Question about a problem with a regular WG (advice needed)

[Captainhowdy666]

Have you done her up the arse yet?

[MissWolf]

My take is her reason is most likely one of these,  in descending order of likleyhood.

1) As Colston36 said, most probably she doesn't enjoy providing special service which you say she has a rare talent for.

2)  She prefers the 'average punter' for some other reason. Could be due to qualities you have that would be a +ve for a civvy GF, but -ve for a WG, like above average size or vigor. Could be just as youre a 2 pop punter like CrazyDave says.  Could even be that she prefers GFE punters. Her fitting in with your professional style could just be a case of a WG who's a good actress giving the punter what she perceives he wants.

3) Conversely EAS or fear of same could still be the reason, despite your argument against this.  The lack of sweet talk could just be her hiding the fact she's developing feelings for you. Or likewise, you could remind her of someone who was infatuated with her in the past, and maybe he tried to hide it with a 'professional' style.

4) While much less likely that the 3 reasons above, maybe it's just her being manipulative & using you as an insurance policy for cancellations.  Also, while it's a rare type, there are some who just enjoy messing certain people  about.


So my advise would be that it might be an over reaction to cut her out completely if she's good at giving you a rare service.  At least until youve found several good alternatives.  But do consider making less frequent booking attempts while you look elsewhere.   And if you do see her again, consider giving her a tip for the 'special service', which assuming reason 1) is correct, might get you back in her preferred client list. 

The list of reasons above is irrelevant and pointless,  you are not in her head, nobody but her will know, speculation is great but that's all it is.

The highlighted section is the one I have issue with
You are advising him not to give up trying,  all be it less frequently
You're advising him to make it even more creepy by tipping her to get in her good books again

You sir are a wrongun

This lady clearly doesn't want to see the OP, by his own statement he's had to use different numbers and not tell her it was him to get a booking, he also said she looked very surprised to see it was him but recovered her composure well.

Nobody and I will repeat for the hard of reading NOBODY  should have to be surprised or have to recover their composure,  No working girl should be made to feel that way by someone circumnavigating their screening in that way.

She stated face to face she was fine to see him again and for him to make a booking, she then made excuses not to see him when he next tried to book via his normal number, let me help you with why......because she was uncomfortable in his presence and felt unsafe and unable to therefore be honest in person.

The OP needs to give this lady some respect and move the fuck on 

[versace]

She stated face to face she was fine to see him again and for him to make a booking, she then made excuses not to see him when he next tried to book via his normal number, let me help you with why......because she was uncomfortable in his presence and felt unsafe and unable to therefore be honest in person.

The OP needs to give this lady some respect and move the fuck on 

Well said.

The OP needs to forget her, before it escalates even further and consumes your every day life. It ain’t worth it. Have some pride mate and walk away now

[sensualencounter]

The list of reasons above is irrelevant and pointless,  you are not in her head, nobody but her will know, speculation is great but that's all it is.

The highlighted section is the one I have issue with
You are advising him not to give up trying,  all be it less frequently
You're advising him to make it even more creepy by tipping her to get in her good books again

You sir are a wrongun

This lady clearly doesn't want to see the OP, by his own statement he's had to use different numbers and not tell her it was him to get a booking, he also said she looked very surprised to see it was him but recovered her composure well.

Nobody and I will repeat for the hard of reading NOBODY  should have to be surprised or have to recover their composure,  No working girl should be made to feel that way by someone circumnavigating their screening in that way.

She stated face to face she was fine to see him again and for him to make a booking, she then made excuses not to see him when he next tried to book via his normal number, let me help you with why......because she was uncomfortable in his presence and felt unsafe and unable to therefore be honest in person.

The OP needs to give this lady some respect and move the fuck on 

Exactly what I said a few posts prior. OP and this one are giving off massive red flags. Pretty certain this isn’t “just” EAS as the OP continues to not understand or doesn’t want to understand how wrong it is to push the escort’s boundaries and circumvent her screening. She’s made it abundantly clear she doesn’t want to see him (to anybody not suffering from narcissism) so move on OP before you get yourself on various blacklists (if you’re not already on them).

