Couldn't cum

[yorkshire123]

Called in to see a regular on my way home from work on Thursday.

For all of her efforts (& mine) i couldn't cum even if my life depended on it.

The only variance i can think of is that this was the first time with her that i hadn't popped a pill because i didn't have any in the car. However i believe that Viagra can delay you not the other way around?

This has never happened before with a prossie & the strangest part was that i came away feeling satisfied, i have no intention of dwelling on it just curious if this has happened to anyone else?

Or am i just a freak 

[vorian]

No I have had occasions when I haven't cum, wouldn't worry too much about it. Like most things if you dwell on them, they tend to get worse in your head. I'm normally a one pop guy in a session doesn't mean it's not fun trying to get there.

[akauya]

I think it happens to most of us. To me it's the pill that sometimes affects me. I might have a raging hard on and pump away like there's no tomorrow but somehow I will not cum. Then there's other times when I will come easily more than once. But I do get frustrated if I don't come... I try not to but still, it's one of those things.

[Toshiba]

Its when you cum quickly that i get annoyed at

[Outcallguy]

It's obviously very common. I presume related to stress, tiredness or substances?

But surely cumming is only the small part of the punt?

If you focus on the fact you have been kissing getting blown by and having sex with a girl who is either way out of your league or would take a lot of work to get into bed (if you met as civvies)
Then all punts are really enjoyable.

[ciscoxxx69]

It's obviously very common. I presume related to stress, tiredness or substances?

But surely cumming is only the small part of the punt?

If you focus on the fact you have been kissing getting blown by and having sex with a girl who is either way out of your league or would take a lot of work to get into bed (if you met as civvies)
Then all punts are really enjoyable.

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Very well put.... 
I have had 2 or 3 very frustrating 'non-cum' situations, which in hindsight, were still really great shags.
As you say, shagging out of your league girls, in my case half my age, is still a lot of fun.

[ForrestGump]

Like so many others here I can relate/empathise.

Generally I find it hard to cum but more so if I'm not feeling properly relaxed. There are other factors, too. But I haven't figured out what they are yet. Sometimes I am able to cum very easily. At other times it just seems as though it doesn't matter how much I want it to happen and how hard try to make it happen it's just not going to. I can't seem to figure out what the magic bullet is. But am keen to find one, whatever it may be.

I've yet to try taking pre-punt tabs to influence my erection/performance. So I can't say whether that would help me to become more consistent or achieve a faster time to orgasm. Keen to try, though.

I haven't been punting long enough to have got myself set up with a regular yet. So I can't say whether there's one particular sp who's better at making me cum than others. In fact I'd say each punt is a bit of a trip into the unknown. But there's an element of excitement (and, as I've discovered, sometimes disappointment) about that too.

But regardless of who I've arranged to be with I always go along with the attitude that I'm there to enjoy the whole journey/experience and, as has already been said, being there with a hot/fit girl who's happy to be very intimate with me is justification enough for me to be there in the first place. If I'm able to cum too as a part of the experience then it's just the icing on the cake. Pun intended. 

[Captain Kang]

Nothing to worry about.
Floppage would be a different matter... I would worry about floppage. 

[valdishere]

I recall many years ago after spending a good half our in 69 and both really enjoying ourselves we switched to full on sex in several positions. However after another 15 mins of full on piston pumping her with occasional gaping & hard BJ face fuck pumping I just couldn't cum despite being really horny and turned on.

She was very patient and even suggested I try COOLING my balls down as they were well full hot and swollen from our frantic session. She told me sometimes guys can get a little overheated through prolonged activity and by running cold water over testicles or sitting on cold floor to cool things down it usually allows normal service to resume?

So we tried it AND IT DIDN'T WORK ( being able to cum) despite her generous efforts to get me worked up again easily with her glorious oral skills.

I did leave  satisfied but disappointed I hadn't popped over her face like I usually did but easily cracked one out about an hour later when home again!

