SA seeking.com North East Regional Discussion

[tynetunnel]

It has been decided that open seeking.com (SA) threads can now be available on all Regional Boards, this is for the purpose of sharing information about seeking.com, especially for those who do not have access to the closed thread. Unless the Boss says different then the following can be discussed. Remember this is an open thread for all to access, so be careful what you say and most important try not to out any of your fellow board members:

* Warning Posts for scammers/dangerous or vulnerable girls allowed (similar to what the seeking the seeking wiki was External Link/Members Only) - You may want to read this

* Warn of girls wanting online or platonic only (some guys do get this)

* Time wasters

* Good info on particular places to buy toys/hotel deals/nice restaurants...etc

* Whales turn up that look like models on their pic etc


It may be that from time to time members who have access to the closed thread will pop into the Regional threads with their wise words of wisdom and advice

Note: ‘willy waving’ or otherwise boasting of your exploits on seeking.com is not permitted

Have fun, but above all be careful 

[datwabbit]

First cab off the rank.

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Time waster. Chatted but won't meet. Just wants chatting within SA.

[scoobyboy72]

Online only. Picture/video seller

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[Tiger63]

I tried it after getting the reduced offer of £30 subscription
made contact with a student from Durham who was looking for a monthly income .
Told her it would only be one off meets and she was fine with that....£250 per meet.
That was as far as I got.
I keep getting emails about re newing my subscription but never bothered

[Mr blue]

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I actually matched with this girl on tinder last year nothing came of it but we keep in touch, she hasn't set this profile up as i asked her. So obviously don't bother messaging it as it sounds like a crazy ex !

[AnthG]

Can I ask on this, as I have always been curious? What is the general price people pay for this per month to a girl?

I am presuming the way this works is you find a girl you like, and you agree a sugar daddy arrangement where you pay her every month a set amount and you then get to see her a few times in that month.

And secondly, how long it usually takes to finally get to see the girl. How long do you need to chat for.

And thirdly, do you just go meetup in somewhere like Nando's when you do?

These questions are probably worth their own topic. But the old SA topic you needed to actually be a paid subscriber to SA before you could post on it.And thus it was a catch 22 as you never knew it was worth signing up for there until you got the basics above clarified.

[datwabbit]

Can I ask on this, as I have always been curious? What is the general price people pay for this per month to a girl?

I am presuming the way this works is you find a girl you like, and you agree a sugar daddy arrangement where you pay her every month a set amount and you then get to see her a few times in that month.

And secondly, how long it usually takes to finally get to see the girl. How long do you need to chat for.

And thirdly, do you just go meetup in somewhere like Nando's when you do?

These questions are probably worth their own topic. But the old SA topic you needed to actually be a paid subscriber to SA before you could post on it.And thus it was a catch 22 as you never knew it was worth signing up for there until you got the basics above clarified.

You won't get a single answer to that. It depends on what she thinks of you and she might not even agree to meet you, or want a lot to see you and not much to meet someone she finds attractive.

You still have to be paid up if you want to talk to them £70 a month.

[bobdavid]

Can I ask on this, as I have always been curious? What is the general price people pay for this per month to a girl?

I am presuming the way this works is you find a girl you like, and you agree a sugar daddy arrangement where you pay her every month a set amount and you then get to see her a few times in that month.

And secondly, how long it usually takes to finally get to see the girl. How long do you need to chat for.

And thirdly, do you just go meetup in somewhere like Nando's when you do?

These questions are probably worth their own topic. But the old SA topic you needed to actually be a paid subscriber to SA before you could post on it.And thus it was a catch 22 as you never knew it was worth signing up for there until you got the basics above clarified.

1) I only ever meet girls on a PPM basis. I usually chat to them with 2-3 messages and then tell them how previous arrangements have worked. I'll offer between £100-£140 per meet depending on how attractive the girl is. I'll make sure she knows it's just for a couple of hours;

2) Varies. Anywhere from 5-20 messages before a meet. Sometimes straight to a hotel, sometimes going for a coffee first...

3) I'll usually meet somewhere more discrete like a little coffee shop.

[bobdavid]

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Seems to be only looking for arrangements without intimacy 

[martini2429]

Can I ask on this, as I have always been curious? What is the general price people pay for this per month to a girl?

I am presuming the way this works is you find a girl you like, and you agree a sugar daddy arrangement where you pay her every month a set amount and you then get to see her a few times in that month.

