Can WGs completely quit the business forever?

[Maak]

I have punted a few WGs who quit the game for 6 months and ended up getting back in the game, under a new profile new name etc . I have also punted WGs who quit to get married & also punted very beautiful young WGs who only done it for less than a year & completely disappeared

Do WGs struggle to give up the fast easy money? Majority of the WGs that quit, usually are back months later.

Same way punters struggle to give it up for good. Once a punter, always a punter. Does it apply to WGs?

[PilotMan]

I have punted a few WGs who quit the game for 6 months and ended up getting back in the game, under a new profile new name etc . I have also punted WGs who quit to get married & also punted very beautiful young WGs who only done it for less than a year & completely disappeared

Do WGs struggle to give up the fast easy money? Majority of the WGs that quit, usually are back months later.

Same way punters struggle to give it up for good. Once a punter, always a punter. Does it apply to WGs?

I guess some must have a go at something else (love, civvy job, starting a business etc) and that doesn't work out for whatever reason. Some foreign SP's obviously don't have the right to stay in the UK, so they would have to leave after six months (max) when their extended visa runs out, then often come back when permitted by visa rules.

Unless they have a really compelling reason, I suspect that leaving is too hard for many SP's, they obviously make good "net" money.

e.g. - https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=393853.msg4049868#msg4049868

[jimbobted]

I've known several that have left completely.
I'm sure some keep getting drawn back to it for the money, but many leave and that's that.
Sooner or later the looks will fade anyway.

[MLawro93]

Sure they can. I know plenty who have quit the business. Some do return, but it really does depend on the why. Some enjoy the kink, others the money, and the smart ones always have a exit strategy in place.

[Colston36]

I have punted a few WGs who quit the game for 6 months and ended up getting back in the game, under a new profile new name etc . I have also punted WGs who quit to get married & also punted very beautiful young WGs who only done it for less than a year & completely disappeared

Do WGs struggle to give up the fast easy money? Majority of the WGs that quit, usually are back months later.

Same way punters struggle to give it up for good. Once a punter, always a punter. Does it apply to WGs?

[hendrix]

Of the top of my head I can think of 4 that have definitely quit as their lives changed, or they achieved their desired financial outcome from escorting. I'm sure the money is difficult to give up for many, but the good ones I know usually have an exit plan, unless there's no compelling reason to quit.

[Colston36]

On what do you base yoir statement that the majority do? Some do; some don't. I know two very well who have. And many others have. One only has to look at records of past punts to realise that.

[Stevelondon]

I personally know of four SP’s I used to see, who left the business for one reason or another. I still keep in contact with two and very happy in their new lives they are too.
Of the other two I know they simply left the business to go into other lines of work ( unrelated to selling sex )

As for me giving it up. I wouldn’t struggle if I had too, cos it would simply be a case of me having run out of cash or being too old to enjoy it anymore.

[RandomGuy99]

I think SPs can give it up fairly easily.

Obviously it's difficult for them to give up the constant stream of amazing sex every day, but they can probably wean themselves off the sex.

They work to achieve their goals. Once they've met them then they retire from being an SP and go do something else. If they can put away £1 million as one told me she had then that gives you financial security. You could do a job you enjoy to pay your basic bills and invest the cash and live off the interest.

[willie loman]

alas the majority leave sooner or later, thats why you should fill your boots if a good one appears, comparativley few suffer from the frank sinatra syndrome.(retiring and coming back a few weeks later)

[Southernbloke]

I have heard that some ex WGs still occasionally see some of their more nicer or richer regulars. Never had that privilege myself but I can understand it

[lewisjones23]

If they are clever with their money then yes, it is possible

If they burn through it on drink, drugs, designer clothes, bags or holidays then no, it makes it a lot harder to walk away from the easy cash.

I know one WG that I saw a few times has been ' retired ' about 5 times but always comes back.

There is one WG that I have seen that I wish would spend her money and unretire, would pay a high price for more meetings with her, to be honest, if I had contact details for her I'd be tempted to offer stupid amounts for a punt

[mrwhite]

There are 31 pages here of girls who have left and not been seen in the business again:
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=155417.0

Maybe some do come back - but some very obviously do quit forever.

[PilotMan]

There are 31 pages here of girls who have left and not been seen in the business again:
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=155417.0

Maybe some do come back - but some very obviously do quit forever.

They will have to quit at some point in time, but many try to quit a few times, before they finally succeed.