As other say its happened to all of us although it was a first and last time for me as never occurred again since.

[SaneOnes]

I hardly ever cum during penetrative sex. Sometimes i get an even more of a perverse pleasure out of that cause I'm an egotistical fuck and i can walk away after that happily, then have a couple of wanks when I'm back home. Most cases it's usually the girlfriend (ex) and now the WGs who would insist on making me cum and put all their oral skills to test in the end and I'd be mean and sit back and relax and still manage to not cum in some cases. Then I'm on my own again to have a wank and cum. I think i have a slightly different issue here but my point was that yes, you can not cum during a session without looking like a freak. I remember this one time I didn't cum with pinkcupcakes, who doesn't work anymore i think, and she was really offended. I came during our second and last meet as she let me fuck her anally which was always on offer from the 2nd booking to everyone. I also left a watch behind.

[Rochdull lad]

I hardly ever cum during penetrative sex. Sometimes i get an even more of a perverse pleasure out of that cause I'm an egotistical fuck and i can walk away after that happily, then have a couple of wanks when I'm back home. Most cases it's usually the girlfriend (ex) and now the WGs who would insist on making me cum and put all their oral skills to test in the end and I'd be mean and sit back and relax and still manage to not cum in some cases. Then I'm on my own again to have a wank and cum. I think i have a slightly different issue here but my point was that yes, you can not cum during a session without looking like a freak. I remember this one time I didn't cum with pinkcupcakes, who doesn't work anymore i think, and she was really offended. I came during our second and last meet as she let me fuck her anally which was always on offer from the 2nd booking to everyone. I also left a watch behind.

Thanks for those remarks, SaneOnes; I'm glad to read that I'm not the only one who rarely cums during a session.  When I visit a WG for the first time, I usually tell her that I'm unlikely to cum and that she mustn't think she's "failed" if I don't.  That's because I'll never forget seeing a lass at Sandy's Northenden Parlour about 8 years ago who'd put all she had into trying to get me to cum and gave the impression of having failed when we had the "Time's up" knock on the door.

In my case, I put it down to a combination of factors: age [late 60s]; poor circulation [the condition which "entitles" me to Sildenafil on prescription] and up-bringing [the Catholic Church has such a lot to answer for! ].

The annoying thing is that when I get home from a punt with the Regular who has a PG and I open that PG on the laptop, I can cum quite easily.  It's very disappointing.

[Jonahp]

Its when you cum quickly that i get annoyed at

This! A thousand times this!

[yorkshire123]

Nothing to worry about.
Floppage would be a different matter... I would worry about floppage.

No "floppage" I'm glad to announce 

Thanks all for your replies, like i said i wasn't that worried but curious to know if it was normal to have a level of satisfaction after not shooting your bolt, it seems so.
So it doesn't seem like i am any more of a freak than i already thought 

 

[SirFrank]

I've had a few punts and two swing meets where I couldn't come. Sweating like a fat bird break dancing I had Mach 3 trying to blow my nuts but to no avail. I gave up in the end and went home for a wank. True to form my right hand has never let me down

[mark1991]

i went with a Hungarian girl called megan who has a tattoo of roses all up her leg, she was a little chubby but in a nice way. i was thinking about her all day at work as me and a friend were going to coventry together for the first time to see different girls.

i normally pick an hour min and normally 2 hours but because i was with a friend i decided just half an hour.

we got going kissing and she was playing with my cock and i got real hard. she did OWO which was great and she stripped off. she got into mish and started around 20 minutes in and all was good, she was tight and knew how to ride but i couldnt cum.

she got off after 10 minutes and tries to suck and wank me off for i just didnt feel it for some reason. i ended up staying for 45 mins (not charged for) when she just looked at me and said sorry but time is out i cannot make you come sorry. i said sorry to her because i felt like it was my falt.

i have no idea why, maybe its because i knew my friend was in the other room or that it was just after work or maybe i needed the full hour. as i left i was disapointed in myself but i said i would come back and finish!