[Coriniumstud]

I say move on
You’ve had by reading what you’re saying a great time with her, but now,it seems the sp doesn’t want to see you for whatever reason so respect her wishes and move on, there’s plenty more escorts

[big-al93]

As has been said by many others, forget about her and move on.

I actually had a similar scenario (except for the creepy change numbers thing). Very convenient SP for me that was a good provider and would book at least once a fortnight if she was available, although some personal details were exchanged, I didn't ask for any. There were a couple of cancellations by me and similar from her.

After 6-9 months I got no reply for a couple of weeks running, first was for a short notice booking that wasn't likely she'd be available for, next week no reply for a booking later that week, so I decided that for whatever reason, she must be blanking me. Was about to move on, but thought, unlikely but possible she'd lost her phone or whatever, so I emailed the next week asking if she had any availability, and recieved a quick reply with days and times.
I text asking for a time and date that was on the list and was told she had no availability and should maybe look for someone else. There was no attempt to hide my identity, but she obviously didn't connect the 2. And I had my answer. Still no idea why which as someone says is irritating as if I've done something I'd rather know so I can avoid it with others. She may have suspected EAS (frequency was more due to the convenient location,being a good provider and reasonably priced), I just thought I was being considerate not talking about other SP's while I was getting my dick sucked.

No good can now come out of your situation and I would suggest that you never contact her again. It's not like you punt in a place with a lack of choice.

[finn5555]

The list of reasons above is irrelevant and pointless,  you are not in her head, nobody but her will know, speculation is great but that's all it is.

The highlighted section is the one I have issue with
You are advising him not to give up trying,  all be it less frequently
You're advising him to make it even more creepy by tipping her to get in her good books again

You sir are a wrongun

This lady clearly doesn't want to see the OP, by his own statement he's had to use different numbers and not tell her it was him to get a booking, he also said she looked very surprised to see it was him but recovered her composure well.

Nobody and I will repeat for the hard of reading NOBODY  should have to be surprised or have to recover their composure,  No working girl should be made to feel that way by someone circumnavigating their screening in that way.

She stated face to face she was fine to see him again and for him to make a booking, she then made excuses not to see him when he next tried to book via his normal number, let me help you with why......because she was uncomfortable in his presence and felt unsafe and unable to therefore be honest in person.

The OP needs to give this lady some respect and move the fuck on 

Most of this is irrelevant and pointless as well, plus speculation on your part.

The only person who truly knows why is the prossie and possibly the OP if he wanted her to do things she was uncomfortable with 

[akauya]

At the very least using two different numbers and your original number, so three numbers in total, indicates sightly obsessive behaviour.

She clearly has some issue with seeing you, don’t try to second guess, leave it be.

Nobody and I will repeat for the hard of reading NOBODY  should have to be surprised or have to recover their composure,  No working girl should be made to feel that way by someone circumnavigating their screening in that way.

She stated face to face she was fine to see him again and for him to make a booking, she then made excuses not to see him when he next tried to book via his normal number, let me help you with why......because she was uncomfortable in his presence and felt unsafe and unable to therefore be honest in person.

The OP needs to give this lady some respect and move the fuck on 

OP you made the WG's life very difficult as now she will be wondering if every new phone number calling her it's going to be you. Creepy as fuck man. Sorry to be blunt.

Move on and forget about her. She may not want to see you (for whatever reason) but doesn't feel able to tell you face to face.

I'm sure you know this, but using a different number to get around screening is never going to make any WG feel better about you.

Also, your age and shape are not really relevant unless you're dating. This is punting.

OP take Hendrix's excellent advice and move on.

[Tyramhall]

100% she doesn't want to see you and is just being nice about it. Booking her through a second number will have weirded her out even more.
Time to leave this bird alone before she probably gets the police involved!

[versace]

Blimey, the pussy must be gold.