And secondly, how long it usually takes to finally get to see the girl. How long do you need to chat for.

And thirdly, do you just go meetup in somewhere like Nando's when you do?

These questions are probably worth their own topic. But the old SA topic you needed to actually be a paid subscriber to SA before you could post on it.And thus it was a catch 22 as you never knew it was worth signing up for there until you got the basics above clarified.

As datwabbit says, no one is going to tell you how much to pay, that is for you to work out, what I will say is perhaps have a figure in your head (remember these are not AW Escorts), ask her what she is looking for, if that figure is in the same ball park as yours then you could be on a winner, if she quotes you per hour, then move on as she is probably an escort, you pay what you are comfortable with paying.  I quoted one women x amount in London, she asked if that was for the evening, I said yes and she accepted

How long does it take, well it takes as long as it can, you may meet after a week it may be a couple of weeks, it may be never.

Where to meet, well I would suggest somewhere near to your hotel, if using a hotel, hotel bar, coffee shop wherever you both feel comfortable, hotel bar is usually a good one, quick drink and then to the room

Remember, never give money up front and if you do meet someone, have fun 

 

[toon972]

Good thread and nice timing. I joined about a month ago but not sure whether to subscribe yet, so will be following this thread with interest.
Is it any problem to cancel your subscription?

[tynetunnel]

Good thread and nice timing. I joined about a month ago but not sure whether to subscribe yet, so will be following this thread with interest.
Is it any problem to cancel your subscription?

Nope, cancelling is not an issue. It will however auto renew so if you sub, immediately cancel the auto renew. You will likely find a month sub sufficient for a little while, or longer if you’re lucky! At £70/m you don’t want to pay for longer than you need 

[toon972]

Nope, cancelling is not an issue. It will however auto renew so if you sub, immediately cancel the auto renew. You will likely find a month sub sufficient for a little while, or longer if you’re lucky! At £70/m you don’t want to pay for longer than you need 

Thank you, very helpful. 

[Sar-Major]

Nope, cancelling is not an issue. It will however auto renew so if you sub, immediately cancel the auto renew. You will likely find a month sub sufficient for a little while, or longer if you’re lucky! At £70/m you don’t want to pay for longer than you need 

Well there's NO FEKIN WAY, I'd put any of my card details into website that relates to this hobby.............. 

 

[Tiger63]

Good thread and nice timing. I joined about a month ago but not sure whether to subscribe yet, so will be following this thread with interest.
Is it any problem to cancel your subscription?

Mine was a 30 day trail so when it came to an end I got an e-mail asking if I wanted to renew for £70. That was a no go.
TBH I wasnt really  100% sure what the site was all about untill I joined and started getting messages..

Iam now of the opinion that its much less hassle and a lot cheaper just to book escorts from AW

[datwabbit]

Mine was a 30 day trail so when it came to an end I got an e-mail asking if I wanted to renew for £70. That was a no go.
TBH I wasnt really  100% sure what the site was all about untill I joined and started getting messages..

Iam now of the opinion that its much less hassle and a lot cheaper just to book escorts from AW

I think it is worth looking into different types of punting to see what works for you and to appreciate the difference. So no harm with what you've done. AW guarantees (almost) that the time you spend messaging will lead to a meeting. AW also doesn't require a monthly fee.

[bobdavid]

I think it is worth looking into different types of punting to see what works for you and to appreciate the difference. So no harm with what you've done. AW guarantees (almost) that the time you spend messaging will lead to a meeting. AW also doesn't require a monthly fee.

Yeah, I've used both... and to a degree Seeking has spoilt AW for me... I've met some fantastic girls through Seeking. I'm under no illusion about whether they're exclusively meeting me, they're almost certainly not, but it's great to spend a relaxed time - but sexually charged - with someone who isn't already thinking about the next guy through the door. It also feels more like an adventure - many of these girls don't have much experience, want to try new things out, etc.

[Sar-Major]

Yeah, I've used both... and to a degree Seeking has spoilt AW for me... I've met some fantastic girls through Seeking. I'm under no illusion about whether they're exclusively meeting me, they're almost certainly not, but it's great to spend a relaxed time - but sexually charged - with someone who isn't already thinking about the next guy through the door. It also feels more like an adventure - many of these girls don't have much experience, want to try new things out, etc.

I don't know how seeking "Really" works other than what guys have said on here.

