masturbation decrease sex drive?

[Cuntminion]

Half the reason I went to a wg was to get a bit of experience
On my own no hardship roughing one out in the presence of another was more work than I thought

Wc gave me a bit of advice basically don't wank so much, gonna do this, also ban on all porn till next visit, gonna live like a monk for two weeks, hopefully it will add something

Anyone suffered similar

I'm no jaffa, but either I'm really aroused by empty rooms or porn has ruined me a bit and I need to rehabilitate

[ForrestGump]

You're definitely not unique. I've found it really hard to break out of the can-only-cum-with-porn mindset.

Take a look at this thread... https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=25960.msg372395#msg372395

[Cuntminion]

You're definitely not unique. I've found it really hard to break out of the can-only-cum-with-porn mindset.

Take a look at this thread... https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=25960.msg372395#msg372395

Cheers interesting read, thing knocking the porn and self love on the head is the way to go

Biggest mental barrier I had was the nerves which went by the end, one the reasons I going to stick with the same wg till she stops
I can go in relaxed next time

Atm next one is two weeks after the first, aiming for once a month after, when she stops ill evaluate maybe stop for a while

[spkmstr48]

I have a different problem, the more I masturbate, watch porn, see WGs, the more I want to do these things. Abstinence kills my sex drive. I get into either a positive or negative feedback loop with it. So it's all or nothing.

 

[MancSean]

I think everyone is different though and it's impossible to generalise.  I find that with wgs the more porn I watch the hornier I get and the more I want to shag. I always have a wank to porn after a punt if I don't go for a second one

[ForrestGump]

Abstaining from porn/wanking should set you up nicely for that next punt, imo.

I've also found that I need to feel very comfortable/relaxed with the wg if I'm to pop. If she's not doing a good job of feigning interest/passion (yes, I'm into gfe type girls) I find it very difficult to cum.

[spkmstr48]

I think everyone is different though and it's impossible to generalise.  I find that with wgs the more porn I watch the hornier I get and the more I want to shag. I always have a wank to porn after a punt if I don't go for a second one

Sean that's two things you've agreed with me on. You trying to make he look bad in my motherland? That's the white rose side of the pennines.

 

[MancSean]

My grandad was from Leeds uses to take me to Hedingly to watch rugby. Never supported them though. But you still have to tell me who's the girl in your avi. I want to look her up on a porn site.

[Cuntminion]

Interesting the varied opinions

Def giving the porn and wanking a break in theory it's the route I have yet to try
Yt?
As said prior the nerves are gone now, just got to find a replacement for when I am feeling aroused till then

fuck might even start exercising again

My only disappointment with my visit to the wonderful wg I reviewed was I was so nervous and adrenaline fuelled it seems a hazy memory

Hope to absorb it all better next trip, honestly beginners luck but she was amazing

[spkmstr48]

My grandad was from Leeds uses to take me to Hedingly to watch rugby. Never supported them though. But you still have to tell me who's the girl in your avi. I want to look her up on a porn site.

That's OK then 2 generations is nothing in Yorkshire.

Sorry no idea who the girl is in my avatar.

 

[Cuntminion]

Where can you flog a sizable porn collection?

[PeachyAssFan]

I blame wanking too much and too hard during my teens and twenties and times when I didn't have a girlfriend impacting on me often being unable to cum when fucking wearing a condom. Laying off the wanking for a few days helps. Annoying when your punt plan falls through and you've missed your wanks for nothing!

[Cuntminion]

Ha my first ever sexual experience was a car wreck, was hammered, only condom I had was a numb your cock last longer one I got in loaded
Went for an hour not through ability but I could not feel a fucking thing

[PeachyAssFan]

Forgot to say, I've often found having a relaxing massage for 10 or 15 minutes on an hour punt helps rather than diving in. I know some people think it's a waste of money for that part. But, Sometimes it's what's in your mind rather than the physical friction holding you back - eg stressing about rushing in traffic to get to punt and back to work, or worries that someone might see you etc etc

[Cuntminion]

Cheers for the tips

Def mental rather than physical hurdle but should be fixable, just trial and error

 

[Chuckman]

What works for me is to go two days without masturbation otherwise the appointment is a waste of time and money as I won't be able to climax.

[tonysoprano]

Go 1 month without porn or wanking.

After that you'll be walking around with a boner so hard you'll be able to open doors with it. 

[PLeisure]

I've also found that I need to feel very comfortable/relaxed with the wg if I'm to pop. If she's not doing a good job of feigning interest/passion (yes, I'm into gfe type girls) I find it very difficult to cum.

Spot on, FG 
Like the OP, I'm admittedly new to the punting world. Seen one girl three times. Incredible body but not managed to pop with her. But have since with two other girls. Both were more committed, I guess - gave a quality service and I learnt to relax more.

There are times when I can get quite detached whilst fucking. Banging away in doggy and I feel quite surreal, like I'm floating above the bed observing what's happening without any excitement. If they're doing a good job it's easier for me to get back in to the sex.

To get back to the theme.... I leave it for several days. Typically a week, although last week's punt was 10 days without. The final three days was a lot of antagonistic play-wanking so he was well primed by the time the WG was in the room.