[scutty brown]

Daft question, how on earth can you generalise?
We now live in a reality where many of us can expect to work in a variety of industries over our lives. I've had three completely different careers, changing direction every 15 years or so. It makes life interesting.
There's no reason why girls involved in sex work can't do the same. Get to a certain age, hit a mental brick wall, change life and lifestyle, change careers. But it's different for everyone. Different horizons, different targets in life, different capabilities, different outlooks. Some will be able to make the change, some may not. But all are different

[Thephoenix]

Daft question, how on earth can you generalise?
We now live in a reality where many of us can expect to work in a variety of industries over our lives. I've had three completely different careers, changing direction every 15 years or so. It makes life interesting.
There's no reason why girls involved in sex work can't do the same. Get to a certain age, hit a mental brick wall, change life and lifestyle, change careers. But it's different for everyone. Different horizons, different targets in life, different capabilities, different outlooks. Some will be able to make the change, some may not. But all are different

It's a bit like the other posts.:
Can WGs have long term relationships, get married etc etc as nauseam?
Every WG is different and it's pointless to generalise.

IT DEPENDS!

[Billy no mates]

I still know personally a girl who quit and hadn't hit her financial goals, just realised it was not for her.

This was around 10yrs ago, so I suppose she may go back (late 30’s now), but I highly doubt it.

[Doc Holliday]

Daft question, how on earth can you generalise?
We now live in a reality where many of us can expect to work in a variety of industries over our lives. I've had three completely different careers, changing direction every 15 years or so. It makes life interesting.
There's no reason why girls involved in sex work can't do the same. Get to a certain age, hit a mental brick wall, change life and lifestyle, change careers. But it's different for everyone. Different horizons, different targets in life, different capabilities, different outlooks. Some will be able to make the change, some may not. But all are different

This^

It's a bit like the other posts.:
Can WGs have long term relationships, get married etc etc as nauseam?
Every WG is different and it's pointless to generalise.

IT DEPENDS!

and this ^

I have known some who are notorious perennial returners, but they are a small minority of the total who stop.

Once a punter always a punter is not the same concept ... a punter is driven by the power of sexual urges, an SP is not.

It is ironic that this thread is running alongside the one about declining numbers of SPs especially the home grown variety. 

[signy]

Slightly tangential, but I have talked to two escorts recently who have told me about their business and property portfolio. Buying flats from which to work, renting them to other WGs to cover costs, and then once financially sound, adding another flat, and so on. Once established they then became more flexible, continuing to rent to WGs, or renting as AirBnBs, or renting on a short-term lease depending on the financial climate at any time.

They were at slightly different stages in the process (one was in her late 20s, one mid 30s), but they had a solid plan that would allow them to retire by the time they were 40 and then live in comfort off the property income. I can't see either of them coming back after they quit.

[Atlas1957]

It's a bit like the other posts.:
Can WGs have long term relationships, get married etc etc as nauseam?
Every WG is different and it's pointless to generalise.

IT DEPENDS!

You can probably shorten a lot of these kinds of questions to "Are WGs human?!?" which is similar to posts you see on other social media that boil down to "Huh, who knew women had their own independent thoughts and feelings just like men?"

On the topic, one thing to consider is whether the WG is lying to you (in person or via putting I'm quitting in her AW bio) when she says she is quitting or if she is lying to herself knowingly or unknowingly.

Or maybe she isn't telling you anything and instead you are assuming she is quitting when she deletes her AW profile or stops working in a parlour. You might assume they quit, but if you could have a conversation with that WG they might just tell you they are taking a break of an undetermind length. When they return six months later, you might then say "wow these WGs are bad at quitting" when in reality they are good at taking breaks.

[Mr Sinister]

There are 31 pages here of girls who have left and not been seen in the business again:
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=155417.0

Maybe some do come back - but some very obviously do quit forever.

Yeah pretty much this not sure why OPs question was asked, whenever you see a WG always got to assume she'll leave the game eventually, sometimes you speak to some wgs who obviously have their heads screwed on and have a plan to get out.

There's probably 2-3 wgs in my punting lifetime I'd love to see again but I know 100% they gone.

[signy]

On the topic, one thing to consider is whether the WG is lying to you (in person or via putting I'm quitting in her AW bio) when she says she is quitting or if she is lying to herself knowingly or unknowingly.

I am always suspicious that a WG putting this in her profile is just trying drum up business. "See me soon or I will be gone" encouragement to get on and book. Months later they are saying the same thing.

It's a fair strategy to get shunted up a punter's to-do list.
 

[willie loman]

one thing i wish i had learned earlier, is exchange contact details with girls you get on with, it doesnt commit either of you, but gives you the option of seeing her, if she wants, when she" retires," a fair number of girls go off grid for a bit, and then definitely stop.

