So I emailed a girl I've seen a few times + got on well with about a meeting in February. Sent the email last Tuesday, the 27th (in response to a couple from her).
It's Saturday now & so I've sent a friendly text saying that I'd really like to meet but no reply to email for 4 days... was it something I said?
Am I being unfair in thinking that a four day wait for a reply to an email is a tad on the long side & a friendly reminder text is therefore reasonable?
This really is a top issue for some punters going on the number of threads about it. I only phone WGs so they either answer or not. Certainly you sending a text to a WG isnt in any way unreasonable.
The fact is who knows why she hasnt replied, she could be on holiday, ill or had a family emergency, on the other hand she might think you were a right dick and is hoping you get the message and go elsewhere, obviously not saying you are, just what its possible she might think. Personally even with regulars if their comms go tits up i dont chase them after a few calls though i might try them again at some time in the near future again. If no reply still and her profile and number is still up i would look elsewhere.
Some WGs only think of the immediate future, short-termism so if they are booked up they might think its not worth bothering replying.