Don't fancy her, but stayed anyway, neg reviews

[Ali Katt]

If you don't fancy her why the fuck do you stay? FFS lads I think you need to sit yourself down in a dark corner and have a quiet word with yourself, what did you expect a 10\10 punt and a return trip? I keep reading this on reviews and it's pathetic.

[Jack yourlate]

Maybe the eyes say munter   

but the purple throbbing head says "game on" 

[Ali Katt]

Maybe the eyes say munter   

but the purple throbbing head says "game on" 

And then a red review.

[Davey Dykes]

It's the Borderline Boiler thing.

Your head says no, your balls say go.

I can't really explain it, can anyone?

[Wooderz]

post shag remorse. Often you don't know its a crap shag till you done it..

Like the old saying goes "I have never been to bed with an ugly woman.. but I have woken up with many.."

[shyboy1]

It’s a difficult one this.
First impressions aren’t always what they seem. I’ve been in the situation where the door opens and you get that sinking feeling, she’s nothing like her pics and I don’t fancy her but I pressed on and had a great punt as she put everything into it and had a great attitude.
Maybe I’ve just been lucky but for me it’s more likely to be the state of the venue or the personality/attitude that makes me walk away. In fact the only time I recall walking was because the wg kept me waiting 30 minutes and I eventually walked into a complete shite hole with signs of drug use everywhere and to top it off no apologies and a haughty attitude, I thought fuck this and walked. The irony being that the girl in question was gorgeous!
SB

[Winker121]

It’s a difficult one this.
First impressions aren’t always what they seem. I’ve been in the situation where the door opens and you get that sinking feeling, she’s nothing like her pics and I don’t fancy her but I pressed on and had a great punt as she put everything into it and had a great attitude.
Maybe I’ve just been lucky but for me it’s more likely to be the state of the venue or the personality/attitude that makes me walk away. In fact the only time I recall walking was because the wg kept me waiting 30 minutes and I eventually walked into a complete shite hole with signs of drug use everywhere and to top it off no apologies and a haughty attitude, I thought fuck this and walked. The irony being that the girl in question was gorgeous!
SB

Sounds familiar to me.  Sometimes think that the rather less good looking girls are better as they perform to try to attract your custom whereas the stunners do the minimum and rely on their looks to draw in the punters.

[BigBoi1955]

I can't really explain it, can anyone?

Here are a couple of possibilities
- Travelled a long way and no Plan B and all scrubbed and medicated ready to fuck
- Sometimes the ugly birds can be the most enthusiastic. Looks are important but performance and personality count as well
- The girl was chosen based on price so going ahead would be a cheap option

[catweazle]

Here are a couple of possibilities
- Travelled a long way and no Plan B and all scrubbed and medicated ready to fuck
- Sometimes the ugly birds can be the most enthusiastic. Looks are important but performance and personality count as well
- The girl was chosen based on price so going ahead would be a cheap option

True - some of us use little blue helpers, and arriving as the pill is working, can be a driver to proceed anyway. You may only have spent under a fiver on the pill but it feels like a waste to walk.

[Ali Katt]

From my experiences ugly girls, ugly attitudes.

[Ipman1973]

Can't review a restaurant by scanning the menu , surely got to try.
Mind you can be dependant on the Chef being "on form" 

[Jock D]

True - some of us use little blue helpers, and arriving as the pill is working, can be a driver to proceed anyway. You may only have spent under a fiver on the pill but it feels like a waste to walk.

+1

I have gone through with a few punts where I didn't really fancy the goods in front of me. The alternative is scrambling around for a last minute replacement...with no guarantee's...when the blue pill meter is already ticking...lesser of 2 evils

[Wooderz]

When I was a pick up artist back in the days when folks would pull in clubs, not dating shites, there was a saying "ten to two, owt'll do"..

Which referred to "the erection section" last slow dance prior to closing..

Standards drop markedly when one has limited options but you MUST drain your bag.. or must you?

I had a regular civvie until a few years ago who I would shag every week because she had a great pair of tits and a hot pussy but over weight and not remotely up to par in "girlfriend" stakes, as well as being much older than mid 20's ideal..