[Dani]

It could just be your subconscious telling your body that you have not taken your blue pill so your body is not allowing you to cum.
The subconscious is a funny old thing.
I have one reg who sees me every two weeks on a weekend.  Now and then he books after work if I am around but he cannot cum on these evening bookings no matter how long we try yet come the Saturday he is over and done with before I know whats hit me.  we have now worked out that it is his subconscious as he ahs always booked prossies at a weekend and never had a problem it is only when he changes this routine that he gets nowhere

[Missfilan]

Op you are certainly not a freak 

What I have noticed is that it tends to be new clients or those who overthink things where it happens the most. The pressure they can put on themselves to perform in a certain way can be huge and often to the extent where they will literally stare at their cocks willing it to happen. It is almost like a cycle where they get to the brink and then stay there or lose the feeling completely.

I find that changing activities and distraction with kissing and intimacy helps to take the pressure off and often gets a result as the more you think about it then the more clinical it feels and it can then becomes the battle that must be won at all costs rather than a pleasurable experience. Personally I do not get offended if it doesn't happen but I do feel bad for the client. Sometimes no matter what you do there is just this barrier that gets in the way and especially so on a first meet.

For those who have a regular issue with this then then finding a wg with a great attitude who can enjoy a challenge without becoming so fixated on the end result that she unintentionally adds to the pressure is essential. One of the most important things is to feel relaxed and comfortable in her presence and don't give up after the first meet as I have so far never seen this issue in my clients on subsequent meets. I hope this helps a little.

[SirFrank]

It could just be your subconscious telling your body that you have not taken your blue pill so your body is not allowing you to cum.
The subconscious is a funny old thing.
I have one reg who sees me every two weeks on a weekend.  Now and then he books after work if I am around but he cannot cum on these evening bookings no matter how long we try yet come the Saturday he is over and done with before I know whats hit me.  we have now worked out that it is his subconscious as he ahs always booked prossies at a weekend and never had a problem it is only when he changes this routine that he gets nowhere

Has he tried burying some bacon in the back garden? Works for me

[Rochdull lad]

The subconscious is a funny old thing.

What I have noticed is that it tends to be new clients or those who overthink things where it happens the most. The pressure they can put on themselves to perform in a certain way can be huge and often to the extent where they will literally stare at their cocks willing it to happen. It is almost like a cycle where they get to the brink and then stay there or lose the feeling completely.

I find that changing activities and distraction with kissing and intimacy helps to take the pressure off and often gets a result as the more you think about it then the more clinical it feels and it can then becomes the battle that must be won at all costs rather than a pleasurable experience. Personally I do not get offended if it doesn't happen but I do feel bad for the client. Sometimes no matter what you do there is just this barrier that gets in the way and especially so on a first meet.

Fwiw, I think these are a couple of helpful comments "from the other side of the counter", if you know what I mean, for those of us with this difficulty. 

Although I've never "stared at [my] cock willing it to happen" ; it's more that I've become reconciled to cumming during a session being a bonus.  That's another reason for seeing Regulars; I'd hate to have to explain my problem at the start of every punt.

[smiths]

Called in to see a regular on my way home from work on Thursday.

For all of her efforts (& mine) i couldn't cum even if my life depended on it.

The only variance i can think of is that this was the first time with her that i hadn't popped a pill because i didn't have any in the car. However i believe that Viagra can delay you not the other way around?

This has never happened before with a prossie & the strangest part was that i came away feeling satisfied, i have no intention of dwelling on it just curious if this has happened to anyone else?

Or am i just a freak 

Obviously your not a freak going on this. I dont always pop as much as i would like but dont dwell on it either, i let nature take its course, can still have a good punt, although i have never not popped at all, if that did happen to me who knows how i might feel.

[Salt]

Hmmm........

I wish sometime......

For me OP its the other way around; i cum way to fast.......