Do share her profile so we can all give her a spin. after all, doesn't sound like she wants your custom anymore  (Forgive me geez I had to). What say you?

She's a slapper who's turning down your cash? - should have been enough of an eye-opener.

Even if you square off your concerns with her & get balls deep again -  the 'weirdness' prior will continuously play on your mind, making for a crap paid shag.

Moons ago, I read a line once in the Rubaiyat of Omar I think it was that said 'The moving finger writes, and having written moves on'

What's done is done, Leave her in the past & grab a bit of pride.  Wait 72 hours then bell another £100 cum bucket to swallow you whole.

Happy Punting.

 

This

[Stevelondon]

Blimey, the pussy must be gold.

Do share her profile so we can all give her a spin. after all, doesn't sound like she wants your custom anymore  (Forgive me geez I had to). What say you?

She's a slapper who's turning down your cash? - should have been enough of an eye-opener.

Even if you square off your concerns with her & get balls deep again -  the 'weirdness' prior will continuously play on your mind, making for a crap paid shag.

Moons ago, I read a line once in the Rubaiyat of Omar I think it was that said 'The moving finger writes, and having written moves on'

What's done is done, Leave her in the past & grab a bit of pride.  Wait 72 hours then bell another £100 cum bucket to swallow you whole.

Happy Punting.

 

Why is she the slapper just cos she is turning down his cash.
The OP sounds like he has an inferiority complex and can’t come to terms with an SP who just doesn’t want to see him anymore.

Can’t believe this thread has gone on so long. Get over it move on.

[FiveKnuckles]

Name her by writing a review, then move on.

keeping her to yourself is just going to eat you up inside.  Once you've reviewed her, it'll be closure. She'll be just another WG we can fuck.

personally I think you're cock is too small for her.    happy new year!!

[Adoniron]

Why is she the slapper just cos she is turning down his cash.
The OP sounds like he has an inferiority complex and can’t come to terms with an SP who just doesn’t want to see him anymore.

Can’t believe this thread has gone on so long. Get over it move on.

That's two of us.

[myothernameis]

Why is she the slapper just cos she is turning down his cash.
The OP sounds like he has an inferiority complex and can’t come to terms with an SP who just doesn’t want to see him anymore.

Can’t believe this thread has gone on so long. Get over it move on.

Maybe also, with the OP, is he receptive in what they get up to, so to the point, the escorts dosnt enjoy his visits.   Now some have said, he should review her and be done with her, tell us how the last booking went, and where the other booking on the same platform

An escort I used to see many years back, asked me to stop using sex toys on her, as she was no longer enjoying this

[lillythesavage]

That's two of us.

Oh Gord  , this is becoming a habit, I agree 

Not sure what he expected by starting it  , and not just took the hint.

[bigden40]

Why is she the slapper just cos she is turning down his cash.
The OP sounds like he has an inferiority complex and can’t come to terms with an SP who just doesn’t want to see him anymore.

Can’t believe this thread has gone on so long. Get over it move on.

For some reason this song is in my head now …

Dear Slim, I wrote you but you still ain't callin'
I left my cell, my pager, and my home phone at the bottom
I sent two letters back in autumn, you must not've got 'em
There probably was a problem at the post office or somethin'

[Stevelondon]

For some reason this song is in my head now …

Dear Slim, I wrote you but you still ain't callin'
I left my cell, my pager, and my home phone at the bottom
I sent two letters back in autumn, you must not've got 'em
There probably was a problem at the post office or somethin'

 

[versace]

Dear Slim, I wrote you but you still ain't callin'
I left my cell, my pager, and my home phone at the bottom
I sent two letters back in autumn, you must not've got 'em
There probably was a problem at the post office or somethin'

  brilliant

[Lou2019]

Most of this is irrelevant and pointless as well, plus speculation on your part.

The only person who truly knows why is the prossie and possibly the OP if he wanted her to do things she was uncomfortable with 

Not at all it’s very relevant!

[Lou2019]

Blimey, the pussy must be gold.

