Am I a miserable bastard 🤔🤔

[Bush]

Very very rarely give a tip and only once have i turned with a gift, a bunch of flowers (Michelle Independent) .....so, am I a miserable bastard 🧐🧐

[SpaceRaiderDave]

Very very rarely give a tip and only once have i turned with a gift, a bunch of flowers (Michelle Independent) .....so, am I a miserable bastard 🧐🧐

#Metoo

[lamboman]

I've given 2 gifts,one a decent bottle of red wine because I made a mistake timing wise and a bottle of perfume for an SP that let me over stay by an hour and plied me with beer .
I wouldn't as a matter of course.

[Horseman]

Very very rarely give a tip and only once have i turned with a gift, a bunch of flowers (Michelle Independent) .....so, am I a miserable bastard 🧐🧐

No way. I might take gifts (flowers/wine etc. ) if I was visiting or being visited by a prospective partner on a date or something. Never ever when using an escort. Maybe if I had a long term regular and it was their birthday......

And do people really give tips? I mean I might give a hot waitress a better tip if she noshed me off in the loos after a meal but an escort? Doesn't seem like they can go above and beyond?

[Watfordpunter97]

Very very rarely give a tip and only once have i turned with a gift, a bunch of flowers (Michelle Independent) .....so, am I a miserable bastard 🧐🧐

Turning up with flowers isn't very discrete...

Also, they only care about the money realistically

[Billy no mates]

I took a bag of Haribos once, she had mentioned on her profile she had liked them, and so do I.

She had to behave like a good girl to eat any, it added a good dynamic to the meet.

[teddyking]

tipping or buying gifts for escorts I see is something I would never do. I met this escort before and she told me she has clients buy her outfits for her. Made me think what the punter would feel like if another client (like me) is having fun fucking the same escort wearing that sexy outfit.
Gifts such as flowers is for civvy relationships but for escorts , it’s strictly business for me. I just fuck them and leave tbh, but I’m sure other punters enjoy the companionship with the SPs they see. For me, I always have a great time regardless if I gift or not so I don’t see the point

[GorillaWarfare]

Never bought a gift for a WG and don't plan to. I very much doubt they'd bring a gift for me, and at the end of the day it's a business transaction, I've never bought my plumber a box of chocolates or a bottle of wine.

[willie loman]

i used to laugh at customers who brought bars of chocolates for girls etc, but i usually bring a regular a sandwich, or similar, it makes me feel very happy,

[victor989]

Yes, you are  So am I.

[Subboy1980]

Its ok giving them a gift for a reg, but they start getting used to it and it becomes a chore and they don't appreciate it.  My old reg used to show me some of the gifts clients gave her such as chocs, bad taste of jewellery.  She said, oh ill just give them to my mate instead and just laughed.  Needless to say after hearing her say that I stopped the gifts.   

[ronthebrummie]

Would you give the milkman or coalman a bunch of flowers ffs get real

[Payyourwaymate]

Is the money given in exchange for the service not enough anymore? Do we have to woo WGs with gifts for good service aswell now so we don't get classed as a "miserable bastard"?

Please say it ain't so.

[Horseman]

Is the money given in exchange for the service not enough anymore? Do we have to woo WGs with gifts for good service aswell now so we don't get classed as a "miserable bastard"?

Please say it ain't so.

It ain't so.

Escorts are not on minimum wage!

[silverspoon]

Would you give the milkman or coalman a bunch of flowers ffs get real

.   Only if I caught him leaving my house

[jimbobted]

No, no gifts or tips. I'm there to fuck not start a relationship. They set their rates, so that's that.
I've never had a gift from a WG so see no need to give gifts to WGs.

[Hotdogboy88]

Very very rarely give a tip and only once have i turned with a gift, a bunch of flowers (Michelle Independent) .....so, am I a miserable bastard 🧐🧐

Never once. If anything you the opposite in my eyes. 

[mr.bluesky]

This topic is now making a regular appearance on this site 

[teddyking]

IMO if you feel the need to buy gifts for the escort you see, you’re just a sucker. Stop confusing civvy relationships with escorts. We are not there to impress or woo them. Just pay them, fuck them silly and leave. On the SP forum, I’ve read plenty of times that these girls give them to friends or give them away to their boyfriends to sell on eBay

[Bush]

Would you give the milkman or coalman a bunch of flowers ffs get real

Depends if they took it up the arse 🤪🤪

[Bush]

This topic is now making a regular appearance on this site 

That is a regular gripe......can you be constructive and give a remedy to avoid it happening. I thought that myself when I opened the thread but short of reading back on old threads, how are we noobys going to know.

