Has your OH ever questioned your new sexual skills (developed through punting)?

[tantraman]

Since I've recently become more adventurous with my punting (thanks to UKP ), going way beyond my usual FBSM and HR, I nearly gave the game away to my OH last night.

Sex, or rather love-making with my OH is naturally quite vanilla, rarely straying beyond missionary and/or cowgirl positions. As a rare treat, and if I beg hard enough, I might get lucky with reverse cowgirl or even doggy. Last night, during "business time", I inadvertently found myself trying to prone bone my OH (reminiscent of my recent sexual awakening with Ameera ... must get that review done!), a position we've never been in ... my OH slapped my cock out of her thigh gap, bolted around, and quizzed me as to what I was trying to do!?!

I think a babbled a joke ... something about watching too much internet porn ... but mainly managed to distract her with kisses and cuddling, before slipping in her to wrap up in missionary, as boringly usual. All the while, I was thinking that was close!

My question to fellow punters is ... Has your OH ever questioned or found suspicious your new sexual techniques/positions, which you may have inadvertently sprung on her (as you relive a fab punt or two)?

[tantric talents]

Actually quite an interesting question.
It's been so long since I have had sex with the OH, if it ever happened I am sure she would be surprised and highly confused and it might well just give the game away! On the other hand , the "watched a bit of porn" excuse might just tip the balance into some novel mutual pleasure?

Nah,who am I kidding! At the moment I enjoy this hobby too much and as long as I can afford it, and am able to enjoy it, will continue to meet younger and more nubile ladies  for pleasure

[piz111]

Lol, i think about this all the time... ! I think she thinks it just gets better with time.. 

[piz111]

but thankfully not yet...

[hungrypunt]

Last night, during "business time",

Business time,  course shes gonna be suspicious if you try and give her money man 

I inadvertently found myself trying to prone bone my OH (reminiscent of my recent sexual awakening with Ameera ... must get that review done!), a position we've never been in ... my OH slapped my cock out of her thigh gap, bolted around, and quizzed me as to what I was trying to do!?!

It at this point I would have pinned her down and said" take it like the slut you want to be",

Shed have wondered where you have learned that and loved it

[HarryZZ]

The problem with OH sex is that over the years you get into a comfortable routine, a punt is like an adventure where you want to try lots of things and that's probably like where you started out with your OH back when it was all new and exciting.

When I've tried to change things up due to punting experiences she's always been very willing, punting has actually improved our marital sex life.

[Roulette]

Dude - you've got a guilty mind. She was probably worried you were going for anal. You should've just said it's ok I can reach. By blabbering about porn you probably confirmed in her mind that you wanted anal and she'll be extra wary now.

[dubs]

Has anyone's OH suggested or done something new and you wondered where did she learn that?

[myothernameis]

Don't have a OH, but one year went out with someone in my work, ended up giving her cunnilingus, and she said, oh my god that's amazing, where did you learn to do that; I just told practise, practise, practise, and some porn videos, and 30 years later, he rest is history

[hendrix]

I haven't learned any new skills, that's the joy of punting! I don't need to

[Blackpool Rock]

Sex, or rather love-making with my OH is naturally quite vanilla

Ah yes i'd forgotten about "making love", isn't that something a woman does while a bloke is shagging her 

Good job you didn't slip into a punting role play or she may really have suspected something 

[fredpunter]

Has anyone's OH suggested or done something new and you wondered where did she learn that?

Would be a red letter day if she ever suggested doing something old!

[welshpunter17]

Nope but she's questioned my lack of interest in her quite a few times... Almost becoming a daily occurrence..

[dubs]

Nope but she's questioned my lack of interest in her quite a few times... Almost becoming a daily occurrence..

Yeah me too. It's like she wants to think she is still sexually attractive but doesn't want to go through with the act of actually having to open her legs.

[Stalinator]

Would be a red letter day if she ever suggested doing something old!

Absolutely. I am down to Birthdays and Christmas only at this stage. And I normally punt on my birthday. 