[Thephoenix]

On the topic, one thing to consider is whether the WG is lying to you (in person or via putting I'm quitting in her AW bio) when she says she is quitting or if she is lying to herself knowingly or unknowingly.

Who are the best liars?
WGs or punters?

That could be another 32 pages.

It's a funny ol' game! 

[mandy18]

I know a few who have quit, Pissed off I am

[theaccountant]

It depends on the SP and their reasons for escorting in the first place. The SPs that I know to have truly quit had an exit plan and have stuck to it. Earn XXXX amount for XXXX reason and then quit. The end.

The few I know have "quit" (i.e. stopped advertising) still escort in the background, of which I have two that I see on the regular. Their exit strategies were never thought out or grounded in reality.

I would have forgotten about them after my final visit until they randomly drop me a message asking if I wanted to come and see them. Once I ask how much you want me to bring (I've forgotten their rates by this point) and they give me a £XXX amount, I know they haven't quit.

[Doc Holliday]

It's interesting that people are concentrating on the financial exit plan, which is relevant, but nobody has mentioned that a fair few, stop because they begin a new relationship. The latter like any relationships may be successful or fail and if so is another reason they then return.

Having checked my 'meagre' five reviews from 2019, only one is still working albeit in a different geographical area. Another is retired but still doing Cam work only. The other three have gone, two almost certainly unlikely to ever return.

[theaccountant]

True, some SPs quit because they begin a new relationship. And I agree that some may return back to escorting if the relationship fails or for another reason.

Though, there are SPs who still escort while being in a relationship without telling their partner (or so I'm told )

[marc_hotsteppa]

I know a few who have quit, Pissed off I am

Alright Yoda, calm down lad...

[Maak]

Once a punter always a punter is not the same concept ... a punter is driven by the power of sexual urges, an SP is not.

A SP is driven by desire for quick, easy & lots of money.

[PilotMan]

A SP is driven by desire for quick, easy & lots of money.

What a well thought out response 

[Lou2019]

What a well thought out response 

It’s not a well executed comment but true in a round about way. I’ve returned when civvie jobs have taken the toll etc, obviously the bills aren’t gonna pay themselves. I guess in a strange kind of way we are lucky to have this to fall back on.

[jimbobted]

True, some SPs quit because they begin a new relationship. And I agree that some may return back to escorting if the relationship fails or for another reason.

Though, there are SPs who still escort while being in a relationship without telling their partner (or so I'm told )

Yep one girl I saw regularly took down her AW, but her whoring WhatsApp number still worked and I set up a couple of further meetings that way. She had indeed got a boyfriend but was still doing the odd booking. If anything she was even more fun than before she had a bloke.
And then she killed the whoring WhatsApp number and that was that 

[Bonker]

Very difficult question to answer and respond to.

You may as well ask if tautology can be avoided.

[PilotMan]

You may as well ask if tautology can be avoided.

Just repeating what he said

[Hobbit]

I have punted a few WGs who quit the game for 6 months and ended up getting back in the game, under a new profile new name etc . I have also punted WGs who quit to get married & also punted very beautiful young WGs who only done it for less than a year & completely disappeared

Do WGs struggle to give up the fast easy money? Majority of the WGs that quit, usually are back months later.

Same way punters struggle to give it up for good. Once a punter, always a punter. Does it apply to WGs?

Some do quit as long as they find financial security. The video below will answer your question.

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[Doc Holliday]

It’s not a well executed comment but true in a round about way. I’ve returned when civvie jobs have taken the toll etc, obviously the bills aren’t gonna pay themselves. I guess in a strange kind of way we are lucky to have this to fall back on.

Yes I agree, The point I was making is that to earn an income there are many potential alternative options ... unlike for punters where sexual pleasure is the driver. I would never describe sex work as 'easy money' and many retire either temporarily or permanently because they are burnt out 

[Hobbit]

Yes I agree, The point I was making is that to earn an income there are many potential alternative options ... unlike for punters where sexual pleasure is the driver. I would never describe sex work as 'easy money' and many retire either temporarily or permanently because they are burnt out 

It's easy in some ways than doing a 9-to-5 job. They can choose the hours they work, how much they want to charge, and for some not pay tax. The benefits do outweigh the cons.

[Doc Holliday]

It's easy in some ways than doing a 9-to-5 job. They can choose the hours they work, how much they want to charge, and for some not pay tax. The benefits do outweigh the cons.

I agree it can be flexible and a lucrative hourly rate although that assumes you are truly independently self employed, which we know is not always the case.

