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Author Topic: Why l'm not reviewing my last punt........  (Read 3311 times)

Offline catweazle

Now, l have a fair number of reviews on here (which l hope have proved helpful). I don't review repeat visits to the same SP if the event was broadly similar to the earlier (reviewed) one.

My reviews will correctly indicate that l am a fan of FBSM/rub ' n ' tug, call it what you will. The visit l am talking about was a repeat and was decidely different but there will be no review:

Massage fans will be aware that quite often, repeat visits to the same girl will ultimately lead to more services being offered (more than, say, what would be offered to a first timer walk in punter).

I have been seeing the same masseuse quite regularly for what must be in excess of 2 years now. Without any EAS developing, we know a fair bit about each other's "non punting" lives.

On the last visit she unexpectedly offered FS. Of course l accepted, and it proved one of the best shags ever. I am not naive enough to think that she won't be offering FS to other regulars, but l am inclined to think it is quite rare.

The reason l am not reviewing is that if l say who and where some randy chancer of a leech will steam on in there and demand sex because "l've read on the internet that you bang like a shithouse door", which will immediately close her legs and screw it up for those of us who have patiently invested time effort (and money!) in developing the working relationship to the pinnacle.

Offline Moresomes

Fair enough. If I'd stuck at it for 2+ years, and finally been granted shagging rights, I don't think I'd be spreading the news either.
   Enjoy.  :thumbsup:

vw

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I don''t know any punters that review everything, glad you had a good one anyway.   :drinks:

SeekingtheTruth

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This seems to be a bit of an attention seeking thread to me.

Did anyone know you were going on the punt? If no then why announce you are not going to review your last punt?

Online threechilliman

2 years to get into a birds knickers in the punting world! That has to be some sort of record surely? I must have shagged some right slappers cos they let me in on the first 'date'.

Offline RedKettle

This seems to be a bit of an attention seeking thread to me.

Did anyone know you were going on the punt? If no then why announce you are not going to review your last punt?

He has written 37 reviews - in my book that gives him the right to just come on here and share some good news!!  Even if not directly useful to many of us.  Although it does give hope to those that like regulars.

OP - Glad you had a good experience.  :drinks:

Offline cueball

Well done and all that catweazle but I can't see the point of starting the thread  :unknown:

So, you've podged a lass who's link and id you're going to withhold... that's fine but why tell us  :unknown:

Offline catweazle


More as a suggestion to fellow punters who nurture a regular up to a superior level that they don't have to review and that perseverance pays off.
« Last Edit: October 16, 2017, 08:24:12 pm by catweazle »

mrhappypants

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I have had similar experiences and think your position completely justified. 


Offline cueball

More as a suggestion to fellow punters who nurture a regular up to a superior level that they don't have to review and that perseverance pays off.

Aahh.. ok.... an inspiration  :hi:


vw

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that's fine but why tell us  :unknown:

Well to get one over on the Yorkshire Ego.    :lol: :lol: :lol:

Offline Fallen58

Well done and all that catweazle but I can't see the point of starting the thread  :unknown:

So, you've podged a lass who's link and id you're going to withhold... that's fine but why tell us  :unknown:

She's likely to be one of the 37 girls he has already reviewed so it's just a matter of visiting all of them regularly over the next two years and one of them will give the game away by offering FS in 2019. I think the OP is just pointing out that building trust with a WG sometimes pays dividends, which is a fair point.

Offline NigelF

which will immediately close her legs and screw it up for those of us who have patiently invested time effort (and money!) in developing the working relationship to the pinnacle.

Just book a bloody escort. Or if you really like the "chase"/effort then get on SA and find someone even better looking.

Offline cueball

building trust with a WG sometimes pays dividends

Pearls of wisdom there, pearls of wisdom I say  :D

Offline catweazle

Just book a bloody escort. Or if you really like the "chase"/effort then get on SA and find someone even better looking.

