Tricky one, a virtuous life a better husband with a decent financial reward or a life of wild fun and debauchery?
I'd argue that seeing WGs makes me a better husband in some ways, (hear me out):
- If I get into an argument with the wife and she's being unreasonable but not a hill to die on, I often find that a nice chinese massage cheers me up and then I'm over it and don't continue the argument for 3 days
- The lack of sex, rather than causing me to build up resentment and anger, I simply fulfil my needs with a WG of choice.. as long as there are no underlying sex issues with the wife such that she is "not putting out due to falling out of love" then it seems to solve the problem. If you maintain a happy life with the wife but she has a lower libido then seeing WGs are a win win in my book.
- Due to not building up sexual resentment against my wife, I'm much happier when at home, the kids see me a lot happier, everyone wins.
- WGs can offer something the vast majority of wives would not - DUOS - I have to say they are a guilty pleasure of mine whenever the chance arises I jump at it. I'm sure some wives would entertain a 3-way but it is an emotional minefield and a rarity if you ask me. Also the other services WGs offer that many wives would not such as CIM / swallow / anal / BDSM etc.
I do regret starting as early as I did, because in my early 20s it did lead to some debt, but now I'm in a much better financial position so I don't mind.