Do share her profile so we can all give her a spin. after all, doesn't sound like she wants your custom anymore  (Forgive me geez I had to). What say you?

She's a slapper who's turning down your cash? - should have been enough of an eye-opener.

Even if you square off your concerns with her & get balls deep again -  the 'weirdness' prior will continuously play on your mind, making for a crap paid shag.

Moons ago, I read a line once in the Rubaiyat of Omar I think it was that said 'The moving finger writes, and having written moves on'

What's done is done, Leave her in the past & grab a bit of pride.  Wait 72 hours then bell another £100 cum bucket to swallow you whole.

Happy Punting.

 

Urgh how vile

[Bru1901]

If she doesnt respond to your original number and has confirmed your not blocked or in error she blocked you the answer is there

Ignore her. Move on.

The last thing you would want is a women scorned. Especially one you have seen multiple times and who for whatever reason doesnt like you anymore but puts on a smily face

All escorts are actresses so ditch and move on.

Just send a happy new year message and one that says i wish you all the best bla bla bla

If you ever have availability and are in the area do get in touch

If she does - engage

If not move on

Edit: i have a feeling op is on a lower price point and escort has since raised rates. Probably why she wont see him as shes losing money by seeing him on older price as opposed to new.

Cant say for sure but it could be the reason why she declines bookings even if available

[finn5555]

Not at all it’s very relevant!

How is it relevant then Lou care to enlighten me 

[Lou2019]

How is it relevant then Lou care to enlighten me 

I thought you was an intelligent guy, I’m sure you can work it out yourself

[finn5555]

I thought you was an intelligent guy, I’m sure you can work it out yourself

Good swerve Lou, I was right your just trying to defend your sister 

[versace]

Urgh how vile

Maybe a bit blunt, but it’s true.

[Lou2019]

Maybe a bit blunt, but it’s true.

Cum bucket always makes me cringe lol

[dunhill]

How is it relevant then Lou care to enlighten me 

Because it is. And if you don't understand why, then you're part of the problem.  Sigh.

For whatever reason, the SP does not want to see the OP.  The OP has also tricked the SP into seeing him by using a different phone number.  OP even notes the SP was visibly taken aback and needed to compose herself when he turned up.  Why the OP didn't get a clue then and leave is beyond me, although to be blunt, why he even thought it was acceptable contacting the SP on a different number is beyond me.  That's boundary pushing and a giant red flag.

Shame on those of you who don't understand that for whatever reason, it is entirely an SP's prerogative to decline a booking.  And if the SP doesn't want to divulge a reason, respect this and move on.

[MissWolf]

Most of this is irrelevant and pointless as well, plus speculation on your part.

The only person who truly knows why is the prossie and possibly the OP if he wanted her to do things she was uncomfortable with 

Awww are stalking me finn 

[Lou2019]

Because it is. And if you don't understand why, then you're part of the problem.  Sigh.

For whatever reason, the SP does not want to see the OP.  The OP has also tricked the SP into seeing him by using a different phone number.  OP even notes the SP was visibly taken aback and needed to compose herself when he turned up.  Why the OP didn't get a clue then and leave is beyond me, although to be blunt, why he even thought it was acceptable contacting the SP on a different number is beyond me.  That's boundary pushing and a giant red flag.

Shame on those of you who don't understand that for whatever reason, it is entirely an SP's prerogative to decline a booking.  And if the SP doesn't want to divulge a reason, respect this and move on.

Perfectly said 

[finn5555]

Because it is. And if you don't understand why, then you're part of the problem.  Sigh.

For whatever reason, the SP does not want to see the OP.  The OP has also tricked the SP into seeing him by using a different phone number.  OP even notes the SP was visibly taken aback and needed to compose herself when he turned up.  Why the OP didn't get a clue then and leave is beyond me, although to be blunt, why he even thought it was acceptable contacting the SP on a different number is beyond me.  That's boundary pushing and a giant red flag.

Shame on those of you who don't understand that for whatever reason, it is entirely an SP's prerogative to decline a booking.  And if the SP doesn't want to divulge a reason, respect this and move on.

