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Offline workinallweek


 Well the rest of this year is going to be box ticking 
So want a sub young girl to play with  i have no real knowledge of this so advice and recomendations please
must be someone actually into it though .

 Anywhere from Essex to Sheffield  ..


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Offline Nigel57

This has been a subject close to my heart over a number of years. You need to be careful and it's not something to be entered into lightly. I am not particularly dominant normally but over the years I had the pleasure of a few subs, I enjoy giving mild bondage, teasing, ice play, pins wheels, spanking, etc but nothing heavy.

One sub in particular, who used to work in Bedford but has now retired,  was very helpful to me and I saw her on many occasions. She was a very good professional sub, had lots of equipment and the sessions were planned cooperatively. I have seen other subs, usually just once or twice, and the main problem is they are passive - I sometimes wonder if they are 'sub' as an excuse to do nothing - so you have to make all the running with little feedback. This puts a big onus on you to run the session, sometimes to the detriment of your own pleasure. Particularly if you are into bondage you have to be careful not to injure the girl.

As a consequence, plus the fact that good subs are hard to find, I have given up on the scene. I get tempted now and then but usually decide it's not worth it.

Offline usroads

Find/Choose a girl who has her own spreader bar and hog ties and you'll be on your way.

Offline dooby111

interesting.....can we add London amd South East to the search.....there seem to be the usuals on here but most seem a bit on the large size for my tastes.  A skin ir skinny one would be interesting too!

Any ideas?

Offline usroads

You could try doing a little AW search homework OP.
Select area, age and dress size. Then scroll right down and to Profiles and tick BDSM, A levels, CIM, OWO, Swallow etc and you'll get a short list to check out on here. Job done.

Offline Dorsetpunter

Well i would recommend Woofie35, based in Nottingham and tours London, so perfect to break your journey from Essex to Sheffield. Plenty of good reviews on here but not currently meeting for obvious reasons

Offline nbarnes

I've had a few subgirls and they are loads of fucking fun. (True switches, even more so - you can play both sides and its a lot of fun playing power games.)

Difficult to find, expensive and they tend to either retire quickly or become dommes (nothing annoys me more than subs who are dommes-in-waiting).
I'm more into bondage with subgirls (nothing like fucking a bound and gagged, leather clad woman in the ass from behind) rather than inflicting pain (giving a spanking is fun though) - so you really need trust, as a subgirl is even more vulnerable than a normal WG - as a result, service with subgirls tends to get better with time as trust builds.

The two recommendations I have seem to be waiting out c-19 as well, which is probably sensible, but I want to empty my balls damn it  :cool:.

Someone else recommended Woofie - she's said to be legendary, £200 an hour might put you off though (it does me)
« Last Edit: August 07, 2020, 11:33:52 am by nbarnes »

Offline bhudda

I can never quite get my head around how a girl can be "sub" but charge you by the hour. However i guess the term is so wooly and all encompassing that its possible depending upon what you mean by sub .

Anyway the best sub-types ive had were met through 1) a reverse bid on AW ... specifically a lass who only met people whose auction specs she liked the look of ... and when you met up she never brought a clock with her ... in fact she used to complain cos i couldnt stay the night and 2) seeking arrangements ... i used to meet lasses from there quite a lot and cant remember one that didnt want to be spanked, and several much more.

Offline britboy

I have seen other subs, usually just once or twice, and the main problem is they are passive - I sometimes wonder if they are 'sub' as an excuse to do nothing - so you have to make all the running with little feedback. This puts a big onus on you to run the session, sometimes to the detriment of your own pleasure. Particularly if you are into bondage you have to be careful not to injure the girl.

This is a good point - sub can mean lots of different things.
Sometimes it's just about letting you take control.
Sometimes it's about being tied up.
Sometimes it's about verbal degradation.
Sometimes it's about spanking / physical punishment.

