I don't know why I bother posting on this forum at all. My posting was pretty much verbatim what a qualified NHS Nurse Practitioner said to me. He specifically said nothing was 100% safe and you could catch things even with a condom.
Oh stop being a baby. You posted some wishy washy advice from someone who clearly does not understand punting risks. He said - according to you - a punter is "pretty safe" with OW and protected sex which is bullshit. There are multiple STIs which can be transmitted orally or from crotch to crotch contact and if you're risking your entire nut punting then "pretty safe" actually doesn't cut it. As I said I had two STI's within 6 months of each other following the above advice - and as many here will contest I almost entirely saw escorts who are very well reviewed here on UKP - hardly a high risk punter.
So my advice - as the OP asked for the "experience of experienced punters" (not the advice of numpty NHS nurse practitioners which they can get themselves from their GUM clinic) - is if you are attached and risking your entire family life be very careful and don't take any wishy washy advice especially from those who quite possibly look down their noses at punters and certainly haven't a clue about the relative risk that any individual punter may face if they get caught with an STI.
But at the end of the day, as always it's your choice, your risk.