So, "a girl for your arm, or a girl for your dick?".. trophy tart or cum dump? Some look nothing like pics and then, fair do's to walk, but sometimes one can salvage something..

[Home Alone]

Here are a couple of possibilities
- Travelled a long way and no Plan B and all scrubbed and medicated ready to fuck
- Sometimes the ugly birds can be the most enthusiastic. Looks are important but performance and personality count as well

Indeed. Some of the girls are real Marmite  - "Beauty in the eye of the beholder" and all that.

One lass I remember seeing 2 or 3 years ago fell into that category - she was a bonny enough lass, imo - and the effort she put into making sure I had a good time outweighed other punters' opinions of her looks.

I've not seen her since, but if I were let down after I'd taken my Cialis, I'm sure she'd be an excellent 'Plan B'.

- The girl was chosen based on price so going ahead would be a cheap option

And the lass I've mentioned above was, and still is, very reasonably-priced.

[Fuzzyduck]

As many have said, it's not always about looks and, so long as there's some vibe, it can be a reasonable or even great punt.

However, for some punters it's mostly about the looks to get them off. These guys should always walk if their lights don't flash. I saw a review recently from of these types (can't seem to find it) and the punter said he just didn't fancy her but stayed anyway. He knew he would have a crap time, blamed the girl for not being attractive to him and dressed it up that she didn't try hard enough. Gave her a neg. I thought he was a bit of a twat.

[Ali Katt]

As many have said, it's not always about looks and, so long as there's some vibe, it can be a reasonable or even great punt.

However, for some punters it's mostly about the looks to get them off. These guys should always walk if their lights don't flash. I saw a review recently from of these types (can't seem to find it) and the punter said he just didn't fancy her but stayed anyway. He knew he would have a crap time, blamed the girl for not being attractive to him and dressed it up that she didn't try hard enough. Gave her a neg. I thought he was a bit of a twat.

No I know it is not about looks, I've posted that loads of times, but to put it into context this review made me post this thread:
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=242064.0

[Fuzzyduck]

No I know it is not about looks, I've posted that loads of times, but to put it into context this review made me post this thread:
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=242064.0

I see what you mean, but the guy at least tried to make a punt out of it. The one I remember made it sound like he gave her a neg solely because he didn't fancy her. I'll try and find it. I might be being overly harsh on the reviewer.

[Dopedj]

If you don't fancy her why the fuck do you stay? FFS lads I think you need to sit yourself down in a dark corner and have a quiet word with yourself, what did you expect a 10\10 punt and a return trip? I keep reading this on reviews and it's pathetic.

Exactly my thoughts which makes believe some these reviews are not genuine— and some are either done out of spite or just being malicious- Maybe they asked for bareback and then got refused and they come here and cry wolf 
I’ve read on tht escort sex forum -a lot of girls getting threatened a bad reviews if they refuse a service
 

[Ali Katt]

Exactly my thoughts which makes believe some these reviews are not genuine— and some are either done out of spite or just being malicious- Maybe they asked for bareback and then got refused and they come here and cry wolf 
I’ve read on tht escort sex forum -a lot of girls getting threatened a bad reviews if they refuse a service

I believe the reviews are genuine 98% of the time and that the vast majority of punters aren't forcing bareback or making the girls uncomfortable, but I'm not an escort.

I just wanted to understand why some would stay if they rated a girl 3/10. It's a fair question. I've seen some girls where I didn't find them attractive, but it was more their attitude or a personality clash.

[BigBoi1955]

Exactly my thoughts which makes believe some these reviews are not genuine— and some are either done out of spite or just being malicious- Maybe they asked for bareback and then got refused and they come here and cry wolf 
I’ve read on tht escort sex forum -a lot of girls getting threatened a bad reviews if they refuse a service

Who are you to say what is in the mind of someone who posts a review.

Its a bit fucking rich that such wild accusations are being made by someone who can't be arsed to do a review themselves

[Wooderz]

People often ask "why do punters still pick up street walkers when there are loads of similar women getting business off AW costing twice as much thanks to 10 year old/fake pics.."..

