I think that's fair comment from KN and have come across not dissimilar scenarios. The prossie takes a relative shine to a punter, especially say after she's had three utter arseholes (or worse arseholes) in a row. She relaxes and gives him some latitude and boy is he grateful. Starts to think she 'likes' him. Then one day the prossie has to get up for yet another fucking appointment and thinks to herself, "Why am I being so nice to this fat bastard who's basically taking (or I'm letting take) advantage? Fuck that. It's a business arrangement!"
I've lost count of the number of prossies who have 'tightened up' their arrangements. If they are going to survive in the business they need to get their head straight on such things. I think the better ones let an appointment run over by ten or fifteen minutes quite deliberately, as standard, to make a good impression (as indeed it does) and probably do it every time unless she has to fuck off somewhere or the punter is so bloody painful she wants shot of him faster than she can say bulima.
Marm, there's a whole world of difference between letting a booking run over by 10 - 15 minutes and letting it run over by 1+ hours. A huge difference.
I agree that there's probably an element of the prossie trying to make a good impression or they may have genuinely enjoyed the the meet but I'm sceptical of that. It did occur to me that perhaps the real reason this prossie lets the time overrun with some punters due to them posting on UKP?
My issue with this chancer is that he knowingly paid for 1 hour, whilst clearly trying to take advantage of her good nature or awareness that he was a UKP member, to squeeze out an extra hour plus and more some. Perhaps he thought he could get away with it as she wouldn't risk 'upsetting' a member who posts on here, for fear of a bad rep. And what happens, the minute she asks for some extra money, he turns up on here to fucking bitch and moan. True to form.
It's got fuck all to do with being a customer, in my opinion. I'm sorry Anth, but completely irrelevant to this case, in my opinion. It's very clear to me that he was boundary pushing to a very high degree. I wouldn't at all be surprised if she had a serious re-think after the previous three times. She didn't make any demands for the full amount, by the looks of it but merely a gesture. Is that really unreasonable and why did he not insist on paying up front? I always insist on paying up front. In Thailand, as you know, it's the form to pay afterwards, unless it's a bar fine. We all know the unwritten rule here. I'd find it embarrassing to put any prossie in the position of asking for the money at all. After I've confirmed the services are on offer as being advertised, I immediately pay up.
Yes, she should keep an eye on the time, but it's pretty lame of the OP to blame it all on the prossie. He's an adult. He can read a fucking clock or look at a watch. Yes, she did act in an unprofessional manner too. However, if this had happened a single time, I wouldn't even bother to post but this happened four times and he's admitted that he was expecting extra time for nothing.