I don't know if Admin is ok about us providing limited links, but ISG has a dedicated USA site which is punter-orientated instead of being prossie-fandom.
External Link/Members Only. Then there's backpage that many people use and several sites where you have to pay a nominal charge to use them. A general rule in America is that if you punt in a nice area downtown you have a high chance of paying heavily for the privilege. Go down to the hood if you know how, find some lapdance dive or shokey massage parlour packed with black ass and full service at an affordable price is generally not a problem. Remember that it is technically illegal, so there is all the pussyfooting crap before agreeing on service and many agencies and indies expect you to provide I.D. New York was once a sex haven. Now it's a dollar haven, but still one of the more interesting cities in the world. There are some mental swinger clubs in NY apparently and I would like to try them if I go back. Not as much as it was, but still quite an inventive city.