The guy should move on he sounds like he’s infatuated, my point that your challenging is it’s all speculation. Like I said only two people know the facts and one is posting here.

Of course the prossie can decide who she sees and any decent punter would accept a no and move on, after all plenty to choose from. 

[finn5555]

Awww are stalking me finn 

Dream on love 

[jesse4585]

Not at all it’s very relevant!

Thank you Lou, glad if I'm making sense to at least someone.

Edit - LOL,  no Im not, I see Lou was in fact posting in support of Miss Wolf.   

[jesse4585]

...she then made excuses not to see him when he next tried to book via his normal number, let me help you with why......because she was uncomfortable in his presence and felt unsafe and unable to therefore be honest in person.

The OP needs to give this lady some respect and move the fuck on 

Two reasons why I find it unlikely she's scared of him.  While she started to decline bookings in periods when she was reasonably busy,   she'd still sometimes offer to see him "last minute when she had a cancellation. "  It would be crazy for her to muck him about like that if she was secretly afraid.  Granted, folk sometimes do contradictory things, but James has given no other reason for us to suspect she's the crazy type.

Secondly , I see no reason not to believe she wasn't being honest when she told James "If I didn't want you to be a client I would let you know without hesitation."   James has said she's "well-known on this site." so it's likely she's a highly experienced London WG.  Few London WG's will have the luck to survive in the game for long if they're some kind of shrinking violet too scardy cat to tell a punter when he's not wanted.  Granted many wouldn't do so face to face, but it would be easy to do so by txt. 

So I remain of the opinion that I am in fact being respectful of the WG.  On balance,  from what James has said she want's to keep him as a client,  just more on the reserves bench not in her preferred punter pool.

And of course, much as I strongly like the fact this site does respect WG interests, especially in condemning actual boundary pushing, the focus is on helping punters.  The main reason for my post was as James has said so far he's not found a good alternative provider for the special service.

Looks like he's currently planning to focus on searching for another, but if that comes up blank, it would be a shame for him to miss out, especially as it would also cause a WG to miss out on valued business  (even if   only valued when she can't book herself out with more 'vanila' punters.)

[scutty brown]

Awww are stalking me finn?

Be careful - he still hasn't filled the hole in his life left when Rebecca was banned. Without her to complain about he's lonely 

[scutty brown]

Two reasons why I find it unlikely she's scared of him.  While she started to decline bookings in periods when she was reasonably busy,   she'd still sometimes offer to see him "last minute when she had a cancellation. "  It would be crazy for her to muck him about like that if she was secretly afraid.  Granted, folk sometimes do contradictory things, but James has given no other reason for us to suspect she's the crazy type.

Secondly , I see no reason not to believe she wasn't being honest when she told James "If I didn't want you to be a client I would let you know without hesitation."   James has said she's "well-known on this site." so it's likely she's a highly experienced London WG.  Few London WG's will have the luck to survive in the game for long if they're some kind of shrinking violet too scardy cat to tell a punter when he's not wanted.  Granted many wouldn't do so face to face, but it would be easy to do so by txt. 

So I remain of the opinion that I am in fact being respectful of the WG.  On balance,  from what James has said she want's to keep him as a client,  just more on the reserves bench not in her preferred punter pool.

And of course, much as I strongly like the fact this site does respect WG interests, especially in condemning actual boundary pushing, the focus is on helping punters.  The main reason for my post was as James has said so far he's not found a good alternative provider for the special service.

Looks like he's currently planning to focus on searching for another, but if that comes up blank, it would be a shame for him to miss out, especially as it would also cause a WG to miss out on valued business  (even if   only valued when she can't book herself out with more 'vanila' punters.)

