Have you ever fallen in love with a WG?

[IAmNotFamous]

Given the intimacy of the job, it’s bound to happen.

If you fell for Cupid’s bow….what did you do?

[daviemac]

6 pages of it here mate.  https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=339277.0

[SimonSays2108]

Another 3 here ...

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=255438.msg2606576#msg2606576

and yes btw i have - almost cost me my marriage / didn't end well - so a negative review from me 

[Dipper]

No.

It’ll pass within a week or two if you’re sensible.

[daviemac]

Another 3 here ...

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=255438.msg2606576#msg2606576

and yes btw i have - almost cost me my marriage / didn't end well - so a negative review from me 

There's loads of threads on the subject, there's one here from 2015 - https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=67722.0 but I just quoted the one from this year.

[Jumping Jack Flash]

No

[Punting2022]

What do you do if you fell in love with a girl who was not a Escort and has suddenly become one.

[Home Alone]

There's loads of threads on the subject, there's one here from 2015 - https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=67722.0 but I just quoted the one from this year.

And in addition to all the threads mentioned so far, there is a mega-thread on E.A.S. [Emotional Attachment Syndrome], which various gullible punters - myself included - have confused with the real thing.

[Colston36]

Been fond, still am - but love, no.

[lovebigboobz]

I dated one for about couple of months.... Was very fond of her and really enjoyed each others company.

If I was in love with her, I think I'd be in a whole world of poop...

[Dipper]

What do you do if you fell in love with a girl who was not a Escort and has suddenly become one.

Hope that she keeps giving you freebies.

[Thephoenix]

I love them all with all my heart when I'm climaxing, but the love quickly fades to something more resembling mild affection or 'what the fuck was I thinking of'.

[Dipper]

I love them all with all my heart when I'm climaxing, but the love quickly fades to something more resembling mild affection or 'what the fuck was I thinking of'.

This IS punting in a nutshell 

[IAmNotFamous]

6 pages of it here mate.  https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=339277.0

Sorry. It’s my second week on this forum.

Mods are welcome to close this thread or merge with the ones listed?

[Thephoenix]

Sorry. It’s my second week on this forum.

Mods are welcome to close this thread or merge with the ones listed?

Welcome to the forum chum. You'll soon get the hang of things.

[daviemac]

Sorry. It’s my second week on this forum.

Mods are welcome to close this thread or merge with the ones listed?

I understand you're new and are still learning about the site but we've been going 12 years so it's unlikely there is a punting related topic that hasn't been discussed at some stage.

Nothing wrong with rehashing a topic that hasn't been discussed for a while, in fact if you try to reply to a thread over 90 days old there's a warning recommending you start a new one, in fact that would have been the message you got if you tried to post on the thread I linked to. I posted that as a source of information for you on the subject BTW so this won't be merged.

Quite often answers to question can be found using the search function, something that is encouraged. You'll soon get used to the place and if there's anything you aren't sure about then just ask either on the thread or by the Report to moderator link on the right.

[MysteryManNo.7]

Dated one briefly after she asked me out and we fell hard for one another.

Would not recommend it. Since her, nope. No feelings for any escort beyond re-visiting the ones I have good chemistry and am sexually compatible with.

[chatbite]

Dated one briefly after she asked me out and we fell hard for one another.

Would not recommend it. Since her, nope. No feelings for any escort beyond re-visiting the ones I have good chemistry and am sexually compatible with.

Out of interest (and I hope you don't mind the question) how did the fact she was a WG affect your sex life together? I've always been curious about how that works for the likes of WG's and porn stars when they've been at it all day already. Seems weird to think you could have a dead bedroom with someone like that but not totally implausible.

[Atrueyorkie]

In short no. I’ve found a WG extremely attractive to the point I was taken back but there’s a clear distinction between love and lust 

[IAmNotFamous]

I understand you're new and are still learning about the site but we've been going 12 years so it's unlikely there is a punting related topic that hasn't been discussed at some stage.

Nothing wrong with rehashing a topic that hasn't been discussed for a while, in fact if you try to reply to a thread over 90 days old there's a warning recommending you start a new one, in fact that would have been the message you got if you tried to post on the thread I linked to. I posted that as a source of information for you on the subject BTW so this won't be merged.

Quite often answers to question can be found using the search function, something that is encouraged. You'll soon get used to the place and if there's anything you aren't sure about then just ask either on the thread or by the Report to moderator link on the right.

Thanks sir. Your advice is duly noted 👍🏼

[Justjim1987]

No I haven't personally & if I start feeling to close to an SP I see a different one just to play safe.