Sometimes all of that! I'd suggest you decide what it is you're looking for first, narrow down on AW using search, and then have a pre-meet conversation with the escort to be absolutely sure. I've found it's best to be really explicit in this as profiles often talk about being kinky or 'no limits' and that might not mean what you think.
Some pro subs offer no or restricted any sexual services (eg. just spanking / punishment) so again worth making sure.

As Nigel57 says, you also need to be careful with bondage or punishment that you don't cause any injury. Personally I'd be a bit wary of anyone willing to be tied up on a first meeting as it suggests they don't know / care about the risks and may well react badly.

Sorry that's not a list of girls to book, but hopefully helpful.

Offline workinallweek

Well i would recommend Woofie35, based in Nottingham and tours London, so perfect to break your journey from Essex to Sheffield. Plenty of good reviews on here but not currently meeting for obvious reasons

was planning a duo with Wolfie and her friend but covid messed it up  ffs
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Offline workinallweek

You could try doing a little AW search homework OP.
Select area, age and dress size. Then scroll right down and to Profiles and tick BDSM, A levels, CIM, OWO, Swallow etc and you'll get a short list to check out on here. Job done.

 yep i know how it works mate but some of the best punts ive had came from a few guys on here
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Offline jimbobted

How do you actually get a booking with Woofie? Before COVID I messaged her a few times over around 6 months or so but the messages never even got read and she doesn't display her number.

If you can do London, you could try Londonsubmissivegirls.com. Fabulous brothel with a massive suite filled with equipment. Tends to be pricey, £200 an hour which includes spanking, sex and role play if that's your thing. "Extras" such as OWO, CIM, CP and bondage arranged in advance or negotiated on the day with the girl. Of the current roster of girls I've fucked and reviewed Lucy - recommended by make sure she's got a cock or gag in her mouth at all times as she's a chatterbox. Not sure when they are reopening, maybe drop them an email.
Switch Scarlett is a fabulous sub, but is pricing herself out of the market at 300 an hour. Last time I fucked her she was 180 an hour, expensive but enthusiastic and hot as fuck. No OWO, CIM, anal or facials. No bondage on a first meet And 300 is absurd.

Red Kitten was probably my top fuck. Not the hottest girl I'm the world, but hot enough. OWO, swallows, anal, face fucking, bondage, clamps, gags, blindfolds, whips, canes, wax all on offer. Absolutely filthy and loves to be used for pleasure. Very good value too, I think about 130 an hour, I booked an afternoon with her and paid at the end for time used only, once I'd had enough fun. She's not on AW anymore but I heard a rumour she is still minded to work.

Other "subs" I have seen have been disappointing. Either completely passive, which is very off-putting or in one case completely bat-shit crazy.

Offline workinallweek

How do you actually get a booking with Woofie? Before COVID I messaged her a few times over around 6 months or so but the messages never even got read and she doesn't display her number.

If you can do London, you could try Londonsubmissivegirls.com. Fabulous brothel with a massive suite filled with equipment. Tends to be pricey, £200 an hour which includes spanking, sex and role play if that's your thing. "Extras" such as OWO, CIM, CP and bondage arranged in advance or negotiated on the day with the girl. Of the current roster of girls I've fucked and reviewed Lucy - recommended by make sure she's got a cock or gag in her mouth at all times as she's a chatterbox. Not sure when they are reopening, maybe drop them an email.
Switch Scarlett is a fabulous sub, but is pricing herself out of the market at 300 an hour. Last time I fucked her she was 180 an hour, expensive but enthusiastic and hot as fuck. No OWO, CIM, anal or facials. No bondage on a first meet And 300 is absurd.

Red Kitten was probably my top fuck. Not the hottest girl I'm the world, but hot enough. OWO, swallows, anal, face fucking, bondage, clamps, gags, blindfolds, whips, canes, wax all on offer. Absolutely filthy and loves to be used for pleasure. Very good value too, I think about 130 an hour, I booked an afternoon with her and paid at the end for time used only, once I'd had enough fun. She's not on AW anymore but I heard a rumour she is still minded to work.