Bollocks and bullshit.
You're just dreaming up excuses for the OP to disregard  her wishes. Your way leads to stalking

[finn5555]

Be careful - he still hasn't filled the hole in his life left when Rebecca was banned. Without her to complain about he's lonely 

Rebecca and I are besties now 

[MissWolf]

Two reasons why I find it unlikely she's scared of him.  While she started to decline bookings in periods when she was reasonably busy,   she'd still sometimes offer to see him "last minute when she had a cancellation. "  It would be crazy for her to muck him about like that if she was secretly afraid.  Granted, folk sometimes do contradictory things, but James has given no other reason for us to suspect she's the crazy type.

Secondly , I see no reason not to believe she wasn't being honest when she told James "If I didn't want you to be a client I would let you know without hesitation."   James has said she's "well-known on this site." so it's likely she's a highly experienced London WG.  Few London WG's will have the luck to survive in the game for long if they're some kind of shrinking violet too scardy cat to tell a punter when he's not wanted.  Granted many wouldn't do so face to face, but it would be easy to do so by txt. 

So I remain of the opinion that I am in fact being respectful of the WG.  On balance,  from what James has said she want's to keep him as a client,  just more on the reserves bench not in her preferred punter pool.

And of course, much as I strongly like the fact this site does respect WG interests, especially in condemning actual boundary pushing, the focus is on helping punters.  The main reason for my post was as James has said so far he's not found a good alternative provider for the special service.

Looks like he's currently planning to focus on searching for another, but if that comes up blank, it would be a shame for him to miss out, especially as it would also cause a WG to miss out on valued business  (even if   only valued when she can't book herself out with more 'vanila' punters.)

We only have his word for that though 

[tomvi]

Every one saying she absolutely does not want to see OP, she is uncomfortable with him etc... is completely irrelevant as she sends a text to him to invite him to come and see her when she's got a booking cancelled.

[jesse4585]

Bollocks and bullshit.
You're just dreaming up excuses for the OP to disregard  her wishes. Your way leads to stalking

I'm not the one dreaming I can see into her head and know what she wants!

We've not been told her wishes.  We've been told a scenario concerning her actions. Said scenario includes that she started selectively declining, but still kept offering the OP "last minute bookings."

This is consistent with her wanting to keep the OP as a client, albeit  more a 'subs bench' client who she might prefer not to see  if she has better options. I've been perfectly clear about this, and am not going to further repeat myself.

[versace]

Every one saying she absolutely does not want to see OP, she is uncomfortable with him etc... is completely irrelevant as she sends a text to him to invite him to come and see her when she's got a booking cancelled.

That’s because money talks and she has the OP wrapped around her little finger. He is her beck and call, last resort, guaranteed money, even if that means spending some more miserable time with him. It’s all about the money at the end of the day.

[mr.bluesky]

Blimey, this topic is going to be longer than a Mills and Boon novel. Forget her and move on , it's obvious she doesn't feel comfortable seeing you anymore for some reason and couldn't tell you to your face. Accept it. Trying to book her using a different number was just out of order so she now has probably changed her opinion about you ( comes across as a creepy stalker). Cut your losses, find someone else and move on ffs.

[myothernameis]

Name her by writing a review, then move on.

Wonder if he already has reviewed her, as he has said there been more than one meet

[MissWolf]

Wonder if he already has reviewed her, as he has said there been more than one meet

In reply num 8 in this thread he said "And to answer your question, no I have not reviewed her and won't, there's no reason to anyway she is well-known on this site"

[shed]

Edit

[JonasG]

It's a strange one tbh.

Escorts don't normally just dump regulars like that unless something major has happened but judging by what you've said the sessions were just going as normal?

Unless you aren't telling the whole story? Did you start overstaying?

Someone highlighted you were having showers in between rounds, that could've peeved her off?

[luv2kiss54]

Dream on love 

Get a room you two 

[finn5555]

Get a room you two 

Should I review after 

[MissWolf]

Should I review after 

Only if I can do one too 

[finn5555]

Only if I can do one too 

We can’t collude   

[tomvi]

[...]
Someone highlighted you were having showers in between rounds, that could've peeved her off?

I would tend to think the exact opposite.
I always go to the shower in between rounds but only to wash my cock. This more for the benefit of the WG that may take it in her mouth again.