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cerealpunter

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My first post on here, but we all have to start somewhere.
I've punted for more years than I care to remember and would dread to think what I've spent over those years. I've never punted when in a relationship, but my relationships have been short and far between. I've recently finished a relationship (about 3 months ago, it was her that had a change of heart) I've not punted for over 12 months (not sure when the last one was) Although I'm wanting sex and female company I'm finding it difficult to get motivated, I can spend ages browsing forum's and AW and it just seems all like very hard work, you see someone you like the look of and then check the forum's and find negative reviews, so back to square one.
From reading this forum for a few months I know there are a few others who are disillusioned with the whole punting thing. I'm not sure if it's an age thing (early 50's) or stress or depression or what with me, it all just seems like too much effort, as for AW I've never known a site where it can be so difficult to spend 100-150 quid, they show as online today but won't answer simple email enquiries
I do wonder if the old days of walking into a parlour without any prior knowledge of what the girl looked like were better, ok there were bad punts, but sometimes you would find a real star who you might not have chosen from her pictures, I suppose in those days it was much more of a "punt" or "gamble"
I was always surprised how a phone description of "blue eyed busty blonde" could fit so many body types
There probably isn't any answer to all this, I've normally kept to "regular" girls but there is no one locally to me, "doing" it for me at the moment

mediumjoe

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    Sounds like you need a holiday somewhere hot  where you can see something hot on the beach to get you back in the mood .   If it's your thing try late 30s MILFs they are a lot more reliable than the young ones .   Is it the booze and  the late nights that is doing it ? Joe

Offline heisenberg.

I'm only in my 20's mate and I've already got sick of it. Too much effort and forced / wasted sex with many girls. Burns a hole in my wallet. To be honest though I've had much better time with the oriental girls who seemingly go out of their way to please you.

Anyway I've virtually stopped full on punting, maybe see a girl every 4/5 months or so.

However I've not quit the game for good, I tend to frequent at Thai massage parlours. why don't you give them a try? It's much more relaxing and it's cheaper! £60 for an hours massage with an explosive happy ending seems to be the going rate! Better value for money and a shit massage will never be as bad as shit sex.

Offline hungrypunt

Yeah a little libido loss is not uncommon.
Could be stress or anything as you say, too much porn...too much wanking
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=82996.0

Or even low testosterone > loads of advice on that thread above....good luck youll be back on the horse soon Im sure

Offline AgedCases

Yeah a little libido loss is not uncommon.
Could be stress or anything as you say, too much porn...too much wanking
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=82996.0

Or even low testosterone > loads of advice on that thread above....good luck youll be back on the horse soon Im sure

I agree. Switch off the porn and quit wanking for a while and you'll be as horny as fuck and back browsing AW before you know it!

Two years ago, I lost my appetite due to low testosterone. I saw my GP who prescribed gel sachets and they worked.

JW.Bobbitt

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There probably isn't any answer to all this, I've normally kept to "regular" girls but there is no one locally to me, "doing" it for me at the moment

I am in exactly the same 'lack of adventurous punt mojo' due to all the reasons you have put - especially the constant research.

Thankfully, I have a couple of regulars, in very close proximity who cover most bases.

I am hoping, that when work dies down a bit, I can make use of the Tontober spirit (of fun&adventure) to get out and seek pastures new

rbh

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I'm only in my 20's mate and I've already got sick of it. Too much effort and forced / wasted sex with many girls. Burns a hole in my wallet. To be honest though I've had much better time with the oriental girls who seemingly go out of their way to please you.

Anyway I've virtually stopped full on punting, maybe see a girl every 4/5 months or so.

However I've not quit the game for good, I tend to frequent at Thai massage parlours. why don't you give them a try? It's much more relaxing and it's cheaper! £60 for an hours massage with an explosive happy ending seems to be the going rate! Better value for money and a shit massage will never be as bad as shit sex.

Nice reply, got any recommendations, always been intrigued by this - I always assumed they'd be a bit older as well.

cerealpunter

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It's not really a "performance" issue although my sex drive isn't what it was, It's just the whole punting think seems an awful lot of effort, lack of parlours in my area doesn't help

Offline uutarn

Broaden your horizons bud.
I have so many sexual deviances i wanna try, they will keep me going for the next 5 years. :thumbsup:

Offline heisenberg.

Nice reply, got any recommendations, always been intrigued by this - I always assumed they'd be a bit older as well.

What area you from? Browse the forums there are some good massage parlours out there everywhere!

And to the OP I suggest you try and find a parlour, tell us where you're based and we can help recommend one.

Give them a call, tell them you'll be down in 10 minutes if you are already nearby, they will usually say thats fine.

Go in...relax ...don't worry about life and sexual performance. Towards the end you will be horny and feck and be gagging for that happy ending. At the end you will be relieved and refreshed with little/no effort!

Online tester101

I am in a similar situation, that is a history of short relationships and then a long history of punting.  In the main, it has been a necessary and pleasant palliative, but I held on to the conceit that these women truly liked me and it was not a business.  Sadly, I have finally realised and accepted that for all WGs', that is what it is and will always be.  Like yourself, I have been trying to accomodate a WG with whom I have had a long association, but have become tired with her flakiness on the comms front, and my chasing her.  In the end, I had to ask myself whats the point in all of this for an hr or two and a return to the status quo?

I know that I wanted intimacy and understanding, coupled with sex with a partner with a high sex drive.  It fulfils a need, but like fast food, it may sustain but it does not nourish you.  Also, I have reached the point where I cannot justify the cost; to my self esteem and bank balance.  The tipping point for me, was when I contacted a WG and asked her out for lunch, just for some company and conversation, and it became a business deal - that was I realised that the connection we had was all in my mind and fuelled on my ego.

