How long are you prepared to wait

[BootsnBunches]

A frustrating morning.  A girl I’ve seen a lot of times was lined up for my second punt back.  I arrange my day around it and detour for the meet, arriving 10 mins beforehand, letting her know I’m ready by text as in the past she’s texted me to say if you’re ready come up.  The time of the meeting arrives and no reply, so I call. No answer. 

At 20 past. I walk sending a text saying I presume she’s taken another booking. A few minutes later she calls but I’m in the car by then.

How long do you think it’s fair to wait?

[LLPunting]

Like you I notify by text on arrival and wait if I'm early.  If no reply by time of booking, especially if I've been advising of journey and arrival, then I call once; if no reply then I wait a max of 5 mins before I start contacting plan B/C/D.  IF no response whilst I'm contacting the other options then I move on after 15 or as soon as a tempting alternative confirms.  I usually have at least one parlour as part of contingency rather than all escorts.  Depending on how far I've travelled I will try for bookings along a route home unless the immediate area is option rich.

[smiths]

A frustrating morning.  A girl I’ve seen a lot of times was lined up for my second punt back.  I arrange my day around it and detour for the meet, arriving 10 mins beforehand, letting her know I’m ready by text as in the past she’s texted me to say if you’re ready come up.  The time of the meeting arrives and no reply, so I call. No answer. 

At 20 past. I walk sending a text saying I presume she’s taken another booking. A few minutes later she calls but I’m in the car by then.

How long do you think it’s fair to wait?

I will wait a max of half an hour, I assume this punt didnt happen but as she took your booking you can do a review which in my view other punters need to be aware of her fucking you over. But that's up to you of course.

[Foxtail17]

When I started punting I would wait up to 30 minutes after booked start time. Now I give them a max of 5 minutes then I just send a bye bye text and leave.
Somebody on here put it beautifully by saying ‘my first name is time, my second is tide, and I wait for nobody.’

I give leeway if it is an outcall, depending on the comms

[doppelwalk]

If there is no communication i wait 10min and leave.
If there is a communication like "give me a bit of time", i wait 10min then text "i will leave in 5minutes" and leave if she still wastes time.

[Jerk Chicken]

This is such a tricky one as so much comes into play and to me no hard and fast rule.

But generally if on arrival my wait times are:-

Radio silence = 5 mins
Contact but asking for more time = 10-15 mins
Yet another text asking for even more time = I walk

What I try to do is balance the conduct of the SP prior to the booking, did the previous punter arrive late or  overrun or is this a MacD/KFC type service waiting for me for my hard earned. It's not an easy call.

Further I am more likely to hang in if the SP deals with me by voice on arrival rather than by text. It is much easier for me to test the sincerity of the SP's spin by voice than hiding behind her keyboard.

[Global_Punter]

It's depends on your plan for the day, I rarely do lunch hour punts - as a matter of fact my last lunch punt was almost 3 years ago, hence I only book punts when my calendar is free.

Once there's a good coffee shop or one of my muti-access gym in the vicinity with a decent lounge, I'm happy to do some personal work on my laptop and time flies quick so even if its a two hour wait I'm good, but the time has to be rescheduled properly - no out of the blue texting advising me to make my way at short notice ie in 5 min or 10 mins.

I know my patience may not work for everyone, as some folks will lose their mind - but I always have my laptop and projects to work on so a 1 - 3 hour window to focus on it will be great but any random waiting time I can't accommodate.

 

[Jerk Chicken]

I should add I once chilled in a nearby pub for 40 mins but as I said that was because each time I called after the "give me 10 minutes text" the SP answered on every occasion at times sounded flustered as in getting ready or out the shower sort of thing so I decided to hang in.

[Deeplove]

I would wait 15 mins max, I've learned the hard way, dropping punting money faffing around waiting.

I text on the way, text on arrival then call 5 mins past booking time. Wait 5 mins then text/call again.

I'd rather have radio silence than give me 2 mins I'll call you back, and 10mins later, just 5 mins more I'll call you, 25mins later I'm ready, like a lost donkey walking around in a unknown area for 25mins no freaking way!

I make my way back exactly 15mins past booking time, unless of course she has raving review's about her and no one has said she's stood them up before, I'd be prepared to wait for about 25mins max

 

[Yankee41]

It depends on abit for me i guess.  If i have seen them before i generally give them 15 minutes before i walk.  If they are new i give them 5 and walk.  I dont them getting the idea that its ok to keep me waiting at the first meet.    I do accept delays with an excuse though and that 5 minutes can become 15 but after that i go. 

Sometimes i send them a knock knock text if i feel they have just fucked me over without consideration.
"Knock, knock."
"Whos there"
"Not me or your money"

[loveahe]

As above, 15 mins is the maximum I'd wait.

For punts that are closer to me, particularly if I tell them I'm leaving now and it will take me 5 or 10 mins to get there and they only reply they'll be late when I arrive, I walk straight away.

[kaj314]

As above, 15 mins is the maximum I'd wait.

For punts that are closer to me, particularly if I tell them I'm leaving now and it will take me 5 or 10 mins to get there and they only reply they'll be late when I arrive, I walk straight away.

+1, or sooner if I feel as though the punt is going to end up moody on my part due to waiting, or if I sense any frustration/irritation from wg.

