I kind of have an OH, sort off.. It's complicated. But er, yeah, at one point the sex was very good and regular with her. She's very good in bed. Does anal, all positions, CIM, facials.. whatever I like, and she's fit as well in a slightly exotic, cute and curvy kinda way. Could probably charge £150 ph on AW and get away with it. She is just.. a pain in the ass to put it simply. High maintenance, prone to mood swings, kinda a bitch.
I just got fed up with her and her moodiness. She's one of those kinda girls I have to almost beg for a fuck, and I just got fed up with that bollocks. She's hot, but not worth bowing down to like that. I have had conversations with her about it many times.. But she didn't listen. So I turned my attention towards prossies, because frankly they are just easier to deal with and less hassle. I did consider having an affair, but that just seemed too potentially messy and too much hassle to me.
So there you go, that's why I punt. I barely even think about my OH in a sexual way now, we're still friendly towards each other, but she pretty much leaves me alone now. Just goes to show that it was always me chasing after her and going to the effort to make the relationship work, and now without me doing that the relationship is pretty much dead in the water.