What do your best experiences with an escort have in common?

[speedygonzal]

As a title for me, when the girl doesn't use any lube  , the meeting is usually great, regardless of whether it's GFE or PSE. On the other hand, when I'm not even naked and the girl starts using lube  , that's usually the start of a crap experience.

[RandomGuy99]

Good clear communications and expectation setting (SP matches photos)

No hidden extras and an accurate likes list.

Arriving at the venue early with no last minute stress.

Lube I expect.

[Blackpool Rock]

When before you even start to undress the girl comes over and initiates some DFK 

Also when the girl goes straight down on your cock without wet wiping the hell out of it, i'm always showered before a punt and i'd expect the girl to check it just in case but when it's obviously clean just get to work 

On the lube issue personally I love it so i'm the other way round and hate it if the girl doesn't use any or worse doesn't even have any 

[jamiekinkxxx]

unscripted, mutual pleasure...

[speedygonzal]

Good clear communications and expectation setting (SP matches photos)

I think clicking and chemistry play a big role to make the whole experience positive , unfortunately the above doesn’t help with that.

[jamiekinkxxx]

I think clicking and chemistry play a big role to make the whole experience positive , unfortunately the above doesn’t help with that.

agree, when that happens it always = a great time

[hendrix]

For me, clear comms, timeliness, attention to detail on what I've asked for, pro active suggestions and a "go with the flow" attitude have always guaranteed a good time.

All the WG's I see pre-lube, and personally I don't believe in "click/chemistry" in a paid environment.

[FLYING BLUE]

Giving me the impression that she's happy to be there.

[RandomGuy99]

I think clicking and chemistry play a big role to make the whole experience positive , unfortunately the above doesn’t help with that.

Clicking and chemistry come into it very rarely. It's mostly down to the SP's ability to get along with most people.

It's a paid fuck and they are putting on an act to an extent.

[Crockers]

When you click at first sight, when they love wine or soirits, when they laugh, when they submit and make suggestions.

[MysteryManNo.7]

Generally it comes down to if you have chemistry and yes I know many here will poo-poo the idea that it's possible to have chemistry as you are of course paying for this service but speaking purely anecdotally, it has Definity happened to me with a few escorts and it massively enhances the experience.

Lube I agree is another one. Using too much of it kills the experience but due to my size the majority of women tend to got a bit overboard as they feel intimidated by it and frequently have to reapply during sex even when I've made them cum pre coitus and they are very wet naturally. The ones that don't use it or preferably do but don't go overboard are the best. I want her to feel comfortable and I imagine things get a bit sore in the lady garden when it's being constantly stuffed with cocks all day long but I do want to actually feel something.

Others would be really basic things such as a very clear profile with no extras, everything she offers stated clearly and delivered, fast and efficient communication. The main one will always be having chemistry. It won't happen in the majority of cases but on the occasion it does it trumps almost everything else.

[Thephoenix]

Anything that even  slightly resembles a hard on.

[jimbobted]

Generally it comes down to if you have chemistry and yes I know many here will poo-poo the idea that it's possible to have chemistry as you are of course paying for this service but speaking purely anecdotally, it has Definity happened to me with a few escorts and it massively enhances the experience.

Agree with this. Doesn't matter that it's a paid encounter, that does not preclude the girl from a having a good time if there's a bit of mutual chemistry there.

[Munter84]

Good question/topic.

When I think back to my best punts, I think the common theme is that the meet has felt natural and unscripted, and certainly not any reminder that we're "on the clock". If it's a new girl, she's been personable and put me at ease. If it's a regular, she greets me as such and shows (fakes!) happiness to see me again. The transition from clothed to naked to bed is unrushed, and the sex happens in its own time - certainly no Johnnies being tugged over quarter-lobs, or lube being unceremoniously slapped onto bone dry pussies, or "cum for me" after three thrusts.

So, yeah, for me it's definitely the enthusiasm and the passable simulation of a mutually enjoyable tryst.

[flouch]

Unscripted / feeling like meeting a friend with benefits or (less often) a first date that's ended in bed
DFK that matches my style (start soft but escalate quickly to firm tongue wrestling)
My best punts have almost all been with either British or French escorts - might be a coincidence
Switching between dom/sub roles (haven't tried full on BDSM etc, but just a case of one of us getting more aggressive - usually the WG)

[JontyR]

Best punts are where I've done my due diligence.
Followed my punting rules
The girl hasn't been shy and we were able to understand each other both with words and actions.

[Kool Keef]

When they want to get down to the good stuff right away, no offer of a time wasting  massage at the start.
Eye contact, lots of smiling, relaxed atmosphere...

[dobob]

When before you even start to undress the girl comes over and initiates some DFK 
...

Why are you so keen to get your kit off? A good snog as soon as I arrive in the room to say hello to the WG and begin to get the old man working is exactly what I look forward to. But, what the heck, each to his own.

Cheers!

[alabama1]

Why are you so keen to get your kit off? A good snog as soon as I arrive in the room to say hello to the WG and begin to get the old man working is exactly what I look forward to. But, what the heck, each to his own.

Cheers!

He isn't 

[Dylanbob]

95% of them are because I searched their username on here and found a review (more commonly multiple).

A big indicator it will be rubbish is not wearing a pre agreed outfit or them trying to reconfim how long you want.

I have used the later in the past to my advantage to turn 90 min punts into 15 just to cum and save some money though.

