What should I look for next?

[Bat]

I started punting in the middle of Jan. Something I’d been considering seriously for quite a while but never taken the plunge. However, after some major life events, I decided I wanted to try lots of things out before I was simply too old to be able to do them.

Since then, I’ve seen 7 different SPs across 12 punts. All of them quite different in their own way:

Brazilian, blonde, mid 40’s, great body, slow & sensual.

English, blonde, mid 50’s, great body, great fun and lovely personality.

Caribbean, black, 40’s, sensual massage & CIM.

English, blonde, 50’s, old school ‘tart’ & DT pro.

Thai, 40’s, tight fit body.

Romanian, 20’s, amazing body.

English, 50’s, natural, MILF next door.

So the question is, and I’m not being desperately serious here, what do I look for next?

African or Middle Eastern, for different skin colour/culture etc., looks obvious but don’t seem to be readily available that local to me (South East)?

Try a big change and seek out a, mild, TS experience?

Maybe experiment with ‘kinks’ rather than the more vanilla type sex I’ve looked for so far?

Hit me up with some suggestions

[alabama1]

Maybe try a threesome.   

[Bat]

Maybe try a threesome.   

Good call, I have a tentative booking with 2 of the above in a couple of week’s time 😉

[alabama1]

Good call, I have a tentative booking with 2 of the above in a couple of week’s time 😉

Great, hope all goes well. I have had a few. Always found them to be more of a mental turn on rather, than a physical one. I think they are overrated , if i am honest, but something you have to try.

[Bat]

Great, hope all goes well. I have had a few. Always found them to be more of a mental turn on rather, than a physical one. I think they are overrated , if i am honest, but something you have to try.

I have a feeling that would be the same with me. It was a comment from one of the girls that got me excited - “imagine me sitting on your face and you playing with my tits whilst xxx is sucking your cock”.

I’ve replayed his conversation a few times and pictures the scene in as much detail as I can muster 😂

[Cum_again]

Good call, I have a tentative booking with 2 of the above in a couple of week’s time 😉

There is genuinely no better sight than looking down at your cock and seeing two attractive young women, one sucking each ball after having lezzed off with each other


 

[JontyR]

You've had a great start to the hobby and, fair play, lots of reviews. All of them positive

Maybe...just take a rest and contemplate all you've done?

Plenty of punters have had a regretful punt when they've booked something where the decision has been in haste, more often when faced by a cancellation true. But it may be that when the motivation is just to do the next one - rather than being a good one - is higher that the chances of a neg are higher too. 

Maybe consider the above whilst having a massage?

That being said, listen to all the advice and then do what you were going to anyway!! 

[Bat]

You've had a great start to the hobby and, fair play, lots of reviews. All of them positive

Maybe...just take a rest and contemplate all you've done?

Plenty of punters have had a regretful punt when they've booked something where the decision has been in haste, more often when faced by a cancellation true. But it may be that when the motivation is just to do the next one - rather than being a good one - is higher that the chances of a neg are higher too. 

Maybe consider the above whilst having a massage?

That being said, listen to all the advice and then do what you were going to anyway!!

Great advice - I do feel like I’ve launched myself into the punting world with a fairly reckless abandon (although I do research the girls fairly thoroughly).

Without going into all the history (medical stuff), there was a specific reason for trying to move so quickly. However, this has partly gone away so I don’t need to push myself so hard.

I am determined I try lots of different experiences though

[wristjob]

Over the years I've changed what I want out of punting. Iwent through phases of 30 mins 1 pop being great, then 60 mins 2-pop, trying different things I never expected to try, different body types. I never really did anything for a bucket list kind of reason bur over time new things pique your curiosity. Some were great, some just weren't for me and at times I was just bored of punting. Maybe that's what you are feeling now, having hit it hard and fast.

I'd say do what you feel you want to do, and if that's a break do that. Don't feel you need to do anything to tick a box.

[alabama1]

Over the years I've changed what I want out of punting. Iwent through phases of 30 mins 1 pop being great, then 60 mins 2-pop, trying different things I never expected to try, different body types. I never really did anything for a bucket list kind of reason bur over time new things pique your curiosity. Some were great, some just weren't for me and at times I was just bored of punting. Maybe that's what you are feeling now, having hit it hard and fast.

I'd say do what you feel you want to do, and if that's a break do that. Don't feel you need to do anything to tick a box.

I have been there. Punting because i can, not because i want to.

[Jonestown]

Try a Soho walk up before they all disappear;

Try somewhere with a line up;

Visit a continental RDL

Try a German FKK

A pilgrimage to Milton Keynes

Swiss Cottage San Ling for the Chinese experience.