[hungrypunt]

My Other half....EX, who Ive fucked at functions when we have met has aquired a crackin ability to get her throat fucked, I knew I should have stayed 

[Mansell]

Sex with the OH, what a novel idea. Been so long I've forgotten how to do it normally 

[azrael]

To answer op's question, my other half knows im a perv and blames it on my obsession of porn im  lucky in that sense i guess

[Sedition]

Again sex with the OH is a distant memory. Shame because she was a goer in her day.
I did however hear of the reverse situation from a WG:
She said that on the rare occasion that she dates she has to reign herself in little in case the bloke wonders where the fuck did she learn that!

[claretandblue]

No its strictly owo then mish with the other half,I keep all my other likes for punting 

[CityTillIDie]

Divorced now
But when still together, there was a spell of perhaps six months without much action, during which time I did a LOT of punting and really really really indulged my taste for giving oral.

So when I ended up going down on the OH, she was astonished at some of the new techniques I had perfected and commented. I just said I was experimenting and went back to giving oral the way she liked (and remembered!) it

Oops!

CTID

[vt]

Yeah me too. It's like she wants to think she is still sexually attractive but doesn't want to go through with the act of actually having to open her legs.

Sheesh, only a woman could have that kind of twisted thought process...like you should be begging her for it because she's so irresistibly sexy, just so she can hold the reins of power and have the pleasure of refusing your advances! 

[Plan R]

Sheesh, only a woman could have that kind of twisted thought process...like you should be begging her for it because she's so irresistibly sexy, just so she can hold the reins of power and have the pleasure of refusing your advances! 

+1 My thoughts exactly reading this..
Always remember gentlemen - she's the victim not you                 
Every 'dead bed' sexless marriage is entirely the male partners fault cos he was too [x] or not enough [y] or he 'just didn't get it' or..or.. some ol bollox

[Jibbi]

My question to fellow punters is ... Has your OH ever questioned or found suspicious your new sexual techniques/positions, which you may have inadvertently sprung on her (as you relive a fab punt or two)?

No but then again I've always been a natural born stud 

[sparkus]

Have to admit those TCM women have got my RO skills up to another level.  Never too old to learn!

[Puntingonandoff]

I like to do some choking, neck grabbing and hair pulling with a wg, all fairly standard dom stuff. In vanilla sex with my OH, she hates having her neck touched, I am well aware of that and know to avoid it. But it seemed to have slipped my mind last time, and she did ask why I kept grabbing at her neck when she was on top.
I apologised when in truth it had been so long since we'd fucked I'd pretty much forgotten

[Home Alone]

My OH pissed off 18 months or so before my 1st punt; but coincidentally yesterday, I was laughing with my Regular that the OH wouldn't believe her eyes if she'd seen what the Regular and I  were getting up to.

[JamesKW]

She said that on the rare occasion that she dates she has to reign herself in little in case the bloke wonders where the fuck did she learn that!

Don't understand the logic there,I presume most civvies would assume she had been with a number of other civvies and picked up her skills then.

I try not to do anything inadvertent with the OH.I do make lots of suggestions for services that are not offered, but she puts that down to me being a pervert.

[Whoisarrypotter]

The problem with OH sex is that over the years you get into a comfortable routine, a punt is like an adventure where you want to try lots of things and that's probably like where you started out with your OH back when it was all new and exciting.

When I've tried to change things up due to punting experiences she's always been very willing, punting has actually improved our marital sex life.

I agree with this one sex with the oh had become very dull no owo no cowgirl in fact I did all the oral and pounding and thinking I'm some sort of mug it's about time I got some receiving.

So I started punting and have grown quite confident that the last three times with oh I have actually instructed her and she has been compliant and it has stepped up our sex life a notch so I'm getting the best of both.
Funny thing we had a session the other night and afterwards  I did a review in my head on my oh.
In call  home    3 hours  £0   extras owo  cim  anal play
All services was delivered with enthusiasm
Cim? that has never happened even early days didn't even go bareback so bit of a habit there which she didn't even question.
I fucking love punting!

[_Bender_]

WTF IS SEX WITH THE OH!!!

Not done that in over a decade!!! 

[steviex00]

Yeah me too. It's like she wants to think she is still sexually attractive but doesn't want to go through with the act of actually having to open her legs.

We must be married to the same woman!