[MysteryManNo.7]

Out of interest (and I hope you don't mind the question) how did the fact she was a WG affect your sex life together? I've always been curious about how that works for the likes of WG's and porn stars when they've been at it all day already. Seems weird to think you could have a dead bedroom with someone like that but not totally implausible.

At the time I didn't actually care as being in a relationship with someone compared to just having sex with them are two totally different things and that relationship taught me that. I guess it was because I loved the intimacy and vulnerability of being in a relationship whereas when I'm with a SP, even in the nude etc I'm not showing her my true self and she's not doing the same back.

I broke things off even though it really hurt to do so, I was in bits for months afterwards and she was really upset too, for reasons not related to her being an escort. She actually said to me tearfully when we started dating to not ask her to stop escorting as she enjoyed it and it made her loads of money but she would if I asked her to. She even said she didn't mind me continuing to see escorts.

The sex was fine, personally I preferred the intimacy and vulnerability but I can absolutely see had our relationship continued it would no doubt have out a strain on things ie she comes gone from shagging  other men all day and then is too tired to make love with her partner.

I broke things off soon after I realised we had fallen for each other as the longer it went on the harder to get out and messier things would get and the relationship was never going to work long term.

This all happened an was broken off over 4 years ago now so I'm well over her and have learned a lot about myself. I'm glad it happened but I would never again date a sex worker and since then I have caught no feelings for any I've been with even when flirted with outside of the bedroom or asked out. Relationships are hard enough and complicated enough as is.

I've actually had several WGs say to me why on earth would you date an escort lol!

[daviemac]

Thanks sir. Your advice is duly noted 👍🏼

You're more than welcome mate, we're here to help.   

[PaulRuff]

It's hard to imagine falling in love with someone you know is sucking all sorts of cock most days of the week but it does happen, can't beat freebie sex with a WG you know other guys pay to fuck but entering a serious relationship with her?

No fucking chance, she's a cum receptacle and you'd do well to remember that no matter what your mind tries to convince you you're feeling...

[Home Alone]

Well, personally, I've never fallen in love with an SP; but one falling in love with a client cost me my first Regular.

She had three regular clients when she worked in the Parlour - its name escapes me at this length of time (I'm talking the second half of the decade before last) - in Cheetham Hill, Manchester, before going "Indie". Eventually, one of the three of us left his wife for her; but on the condition that she retired from "the industry". (He was in a VERY well-paid job, so she didn't need to go out to work.)

Subsequently, they emigrated to Spain, where the last time I heard - last Christmas - they were still living.

[lewisjones23]

came close to it at one stage but managed to sort my head out before I reached the point of no return.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Strange to think that their are SP's who are in good long term relationships!..

[lillythesavage]

Strange to think that their are SP's who are in good long term relationships!..

Not so strange, rare I would say, but it takes all sorts to make the world go round.

Years ago I moved into the flat of one I met punting, convenient for me as near my work and my flat was not, fucked off back to the flat at weekends with the kids.

Would not say it was love, and she did not work from the flat, was home every evening with her own child, we both just went to work.

Legged it though when she starting getting ideas of marriage 

[IAmNotFamous]

Strange to think that their are SP's who are in good long term relationships!..

Means to an end (lazy boyfriend and girlfriend does the work - often the case with Rom)

Or one of those open relationship things.

[shed]

No such thing as love with a SP. It's just pure lust and the excitement of the moment. Never done it myself and never will. The only evidence of love is when a couple have lived together all their lives up to old age and are still together. Best soulmates. And have been through all the happy times , the shit times and falling out times. Love is a very overrated word and in most cases loosely used.

[Handel2020]

I was certainly needy enough around 19 or 20 and I think one or two WGs knew it. Once of them gave me her number and strung me along with a story that she would be returning to London from Italy which never happened. She was like a goddess in my mind at that age. Another was working in a flat and invited me to her home which was unusual but I don't know what would have come of it as I wasn't realy interested in seeing her. For all I know it might have just been a punt at her place.

[Thephoenix]

Strange to think that their are SP's who are in good long term relationships!..

....and in some cases, both of them making good money out of it as a couple.

[Herts_Outcaller]

🎵 Ever fallen in love with someone
Ever fallen in love, in love with someone
Ever fallen in love, in love with someone
You shouldn't have fallen in love with 🎵

[B4bcock]

🎵 Ever fallen in love with someone
Ever fallen in love, in love with someone
Ever fallen in love, in love with someone
You shouldn't have fallen in love with 🎵

Who cares.  As long as she makes your cock buzz. 