[twotight]

personally I like the like/dislike bar on AW search has quite a long list of stuff to try out

[Colston36]

Great, hope all goes well. I have had a few. Always found them to be more of a mental turn on rather, than a physical one. I think they are overrated , if i am honest, but something you have to try.

Actually getting a couple let alone three people to do PRECISELY what you want is very hard. And very hard is not always guaranteed for an old fart like me - I'd say 20% of the time I either don't get or don't maintain an erection. The key is detailed research, which is what makes UKP so priceless, and precise details of what you want. Don't settle for vague promises of endless delights! It has taken me eight years to arrive at a few I can rely on.

[Steely Dan]

Hit me up with some suggestions

A party.
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[Bat]

Try a Soho walk up before they all disappear;

Try somewhere with a line up;

Visit a continental RDL

Try a German FKK

A pilgrimage to Milton Keynes

Swiss Cottage San Ling for the Chinese experience.

I worked in Soho for many years. Got to know a few of the club strippers (in fact I shared a flat with a girl from the Raymond Revue Bar who also did glamour work for Men Only & Penthouse). I’ve been approached on the street a few times but never said yes.

I will almost certainly be in Frankfurt later this year and the FKK scene looks fascinating, if a little intimidating at first. Some great reviews here to help me though

Chinese massage parlour could be fun. I’ve visited Seoul a couple of times for work and was too scared to try out a Korean massage place. One of my Korean clients even volunteered to pay and handle translation for me. How dumb was I to turn that down 🤦‍♂️

I keep seeing MK pop up as an area with a lot of WGs. I’ve not really looked at those as it’s a bit of a trek, albeit still in SE. The thought of a ‘pilgrimage’ sounds fun 😂

[Bat]

A party.
External Link/Members Only

Can’t get the page to load at the moment but will take a look. It’s another thing that I might find intimidating, but then, I was asking for new experiences and this would definitely fit the bill!

[joshwinkers]

I worked in Soho for many years. Got to know a few of the club strippers (in fact I shared a flat with a girl from the Raymond Revue Bar who also did glamour work for Men Only & Penthouse). I’ve been approached on the street a few times but never said yes.

That's almost certainly for the best, I've been approached a load of times as well (though not for about ten years or so) and always said no too, but have heard from many people online that at best you're going to get someone who fucks off with your money, and at worst possibly mugged with violence involved.

The walk up's are a whole other kettle of fish and I've never had any problems with them, though the quality of service varies enormously.

[Fkk]

I worked in Soho for many years. Got to know a few of the club strippers (in fact I shared a flat with a girl from the Raymond Revue Bar who also did glamour work for Men Only & Penthouse). I’ve been approached on the street a few times but never said yes.

I will almost certainly be in Frankfurt later this year and the FKK scene looks fascinating, if a little intimidating at first. Some great reviews here to help me though

Chinese massage parlour could be fun. I’ve visited Seoul a couple of times for work and was too scared to try out a Korean massage place. One of my Korean clients even volunteered to pay and handle translation for me. How dumb was I to turn that down 🤦‍♂️

I keep seeing MK pop up as an area with a lot of WGs. I’ve not really looked at those as it’s a bit of a trek, albeit still in SE. The thought of a ‘pilgrimage’ sounds fun 😂

Go to FKK Sharks or Oase I end of May beginning of June. I arrive about 2 or 3 in the afternoon. Laid outside near the pool and watch the girls parade around with just stripper heels on.
Fantastic spectacle. They did a roast ox on a spit and also do a bbq as well.

Club turns into nightclub in the evening.

Brilliant day/night

[Dipper]

I worked in Soho for many years. Got to know a few of the club strippers (in fact I shared a flat with a girl from the Raymond Revue Bar who also did glamour work for Men Only & Penthouse).

RR bar and the wank mags of my youth.  What a great blast of nostalgia that has given me. I’m fairly sure the bar was advertised in every mag back then. Sticks firmly in mind. 

[Bat]

RR bar and the wank mags of my youth.  What a great blast of nostalgia that has given me. I’m fairly sure the bar was advertised in every mag back then. Sticks firmly in mind. 

You may well have wanked to my old flatmate - she was quite a babe 😂

It was very disconcerting when she used to bring advance copies of the mags home and lay them out on the coffee table and ask me what I thought of her pics.

She also tried out some of her stripping routines in the living room.

I was just a 19/20 year old student and very naive. Her boyfriend had some seriously heavy mates too.

It was only after I moved out that she told me she wasn’t sure if I was gay or not and she was genuinely trying to seduce me. Also that her boyfriend and her had a very ‘open’ relationship and they both openly had other partners and engaged in many 3somes. In fact, she left him for one of the girls who often joined them and they lived together for many years afterwards

[RandomGuy99]

You may well have wanked to my old flatmate - she was quite a babe 😂

It was very disconcerting when she used to bring advance copies of the mags home and lay them out on the coffee table and ask me what I thought of her pics.

