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Sureshot

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Ive been seeing a girl regularly for the past 6/7 months or so and up till recently its been all good.  However, i started to feel it was becoming a bit of a chore and the buzz had gone so decided to give her a break for a while.

Now she keeps sending me emails through AW "when you coming back" "cant wait to see you again" etc.  I told her i was busy but still got stuff like "let me relax you blah blah"

I dont want to ditch her permanently coz shes a superb SP and i know i'll want to see her again at some point but ffs its getting a bit much!!

So how do i play this one? I've tried being polite and tried being blunt but still doesnt look like shes getting it!



vw

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Ive been seeing a girl regularly for the past 6/7 months or so and up till recently its been all good.  However, i started to feel it was becoming a bit of a chore and the buzz had gone so decided to give her a break for a while.

Now she keeps sending me emails through AW "when you coming back" "cant wait to see you again" etc.  I told her i was busy but still got stuff like "let me relax you blah blah"

I dont want to ditch her permanently coz shes a superb SP and i know i'll want to see her again at some point but ffs its getting a bit much!!

So how do i play this one? I've tried being polite and tried being blunt but still doesnt look like shes getting it!
Have you reviewed anyone else on AW lately, that is a good message to send ! I bet she checks

Offline Bangers and Gash

Tell her you've caught an STI and is out of action for a couple of months.  :hi:

Deviant

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Tell her you've caught an STI and is out of action for a couple of months.  :hi:

 :lol: Best advice you will get on this thread. Do it!

Hawkwind71

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Without knowing what she is like and how she feels its very hard to advise. If what you say is true, she has forgotten the first law of escorting, never contact the punter unless he contacts you first. Second law is never see the punter as anything else than a client. Third law is stay the fuck out of his private life.

If she has overstepped the line you need to draw a new one. Block her, change your phone number and move on. You will help her in that she won't be so stupid with her next regular. Not on this scale but I did have a taste of your problem. I cut her off immediately.

The one thing that worries me is that you've seen her 24 (?) Times and yet are ready to see her again. This is something I strongly advise against. She is a honeypot and you're a bee. This hobby is a game OP , go find your next toy.

As I said at the begining I don't know the circumstances but unless you are single I would step very carefully and remind yourself its a hobby, nothing more. And if you think she is the best, you're  wrong.  :hi:
« Last Edit: September 15, 2015, 08:23:35 pm by Hawkwind71 »

Offline berksboy

   Tell you are loved up and being a good boy.

Offline threechilliman

Or tell her you're a bit short at the moment and will be for a month or two. Either she'll cut you a deal, or she'll go and pester someone else.

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Offline Cuntminion

Tell her your goat died and you are on a spiritual journey in Ibiza and after that your helping isis but provided it does not rain can you book for 53 minutes if she is available March the 17th 2016 as you should be free that day

Sureshot

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Have you reviewed anyone else on AW lately, that is a good message to send ! I bet she checks

Yes, and had feedback left for me too!

Sureshot

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Tell her you've caught an STI and is out of action for a couple of months.  :hi:

Lol, this would definitely work short term but dont want to scare her off permanently

vw

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Lol, this would definitely work short term but dont want to scare her off permanently
Money prevents that, and sound like deep down you want the first time back again.

Offline RedKettle

You could try the truth!  I know that we do not do that very often with them - christ I had to sustain a discussion about being a corporate lawyer on major transactions the other week.  Know fuck all about the law.  But I digress.

Tell her that you felt things had got alittle routine with her and you are taking a break with other girls for a while and that you will see her again when you feel like it.  In the meantime stop contacting you, you will contact her when time is right.

When you see her you will either get the best shag of your life or your pet rabbit will be stew.....

Offline smiths

Ive been seeing a girl regularly for the past 6/7 months or so and up till recently its been all good.  However, i started to feel it was becoming a bit of a chore and the buzz had gone so decided to give her a break for a while.

Now she keeps sending me emails through AW "when you coming back" "cant wait to see you again" etc.  I told her i was busy but still got stuff like "let me relax you blah blah"

I dont want to ditch her permanently coz shes a superb SP and i know i'll want to see her again at some point but ffs its getting a bit much!!

So how do i play this one? I've tried being polite and tried being blunt but still doesnt look like shes getting it!

I punt for fun and no hassle, this WG would be hassle so I would be going elsewhere and if she continued which in my case would be on my punting phone as I don't email WGs I would tell her to fuck off.

Offline claretandblue

Ive been seeing a girl regularly for the past 6/7 months or so and up till recently its been all good.  However, i started to feel it was becoming a bit of a chore and the buzz had gone so decided to give her a break for a while.

Now she keeps sending me emails through AW "when you coming back" "cant wait to see you again" etc.  I told her i was busy but still got stuff like "let me relax you blah blah"

I dont want to ditch her permanently coz shes a superb SP and i know i'll want to see her again at some point but ffs its getting a bit much!!

So how do i play this one? I've tried being polite and tried being blunt but still doesnt look like shes getting it!
That would annoy me, if she wants to see you that much she should give you a free booking

JIMI1234

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That would annoy me, if she wants to see you that much she should give you a free booking

Exactly: Nail on the head 'Claret'
Best, and most useful comment/bit of advice of the night so far.

Sounds like she doesn't really want to se HIM, but more, his CASH!!

slow and low

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Tell her your goat died and you are on a spiritual journey in Ibiza and after that your helping isis but provided it does not rain can you book for 53 minutes if she is available March the 17th 2016 as you should be free that day
  as long as your not Irish bear in mind that is St Patrick Day

slow and low

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Just say your away. After couple of months free of each other if you do meet again it will probably be a cracking session.