I guess if your bored with the subject don’t involve yourself in it.....simples

[Horseman]

That is a regular gripe......can you be constructive and give a remedy to avoid it happening. I thought that myself when I opened the thread but short of reading back on old threads, how are we noobys going to know.

I guess if your bored with the subject don’t involve yourself in it.....simples

Its an age old problem on every forum......get told off for starting a thread on an oft posted topic or get told off for thread necromancy.

[daviemac]

That is a regular gripe......can you be constructive and give a remedy to avoid it happening. I thought that myself when I opened the thread but short of reading back on old threads, how are we noobys going to know.

I guess if your bored with the subject don’t involve yourself in it.....simples

There was one on buying gifts started in the NE region recently, that resulted in 3 bannings including the OP who was a newbie.

[charlatan44]

Never tipped nor given a gift.

Had a WG give me chocolates as the previous client had given them to her but she said she was on a diet LMAO

[Thephoenix]

The only tip they'll get from me is the big purple one at the end of Big Willy.

As I'm leaving I might say something like...'Drive slowly......keep death off the road!'
or another tip might be....'Borrow money off a pessimist....they don't expect it back!'

[HailWood]

It’s surprising what a bunch of daffodils picked freshly from one’s garden and presented to a reg before the punt will do for the quality of service one receives.

That’s all I will say on the subject.

[Horseman]

It’s surprising what a bunch of daffodils picked freshly from one’s garden and presented to a reg before the punt will do for the quality of service one receives.

That’s all I will say on the subject.

It's amazing what being polite, clean and friendly will do too. Not to mention handing cash over when asked. Shouldn't need a gift to get the best service, especially from a regular!

[Stonedwolf]

I've given gifts. But only bottles of wine, that I can drink whilst on the punt when I want to blow some steam at the end of a long/hard week 

[Dwayne_Hicks]

Very very rarely give a tip and only once have i turned with a gift, a bunch of flowers (Michelle Independent) .....so, am I a miserable bastard 🧐🧐

Don't think you are mate - the only one I remember was after a particularly good sesh the SP was talking about going to her sister's birthday bash straight after. She was describing how beautiful her sister was so gave her a tenner for her sister's flowers and asked if she ever considers escorting that I should get a shout early doors in her career  more of an investment than a tip but I'm still waiting for that call........

[Adoniron]

Its an age old problem on every forum......get told off for starting a thread on an oft posted topic or get told off for thread necromancy.

Some people seem to think that before starting a new thread you should search the site in case the same subject was discussed 3 years ago.

[HailWood]

It's amazing what being polite, clean and friendly will do too. Not to mention handing cash over when asked. Shouldn't need a gift to get the best service, especially from a regular!

I think you have missed the point I was trying to make. Those who will get it, will get it. Those who don’t won’t. 

[Horseman]

I think you have missed the point I was trying to make. Those who will get it, will get it. Those who don’t won’t. 

I'll freely admit I missed the point if there was one........I strongly suspect there wasn't 

[timsussex]

in well over 100 punts ive taken presents perhaps 5 times mainly costing under £5 (its the thought that counts) and only tipped once (when  suspected girl was not entirely there of her own choice )

[Horseman]

Some people seem to think that before starting a new thread you should search the site in case the same subject was discussed 3 years ago.

In my experience of internet forums - those same people will get shitty if you then resurrect that same thread from 3 years a go. Its sadly a lose lose situation for the new members.

Old members should just be pleased that there's new blood who want to discuss these things because otherwise that's how forums eventually die.

in well over 100 punts ive taken presents perhaps 5 times mainly costing under £5 (its the thought that counts) and only tipped once (when  suspected girl was not entirely there of her own choice )

When you say tip, do you mean called the authorities? I mean if a girl really wasn't there by choice then any tip would just end up in Sergies pocket surely?

[Horizontal pleasures]

I like take small gifts to break the ice and get a first kiss,  such as Green&Black very dark chocolate or a bag of cherries in season. It usually works!

[Bogof60]

In my experience of internet forums - those same people will get shitty if you then resurrect that same thread from 3 years a go. Its sadly a lose lose situation for the new members.

Old members should just be pleased that there's new blood who want to discuss these things because otherwise that's how forums eventually die.

When you say tip, do you mean called the authorities? I mean if a girl really wasn't there by choice then any tip would just end up in Sergies pocket surely?

+1 

Glad to see the new blood.... Mostly 

[Fac51]

The only tip they'll get from me is the big purple one at the end of Big Willy.

As I'm leaving I might say something like...'Drive slowly......keep death off the road!'
or another tip might be....'Borrow money off a pessimist....they don't expect it back!'

+ 1 (but mines a small un  ) 

[Whiteknight]

Never bought a gift for a WG and don't plan to. I very much doubt they'd bring a gift for me, and at the end of the day it's a business transaction, I've never bought my plumber a box of chocolates or a bottle of wine.