The previous visits to this girl have all been highly satisfactory - hence my returning - and i was, of course, more than happy when from time to time she upped the service.  At a guess, NigelF, you're not a rub n tug fan.
« Last Edit: October 16, 2017, 08:32:51 pm by catweazle »

Offline NigelF

The previous visits to this girl have all highly satisfactory - hence my returning - and i was, of course, more than happy when from time to time she upped the service.  At a guess, NigelF, you're not a rub n tug fan.

Not usually but sometimes they are good. My main issue is that I usually find them overpriced compared to escort meets. I suppose I don't mind haggling though but I don't like it.

My general point was, if sex is the pinnacle then why not get straight to it or least faster (i.e. on SA). Although yes, if you want a good massage as well then your choices are often limited.

Offline cueball

Well to get one over on the Yorkshire Ego.    :lol: :lol: :lol:

He'll need his own string for that  :D

bigmanbigman

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And the reasion for your post is ¿

vw

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MichyBoy

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Taking the piss. Thought this a place where you share the good and the bad?

Offline stampjones

Cheers catweazle - its nirvana for fbsm isnt it. The upgrade that only you get - Im jealous mate. Enjoy   :drinks:

vw

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Taking the piss. Thought this a place where you share the good and the bad?

Really tallboy2 ?   :sarcastic: :sarcastic:

Offline Brazilian Martian

Really tallboy2 ?   :sarcastic: :sarcastic:

Good spot, ive just cross examined both writing styles it's kind of similar

Offline HarryZZ

There's definitely something missing here, apart from a review. Why would you stick with it for years? You're clearly celebrating the fact that you finally cracked it, it must have been your aim but you could have done that in a 15min £30 punt elsewhere whilst at the same time insisting that you're not developing an emotional attachment, when does anybody feel the need to do that?

Offline catweazle

There's definitely something missing here, apart from a review. Why would you stick with it for years? You're clearly celebrating the fact that you finally cracked it, it must have been your aim but you could have done that in a 15min £30 punt elsewhere whilst at the same time insisting that you're not developing an emotional attachment, when does anybody feel the need to do that?

I stuck with it as ( as previously stated) l enjoy FBSM. I returned repeatedly as the girl gives a good massage and a good HE. I never expected or anticipated FS and wasn't specifically aiming for that.

Suggesting a "15 minute £30 punt" misses the point of FBSM.

bigmanbigman

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nervous colin

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Out of interest, how much extra did she charge for it?

Offline claretandblue

I have had similar experiences and think your position completely justified.
+1 , in truth there was no need for him to even start the thread in the first place

Offline GreyDave

2 years to get into a birds knickers in the punting world! That has to be some sort of record surely? I must have shagged some right slappers cos they let me in on the first 'date'.

 :hi: :hi: Please could you pm me their details mate things are a bit cash tight for me at moment :cool: :cool: :cool: :drinks: :drinks:

Offline Romeo Sensini

Out of interest, how much extra did she charge for it?

OP probably had enough nectar points after 2 years

Offline bw1942

Why not do a review with no name

Offline edinburgh1234


Online scutty brown

Given the ructions that have happened at some of the local thai parlours due to idiots behaving exactly as the OP said, I've taken to being frugal with the details when reviewing some places.
I know of one thai girl who did get sacked as a direct result of a nutter complaining that she wouldn't do B2B even though reviews here and elsewhere said she did for others. Others got warned. At times a degree of circumspection is required

Offline catweazle

Given the ructions that have happened at some of the local thai parlours due to idiots behaving exactly as the OP said, I've taken to being frugal with the details when reviewing some places.
I know of one thai girl who did get sacked as a direct result of a nutter complaining that she wouldn't do B2B even though reviews here and elsewhere said she did for others. Others got warned. At times a degree of circumspection is required

Precisely my thinking. Thanks

avalon123

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Given the ructions that have happened at some of the local thai parlours due to idiots behaving exactly as the OP said, I've taken to being frugal with the details when reviewing some places.
I know of one thai girl who did get sacked as a direct result of a nutter complaining that she wouldn't do B2B even though reviews here and elsewhere said she did for others. Others got warned. At times a degree of circumspection is required

