The eternal question - why do married men punt?

[Matium]

Why do married men punt?

Any answers?

[Silver Birch]

Why does a dog lick his balls?

[Quatro]

Same reason some men buy pizza at Pizzahut. Because they can't get a decent one at home.

[smiths]

Why do married men punt?

Any answers?

You know why as there have been numerous threads about this on here over the years.

I am not married and will never get married but i have always punted whether in a relationship or not except for sometimes in the initial honeymoon period of a new relationship. I require and desire variety which one woman cant give, so i punt for the sex BUT i want more than just sex, so have relationships for the rest of what i desire. I long ago stopped feeling guilty and am selfish, wanting my cake and eating it. I have read all the moralists views on this, what they think is their business, i have my own views so dont require theirs.

[pokenn]

Why does a dog lick his balls?

Because they can.

[Boundless]

Same reason some men buy pizza at Pizzahut. Because they can't get a decent one at home.

I go to Pizzahut cos Mrs Sam doesn't cook anymore!

[dilettante]

Not all married men punt.  Rolf Harris probably didn't.

[valdishere]

Married men will understand that often sex drive is not compatible in the relationship at different periods of their life. Initially both may be eager but perhaps through time especially after woman having kids the wife may lose some of her drive or feel less sexual as her body may have changed making her feel less sexual or confident to provide sex.

Men whether they be young or old are usually easily aroused and if having a high unmatched  sex drive that is unfulfilled plus the disposable income available will find a release outlet often being punting women who appear to offer something they don't or no longer can get at home.

[CBPaul]

I have read all the moralists views on this, what they think is their business, i have my own views so dont require theirs.

 

It's easy to blame lack of sex with the wife as being the reason to punt and to some extent this is true for me, compared to the early years of marriage anyway. For me I've punted on and off for years, not during the early stages of relationships because we were generally at it like rabbits and I didn't have enough money. Now I have the opportunity to have my cake and eat it, chronologically and physically I have aged over the last 20+ years but I still want to shag lots of different girls in their 20's and with punting I can. And do. I also think it's better to punt than to have an affair.

[smiths]

It's easy to blame lack of sex with the wife as being the reason to punt and to some extent this is true for me, compared to the early years of marriage anyway. For me I've punted on and off for years, not during the early stages of relationships because we were generally at it like rabbits and I didn't have enough money. Now I have the opportunity to have my cake and eat it, chronologically and physically I have aged over the last 20+ years but I still want to shag lots of different girls in their 20's and with punting I can. And do. I also think it's better to punt than to have an affair.

Having an affair is the closest i have ever come to blowing my world apart, the woman was a bunny boiler as i found out. Never had that with punting.

[Dodo]

Cause its cheaper than having a bit on the side

[Milky911]

Because it's bloody good fun!

1)You pay what I think a small amount of money and have some young girl looking up at you with your cock in her mouth.
2) You can get a dirty as you want if you find the right girl.
3) Shes never going to call you and drop you in the shit.

I cannot see a reason not to punt! Well other than the risk of getting caught but that also is part of the fun.

Happy punting
M

[drwho]

I got to the point in my marriage to an older woman where at the age of 38 it felt I might never have sex again....
I could divorce, but every thing else in the relationship was pretty much ok, so I found a wanking substitute in the form of punting. It seems much safer and sustainable than having an affair to me

[Daffodil]

Far less risky than affairs. Even when the other party knows the score in an affair, I've experienced them going a bit mental and almost blowing a hole in my life.

I like a variety of sexual partners. Punting is the easiest way of doing this discreetly.

[threechilliman]

Far less risky than affairs. Even when the other party knows the score in an affair, I've experienced them going a bit mental and almost blowing a hole in my life.

I like a variety of sexual partners. Punting is the easiest way of doing this discreetly.

+1

tcm

[iPad3]

I'm not even sure how I got into it now, but a few years down the line I really enjoy it apart from the obvious stuff I get a kick out of disappearing to, I don't discuss my punting with anyone in real life so no one has a clue, so when I go off on a punt or to a party for those few hours I have virtually disappeared I find the feeling this gives actually adds to the overall experience

[doc14]

Same reason some men buy pizza at Pizzahut. Because they can't get a decent one at home.

My Mrs doesn't eat salami anymore that's why I go to Pizzahut

[davidgood]

I punt and party as I just love women and sex more than football or golf and at the moment I can afford it and I do not have the opportunity for affairs like I used to, but they were always complicated.

Also the wife is getting on a bit and not so spicy as she used to be and I like the thrill of different women and at the moment I can still get it up and cum, but not as much as I used to or as quickly.

Regards,

davidgood

[ManInBlack]

I'm married, have pretty much a perfect relationship with her and a good, regular sex life. 

Why I do this I'm not sure, I can only think it's because I met her when we were fairly young so never got the opportunity to have sex with many girls before I got in the relationship, so maybe reliving the youth I didn't have. 

[Dodo]

I'm married, have pretty much a perfect relationship with her and a good, regular sex life. 

Why I do this I'm not sure, I can only think it's because I met her when we were fairly young so never got the opportunity to have sex with many girls before I got in the relationship, so maybe reliving the youth I didn't have.

I absolutely can relate to that, lovely attractive hassle free partner so why do I visit these girls??

I can only blame it on Percy who has a mind of his own.

[yorkshire123]

Why do married men punt?

Any answers?

The simple answer to your question is because i can, so i do 

[NIK]

It's always been beyond me. 
But then I've never been married.

Undoubtedly the vast majority of punters are married or in relationships however.
The deception and paranoia involved is staggering and wouldn't do for me. 

[lewishamguy]

Why do married men punt?

Any answers?

When they need to practice CIM, Swallow...

[cmanc]

cos most married women are fat lazy and not sexy in the least.
but dont forget married men.
over 50% of married women have affairs

[yorkshire123]

cos most married women are fat lazy and not sexy in the least.
but dont forget married men.
over 50% of married women have affairs

Where may i ask did you get that fact from 

[cmanc]

marriage guidance, they think more women have affairs then men, men tend to have one night stands. where as women will have full on affairs

[Natwest]

I'm married, have pretty much a perfect relationship with her and a good, regular sex life. 

Why I do this I'm not sure, I can only think it's because I met her when we were fairly young so never got the opportunity to have sex with many girls before I got in the relationship, so maybe reliving the youth I didn't have.

I second that. But I'm only a few years off retirement and I'd rather pay to be with a young naked girl and behave like a youngster than sneak on to the computer and watch porn. Having just come from a punt where I spent about 30 minutes between the legs of a twenty something, to feel her pushing against my mouth towards the end was such a thrill and as much as I love doing that at home I know I have the moves there whereas on a punt I have to concentrate harder.

Suddenly punting made me realise that I could be with girls of a certain age that I hadn't done for 30 years. Just wish I had the same sexual knowledge 30 years ago that I have now.

I have noticed already though that the anticpation butterflies which was the real thrill to start with are beginning to go already. So I think the idea of it will burn out eventually and I'll go back to being the faithful husband I was for the first 11 years of this marriage and the 17 years of the previous marriage.

[valleypunter]

I just love to experience different women!

[fredpunter]

Why do married men punt?

Any answers?

I'm guessing you aren't married?

[potato]

Some older married men punt because they have  settled lives - the house, the cars, the security etc., but their wives either don't put out any more or not enough for the guy. In all other respects things are fine.  Maybe its a mid life crisis thing (mines lasted 30 years so far!) or maybe like me, I may be older but my brain is still in its 20's and that's where my taste for women still is.. Maybe it's that some wives are vanilla in their tastes and the guy wants to be more adventurous but it would affect the otherwise good relationship from his possibly seen as weird demands?

Or maybe men are just not meant to be monogamous?  There are few animals that are.

[GreyDave]

Because we dont want the rubbish that goes with affairs, I and several mates have had the odd woman try and lure us into something weather its because they wish to feel they can get another womans man or a self estem thing "I ve still got it". Funny enough when you show no interest in some types they get shitty, (last one was the typical 4x4 driving  blonde who thought the world and her ex`s owed her a living) For my self I am quite as a mouse and show no interest I other women, my hobby has allowed the realativly cheap way of shagging the worlds girls slim, big titters small tit large nips, big clits, plastics, real tits from A-L cup size and 6-20 dress size older milfs teenagers coffe, black , bronze, white, olive skin if is there why not try it? The only thing that might give me away is a knack of knowing dress, cup and shoe sizes and what VPL is

[Matium]

I have seen the wives of my friends.

They have all aged terribly.

A 50 year old man will still look good, not so a 50 year old woman.

I think the reason why married men punt is that women age faster than men and the married men just can't face looking at them anymore and the idea of actually going to bed with them makes their stomachs churn.

[agent47]

Because you can cut to the chase and do all the filthy stuff you can do at home

[agent47]

Because you can cut to the chase and do all the filthy stuff you can't do at home

[dilettante]

I got to the point in my marriage to an older woman where at the age of 38 it felt I might never have sex again....
I could divorce, but every thing else in the relationship was pretty much ok, so I found a wanking substitute in the form of punting. It seems much safer and sustainable than having an affair to me

Yes, a very common theme in novels ("Lady Chatterley's Lover"?) and in the olden days lots of men would have a wife and a mistress, no guessing what the latter was for, and was presumably acceptable if the man had enough disposable to support both (plus they lived in huge houses and could avoid each other).

[Falstaff]

Should the question not be : why do men marry ?

[yorkshire123]

Should the question not be : why do men marry ?

Sex......How ironic is that 

[smiths]

Should the question not be : why do men marry ?

Because of pressure from their girlfriends and family, and/or at least for some out of love i would hope. Personally its not for me.

[Falstaff]

Sex......How ironic is that 

Painfully

[Falstaff]

Because of pressure from their girlfriends and family, and/or at least for some out of love i would hope. Personally its not for me.

Yes, once they start dropping the C-bomb (Commitment), time to mosey on

Leave love to the dewy-eyed teenagers

[jcdmj12]

Should the question not be : why do men marry ?

To have a family, and for company. Sex is nice when it happens, but is on and off over the years.

[Boundless]

Sex is the price a woman pays for marriage and marriage is the price a man pays for sex.

[Quatro]

Sex is the price a woman pays for marriage and marriage is the price a man pays for sex.

If only it were so.

[Sparquin]

Why I do this I'm not sure, I can only think it's because I met her when we were fairly young so never got the opportunity to have sex with many girls before I got in the relationship, so maybe reliving the youth I didn't have.

This rings true for me. I was really lacking in confidence with women at an age when I should have been shagging away like crazy (and wanted to!) As a result I feel I missed out somewhere. However now I can make up for it. And do.

[PolishGirlLover]

How do you deal with guilt? Or does that fade with time?

[Tailpipe]

How do you deal with guilt? Or does that fade with time?

If the wife finds out you are in the shit , weather it's one punt or 50

Get Hang for sheep or a lamp , rip it up .

[what-a man]

A prossie will suck my cock, wifey will not
A prossie will swalllow my cum, wifey will not
A prossie will rim my arse, wifey will not
A prossie will allow me to fuck her arse,wifey will not
A prossie will allow me to stick a finger in her arse or stick hers in mine, wifey will not
A prossie will sit on my face wifey will not
A prossie will deep throat me, wifey will not

I just love dirty sex with lovely women and if punting was not available, I seriously believe I would have gone mad by now and I cant see myself quitting. As long as I can afford it, I will punt.

[Boundless]

How do you deal with guilt? Or does that fade with time?

I don't feel any guilt whatsoever.

Maybe i'm lucky in that respect. I think in all things in life, whatever you do you have to square it with yourself.

[Sparquin]

Same here, no guilt no shame. If Mrs. S did what the WGs do then I probably would feel bad. But she won't.

[jcdmj12]

How do you deal with guilt? Or does that fade with time?

What is "guilt"?