I understand what your saying about being under "No illusion about them exclusively meeting You". 

Yet as far as I can see your "Contradicting Yourself" by saying that they're "Not thinking about the next guy through the door".   

How do you know that? As I'm assuming that you're paying them somewhere down the line to be with you? 

 

[bobdavid]

Yet as far as I can see your "Contradicting Yourself" by saying that they're "Not thinking about the next guy through the door".   

All I really mean is that you, if you're careful, you know that girls from Seeking aren't seeing 4+ people per day. My regular from a couple of years ago worked in Costa and was a student at Newcastle University. I know these to be true - in fact, she still works at Costa and I'm angry with myself that I let the arrangement end (I was getting itchy feet). Simply, she wouldn't have the time to see so many guys.

When you meet girls from Seeking, you see that they're different. Sure, there are escorts on there too - but you can spot these a mile off.

I like both, don't get me wrong, it depends on my mood at the time. Sometimes I just want the simpler method - book an escort, ask about services, wham bam. And sometimes I like the game you get from Seeking girls.

[AnthG]

At £70/m you don’t want to pay for longer than you need 

For those in two minds, it might be worth signing up to the site and ticking a mailing list if they have one and then waiting until Black Friday.

These websites usually offer discounts then that often also stick for as long as you remain a member.

[dino1990]

Removed and amended

reported underage account but still seems to be active

[Kev40ish]

Only 16 and her friend in glasses is 15..reported but account still seems to be active

Difficult one for me whether this should be highlighted on an open thread.. could be a blackmailer.

But would just report it, and hope SA remove it, as there may be people who abuse the warning..

[bushman]

All I really mean is that you, if you're careful, you know that girls from Seeking aren't seeing 4+ people per day. My regular from a couple of years ago worked in Costa and was a student at Newcastle University. I know these to be true - in fact, she still works at Costa and I'm angry with myself that I let the arrangement end (I was getting itchy feet). Simply, she wouldn't have the time to see so many guys.

When you meet girls from Seeking, you see that they're different. Sure, there are escorts on there too - but you can spot these a mile off.

I like both, don't get me wrong, it depends on my mood at the time. Sometimes I just want the simpler method - book an escort, ask about services, wham bam. And sometimes I like the game you get from Seeking girls.

I would  love for my local Starbucks barista to be on SA she's very beautiful.

[AllAges]

Interesting. Nothing illegal about spending time with girls 16 or over so if there are 16-17 year olds on the site I may well sign up.

[Kev40ish]

Interesting. Nothing illegal about spending time with girls 16 or over so if there are 16-17 year olds on the site I may well sign up.

Really!!!! so your just looking for platonic meets with 16 year old girls.

[Kev3773]

Really!!!! so your just looking for platonic meets with 16 year old girls.

Well he does like them "All ages"   

[Kev40ish]

Well he does like them "All ages"   

Not sure people like this should be on this site...

[Tiger63]

Probably scammers

[bushman]

Not sure people like this should be on this site...

+1

[daviemac]

Interesting. Nothing illegal about spending time with girls 16 or over so if there are 16-17 year olds on the site I may well sign up.

16 / 17 year olds are underage for this game.   

[Kev40ish]

16 / 17 year olds are underage for this game.   

Thanks Daviemac... 

[tynetunnel]

Interesting. Nothing illegal about spending time with girls 16 or over so if there are 16-17 year olds on the site I may well sign up.

And people wonder why old admin kept the SA thread locked to proven subscribers only? 

Good work on the swift ban daviemac, undesirable indeed 

[Kev3773]

Definitely come across as a wrongun , rightly kicked in to touch Dm 

[daviemac]

I was going to leave him a bit longer so he could see the abuse such a comment rightly deserved but he logged off.

[Kev40ish]

I was going to leave him a bit longer so he could see the abuse such a comment rightly deserved but he logged off.

I don’t think he deserved to be on here any longer.. my only concern is obviously there are people who get off on things like this, so don’t like the idea of people posting underage links..

[Bobbins1973]

Top 5 discreet but fancy city centre bars in Newcastle
Have a couple of meets lined up and after advice on suitable watering holes that will impress but won’t arrract too much suspicion when I walk in for drinks with someone obviously a lot younger than me ?

[bobdavid]

Top 5 discreet but fancy city centre bars in Newcastle
Have a couple of meets lined up and after advice on suitable watering holes that will impress but won’t arrract too much suspicion when I walk in for drinks with someone obviously a lot younger than me ?