[Hobbit]

If you ever do fall in love with a hooker, the best way to snap out of it is to remember that most of us on UKP have probably either come in her mouth, or at the very least she has sucked our cocks with a smile on her face telling us how special we are and how she enjoys our cock.

My point is that, if you think you have a connection, then you don't. It's an act on her part to make money because at the end of the day that's all they want.

[lillythesavage]

If you ever do fall in love with a hooker, the best way to snap out of it is to remember that most of us on UKP have probably either come in her mouth, or at the very least she has sucked our cocks with a smile on her face telling us how special we are and how she enjoys our cock.

My point is that, if you think you have a connection, then you don't. It's an act on her part to make money because at the end of the day that's all they want.

Well that is a great generalisation  , there are posts in this short thread that say you are wrong.

In your mind selling sex stops someone being a human being with feelings and emotions and money takes over their life, in every case? 

You have no idea how the mind works of any individual, punter or hooker, why they do what they do and can only speak for yourself.

[RedKettle]

Well that is a great generalisation  , there are posts in this short thread that say you are wrong.

In your mind selling sex stops someone being a human being with feelings and emotions and money takes over their life, in every case? 

You have no idea how the mind works of any individual, punter or hooker, why they do what they do and can only speak for yourself.

Agreed, good post.  Even if your personal experience with WGs is that they are heartless money grabbing machines that remains only your experience of that small number.  In any case if you enter each interaction with that mindset then it is self fulfilling, that is what you will see.

Of course it is wise to be cautious as many WGs are happy to take what they can - but in my view there are a number of genuinely good women out there working in the sector.  Certainly one or two I have met that if my circumstances were different I would open to getting to know better!  (A feeling that I suspect would not have been reciprocated!)

[workinallweek]

 love no
 mates kind of
until reality kicks in for some of them

[Chris1990mcr]

I was fucking one thai regularly fairly recently and it was all getting a bit passionate and the girl said love you during the shagging.

I haven't been back since.

I think if you see regs you can catch a few feelings but I try to keep a boundary, no point getting carried away. Wouldn't want to go out with a hooker for dates etc

[chatbite]

I used to like the idea of a having a regular but since starting punting I've found that I just love the variety of fanny on offer. The most I've ever gone back is twice so its hard for me to imagine I'd ever end up catching feelings but I can see how it can happen to others

[IAmNotFamous]

I have a slight confession to make. I think I have fallen for one because I can’t stop thinking about this person. And I keep replaying our encounters in my head. They were signs from our encounters that it’s a different service to other customers.

Been seeing this person straight five times and haven’t seen any other WG (effectively I’ve made myself exclusive). Each visit we do different things and experiment. No longer the sex of getting it out of the system but more what she and I wants.

Problem is I live in London (90 minutes by train) and the person I’ve been seeing lives in Brighton. But this WG has opened my eyes to a whole new world. This WG has helped me to understand my body more and understand what it likes. First time in 40 years.

I know it can’t go on. So have lied by saying I won’t be around for the next five weeks owing to travelling abroad. Knowing me, I can see myself returning in five weeks time.

Sad I know, but I’ve googled emotional attachment syndrome and I tick the boxes. I struggle to focus at work thinking about this person. I also struggle to sleep because I keep replaying the encounters.

I have it bad lol. Help me out guys. I’m thinking of seeing a therapist to see if they can offer advice.

I don’t often fall this badly for a WG. Last time was secretsky (2015) but she turned me down for a date. What was I thinking? No way a 18 year old will fall for a 30 year old. 

[Whiteknight]

Given the intimacy of the job, it’s bound to happen.

If you fell for Cupid’s bow….what did you do?

Are you falling in love with a WG? 

[daviemac]

I have a slight confession to make. I think I have fallen for one because I can’t stop thinking about this person. And I keep replaying our encounters in my head. They were signs from our encounters that it’s a different service to other customers.

How can you 'fall' for any working girl you have so little resect for you covertly film her and illegally post it on the internet. 

[IAmNotFamous]

How can you 'fall' for any working girl you have so little resect for you covertly film her and illegally post it on the internet. 

I explained in the other thread I’ve been misunderstood. I have never ever covertly filmed encounters.

[Justjim1987]

I have a slight confession to make. I think I have fallen for one because I can’t stop thinking about this person. And I keep replaying our encounters in my head. They were signs from our encounters that it’s a different service to other customers.