I was about to post a review for a thai rub n tug shop but as a newbie to this site I will now hold back. I certainly don't want to be responsible for getting someone sacked. I hope that those who contribute to this site and are very familiar with the various establishments in the area (I assume they vary from legit to blatant) and in the know over difficulties that have occurred can give some clear guidance on which establishments we need to be careful about 'details'. I assume that reviewing in detail an establishment that offers fs as a standard is not an issue.

Offline Chorley

I was about to post a review for a thai rub n tug shop but as a newbie to this site I will now hold back. I certainly don't want to be responsible for getting someone sacked. I hope that those who contribute to this site and are very familiar with the various establishments in the area (I assume they vary from legit to blatant) and in the know over difficulties that have occurred can give some clear guidance on which establishments we need to be careful about 'details'. I assume that reviewing in detail an establishment that offers fs as a standard is not an issue.
I'd agree with you Avalon.

I've been having (legitimate) massages (sports clnics/physio and Thai parlours) for years for a historical back issue.
In all those years I've never been offered (not expected) extras, until a recent visit to a Thai massage place when I was given an  excellent massage from a proper masseur who offered and ultimately gave  me a very happy ending.  :wackogirl:

I ended up reviewing the experience, mostly because it was so unexpected (to me at least), but now I kind of regret it as I gave quite a detailed review and I'd not want the girl to lose her job.

I know some punters will say "fuck her" and that it's her choice to take the risk, or perhaps berate me for writing about the services on offer.

 But I just thought I'd give my 2 cents and see what others think?  :unknown:
« Last Edit: October 18, 2017, 04:23:36 pm by Chorley »

Offline stampjones

I think you only need to be cautious in places that are legit which excludes all thai and chinese places (more or less). There are several local massage threads around the site where these kinds of reviews have been going on for ages with no reported ill effects

Offline stampjones

I think you only need to be cautious in places that are legit which excludes all thai and chinese places (more or less). There are several local massage threads around the site where these kinds of reviews have been going on for ages with no reported ill effects
That was aimed at those asking about reviews in general btw and not OP who has his own perfectly valid reasons for not naming

Online scutty brown

well at the moment there are two I know of where care (in my opinion) needs to be taken:
Jing Jai, Preston
Boonta, Morecambe

Offline winkywanky

Now, l have a fair number of reviews on here (which l hope have proved helpful). I don't review repeat visits to the same SP if the event was broadly similar to the earlier (reviewed) one.

My reviews will correctly indicate that l am a fan of FBSM/rub ' n ' tug, call it what you will. The visit l am talking about was a repeat and was decidely different but there will be no review:

Massage fans will be aware that quite often, repeat visits to the same girl will ultimately lead to more services being offered (more than, say, what would be offered to a first timer walk in punter).

I have been seeing the same masseuse quite regularly for what must be in excess of 2 years now. Without any EAS developing, we know a fair bit about each other's "non punting" lives.

On the last visit she unexpectedly offered FS. Of course l accepted, and it proved one of the best shags ever. I am not naive enough to think that she won't be offering FS to other regulars, but l am inclined to think it is quite rare.

The reason l am not reviewing is that if l say who and where some randy chancer of a leech will steam on in there and demand sex because "l've read on the internet that you bang like a shithouse door", which will immediately close her legs and screw it up for those of us who have patiently invested time effort (and money!) in developing the working relationship to the pinnacle.

Of course it's always good when you get 'something for nothing' for being a regular, be it an extra couple of pork chops from your local butcher, something nice you buy with your Nectar points, or a free shag from your regular masseuse.

The other thing to consider though, is that you are a self-confessed rub & tug man, and you've just had sex with your masseuse, out of the blue. She's done this for a reason: maybe she's currently frustrated, she trusts you after so long and she just felt horny and acted on impulse, or perhaps she'll want to charge you extra next time. And I'm not judging here, but bearing in mind it was totally spontaneous, perhaps it was without a condom, because you wouldn't have had one on you, and she didn't either?

But nevertheless, the 'dynamic' has changed between the two of you, and it will be different next time you go to see her. Are you expecting the same? Is she expecting the same? And if she isn't doing the same with her other punters, now there is something special about you. That's nice. But ultimately, is it a complication you don't need?

Offline catweazle

Of course it's always good when you get 'something for nothing' for being a regular, be it an extra couple of pork chops from your local butcher, something nice you buy with your Nectar points, or a free shag from your regular masseuse.

The other thing to consider though, is that you are a self-confessed rub & tug man, and you've just had sex with your masseuse, out of the blue. She's done this for a reason: maybe she's currently frustrated, she trusts you after so long and she just felt horny and acted on impulse, or perhaps she'll want to charge you extra next time. And I'm not judging here, but bearing in mind it was totally spontaneous, perhaps it was without a condom, because you wouldn't have had one on you, and she didn't either?

But nevertheless, the 'dynamic' has changed between the two of you, and it will be different next time you go to see her. Are you expecting the same? Is she expecting the same? And if she isn't doing the same with her other punters, now there is something special about you. That's nice. But ultimately, is it a complication you don't need?

Yes it was spontaneous; l often have a condom tucked away (not always, but on this occasion  Plan A had failed so l rang the masseuse who had a cancellation and could fit my appointment in) so it wasnt BB. The dynamic clearly has changed. I will just have to wait and see what happens next time. I will go along with no particular expectations.
« Last Edit: October 18, 2017, 07:59:14 pm by catweazle »

Online Placebo88

Well done and all that catweazle but I can't see the point of starting the thread  :unknown:

So, you've podged a lass who's link and id you're going to withhold... that's fine but why tell us  :unknown:

I think he has messed up the angle he has chosen to approach the thread from. Should have titled and focused it on FBSM longer term regulars increasing what services they offer in a more general way.

The big hooha about not doing a review; who cares? Was he feeling guilty or wanting to brag about his conquest? Well done mate, some of us have even shagged the odd real life woman too, and inside of two years to boot.

I do not think that unlisted extras should be written up in reviews - unless bareback was offered as that needs reporting - as it is very much at discretion and not something that average punter should be expecting.

Offline Steely Dan

Of course l accepted, and it proved one of the best shags ever.
My brain sorta hurts. So you want full sex with the sex workers you visit.  But you choose ones who don't offer it. In the hope they will change their mind and offer it.

FFS I though girls were hard to understand.

I fuck escorts so I don't have to bother with this bollocks. Weird approach perhaps, just me.

Still, thanks for sharing your experience, I enjoyed your post. Keep reviewing as well please.

Offline Hotdogboy88

This has made me chuckle. Personally can't see the point of it. Definitely agree with one poster who said "who says there no EAS"  think he banged it on the head there.

But maybe I'm missing the point was the fuck part of the normal price or was the whore asking for more money??

milo

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Yes it was spontaneous; l often have a condom tucked away
I have probably misunderstood what actually happened - but it sounds like she offered the full service before she would have known that you happened to have a condom available. As the condom would have to have been retrieved from where you had it tucked away (I guess you would have been naked) that must have spoiled some of the spontaneity.

I'm probably trying to over analyse what happened, and probably talking rubbish. Sorry!

Offline maybe

Nothing wrong with sharing experiences. Its promoting a healthy discussion.

Thanks for sharing and my thoughts are along with the OP. Of course i haven't even tried a massages yet, so its on my hit list todo!

Offline Private Parts

have to have been retrieved from where you had it tucked away (I guess you would have been naked) that must have spoiled some of the spontaneity.

I always keep one tucked in the top of my sock! ;) :thumbsup:
PP

bigmanbigman

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Wtf you wear sock for a b2b massage!!!