 

[Ali Katt]

Exactly my thoughts which makes believe some these reviews are not genuine— and some are either done out of spite or just being malicious- Maybe they asked for bareback and then got refused and they come here and cry wolf 
I’ve read on tht escort sex forum -a lot of girls getting threatened a bad reviews if they refuse a service

What is your obsession with barebacking?

[Ipman1973]

Playing Devils Advocate,  but a cynic could have a rather tasty time and in a " scortched earth"  strategy stick up a neg to keep his new found prize nice an fresh, rather than promote a stampede and the inevitable fall in standards.

[Ali Katt]

Playing Devils Advocate,  but a cynic could have a rather tasty time and in a burnt earth strategy stick up a neg to keep his new found prize nice an fresh, rather than promote a stampede and the inevitable fall in standards.

I'm still looking forward to reading your reviews, but there's more chance of me shaking hands with Bruce Lee, although I have had my hands on a pair of "Bruce Lees".

[Ipman1973]

I'm still looking forward to reading your reviews,

I only hope I don't disappoint   

[Ali Katt]

I only hope I don't disappoint   

Nah you won't if you write one, it's not a pissing contest.

[Ipman1973]

, it's not a pissing contest.

Excellent news 

[pewpewpew]

Surely we book the ladies in part due to their photos on AW. If one turns up and finds her a tad ugly, one may stay anyway as you've made the effort. If she gets a negative from that it's her fault for false advertisement

[king tarzan]

If you don't fancy her why the fuck do you stay? FFS lads I think you need to sit yourself down in a dark corner and have a quiet word with yourself, what did you expect a 10\10 punt and a return trip? I keep reading this on reviews and it's pathetic.

 

[Home Alone]

What happened after only 33  , kt? Did you have a problem with your jabbing finger?? 

Even I, who know I over-use emojis, usually stop at three!

[shyboy1]

Sounds familiar to me.  Sometimes think that the rather less good looking girls are better as they perform to try to attract your custom whereas the stunners do the minimum and rely on their looks to draw in the punters.

That’s a good point. In fact I tend to avoid the younger (19-25) stunners as many of them seem to think you should be happy just to be naked in a room with them and therefore they don’t need to put much effort into the meet.
There are probably a lot of exceptions to this but after a couple of lacklustre experiences early on in my punting career I tend to avoid those gorgeous Lolita’s now.
SB

[king tarzan]

What happened after only 33  , kt? Did you have a problem with your jabbing finger?? 

Even I, who know I over-use emojis, usually stop at three!

my enthusiasm for what Ali Katt said.. spot on...

[diomhair72]

If you start at the very bottom of the barrel the only way remaining is up!

[Ali Katt]

That’s a good point. In fact I tend to avoid the younger (19-25) stunners as many of them seem to think you should be happy just to be naked in a room with them and therefore they don’t need to put much effort into the meet.
There are probably a lot of exceptions to this but after a couple of lacklustre experiences early on in my punting career I tend to avoid those gorgeous Lolita’s now.
SB

Depends who you see, bad attitude isn't age specific.

[Rochelle]

Depends who you see, bad attitude isn't age specific.

But it's looks specific? You just said ugly girls, ugly attitudes.

[BigBoi1955]

Depends who you see, bad attitude isn't age specific.

Bad attitude may not be age specific but IMHO it is more likely to be shown by providers in the 20 to 25 age bracket.

[pelvic thrust overdrive]

When I was a pick up artist back in the days when folks would pull in clubs, not dating shites, there was a saying "ten to two, owt'll do"..

Which referred to "the erection section" last slow dance prior to closing..

Standards drop markedly when one has limited options but you MUST drain your bag.. or must you?

I call it, 2am desperation hour

[Jack yourlate]

If you don't fancy her why the fuck do you stay? FFS lads I think you need to sit yourself down in a dark corner and have a quiet word with yourself, what did you expect a 10\10 punt and a return trip? I keep reading this on reviews and it's pathetic.

Apologies for my newness to internetiness... But surely then the logic would only be positive reviews?

[Rochelle]

Apologies for my newness to internetiness... But surely then the logic would only be positive reviews?

Common sense (and reading reviews) should tell you there are other reasons for negatives apart from looks.

