find a comprise that works for both parties. People can do as they wish with there money its not for me to judge anyone.

Yeah I've come across that sort of setup and decided to stay away.  There's a girl in the E Mids who used to advertise that for a fixed amount you'd get x hours shagging plus dinner dates.  I think it worked out about £75 per hour for shagging plus the rest as a freebie whereas her usual rate for an hour was £150, but it only worked if you wanted to see the same girl for a long punt or 2+ punts every single week, not for me.  You'd also have the problem that she'd want to move your booking if a cash paying customer was available at the same time so therd be plenty of possibilities for friction.


Offline Robster199

I've spotted Valerie fox and Megan (maxes angels) as well as bambiblack on sugardaddie.com in the past couple of months

My experience of these sites is you meet all sorts from escorts who want to filter out ugly guys, girls who want an allowance, and girls who do want to meet someone with a professional job who isn't a loser and has a brain. Had a great time across that spectrum over the past few years.

Offline Robster199

Valerie fox. She is maxes angel and on aw. Listed in porn star thread from Jason

On External Link/Members Only

User name

Boleynlover

On line today

Fuck knows what she wants!

cockneybstrd

  • Guest
Valerie fox. She is maxes angel and on aw. Listed in porn star thread from Jason

On External Link/Members Only

User name

Boleynlover

On line today

Fuck knows what she wants!

I assumed she was knobbing one of the players when I saw her at West Ham

But it seems she is a true fan


Offline Jerboa

If smart they wouldnt tell you they were shagging someone else though of course, these arrangements often have set days or times agreed at the outset, all a WG has to do is make another arrangement with another punter for different days of the week. Even if its a flexible arrangement with the punter the WG isnt a prisoner so could Outcalls, and delay the Sugar Daddy coming round until she has finished punting at the Outcall. And none of this even factors in the WG having a boyfriend who is having an easy life due to your cash.

Where i can see this working for some punters from a legal standpoint who can afford it is in countries where prostitution itself is a crime. IF the punter can prove he is paying the WGs rent for example they might believe if she backs him up that she is his mistress not a WG.

I have heard stories of WG's continuing working discreetly as she had a sugar daddy.

Offline smiths

I have heard stories of WG's continuing working discreetly as she had a sugar daddy.

And if the WG has regulars she might not even need to advertise. I find it incredible that anyone would trust these greedy grasping women.

Offline Daffodil

And if the WG has regulars she might not even need to advertise. I find it incredible that anyone would trust these greedy grasping women.

It is the ultimate naivety. And the same is true of a punter who claims to never punt again.

If you're going to be with a prossie, in whatever circumstances, you have to accept that she will be fucking guys behind your back  :hi:

Offline akauya

The last few posts have touched my thoughts about the sugar babes thing, which is trust.

If I were a rich bastard and I decided to have a sugar babe, I would expect her to fuck me and me alone. I would also expect to go bareback as I would be "the only one" fucking her. Before that I would do it all covered until three or four months later then we both get tested. Then I would probably be worried sick that she is actually fucking someone else behind my back so I would then have to hire a private dick to keep an eye on her, regularly.

Basically what I'm saying is I'm a sad cunt with trust issues... so a sugar babe for me is a big fat no. No matter were I rich or poor. The fantasy of a hot young woman at my beck and call, of course appeals but as always some fantasies are best kept as fantasies only.


pokenn

  • Guest
The last few posts have touched my thoughts about the sugar babes thing, which is trust.

If I were a rich bastard and I decided to have a sugar babe, I would expect her to fuck me and me alone. I would also expect to go bareback as I would be "the only one" fucking her. Before that I would do it all covered until three or four months later then we both get tested. Then I would probably be worried sick that she is actually fucking someone else behind my back so I would then have to hire a private dick to keep an eye on her, regularly.

Basically what I'm saying is I'm a sad cunt with trust issues... so a sugar babe for me is a big fat no. No matter were I rich or poor. The fantasy of a hot young woman at my beck and call, of course appeals but as always some fantasies are best kept as fantasies only.

Good post. For me the fantasy of having a hot younger woman is definitely there, but the reality means she would be fucking hot young blokes behind my back. Best to stick with WGs and have a woman of your own age for relationship.

Offline shagbambi

On the other hand you can have your "relationship" with your sugar babe and fuck other assorted young women on the side.  Just an idea.

Rochdull lad

  • Guest
The last few posts have touched my thoughts about the sugar babes thing, which is trust.

