Guys, here is my take on the deposit idea - there are 2 sides to the coin here.
On the one side is the punter who wishes to attend a gangbang. The only one as far as I know within reaching distance of most of the guys on the Wales thread. To show his commitment to attend the party, as opposed to the sad wankers who e-mail and book a place, (even though they have zero intention of actually going), each guy is asked to send a fiver deposit. Not the full contribution, less than the cost of a packet of cigs.
At least 3 of us on this thread have seen either one or the other girl and stated not only how hot they are but what a great time they have received. I have been personally assured that should the party go ahead then the £5 will be refunded into my AW account. Personally if it isn't then fuck it, it's a fiver and I will chalk that one down to experience and move on.
The fact that neither girl have any experience of this should in my mind, make it more likely to be good. (Less likelihood of complacency and more effort by the girls to make the first one a success).
Specifics have changed for the very reason of it being the first one.
On the other side of the coin are the 2 girls who are organising their first gangbang. Neither are experienced in this area but they are not stupid and know that it will only take 2 or 3 guys not to turn up and they will be left out of pocket by a hotel bill which still has to be paid.
To try to ensure that the guys who book turn up, they have decided that a £5 COMMITMENT charge is payable.
In doing so it is more likely that the guys who book actually attend and that the party will not have to be cancelled due to lack of punters, which would mean that the genuine guys have been left down.
I have been partying for around 10 years and the number of times I have heard the organiser phoning around at the last minute to see if the guys are on their way is unreal. I've even heard guys promise that they are 2 streets away and they still don't turn up. No deposit = zero commitment
I just want to go to a party knowing that it will be going ahead because the guys will turn up. If that means that I have to pay a fiver then that is fine.
If it's not for you then fine! Please fuck off and let me and the other guys enjoy themselves