Offline Cuntminion

  as long as your not Irish bear in mind that is St Patrick Day

Use apostrophes, commas etc, please, stop making me think stuff


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Ben4454

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A bit of an odd post. It is quite simple you tell her what you just told us. You will contact her when you are ready.

slow and low

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JIMI1234

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Use apostrophes, commas etc, please, stop making me think stuff


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What an image. Pure class..
But, yeah, there are some illiterates on here. Can't spell or use punctuation; use there instead of their (as in, it's there problem). NO!!! It's THEIR problem... etc etc..
I struggle to read and understand half of the stuff written (slight exaggeration there)

vw

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What an image. Pure class..
But, yeah, there are some illiterates on here. Can't spell or use punctuation; use there instead of their (as in, it's there problem). NO!!! It's THEIR problem... etc etc..
I struggle to read and understand half of the stuff written (slight exaggeration there)
But we are all punters together.  Being a poor writer makes their opinion no less valuable. 

slow and low

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What an image. Pure class..
But, yeah, there are some illiterates on here. Can't spell or use punctuation; use there instead of their (as in, it's there problem). NO!!! It's THEIR problem... etc etc..
I struggle to read and understand half of the stuff written (slight exaggeration there)
I have had an education, just missed out a comma tapping away. Never mind,  post that followed was amusing so no harm done. (comma inserted correctly)

JIMI1234

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But we are all punters together.  Being a poor writer makes their opinion no less valuable.

No, you're right. I sounded like a twat when I read it back (my post that is). I was meaning that it's frustrating to read a post and not 'get it' first time due to a lack of punctuation or 'readable/understandable grammar'.

Offline Cuntminion

I have had an education, just missed out a comma tapping away. Never mind,  post that followed was amusing so no harm done. (comma inserted correctly)

Oh was not meant in a mean way, I'm not grammar police

It just made me think of an Irish bear

Offline tantric talents

If you feel you have to respond, tell her you have moved out of the area and she is now just too far away.
( it's the reverse of a problem I once had with a regular. Fortunately she moved and so  my problem was sorted)
Your problem too hopefully solved  :hi:

slow and low

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Oh was not meant in a mean way, I'm not grammar police

It just made me think of an Irish bear
no problem :D

Offline iPad3

   Tell you are loved up and being a good boy.

Tell her you love her and that you want to take her out on a real date, you won't see her again for dust!!

vw

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Tell her you love her and that you want to take her out on a real date, you won't see her again for dust!!
The problem with this particular situation is he wants to see her again.

Offline Bangers and Gash

Say that her pussy felt so loose you could of driven a pimps Cadillac through it.  :D

JIMI1234

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I sometimes have to give people bad news but I do it with respect and politeness; but always be honest and up-front.
Do this with her and she SHOULD get what you're saying - and if she's not a nutter she will probably be ok with seeing you again too when you're ready

Offline LoneWolf2020

if her phone wasnt dusty you wouldnt hear from her.


Hawkwind71

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But we are all punters together.  Being a poor writer makes their opinion no less valuable.

I like being illegitimate,  :D





Offline Rich42


When you see her you will either get the best shag of your life or your pet rabbit will be stew.....

 :D

squeezebox

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Oh was not meant in a mean way, I'm not grammar police

It just made me think of an Irish bear

When i read that quickly, it made me think of...hmmmm

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Offline Rich42

Without knowing what she is like and how she feels its very hard to advise. If what you say is true, she has forgotten the first law of escorting, never contact the punter unless he contacts you first. Second law is never see the punter as anything else than a client. Third law is stay the fuck out of his private life.

If she has overstepped the line you need to draw a new one. Block her, change your phone number and move on. You will help her in that she won't be so stupid with her next regular. Not on this scale but I did have a taste of your problem. I cut her off immediately.

The one thing that worries me is that you've seen her 24 (?) Times and yet are ready to see her again. This is something I strongly advise against. She is a honeypot and you're a bee. This hobby is a game OP , go find your next toy.

As I said at the begining I don't know the circumstances but unless you are single I would step very carefully and remind yourself its a hobby, nothing more. And if you think she is the best, you're  wrong.  :hi:

Great post Hawk


Offline Dani

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Why not just ask her to not contact you as its not being very discreet and say you will get back in contact when you want a booking. There is nothing wrong with being honest. She shouldn't be contacting you begging for bookings anyway and will realise this when you are honest with her. She works as a prossie so should have thick skin so wont be offended by it.

slow and low

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No, you're right. I sounded like a twat when I read it back (my post that is). I was meaning that it's frustrating to read a post and not 'get it' first time due to a lack of punctuation or 'readable/understandable grammar'.
I'm sure every post you send is word perfect. Must have been that A level in English that contributed to my illiteracy.

Offline NIK

What an image. Pure class..
But, yeah, there are some illiterates on here. Can't spell or use punctuation; use there instead of their (as in, it's there problem). NO!!! It's THEIR problem... etc etc..
I struggle to read and understand half of the stuff written (slight exaggeration there)

Don't forget the frequent use of 'of' when they mean 'have' (as in, I would of thought). No!!! It's I would HAVE thought. Have is the possessive verb required -  of is not a verb but a preposition.  E.G. Bottom of the street, top of the hill. Queen of England, etc.  :dash:

Hawkwind71

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slow and low

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I missed a comma when typing, that doesn't class me as an illiterate.

vw

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sorry I meant illiterate.   :drinks:
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