If I were a rich bastard and I decided to have a sugar babe, I would expect her to fuck me and me alone. I would also expect to go bareback as I would be "the only one" fucking her. Before that I would do it all covered until three or four months later then we both get tested. Then I would probably be worried sick that she is actually fucking someone else behind my back so I would then have to hire a private dick to keep an eye on her, regularly.

Basically what I'm saying is I'm a sad cunt with trust issues... so a sugar babe for me is a big fat no. No matter were I rich or poor. The fantasy of a hot young woman at my beck and call, of course appeals but as always some fantasies are best kept as fantasies only.

Could you trust your, erm, "private dick" not to shag her, akauya?! ;)  :D

Offline akauya

Could you trust your, erm, "private dick" not to shag her, akauya?! ;)  :D

Indeed!

I knew someone would pick on that after I clicked Post :D

Offline rubric

TBH exclusivity isn't that hard to come by - you pay more but not as much as you might think.  There are plenty of girls who don't really want to shag multiple guys - and who are happier as mistresses rather than WGs.  Of course they may cheat, but so might anyone else - including your wife.  It works best with girls who are working towards a certain goal (funding their studies for instance)

Of course, at this point you are taking her out on dates and stuff, and dinner out is more than a trip to your local chinese, so there are additional costs to bear in mind.

Offline Daffodil

TBH exclusivity isn't that hard to come by - you pay more but not as much as you might think.  There are plenty of girls who don't really want to shag multiple guys - and who are happier as mistresses rather than WGs.  Of course they may cheat, but so might anyone else - including your wife.  It works best with girls who are working towards a certain goal (funding their studies for instance)

Of course, at this point you are taking her out on dates and stuff, and dinner out is more than a trip to your local chinese, so there are additional costs to bear in mind.

Yes, of course  :rolleyes:

Offline Tailpipe

TBH exclusivity isn't that hard to come by - you pay more but not as much as you might think.  There are plenty of girls who don't really want to shag multiple guys - and who are happier as mistresses rather than WGs.  Of course they may cheat, but so might anyone else - including your wife.  It works best with girls who are working towards a certain goal (funding their studies for instance)

Of course, at this point you are taking her out on dates and stuff, and dinner out is more than a trip to your local chinese, so there are additional costs to bear in mind.

Sounds like the voice of experience , your perceptions are 100 % correct in my view.

Offline rubric

Yes, of course  :rolleyes:

Heh. I meant that there are some girls who are driven by an immediate need for relatively moderate amounts of cash and a certain naiveity of what escorting consists of - many of whom would be (and are) happier as mistresses rather than WGs. And no, finding a mistress wouldn't be simply a case of asking the first WG who claims to be a student.

Offline updownandaround

I have a lot of experience in using these sites, I first played with sugardaddie.com 6-7 years ago and have now moved onto a few other sites.

The great thing about them is that you can meet some lovely young women who will more often then not fuck you for free. There are others who will charge but they tend to give a lot more than a normal battery farm whore.

Anyone else who uses any of these sites that wants to compare notes and ladies then please PM me.

Offline themagicrat

Could you trust your, erm, "private dick" not to shag her, akauya?! ;)  :D
Useless fact of the day: That's exactly the thing Juvenal was talking about when he wrote "who will watch the watchers?"

Offline akauya

Useless fact of the day: That's exactly the thing Juvenal was talking about when he wrote "who will watch the watchers?"


Otherwise known as "Quis custodiet ipsos custodes?" but it usually translates as who will guard the guardians doesn't it? But I do get your point  :thumbsup:



Offline mh

Take care on those Sugar Daddy sites, you may get a lovely caring lady like this:

External Link/Members Only

"A prostitute has been arrested on suspicion of murder after injecting a Google executive with a fatal dose of heroin on his yacht and watching him die, police have said."
...
"Miss Tichelman, who boasted she had more than 200 clients, met Hayes, who worked at Google X - the tech giant’s innovation lab, through the "sugar daddy" website Seekingarrangement.com."


Offline Tailpipe

Take care on those Sugar Daddy sites, you may get a lovely caring lady like this:

External Link/Members Only

"A prostitute has been arrested on suspicion of murder after injecting a Google executive with a fatal dose of heroin on his yacht and watching him die, police have said."
...
"Miss Tichelman, who boasted she had more than 200 clients, met Hayes, who worked at Google X - the tech giant’s innovation lab, through the "sugar daddy" website Seekingarrangement.com."

She looks evil to me , all in eyes . You would have thought he could have got a looker with the yacht and all that .

200 clients 15 min punts in a premier in .

Offline anyfucker

"premier in"  definition of high class?  :drinks: