Thank you for writing this mate. Finally a well written answer I was seeking 
At this young age, love is something that comes naturally. It's true for sexual desires you might turn to escorts but making it regular is certainly something not to boast or be proud of. A big part of sex is connecting with your partner, pleasing the person you love and expressing trust in each other. And that's what concerns me as I'm too shy to ask a girl out or even kiss a girl. I go clubbing and most of the times it is me standing at the corner while my friends get laid. I get tongue locked talking to girls I like. I never had a relationship either. I was madly in love with a girl for years who 'best friend zoned' me, leaving me all devastated :'(
Personally I don't like paying for it mainly because most escorts are in adult industry purely for money and deep inside I can tell that they are not happy to do this and try to fake their happiness. I mean obviously if my mother or sister becomes an escort, it's certainly not something I would be proud of. I have decided to give up this hobby.
I don't understand why people are posting harsh comments? Apart of few replies, most of you all don't seem to have any emotions or feelings x
Who here said fucking whores something to boast about?
Sex doesn't necessarily have to be about pleasing somebody you 'love'. That's one type of sex, what girls or feminine men might call 'making love', the other type of sex is just fucking purely for sensory pleasure. The two things are not the same thing.
Do you think maybe there is a link between you being a rather feminine sounding man, who thinks sex should be primarily about pleasing your partner and love, and you being friend zoned by this woman you think you loved? Love is a mutual thing, it does not come for free, it takes hard work. Maybe try growing up?
You seem to speak on behalf on escorts, as if psychic and have a special insight into how they feel about things. Why is this? No doubt they do their job primarily for money, but have you stopped to consider that gaining large amounts of money for what they do gives them a great amount of pleasure?
Yes, probably you should give up this hobby, if a genuine punter, seeing as you seem to be a rather emotionally shallow and naive individual who could potentially be a danger to a prostitute in terms of not understanding boundaries.
Why on earth you infer people do not have emotions because they disagree with you perspective is simply beyond me
such presumptuousness makes you look like a twat and a troll anyway. Signing off with an 'x' reinforces that.