+1 Well said

[maxxblue]

Very very rarely give a tip and only once have i turned with a gift, a bunch of flowers (Michelle Independent) .....so, am I a miserable bastard 🧐🧐

Why start a thread about you? Are you inadequate or narcissistic, or both? 

[Bush]

Would be interesting to get a take on this subject from a regular giver of gifts and/or a Service Provider..
From the gist of the posts above I don’t feel such a Bar Steward as I might have done.

[Bush]

Why start a thread about you? Are you inadequate or narcissistic, or both? 

fuck me not upsetting someone is hard work🙄
How can I start a thread about me? No one knows me nor will they.
It was a rhetorical question with no ulterior motive other than to start what I thought might be an interesting thread. Nothing more nothing less 

[SYorksPunter]

Can’t imagine giving a tip, I’m paying enough for the service itself!

Closest I’ve come to a gift is one girl texted me when I was on the way asking if I could bring some beer with me, so I popped into the supermarket on the way. I thought she’d give me the money for it but she didn’t, and to be honest the sex was so good I totally forgot to ask her for it!

[teddyking]

I like take small gifts to break the ice and get a first kiss,  such as Green&Black very dark chocolate or a bag of cherries in season. It usually works!

Wtf... isn’t handing over a fat wad of cash enough to “break the ice”...?
Us punters need to stop cucking ourselves and act like the money payers we have. The other day I wore a review about a punter having his booking radio silenced when he got there. HE then went back the same day at 1am for a rearranged booking (1 hour drive.) the SP then made him wait 30 mins when he got there , and then was met with an ugly B&S for which he stayed and paid for 🤦‍♂️

[Charlie Chalk]

I’ll start giving them tips/presents the day they start giving me discounts.

It’s a business transaction. I expect the services they advertise to be performed with skill and enthusiasm. In return, I will be clean, pleasant and not a boundary-pusher. We both get what we want/expect from the meeting at the pre-agreed price without the need for anything more.

[Fuggedaboutit]

Like many say "it's a business relationship, why should I buy a gift...?" Absolutely fair enough, it's your cash.
But I don't see the harm in it, particularly if it's a longstanding regular.

Besides, in my 1st career, we got cases of wine/bottles of spirits from clients, I've given the guys who run the garage I use a bottle of scotch at Christmas on occasion. It's just an extension of being polite/generous. If you don't want to do it, don't. If people want to do it, let them.

[MissWolf]

Would be interesting to get a take on this subject from a regular giver of gifts and/or a Service Provider..
From the gist of the posts above I don’t feel such a Bar Steward as I might have done.

This is an interesting read and certainly splits the forum as yes or no and there is nothing wrong with that.

From my personal perspective I've been given flowers,  which I find a little awkward tbh as it tells me rightly or wrongly that they are expecting or needing more than a business transaction from the booking.
Chocolates, not so bad as a gift but in a similar vein as the flowers they make me think milk tray man
Wine, I have up to a dozen bottles in my cupboard at a time and cook with them or give them away as I'm not a wine drinker, dislike red completely.
If the intention is for us to share a glass or two during the booking then they will be disappointed as alcohol during a booking makes me very uncomfortable and puts me on the defensive (ex partner was an alcoholic) and as the only way to get to me is drive its not a great plan.
I've had the occasional piece of underwear and a small piece of jewellery or two, none of which are my taste so remain unused.

Personally I would prefer not to receive any gifts, I set my fee, I deliver the advertised service to the best of my abilities and as enthusiastically and constantly as I am able and all I ask in return is you turn up, pay up and have a good time, the best gift you can give me and any SP is repeat custom.

[usroads]

Does a Mars bar count?

[B4bcock]

Does a Mars bar count?

Not if you were roleplaying as Mick Jagger.

[Jimmyredcab]

Would you give the milkman or coalman a bunch of flowers ffs get real

Absolutely not, but then I am not going to fuck the milkman.   

[SpaceRaiderDave]

Personally I would prefer not to receive any gifts, I set my fee, I deliver the advertised service to the best of my abilities and as enthusiastically and constantly as I am able and all I ask in return is you turn up, pay up and have a good time, the best gift you can give me and any SP is repeat custom.

Great attitude and one that should be noted by members who might otherwise be tempted to turn up with a bunch of flowers or similar.

I do have to confess I am a miserable bastard. Over the years I've had a couple of regulars who I visited frequently and who I hinted I would like a discount if possible and they agreed. If they hadn't it wouldn't have stopped me seeing them but it did sway my decision when feeling horny and I was deciding who I'd see so I did see them more frequently as a result.