Other "subs" I have seen have been disappointing. Either completely passive, which is very off-putting or in one case completely bat-shit crazy.

londons a thought but my preference is for indie
Red Kitten  or Tail Seeker on her  i have met and reviewed al be it a bit vanilla to what she was offering , She was loved up with someone from here last time i saw her and is no longer in London last time i spoke to her but who knows  lol

thinking youngish  dumbish  lol
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Offline davidgood

Hi WAW,

I think you are going to struggle to get recomendations for a few reasons.

Firstly, I do not see many reviews which involve meetings with subs. Either our members generally do not see subs or if they do they do not want to talk about them.

As has been mentioned by others, many spankees claim not to offer sexual services so a meet with one of them is probably not reviewable.

What one considers to be a sub can vary dramatically, from SPs who will taking a spanking, or act passive to what I would call 'real submissives'. These do exist but are usullay under the control of posessive doms who like to show off with them but do not want other guys to play with them. I have seen this happen a few times at parties.

There are a few doms who are happy to sell their sub on AW or other sites, but these are unlikley to be fresh faced young ladies.

Although they may not meet all your requirements, here are are some SPs who might  provide submissive sessions;-

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=278672.msg2894395#msg2894395

If you find what you are loooking for please let us have a review.

Regards,

davidgood
« Last Edit: August 11, 2020, 10:20:50 am by davidgood »

Offline jimbobted

londons a thought but my preference is for indie
Red Kitten  or Tail Seeker on her  i have met and reviewed al be it a bit vanilla to what she was offering , She was loved up with someone from here last time i saw her and is no longer in London last time i spoke to her but who knows  lol

thinking youngish  dumbish  lol
I'm conducting a similar search myself. Kitten/Tail Seeker was excellent at what she did, and had all the kit. Lots describe themselves as sub but have no bondage equipment or toys or any experience at being sub.

Seems slim pickings. Searching AW, a fair proportion of likely candidates openly offer bareback, or are BBW, or are heavily tattooed. I don't like any of these things.
Basically I'm looking for a pretty girl next door with a great figure, no tats but completely filthy behind closed doors.

Offline workinallweek

I'm conducting a similar search myself. Kitten/Tail Seeker was excellent at what she did, and had all the kit. Lots describe themselves as sub but have no bondage equipment or toys or any experience at being sub.

Seems slim pickings. Searching AW, a fair proportion of likely candidates openly offer bareback, or are BBW, or are heavily tattooed. I don't like any of these things.
Basically I'm looking for a pretty girl next door with a great figure, no tats but completely filthy behind closed doors.

 found two like that but now only sell content
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Offline Buttons

Playing with subs can be fun, but advice further up about finding one who is prepared to plan sessions and work with you will pay dividends. Worth building up trust between you and the sub as well, so don’t approach it as a one off session to tick a box expecting it to be amazing.

Brings back memories of a very SA girl, with a very red arse (from taking a proper hard spanking), bent over with my cock hammering into her arse then chocking herself on my cock to a shuddering orgasm, but only after she had begged for and received permission to cum

Offline davidgood

I'm conducting a similar search myself. Kitten/Tail Seeker was excellent at what she did, and had all the kit. Lots describe themselves as sub but have no bondage equipment or toys or any experience at being sub.

Seems slim pickings. Searching AW, a fair proportion of likely candidates openly offer bareback, or are BBW, or are heavily tattooed. I don't like any of these things.
Basically I'm looking for a pretty girl next door with a great figure, no tats but completely filthy behind closed doors.

Lack of equipment has resulted in some negative reviews by those hoping for a dom to sub experience.

The ones that are more likely to have some equipment or instruments are those that are primarily doms who will switch. They usually have plenty of stuff provided by their slaves.

Alternatively you can always provide your own gear, once you find a sub you like.

Regards,

davidgood