Regarding balancing pros with the cons I assume you would be happy with an overweight smelly and unskilled stranger pounding away at your back passage for 15 minutes.or more?  Then there are the timewasters etc.

If it was easy we wouldn't have the thread about declining numbers and there would be way more than the current number of women working.

[Hobbit]

I agree it can be flexible and a lucrative hourly rate although that assumes you are truly independently self employed, which we know is not always the case.

Regarding balancing pros with the cons I assume you would be happy with an overweight smelly and unskilled stranger pounding away at your back passage for 15 minutes.or more?  Then there are the timewasters etc.

If it was easy we wouldn't have the thread about declining numbers and there would be way more than the current number of women working.

But it all comes down to choice at the end of the day. If you desperately need the money and are willing to have an overweight smelly stranger pounding you then you would do that. Nobody is forcing these girls to make the choice of being an escort apart from life's circumstances.

There are parts of every job that are not great but we all have to comply depending on our financial requirements.

The decline of girls is down to many reasons and blaming it on overweight, smelly men is a tad unfair in my opinion.

[Doc Holliday]

The decline of girls is down to many reasons and blaming it on overweight, smelly men is a tad unfair in my opinion.

It's just the one guy ... he gets around a lot 

My objection is simply the use of the word 'easy' ... it is not. This can indeed apply to other occupations including my own and I had to get up close and personal with my fair share of overweight smelly men, but I did not have to have sex with them ... well very few anyway and only the private patients 

[Hobbit]

It's just the one guy ... he gets around a lot 

My objection is simply the use of the word 'easy' ... it is not. This can indeed apply to other occupations including my own and I had to get up close and personal with my fair share of overweight smelly men, but I did not have to have sex with them ... well very few anyway and only the private patients 

Well, maybe it's the way you perceive words. For example, the word easy may come across to be without no stress at all. However, there is no such thing. The only time it gets easy is when we die, that is the easiest it will ever get.

So, perhaps we should change the word easy to "not so difficult".

[Punting2022]

Love threads like this.
I guess it depends how much they love the cash, Some girls are so money minded they will have a full time job, still escort.
Quitting is a paycut to them. Quit for relationship or another full time job. They will miss that instant cash in hand tax free income.
Girls have a lifestyle, once they are used to it they dont cut down.

Us men, if we take a paycut etc, we just change our lifestyle. less drinks at the pub. sell the car. spend less on escorts.

And 100 percent they will still see rich ex clients.

[Blackpool_Mark]

Don't know why I'm commenting  as everyone has already said it.

It's all down to the individual and their personal situation.

There is a few who I have seen in the past that have quit as it was only a short term plan or they couldn't guarantee the amount they would earn in a month etc. and moved on and were done with it.

Then there are those who come back...

The regular I used to see until recently entered a relationship and quit then came back (although only part time and her partner won't let her see certain people, such as myself. Still not sure if I should mention it on a thread / review or not yet).

But, for her it must work best with her current situation.

Either way it's gutting when a decent SP quits as the selection round my way is crap at the moment  )

[PilotMan]

Us men, if we take a paycut etc, we just change our lifestyle. less drinks at the pub. sell the car. spend less on escorts.

You speak for yourself, not "Us" Men.

And 100 percent they will still see rich ex clients.

If you are 100 percent, pleae provide your evidence.

[MadMonk67]

I know at least one Thai SP who's gone straight. I know because she was my regular visit for a while before  I discovered this site. she married and about 18 months later stopped working and went back to Thailand and her and her husband became landlords.

[Colston36]

A SP is driven by desire for quick, easy & lots of money.

So are we all. And as we grow up we discover that "lots of money" rarely comes quickly or easily.

[Thephoenix]

I know at least one Thai SP who's gone straight.

I don't think we can readily assume a WGs sexuality.

[Hobbit]

So are we all. And as we grow up we discover that "lots of money" rarely comes quickly or easily.

That is not true and is a generalisation. You wanting easy and quick money does not apply to everyone. Not everybody desires lots of money. It's all about what values your parents give you and what you learned from life.

Too many people (especially women) nowadays are living with entitled mentalities with very little value system due to not having good parents or not being given life skills at an early age. People rarely change when they get older so some hookers may still behave in the same manner as before.

[willie loman]

That is not true and is a generalisation. You wanting easy and quick money does not apply to everyone. Not everybody desires lots of money. It's all about what values your parents give you and what you learned from life.

Too many people (especially women) nowadays are living with entitled mentalities with very little value system due to not having good parents or not being given life skills at an early age. People rarely change when they get older so some hookers may still behave in the same manner as before.

yes if you are not taught the rules at an early age, adult life will be difficult.