Offline Turtle Z

My first post on here, but we all have to start somewhere.
I've punted for more years than I care to remember and would dread to think what I've spent over those years. I've never punted when in a relationship, but my relationships have been short and far between. I've recently finished a relationship (about 3 months ago, it was her that had a change of heart) I've not punted for over 12 months (not sure when the last one was) Although I'm wanting sex and female company I'm finding it difficult to get motivated, I can spend ages browsing forum's and AW and it just seems all like very hard work, you see someone you like the look of and then check the forum's and find negative reviews, so back to square one.
From reading this forum for a few months I know there are a few others who are disillusioned with the whole punting thing. I'm not sure if it's an age thing (early 50's) or stress or depression or what with me, it all just seems like too much effort, as for AW I've never known a site where it can be so difficult to spend 100-150 quid, they show as online today but won't answer simple email enquiries
I do wonder if the old days of walking into a parlour without any prior knowledge of what the girl looked like were better, ok there were bad punts, but sometimes you would find a real star who you might not have chosen from her pictures, I suppose in those days it was much more of a "punt" or "gamble"
I was always surprised how a phone description of "blue eyed busty blonde" could fit so many body types
There probably isn't any answer to all this, I've normally kept to "regular" girls but there is no one locally to me, "doing" it for me at the moment

Your post captures many of my thoughts on the issue. It's certainly not a lack of libido but I have a distinct feeling of not being arsed to sift through all the shite on AW, something that used to be a pleasurable precursor to the punt itself. I also have that issue of no one locally "doing it for me" and simply don't have the time to travel looking for greener pastures like I used to. Having said all this, it isn't something I'll be agonising over, if I get my mojo for punting back then fine, if I don't, then thats also fine too as I'm saving a fortune.  :hi:

Offline NIK

My first post on here, but we all have to start somewhere.
I've punted for more years than I care to remember and would dread to think what I've spent over those years. I've never punted when in a relationship, but my relationships have been short and far between. I've recently finished a relationship (about 3 months ago, it was her that had a change of heart) I've not punted for over 12 months (not sure when the last one was) Although I'm wanting sex and female company I'm finding it difficult to get motivated, I can spend ages browsing forum's and AW and it just seems all like very hard work, you see someone you like the look of and then check the forum's and find negative reviews, so back to square one.
From reading this forum for a few months I know there are a few others who are disillusioned with the whole punting thing. I'm not sure if it's an age thing (early 50's) or stress or depression or what with me, it all just seems like too much effort, as for AW I've never known a site where it can be so difficult to spend 100-150 quid, they show as online today but won't answer simple email enquiries
I do wonder if the old days of walking into a parlour without any prior knowledge of what the girl looked like were better, ok there were bad punts, but sometimes you would find a real star who you might not have chosen from her pictures, I suppose in those days it was much more of a "punt" or "gamble"
I was always surprised how a phone description of "blue eyed busty blonde" could fit so many body types
There probably isn't any answer to all this, I've normally kept to "regular" girls but there is no one locally to me, "doing" it for me at the moment

Can totally relate to this. Punted fanatically from my early thirties to early fifties. But for the past five years or so (ironically since UKP began) I have hardly bothered. Indeed haven't had one punt outside London (ie locally) for about three and a half years now.

Numerous reasons such as: lack of libido, better things to do with my money, poor service, fake profiles, gone off parlours, have to go through AW to book many indies these days, simply can't be arsed to take the risk it will be shit or poor vfm, etc etc.

Never thought I would lose interest the way I have. What I am really surprised about though is that I barely even miss it.

cerealpunter

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Your post captures many of my thoughts on the issue. It's certainly not a lack of libido but I have a distinct feeling of not being arsed to sift through all the shite on AW, something that used to be a pleasurable precursor to the punt itself. I also have that issue of no one locally "doing it for me" and simply don't have the time to travel looking for greener pastures like I used to. Having said all this, it isn't something I'll be agonising over, if I get my mojo for punting back then fine, if I don't, then thats also fine too as I'm saving a fortune.  :hi:
Travelling or at least the time taken is an issue for me at the moment as well (family problem) but as you say I'm saving money which has taken the pressure off at work earning extra pennies.

cerealpunter

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Can totally relate to this. Punted fanatically from my early thirties to early fifties. But for the past five years or so (ironically since UKP began) I have hardly bothered. Indeed haven't had one punt outside London (ie locally) for about three and a half years now.

Numerous reasons such as: lack of libido, better things to do with my money, poor service, fake profiles, gone off parlours, have to go through AW to book many indies these days, simply can't be arsed to take the risk it will be shit or poor vfm, etc etc.

Never thought I would lose interest the way I have. What I am really surprised about though is that I barely even miss it.
I think it was your posts and Jimmy's on here, which convinced me that I wasn't the only one going through similar.
I can agree with most of your "reasons" and like you I never thought I'd lose interest.

My old profile on AW was deleted through inactivity, after ending the recent relationship, I started browsing AW again, a few that were interesting me displayed no phone numbers (something which I can never understand why they can't put a phone number it costs £1.20 a day for someone who can potentially earn £150 per hour) so I created a new profile and sent off over the course of a few days about 8 emails, I think I got 2 replies only one was relevant to the question I asked, I don't understand the complete lack of interest, I wish I could afford to ignore potential £150 jobs
I'm not sure why I've lost interest or at least the motivation to punt, I've even wondered if it's a "body clock" thing having never been married maybe it's time to settle down (although online dating is a minefield in itself) I don't think I'm "over" the last relationship, but in the past "punting" has been the answer to that.
 I never thought I'd say this but I think I'm needing female company as much if not more than sex, maybe I am depressed.