When it's done right, tie and tease is absolutely amazing.
Clearly, you've got to trust the girl. Finding out that she's an axe murderer while you're strapped down on a bed with handcuffs keeping your arms and legs firmly apart (oh yes, and you're naked) is not a great position to find yourself in.
My first experience was with the Devine Delicious Demi
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External Link/Members OnlyShe introduced me to gas masks, blindfolds, nipple clamps, CBT, hot wax and ice cubes, cock rings, poppers and her own 10 out of 10 hand job tease technique with lots of baby oil.
I discovered that the best part of tie and tease is the sensory deprivation experienced while a girl who really knows how to play with a cock slowly but surely brings you to the point of no return. I get into a completely surreal world of total pleasure, highly-intense senses being those experienced through sound (it's great if there's a porno on in the background), the sexual high generated by the poppers and the sensations applied through use of the various techniques described above: while all the time being subjected to visual blackout, total restraint and my ring-restrained cock being slowly wanked to a perfect, shattering, explosive orgasm. I'd recommend at least a one hour punt to get fully in to the experience.
I've become so enamoured with the experience that I'm now subject to total submission to a high class Mistress who usually finishes me off with her own brand of tie and tease, but not before I've been strapped face-down to a restraining table and severely punished with a riding crop for all my confessed sexual sins. It's completely cathartic, but I'll have to consider confessing anymore about that on UKP. I might well live to really regret confessing too much here.
My recommendation is to give tie and tease a chance, but please god make sure you're in safe hands first.