[Fu-Qin Boi-Ling]

[quote
"Knock, knock."
"Whos there"
"Not me or your money"
[/quote]


lol thats a good one

[sunnyj]

20 mins max 

She is the reason why I only wait for 20 minutes these days. 
I booked her when she was working in that well known building in South Kensington. She made me wait for 45 minutes and I got so angry and upset. Was about to leave then she sent a text that she is available now. I went, took a shower and face fucked her in all possible positions nonstop for 20 minutes, she took it without any complaint and I finished on her face. After that I calmed down and had a chat, she is a nice and sweet girl. I felt bad and decided it is better to leave when a WG mess up with time. 

[Johncy]

It depends on abit for me i guess.  If i have seen them before i generally give them 15 minutes before i walk.  If they are new i give them 5 and walk.  I dont them getting the idea that its ok to keep me waiting at the first meet.    I do accept delays with an excuse though and that 5 minutes can become 15 but after that i go.

Sometimes i send them a knock knock text if i feel they have just fucked me over without consideration.
"Knock, knock."
"Whos there"
"Not me or your money"
 
I will use that if it happened to me

[justalad]

15 minutes tops.  Any more and I presume another booking is taking place and I’ll exit and never to contact again.

[BootsnBunches]

15 minutes tops.  Any more and I presume another booking is taking place and I’ll exit and never to contact again.

That was pretty much my strategy.  I did get a call on 21 but I was in the car by then. We exchanged texts later in the day and I’d like to believe the reason I was given. Not sure though. In fairness she’s been a good provider to date, so perhaps it was genuine.

[LdnWalker]

Feel like it depends on how much I want to see the person. If I've seen them before then I might wait a bit longer or if they're really well reviewed.

Never wait more than 30 mins though.

[mightymunce]

I got hacked off waiting 5 mins...

[KentAde]

I got hacked off waiting 5 mins...

+1 can't stand waiting or being late. If a SP cannot organise their diary to satisfy breaks in-between then shame on them...(hence why i'm not into the 'mechanical' back-to-back ones...)

[hendrix]

+1 can't stand waiting or being late. If a SP cannot organise their diary to satisfy breaks in-between then shame on them...(hence why i'm not into the 'mechanical' back-to-back ones...)

+1

[mightymunce]

+1

Especially if its cold

[winkywanky]

This is such a tricky one as so much comes into play and to me no hard and fast rule.

But generally if on arrival my wait times are:-

Radio silence = 5 mins
Contact but asking for more time = 10-15 mins
Yet another text asking for even more time = I walk

What I try to do is balance the conduct of the SP prior to the booking, did the previous punter arrive late or  overrun or is this a MacD/KFC type service waiting for me for my hard earned. It's not an easy call.

Further I am more likely to hang in if the SP deals with me by voice on arrival rather than by text. It is much easier for me to test the sincerity of the SP's spin by voice than hiding behind her keyboard.

I think that's a very well balanced and considered approach. And also pragmatic, if you're able to wait and keep calm about it then you might end up having a great punt. Which brings me onto my own point, which is that if you've previously had very good service from the girl, or someone you trust on UKP has, then you're more likely to wait and enjoy the fruits of that wait.

[Southendlothario]

10 mins is what ive gone by in the past. End of the day, 10mims could be a clock not at the right time, and 10.57am counts as 11 oclock in my book lol.

But If either no answer second time of trying, after getting the usual "phone me when outside" ...... or have to wait around any longer than 10 mins, then i wont hang around. Asking for more time would simply get response of "piss off love, ill see someone else and they can have my money instead".

[Stealthmode]

I drive to 99% of my punts, so from a comfort view its not so bad waiting in a warm and dry car, as long as Im informed and she is replying to calls/texts then 15mins is about right. If I was on public transport and exposed to the elements, then I will be less forgiving.

I’ve also learned to only pay for parking once I’ve got the green light to come up.  Its annoying when I’ve parked somewhere with a maximum limit and the wait time has eaten into this limited.

[Anadin]

Honestly it depends. If it's someone I've never seen before I'll leave within minutes of no comms. If they tell me they're running late and give me a new time within the hour chances are I'll sit in the car and wait.
If it's a regular & one I've travelled some distance to see then like an idiot I'll probably wait for a couple of hours if they tell me to and I haven't got to be anywhere.
Then there's the very rare & convenient work day punt where I'm within 5-10 minutes of an incall and can pretty much go whenever so I'm not really waiting for her & can down tools when they tell me they're ready.

I’ve also learned to only pay for parking once I’ve got the green light to come up.  Its annoying when I’ve parked somewhere with a maximum limit and the wait time has eaten into this limited.

Yeah I do this too. I also text them about 10 minutes before to let them know I'm almost there. If I don't get an OK reply from that alarm bells start ringing with me.

[dondraper]

Like everyone else 15 mins, particularly if for example i also gave them short notice e.g. i booked an hour before, as understandable they may be accommodating and overlapping meets,

however if i’ve booked in advance notice and im required to wait, i would prefer to walk. usually a sign to me they’re careless and service is probably going to be same too.

[joe diddley]

15 minutes; 20 minutes if I'm really cunt-struck

[magnetico]

Never forget adding short Neg review if a prossie wasted your time

[scutty brown]

I usually fuck off after 15 minutes but let them think I'm still waiting, so when the "ready now" call comes they get told "tough shit too late". They waste my time, I'll waste theirs

[winkywanky]

I usually fuck off after 15 minutes but let them think I'm still waiting, so when the "ready now" call comes they get told "tough shit too late". They waste my time, I'll waste theirs

An appropriate plan, well executed.