Do Pro$$i£$ Deserve Respect ?

[softlad]

Some call members of this forum Neanderthal's, mysogynists, rapists, paedo's, or any other derogatory name they can come up with...
We know that's all a load of bollocks, we call them so they call us, blah blah blah...

The point was raised on another thread of respect.
Namely do you respect any women who is or allows herself to become an Escort/prostitute ?
Have they allowed themselves to become morally bankrupt by having a complete lack of self respect to be able to sell their bodies ?
Or is that just an out dated notion these days, and they should be viewed as intuitive independent business women ?

To those who say they repsect WG's and their freedom of choice, what would you think if you had found out your mother/sister/daughter had been on the game ?
Could you respect that ?

[Jimmyredcab]

Namely do you respect any women who is or allows herself to become an Escort/prostitute ?

I would respect a woman more who became a Doctor or Lawyer but if they choose to rent out their body who am I to tell them they are wrong -------------- if I had a daughter who became a prostitute I would be mortified. 

[yumyum3]

The label may be prostitute, but its the person and attitude that I go by. I have written a few reports here on lovely ladies that I could spend more time and money with. Respect, of course.
But say you read about someone who wants to charge you £165 for a pretentious wank? I don't respect you. Not because you're a prostitute but because you're a liberty-taking-con-artist:
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[dreamgirl]

Of course we deserve respect. You say you are not all these things but then you start threads such as this. Everyone deserves respect whatever they choose to do. As long as they are nice people and don't cause harm to anyone why should they not be treated with respect? Because we sell our bodies? Are you living in the dark ages? Prostitution is the oldest profession in the world. The fact that I sell my body for sex does not make me any less of a person and I demand respect and if I don't get it then I won't see people like that simple. What about punters who cheat on their loving wife's who have always been there for them with a hooker? Do I judge them? No I don't because we all have our reasons, but do they deserve respect? Anwser that one yourself.

[Jimmyredcab]

Of course we deserve respect. You say you are not all these things but then you start threads such as this. Everyone deserves respect whatever they choose to do.

No, they absolutely don't.

What about Eastern European pickpockets, do they deserve respect. ??????????????

Do the looters from the summer riots deserve respect ------------- no of course they don't.

I respect prostitutes who treat me as a client and not a walking ATM, they are few and far between.   

[dreamgirl]

I mean unless they cause harm to others.

'Allowed my self to become a prostitute?' 'A complete lack of respect for my body'

Are you for real? I have said this before, we are not all the same and these statements certainly don't apply to me.

[softlad]

You say you are not all these things but then you start threads such as this.

Eh ! So because I asked the question I'm a neanderthal, rapist , paedo ?

[dreamgirl]

Eh ! So because I asked the question I'm a neanderthal, rapist , paedo ?

No I don't mean that but in general when people slate this site, it seems you are asking for those kinds of comments with threads such as this because it is bound to get people's backs up.

[softlad]

What about punters who cheat on their loving wife's who have always been there for them with a hooker? Do I judge them? No I don't because we all have our reasons, but do they deserve respect? Anwser that one yourself.

I'll answer it if you do.
Do you respect married punters who cheat on their partners ?

[softlad]

No I don't mean that but in general when people slate this site it seems you are asking for those kinds of comments with threads such as this because it is bound to get people's backs up.

I'm genuinely interested in hearing everyones opinion, if that gets anyone's back up I'll have to live with that.

[dreamgirl]

I'll answer it if you do.
Do you respect married punters who cheat on their partners ?

I already said I don't judge anyone. Personally I don't think it's right but I still treat them with respect.

[softlad]

I already said I don't judge anyone. Personally I don't think it's right but I still treat them with respect.

Judging someone and 'treating' them with respect is not the same as actually respecting them.
I treat everyone with respect until they piss me off for whatever reason.
I actually respect very few people.

[Mancspunter]

For me it's as simple as, honest ones do yes.
If they do what they say they will for the price they say then of course I respect them.

If they lie, cheat, or try to get away with a poor service then no, of course I would still treat them like a human being and never harm them, but disrespect thier reputation, of course I would.

[dreamgirl]

I do find it funny how most people see prostitutes with less respect than they do the punter. How does that work?

[softlad]

I do find it funny how most people see prostitutes with less respect than they do the punter. How does that work?

Probably the same way Bank managers/Politicians are viewed (in general) with more respect than window cleaners/binmen.

[Silver Birch]

People EARN respect, it is not their given right just because they haven't done anything bad.

I treat all wg's with respect when I meet them, and by the end of the meeting, some have earned my respect, and some haven't.

[dreamgirl]

But I don't treat you all the same as I know your all different and not all of you cheat on partners and are just normal blokes. It would be so nice if we could get treated as individuals and not the same as eachother all the time.

[Mancspunter]

I do find it funny how most people see prostitutes with less respect than they do the punter. How does that work?

I think that would depend on who you ask, if you took a random group of 100 people that had never met a prossie there would be a high percentage of people that thought they were std ridden/drug addled lowlifes due to media exposure.
If you took a group of 100 punters however I am sure it would be much more favourable due to them having actual experience.

[yumyum3]

But I don't treat you all the same as I know your all different and not all of you cheat on partners and are just normal blokes. It would be so nice if we could get treated as individuals and not the same as eachother all the time.

Hi dreamgirl. Would you please read this thread again. If you do you will find that just over 66percent of people on it agree with you while 16 percent say automatic respect regardless. I can't speak for others on here, but if you read my comment you'll find I agree with you also.

[Ali Katt]

People EARN respect, it is not their given right just because they haven't done anything bad.

I treat all wg's with respect when I meet them, and by the end of the meeting, some have earned my respect, and some haven't.

That's exactly it. People like to talk a load of blarney when it comes to respect, dreamgirl Kylie being one. I don't automatically respect someone because they are female or are a prostitute, that's not to say I don't respect some women and some prossies, but not all of them, that would be stupid. In the same way I respect some men, but not all of them. I have less respect for politicians than binmen, being a binman is at least on honest trade.

[yumyum3]

Now make that 71 percent agree with you so far

[softlad]

'Allowed my self to become a prostitute?' 'A complete lack of respect for my body'

If you had a teenage daughter and she told you she wanted to go on the game 'cos it's easy money innit...
Would you respect her decission ?

[softlad]

I have less respect for politicians than binmen, being a binman is at least on honest trade.

True, a real sign of the times we live in.

[smiths]

I have the upmost respect for WGs that are honest and offer me a good or better service as agreed and who have a good or better attitude. These women offer me a valuable service which i appreciate.

I have nothing but distain for liars, scammers, rip-off merchants or those that offer a bad service in any way.

I voted some do, some dont, it all depends on the individual SP to me.

[Jimmyredcab]

I have nothing but distain for liars, scammers, rip-off merchants or those that offer a bad service in any way.

I voted some do, some dont, it all depends on the individual SP to me.

Only a prostitute would vote that they all deserve respect.   

[softlad]

Only a prostitute would vote that they all deserve respect.   

What about a fluffy ? 

[smiths]

Only a prostitute would vote that they all deserve respect.   

2 posters so far have i see, only one woman if it is a woman (Kylie?) posted on the thread though up till now.

[Horizontal pleasures]

To start with why not call them ladies or women?

[dreamgirl]

It's funny how I keep getting pm after pm after pm saying how much some guys on here like my posts if your still saying I'm this girl.

[softlad]

It's funny how I keep getting pm after pm after pm saying how much some guys on here like my posts if your still saying I'm this girl.

TK used to turn every thread onto her favourite subject, namely herself !
I'm sure you wouldn't 'dream' of doing that would you ? 

[dreamgirl]

TK used to turn every thread onto her favourite subject, namely herself !
I'm sure you wouldn't 'dream' of doing that would you ? 

No of course not. If other people keep banging on about how I'm someone else then surely I'm going to respond to that?

[softlad]

No of course not. If other people keep banging on about how I'm someone else then surely I'm going to respond to that?

You could always rise above it.

[smiths]

To start with why not call them ladies or women?

I will call them WGs as i always do thanks, you call them what you want, thats your business, i will call them WGs which is my business.

[mattylondon]

To start with why not call them ladies or women?

Because the question wasn't about respecting women per se, was it? Rather, it was about whether one respects a woman who decides to sell herself sexually for financial gain. Don't confuse the two, even if you appear to wish to.

In answer to softlad's question, yes, I totally respect anybody who provides me with a service, as I believe a consumer should always do and treat them accordingly. That goes without saying. On the other hand, do I respect them as people for choosing to become prostitutes? That's easy. It's a categorical no. I do not have to respect or like anybody from which I purchase a service. However, I do believe all people should be treated with respect. To my mind, the two are for the most part, mutually explosive, although it can depend on the circumstances as to why the woman became a prostitute.

[mattylondon]

You could always rise above it.

Something that the fat chav is completely incapable of doing, for example. 

[iName]

i respect the hot fit young prossies who sell their body at a reasonable rate for men like me who without prossies would find it very hard to get laid with a minger let alone a stunner like the ones ive seen. i also respect the ones that give a good service whether theyre ugly in my opinion or not because everyone has different taste. especially the ones who manage to give a good service to fat old men just imagine if you were on the other side and had to pleasure fat old women?

i dont however respect prossies who dont enjoy this job and offer bad service, the scammers liars bait and switch etc... i also dont respect married prossies  imagine you found out you wife was selling her hole without you knowing? and the fact some do bareback eurgh have some respect for yourself and health. and especially ones with kids absolutely no respect for them.

i would find it very hard to have respect for my daughter if i had one who became a prossie. or any family member for that matter.

[dreamgirl]

Seems to me it's others who are incapable and can't stop talking about her or insulting her on several threads where I haven't even commented.

[The President]

Everyone gets my respect and its not for me to judge anyones morality however its only the individuals own actions and attitude that then can keep the initial respect given to them from me and if/once lost its hard to get it back..

[mattylondon]

i dont however respect prossies who dont enjoy this job and offer bad service, the scammers liars bait and switch etc... i also dont respect married prossies  imagine you found out you wife was selling her hole without you knowing? and the fact some do bareback eurgh have some respect for yourself and health. and especially ones with kids absolutely no respect for them

I couldn't agree more, re the married prossies. I think they're contemptible and deserving of no respect, whatsoever. On the other hand, a woman who's fallen on extremely hard times, through no fault of her own, I can understand to an extent, but that argument holds more validity in somewhere like Thailand. In the UK, there's really no excuse. Those that do it because it simply pays more, are also beyond contempt and are simply greedy, lazy cunts. And give other extremely hard working women, who are prepared to work hard, even in low paid jobs, a bad name. The former have all my respect, but not the latter.

[smiths]

My view on WGs is its their business if they choose to become one, the reasons are a matter for them. If i had a daughter of course i wouldnt want them to be a WG, thats not the point to me though, i havent got a daughter so its not relevant.

They offer a service and punters choose to take that service up or not, its completely up to the punter who he fancies and wishes to punt with. For some guys its punting or wanking, for others like me its a life long pastime where i am looking for some fun with a WG i fancy.

Praise the good if you wish and castigate the bad.

[smiths]

Everyone gets my respect and its not for me to judge anyones morality however its only the individuals own actions and attitude that then can keep the initial respect given to them from me and if/once lost its hard to get it back..

Well said, i totally agree. Every newbie to me gets a clean slate, i dont blame her for a previous WGs bad attitude and/or service. Only her being dishonest causes me to lose my respect for her. These bad WGs are utter scumbags and deserve to be exposed on sites like this in my opinion as the good deserve to be praised.

[Ali Katt]

Well said, i totally agree. Every newbie to me gets a clean slate, i dont blame her for a previous WGs bad attitude and/or service. Only her being dishonest causes me to lose my respect for her. These bad WGs are utter scumbags and deserve to be exposed on sites like this in my opinion as the good deserve to be praised.

Spot on 

[softlad]

For some guys its punting or wanking,

For some it's both...

[mattylondon]

My view on WGs is its their business if they choose to become one, the reasons are a matter for them. If i had a daughter of course i wouldnt want them to be a WG, thats not the point to me though, i havent got a daughter so its not relevant.

They offer a service and punters choose to take that service up or not, its completely up to the punter who he fancies and wishes to punt with. For some guys its punting or wanking, for others like me its a life long pastime where i am looking for some fun with a WG i fancy.

Praise the good if you wish and castigate the bad.

I see what you're saying, but I don't think that's the point of the question. If the SP had asked ' do women have a right to become prostitutes'? My answer would've been a resounding yes. This is supposed to be a free country, after all. I would be the first to support that. People should be free to choose to do what they like, as long as it is a free choice, naturally. I feel it's perfectly consistent to make a moral assumption, however, that I wouldn't wish a daughter to make that free choice and be a prostitute. I'm not the greatest fan of traffic wardens either, but they have a job to do and are perfectly free to make that choice, even if I consider them to be the scum of the earth!!

[smiths]

I see what you're saying, but I don't think that's the point of the question. If the SP had asked ' do women have a right to become prostitutes'? My answer would've been a resounding yes. This is supposed to be a free country, after all. I would be the first to support that. People should be free to choose to do what they like, as long as it is a free choice, naturally. I feel it's perfectly consistent to make a moral assumption, however, that I wouldn't wish a daughter to make that free choice or not particularly respect that choice. I'm not the greatest fan of traffic wardens either, but they have a job to do and are perfectly free to make that choice, even if I consider them to be the scum of the earth!!

I changed the point to suit my answer Matty.

[AnthG]

I voted Some do, Some don't. Which is the overriding winner so far (for those not members and cannot see the poll results).

What I respect; those doing this job as a stepping stone while working towards something else.
Those doing this as they are a single mother and want time to raise their child and not got time or the ability for a 9/5 job.

What I do not respect; Those offering Bareback. I think not respect is a bit harsh on this as I kind of feel for them as they must be in a desperate situation or just emotionally in problems

I do not respect those who hate their job and disrespect punters and just stay in it begrudgingly due to the money. But that is the same with any job. I am aware this can contradict with the situation of what I respect (doing this as a stepping stone, single mother) but really there are other options available if you hate the job.

What I truly respect and admire is those who put their absolute all into their profession. It shows good character. It shows a dedication to their work. So in terms of escorting this would be from seeing their posts on forums the likes of Carmen, Strawberry, FatProssie, TK, ImpossiblePrincess and many-many others.

[mattylondon]

I voted Some do, Some don't. Which is the overriding winner so far (for those not members and cannot see the poll results).

I agree with some of what you said, with regards to bareback and those who hate their job, but I'd be interested to know exactly what you consider prostitution to be a stepping stone to then Anth?!  In terms of earning potential and it's tax free nature for the vast majority, surely the only way to go is down, in terms of money?

Would you respect any prossie who rejoined UKP under a false nic and/or got a UKP member involved with the police, during a punt, for example? What if that had happened to you?   

[AnthG]

but I'd be interested to know exactly what you consider prostitution to be a stepping stone to then Anth?! 

By stepping stone I meant students doing this whilst at uni/college to earn money while doing their course to do their eventual dream job on graduation.

Would you respect any prossie who rejoined UKP under a false nic

Yes because it shows a dedication to want to be part of the forum again.

or got a UKP member involved with the police, during a punt, for example? What if that had happened to you?   

Like I said at the time if it had of happened with me being the punter. I would have been so nervous when the police arrived. They would have likely believed her and thus carted me off and my life ruined.

Like I also said at the time, that was the worst messup in the history of messups.

Everyone knows she did wrong. But it was wrong out of daftness as opposed to maliciousness. I do daft things myself so can relate to that.

And plus as I said in the Peneloppe Ferre thread yesterday. I have a softspot for that particular escort. And also the one called Shady. Just as I can see parts of myself in them. (or at least would want to  - sorry crass joke).

[Sailormack]

Prostitutes do not do the job for "respect".

They do it for the money 

[AnthG]

Prostitutes do not do the job for "respect".

They do it for the money 

Yeah but you can say the same for most jobs.

Hairdressers, for example off the top of my head, don't do the job for respect. They do it for money. But would you want your hair to be cut by someone who loves and takes pride in their work. Or who will just run a razor through it and say, they you go your done.