She also tried out some of her stripping routines in the living room.

I was just a 19/20 year old student and very naive. Her boyfriend had some seriously heavy mates too.

It was only after I moved out that she told me she wasn’t sure if I was gay or not and she was genuinely trying to seduce me. Also that her boyfriend and her had a very ‘open’ relationship and they both openly had other partners and engaged in many 3somes. In fact, she left him for one of the girls who often joined them and they lived together for many years afterwards

Face palm

[RandomGuy99]

How about cuckolding?

You pay and watch and I shag the escort. I'll do it for free. You pay the escort.

Deal?

[versace]

How about cuckolding?

You pay and watch and I shag the escort. I'll do it for free. You pay the escort.

Deal?

 

[Bat]

Chinese experience.

Now added to the list. Probably wouldn't have considered this had you not mentioned it but I gave it a try & it was excellent. Will definitely be a repeat performance!

[Bat]

How about cuckolding?

You pay and watch and I shag the escort. I'll do it for free. You pay the escort.

Deal?

BTAW checks reviews for absolute worst shag from an escort ever. . .

[Bat]

Face palm

Tell me about it, 40 years later and it remains top of my "how could have been so dumb" list 

The biggest concern was the boyfriend. He worked in the 'interesting substances' business & knew some seriously heavy minders. I had a deep fear of meeting one of them down a dark alley late one night. . .

[RandomGuy99]

Tell me about it, 40 years later and it remains top of my "how could have been so dumb" list 

The biggest concern was the boyfriend. He worked in the 'interesting substances' business & knew some seriously heavy minders. I had a deep fear of meeting one of them down a dark alley late one night. . .

I've had a few of those moments too. You do wonder what could of been, but you can't wind back the hands of time.

[Captainhowdy666]

Time to take a cock on your ass.

[ulstersubbie]

Maybe experiment with ‘kinks’ rather than the more vanilla type sex I’ve looked for so far?

Good idea, but go in gently as fetish/kink/BDSM isn't for everyone. 

[Cum_again]

Good idea, but go in gently as fetish/kink/BDSM isn't for everyone. 

Yeah, diving straight into Roman showers probably isn’t the best idea 

[ulstersubbie]

Yeah, diving straight into Roman showers probably isn’t the best idea 

You are a wit sir!   

[Davey80]

Sounds like you are off to a great start. I really get the variety is the spice of life thing. 

My last 5 punts were:

English Busty Milf
Black Canadian Girl with huge natural tits
EE (Romanian) Threesome
Brazilian Diva Young Hottie
Asian (Thai) Milf

That’s just not possible in civvy life!

[Bat]

Sounds like you are off to a great start. I really get the variety is the spice of life thing. 

My last 5 punts were:

English Busty Milf
Black Canadian Girl with huge natural tits
EE (Romanian) Threesome
Brazilian Diva Young Hottie
Asian (Thai) Milf

That’s just not possible in civvy life!

Exactly! In fact, I’m at the age where none of the girls I’ve seen would be possible in civvy life (well, maybe one of them).

I have 2 more already lined up. Both offering something a little different  as well

[Bat]

Yeah, diving straight into Roman showers probably isn’t the best idea 

I actually had to look this one up - I’m definitely not at that level 🙈

[rocket88]

Hit me up with some suggestions


A visit to Tanya Cheex?

[Stevelondon]

The world is your oyster young man. 

[Joball87]

Try out some different things as other suggest, if not already done eg WS, facials, public meets, invites to office for semi Real role-playing, take to a swinger club, do a pretend pick up in a bar, invite your partner or mate along etc etc - really are loads and almost limitless options. Is why I find this thing is so addictive and you need to take stock and ration the passion a bit.

[Bat]

Had my first bad experience this evening. Review to follow. . .

[RandomGuy99]

Had my first bad experience this evening. Review to follow. . .

Sorry about that. We need to try that cuckolding again. Next time I won't eat baked beans before the booking.

[sim0256]

Sorry about that. We need to try that cuckolding again. Next time I won't eat baked beans before the booking.

AGAIN!!!???

[Bat]

Had my first bad experience this evening. Review to follow. . .

After this dodgy experience I returned to visit a previous girl that had offered something a bit special. My 2nd time with her was even better than the 1st and, as she’s just 20 mins away from me, I think she’ll be a definite regular.

I’ve also re-booked another previous girl and, much to my amazement, am due to see the SP at the absolute top of my HL later this week.

I have to say that I’m absolutely loving this new world and, whilst I’m also a freelance SP, albeit in a very different sphere of employment, I’m able to afford lots of new experiences