[Jack yourlate]

If you don't fancy her why the fuck do you stay? FFS lads I think you need to sit yourself down in a dark corner and have a quiet word with yourself, what did you expect a 10\10 punt and a return trip? I keep reading this on reviews and it's pathetic.

If you don't fancy her LEAVE.  therefore avoid negative review?

[peter purves]

The classical example 

External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

a total upset for me my second B&S with week

location - whitgift street croydon

coms- were not the best but got back to me within 5 mins

meet- arrived to see a completely different person then what the profile desribes i was first tempted because when first seeing who was about this profile and  External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only both messaged back with the same address so i thought since both are verified with atleast 1 review on AW id give it a go.

only this older fat blondish bird was at the apartment (must have been the maid) i should have left from that point but i thought let me at least pump and dump gave over 40 worth of the queens heads stripped and awaited after the money dash
she comes back in strips and then goes ohhh too big so im like ok heard that before not hard at this point starts pulling the stick and on with the condom for a BJ  and repeats the big statment
BJ was piss poor  focused on the head to much nothing deep then she starts to change position i think ok sex nope turns out sex was off the table because of my size i think and got some lazy head for the rest of the session

i could have demanded sex and the like but i wanted out while during the BJ and while getting change she asked if it was cold outside so i told her about the piss poor service instead and she shrugged

croydon keeps letting me down time and time again most recently

[Ali Katt]

But it's looks specific? You just said ugly girls, ugly attitudes.

Hence the words from my experiences. Only really three girls I saw last year that I didn't find absolutely gorgeous and they were my worst reviews and it was more down to their attitude and a personal connection than looks. My comments were to counteract the nonsense that average or ugly girls put in more effort which from my experiences is bollox.

[Ali Katt]

Apologies for my newness to internetiness... But surely then the logic would only be positive reviews?

No it would mean not wasting £160 or whatever on a lacklustre experience. The reviews usually go "I didn't really fancy her and wish I had left, but stayed anyway" - what is expected suddenly he has a road to Damascus punt?

[Jack yourlate]

" - what is expected suddenly he has a road to Damascus punt?

OK I get it, you've been at this online stuff for a good while and can understand your frustration and  . Type moments.

Just for my own info though, if I (and I have a couple of times over the years) turn around and walk... Do I still post a neg or pretty much kid on it didn't happen?

[Ali Katt]

OK I get it, you've been at this online stuff for a good while and can understand your frustration and  . Type moments.

Just for my own info though, if I (and I have a couple of times over the years) turn around and walk... Do I still post a neg or pretty much kid on it didn't happen?

If she didn't look like the pictures (bait and switch, photos years out of date, clearly somebody else), her attitude is so bad it makes you leave or refuses services you have agreed such as reverse oral, by all means post a review.

[cunningman]

If you don't fancy her LEAVE.  therefore avoid negative review?

There are plenty of negs over comms failures, didn't fancy her and walked, whatever.  I'd really rather they were neutral, and the negs come from bad attitude in an actual punt.

[anothername]

The classical example 

Well spotted.

Every hallmark you need there. If you can't discount a page like that within three seconds perhaps the game isn't for you.

[wristjob]

There are times you go for girls who you don't really rate that much but the service is supposed to be good. I'm guessing you are more angling at you think she looks hot and when you see her in the flesh it doesn't match expectations? Looking back at past punts...

The last 2 who looked terrible in the room were just scarily skinny which wasn't really obvious til they got their kit off and presumably I'd paid.
1 who hid behind the door and closed it after me and I was locked in the beasts lair with no escape - really wasn't good but politeness kicked in over sanity.
1 who looked ok in the pics but had these scary shane macgowan teeth when I got there.

looks are a funny thing and often personality or something they do can change it a lot. I picked this milfy looking girl in a parlour once who looked way less better without clothes and then went for a piss which ruined everything.

I think generally the reason is I've already paid before I find something really offputting.

[Bonker]

I've taken both routes, walking away and staying.
Felt bad in both instances - balls aching from not having a fuck /  wallet hurting from wasted money.

As I punt rarely nowadays, I'm usually desperate and my brain can't tear my dick away as easily as it used to.

After I've cooled down, I'm always glad I walked.