[Plan R]

Curvy woman.
Reasonable comms, and honest 'likes' list.
Nice enough venue (as in anything that doesn't feel unsafe like a crack den that'll soon be raided)
Sense of unreality.. as in 'ohh I'm about to make the sexy time with this stunner - and for only money! Whopeee !! 

[jamiekinkxxx]

Agree with this. Doesn't matter that it's a paid encounter, that does not preclude the girl from a having a good time if there's a bit of mutual chemistry there.

+1

It happens for sure

Not always, in fact rare, but when it does... 

[signy]

Really good roleplay to start. Not only is this important to me, but I find that if an escort does this well, showing commitment and imagination, then the rest of the experience will follow suit.

Also, and somewhat oddly, having a good post-action chat. Being unrushed, friendly and able to sustain an interesting conversation demonstrates engagement, and means that I leave on an upnote and more willing to forget any hiccups earlier.

[guymids-72]

The best encounters are when the SP actually makes you forget it is a paid for transaction.
Very very rare but when it happens wow

[WASA38]

The best encounters are when the SP actually makes you forget it is a paid for transaction.
Very very rare but when it happens wow

+1.
I find a business-like approach a turn off regardless of physical attractiveness or lack of inhibition.

[chadpitt]

It's had to say but I think escorts that do genuine GFE do the best experiences.

DFK, compliments, eye contact, right sounds, open minded, easy-going.

Plus a banging body.

[Davey80]

For me it would be all of:

- good & prompt comms to set the meeting up and when giving exact entry details
- discreet location (apartment block is ideal)
- nice clean flat with a shower available
- girl is friendly & sexy and the girl in the photos
- doesn’t insist on giving direction with access all areas especially her tits

[fredhiggins]

Anything that even  slightly resembles a hard on.

His or yours?

[JAYZ]

I think it has been stated a number of times, but it is when there is pleasure on both sides.

[Thephoenix]

His or yours?

Preferably mine!

However as a keen hornithologist I'm occasionally interested in a cockatoo, particularly if they're attached to a couple of nice ladyboys.

[standardpostage]

Chemistry, and that hard to describe, X Factor ! 

[hendrix]

The best encounters are when the SP actually makes you forget it is a paid for transaction.
Very very rare but when it happens wow

Personally, I'd actively hate that and would not revisit. I'm not her friend or FB, I'm a customer.

[mikef2008]

Personally, I'd actively hate that and would not revisit. I'm not her friend or FB, I'm a customer.

I'm with Hendrix on this (if I understand him correctly!): part of what appeals to me about punting is that it *is* a paid transaction. I find there's something dirty/sexy about that

[alabama1]

I'm with Hendrix on this (if I understand him correctly!): part of what appeals to me about punting is that it *is* a paid transaction. I find there's something dirty/sexy about that

I know exactly where you are coming from here mate. 

[Colston36]

Laughter.

[alabama1]

Laughter.

I totally agree. Laughter and banter, go a long way. 

[pantywetter]

Personally, I'd actively hate that and would not revisit. I'm not her friend or FB, I'm a customer.

I like really convincing GFE, but I feel like I’m dicing with trouble if she makes me forget it’s paid.

I don’t really get EAS, but my mind goes in that direction.  I look at the punt with different eyes and I don’t really like how it feels. 

Much better to keep it transactional. 

[pantywetter]

To answer the OPs question, for me it is about the DFK.
Good DFK I will certainly have a good time.
No DFK I hate with a passion.  Sex without kissing does nothing for me.

[Malvolio]

The WG acts like she's pleased to see me on opening the door.

[Hotdogboy88]

Young natural, minimum make up, friendly, FAF body and DFK.

For shemales same as  slim flat stomach no body hair, big cock that gets hard stays hard and shoots a big load. 

[dobob]

He isn't 

I misread the context of the post. Sorry for the confusion and thanks for putting me right.

Cheers!

[robsmith149]

She takes it up the farter.

[Punterperson1971]

When they are please to see you again and again and when nothing is to much trouble for them to do,no huffing and puffing,if I suggest something to my regular it’s never a problem,also a nice relaxed atmosphere as well.
Also the no asking for money as soon as you walk in shows they are ok with you

[marc_hotsteppa]

When they actively encourage you to cum as many times as you can in the time you are with them = maxing out the pleasure so you leave with jelly legs and not knowing what your name is/what day it is/a complete jibbering wreck 

[oldrascal]

When she makes me cum.........

(I'm only a few years younger than The Phoenix!)

[Colston36]

I totally agree. Laughter and banter, go a long way. 

The other ruling factor is that she understood what I wanted.

[oldrascal]

To elaborate slightly on my earlier post (44), I would say that 30% of the time I cum every time!

[Trotter671]

When before you even start to undress the girl comes over and initiates some DFK 

Also when the girl goes straight down on your cock without wet wiping the hell out of it, i'm always showered before a punt and i'd expect the girl to check it just in case but when it's obviously clean just get to work 

On the lube issue personally I love it so i'm the other way round and hate it if the girl doesn't use any or worse doesn't even have any 

I agree with you on the above BR, always a good sign when the lass is well up for snogeroos - makes the rest of the punt turn out better and dirtier (usually but not always).
I prefer the lass to hopefully get wet enough without having to use lube but of course that doesn't always happen.
It's obviously is a lot easier if you click, have a bit of banter with the lass as some of the other guys quite rightly have said.

[akauya]

Giving me the impression that she's happy to be there.

Agree with this 100%

[Thephoenix]

Giving me the impression that she's happy to be there.

Or at least that she's not unhappy to be there.