Aveika and Livello are my personal favourites. Livello has booths that you can sit at when the place is quieter (ie. avoid 11pm onwards on Friday/Saturday). Livello is also connected to the Vermont Hotel ;-)

[Bobbins1973]

Aveika and Livello are my personal favourites. Livello has booths that you can sit at when the place is quieter (ie. avoid 11pm onwards on Friday/Saturday). Livello is also connected to the Vermont Hotel ;-)

Is the Vermont a good place to stay, looks good on their site but looks very old fashioned - I like the wow factor of a nice modern place but the rooms look like one of those tired Hallmark places and would rather stay in minimalistic place like Travelodge / Premier Inn but that puts most Princess 👸 off

Easy Hotel is dirt cheap but walks are like paper and I got a knock on my door from the Manager at 3 am asking (us) to quiet down ☺️

[bobdavid]

Is the Vermont a good place to stay, looks good on their site but looks very old fashioned - I like the wow factor of a nice modern place but the rooms look like one of those tired Hallmark places and would rather stay in minimalistic place like Travelodge / Premier Inn but that puts most Princess 👸 off

Easy Hotel is dirt cheap but walks are like paper and I got a knock on my door from the Manager at 3 am asking (us) to quiet down ☺️

I don't actually know ... personally I prefer the Crowne Plaza - though, yeah, it's more expensive and the bar is often busy with no discrete meeting areas. That said, they have a Club Lounge that's definitely worth the premium and makes going to the room afterwards even easier.

[dino1990]

Never had to meet a girl for drinks from sa to have fun..I can imagine a few girls would get pissed then go off with friends. Not worth the risk. Most girls I've met like the secrecy and don't want public meets.

[methodz00]

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Webcam “model” touting for business. She can be found on insta and twitter is anyone’s interests in seeing her shows.

[scoobyboy72]

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Webcam “model” touting for business. She can be found on insta and twitter is anyone’s interests in seeing her shows.

Susan Boyle is more attractive than her!!

[bobdavid]

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Webcam “model” touting for business. She can be found on insta and twitter is anyone’s interests in seeing her shows.

What is it? That's ghastly..

[methodz00]

Good thread and nice timing. I joined about a month ago but not sure whether to subscribe yet, so will be following this thread with interest.

I joined a few months ago but I’m reluctant to add my bank details and/or upload a face pic for obvious reasons.

I’ve had quite a few stunners message me, which I can’t read cause I don’t pay but I would question if these are real or fake accounts set up by SA trying to get you to upgrade as they seem to come through every few days then it goes quiet again.

Does anyone know if there’s an alternative means of unlocking the messaging features etc.?

[Bobbins1973]

Never had to meet a girl for drinks from sa to have fun..I can imagine a few girls would get pissed then go off with friends. Not worth the risk. Most girls I've met like the secrecy and don't want public meets.

Yes, the young ones just like to goto your room and party but if I’m across and staying over then I like to get out for a while and see the sights
Most from SA want a social meet 1st but I’m across randomly and don’t want to waste any time whilst over so if there’s no chance of action on 1st meet then I just live on

[Tommygun67]

SA can be a right vipers nest but there are some gems on there. I have been seeing a 23 year old Indian girl off there once a week for a few months now, a lovely genuine lass who is a primary school teacher in her day job.

[leffe7]

I've decided to give this a go, but I'm awfully hesitant to put pics on the website and thats surely going to handicap me isnt it?

There seems to be a decent number of people in the North East but im wondering if this sort of thing is better post September when the unis get going again.

[Kev40ish]

I've decided to give this a go, but I'm awfully hesitant to put pics on the website and thats surely going to handicap me isnt it?

There seems to be a decent number of people in the North East but im wondering if this sort of thing is better post September when the unis get going again.

You’ll find there is a bit of an increase at the beginning of September, but it takes the first year girls a few months as they have got their Grant money to keep them going and it takes them a while to start to run low.

[datwabbit]

I've decided to give this a go, but I'm awfully hesitant to put pics on the website and thats surely going to handicap me isnt it?

Would you see someone when you don't know what they look like?

Depends on the girl.

[am1r69]

this may sound stupid but do SA girls provide intimacy or is it just "social" ie the kudos of having a good girl on your arm for a few hrs?

apologies if naive question