Been seeing this person straight five times and haven’t seen any other WG (effectively I’ve made myself exclusive). Each visit we do different things and experiment. No longer the sex of getting it out of the system but more what she and I wants.

Problem is I live in London (90 minutes by train) and the person I’ve been seeing lives in Brighton. But this WG has opened my eyes to a whole new world. This WG has helped me to understand my body more and understand what it likes. First time in 40 years.

I know it can’t go on. So have lied by saying I won’t be around for the next five weeks owing to travelling abroad. Knowing me, I can see myself returning in five weeks time.

Sad I know, but I’ve googled emotional attachment syndrome and I tick the boxes. I struggle to focus at work thinking about this person. I also struggle to sleep because I keep replaying the encounters.

I have it bad lol. Help me out guys. I’m thinking of seeing a therapist to see if they can offer advice.

I don’t often fall this badly for a WG. Last time was secretsky (2015) but she turned me down for a date. What was I thinking? No way a 18 year old will fall for a 30 year old.

Awww mate I'm so sorry you've fallen for a SP, my only advise would be never see her again or if you do leave a very long gap. I'd suggest seeing a few different girls to see if it gets it out your system.

[daviemac]

I explained in the other thread I’ve been misunderstood. I have never ever covertly filmed encounters.

I hear you. It’s a WhatsApp group with just five people content doesn’t get shared wider.

So what is it you share??

[IAmNotFamous]

So what is it you share??

Me received.

[daviemac]

Me received.

Still means you have an active part in covertly filming service providers and that makes you very dodgy.

.

[Doc Holliday]

The topic that just won't go away 

I used to like the idea of a having a regular but since starting punting I've found that I just love the variety of fanny on offer. The most I've ever gone back is twice so its hard for me to imagine I'd ever end up catching feelings but I can see how it can happen to others

I agree and I recall posting something almost identical to this on a forum well over a decade and a half ago. Finding myself widowed, I had no interest in seeking another relationship so began punting.

Out of many hundreds of punts involving women of all ages, body types etc I rarely saw anyone twice. It was great fun and so easy to achieve.

Life is unpredictable though and I ended up married to someone who I only saw twice (as an SP). There was even six months in between those visits. The second visit was actually a plan B punt when Plan A failed. Fate perhaps?

Cupid’s arrow can be powerful when the arrow strikes, but will only progress if both parties are struck and then not without a strong will by both to overcome the inevitable difficulties, be it those encountered in any relationship, but more specifically those related to 'sex work'.

Funny old world!

[MissWolf]

I have a slight confession to make. I think I have fallen for one because I can’t stop thinking about this person. And I keep replaying our encounters in my head. They were signs from our encounters that it’s a different service to other customers.

Been seeing this person straight five times and haven’t seen any other WG (effectively I’ve made myself exclusive). Each visit we do different things and experiment. No longer the sex of getting it out of the system but more what she and I wants.

Problem is I live in London (90 minutes by train) and the person I’ve been seeing lives in Brighton. But this WG has opened my eyes to a whole new world. This WG has helped me to understand my body more and understand what it likes. First time in 40 years.

I know it can’t go on. So have lied by saying I won’t be around for the next five weeks owing to travelling abroad. Knowing me, I can see myself returning in five weeks time.

Sad I know, but I’ve googled emotional attachment syndrome and I tick the boxes. I struggle to focus at work thinking about this person. I also struggle to sleep because I keep replaying the encounters.

I have it bad lol. Help me out guys. I’m thinking of seeing a therapist to see if they can offer advice.

I don’t often fall this badly for a WG. Last time was secretsky (2015) but she turned me down for a date. What was I thinking? No way a 18 year old will fall for a 30 year old.

I really am quite confused....

You said on another thread that
Twenty years ago I visited Jakarta in Indonesia. At the time it was 100,000 rupiah or ten pounds, two rounds, one hour.

But in this post it's the
This WG has helped me to understand my body more and understand what it likes. First time in 40 years.

But you also fell for a wg in 2015 (you don't learn easily) cos you then say What was I thinking? No way a 18 year old will fall for a 30 year old.

So if you were 30 in 2015 you were in Indonesia in 2000 aged 15, wow you had an early start with wg's as well as a job, I'm assuming you had a job over there as your ex colleagues are the ones who send you videos they take of wgs without their consent.
However your now understanding after 40 years what your body likes, you age fast too as you should be no more that 37 by your 2015 age unless of course all of this is a load of bollocks.

If you are going to tell stories for likes and attention get your ducks in a row