Regulars I've had enough

[Brokenshed]

There seems to be an unwritten rule.
The more times you see an escort the less sex you get and the more chat starts to fill the hour.
Plus the more requests for information the less chance of anonymity.
Got too much after being asked if I had whatsap.
I've just deleted my Twitter account to stop messages
I can understand why an escort may want a regular; regular source of income, and a known quantity.
But why would a punter?From experience I know we fish in uncertain territory, and UKpunting reviews are great for removing uncertainty, but if a punter wants a regular isn't he better off just getting a girlfriend?
Apologies for the rant. In future I will return to just writing reviews.
I just needed a place to vent

[hendrix]

I'd say you've had the wrong regulars. I pretty much only punt regulars and haven't had any of those issues. If I did, they'd get binned pronto.

[boardyhell]

regulars are the best, the really good ones understand that they are only as good as their last blowjob

[Slowjoe]

if a punter wants a regular isn't he better off just getting a girlfriend?

I get your angst. But punting and girlfriends are miles apart. Variety is good, but to some so is "no suprises" a regular can offer

[RAJEC]

You pay a regular to leave/so you can leave after the deed.

They’re usually a regular because the sex is good.

A girlfriend may give you good sex, but almost always, a lot more than you don’t really need 

[smiths]

I'd say you've had the wrong regulars. I pretty much only punt regulars and haven't had any of those issues. If I did, they'd get binned pronto.

Yep.

[Punterperson1971]

I'd say you've had the wrong regulars. I pretty much only punt regulars and haven't had any of those issues. If I did, they'd get binned pronto.

+1

[JonasG]

Yeah definitely not had that either. Just move on and try and find some other good go-to-girls.

What I found out was when I first started punting, I couldn't care less about regulars and just wanted to fuck as many different girls as possible.

Then after a year or two, it levels out and you just go to girls you've seen before and where you know what you're gonna get.

[LLPunting]

I'd say you've had the wrong regulars. I pretty much only punt regulars and haven't had any of those issues. If I did, they'd get binned pronto.

Another +1

OP, seems like your ability to choose wisely is what's questionable here.  Perhaps reflect on what makes you choose to see an SP again and the sociability, clarity and assertiveness you employ during an encounter.

A regular offers an experience that is positively reliable, whether that's always the same fun or she is open to enjoying new things with you whether suggested by you or her.  Extra mileage is often part of an ongoing arrangement, whether that's more time or more action or more engagement (beware EAS).

[CBPaul]

Another +1

OP, seems like your ability to choose wisely is what's questionable here.  Perhaps reflect on what makes you choose to see an SP again and the sociability, clarity and assertiveness you employ during an encounter.

I've always tended to go for variety but have tried the regular thing. Can understand where the OP is coming from but agree with LL, seems that you've drifted from meeting to have sex to a social thing and you have to be assertive in less chat more sex.

How many times do you have to see the same one for her to become a regular ? Personally, the way I punt, I count 3. In which case I've had 2 regulars - so not exactly over-experienced in the regular thing. The first was all out sex and little chat, became better each time and then she buggered off back to Poland, which was inconvenient. The second started extremely well but things drifted along the lines of what the OP says, got the punts back on track to start with but that got harder. All very friendly, stayed long over time but that was her wish - probably wanted company for an evening and didn't mind fucking me a couple of times. Perhaps the wrong choice of regular, perhaps I needed to get things back on track more - probably a bit of both. Suffice to say, I stopped going when my boredom of it all outweighed the convenience of an easy to arrange punt in a good location with a sure thing.   

[akauya]

This is a question of Regulars v. Variety.

I'm a variety punter. I like variety, I like to touch 'new' boobs, fuck 'new' cunts, grab 'new' arses. I like the fact that I'm going to find a different woman every time.

I have seen some WGs more than once on a couple of occasions but that was because I had no other option or didn't get enough (thrills) the first time  round and wanted a bit more.

It's me who would get tired of a regular not the other way round.

[OakTree]

This is a question of Regulars v. Variety.

I'm a variety punter. I like variety, I like to touch 'new' boobs, fuck 'new' cunts, grab 'new' arses. I like the fact that I'm going to find a different woman every time.

I have seen some WGs more than once on a couple of occasions but that was because I had no other option or didn't get enough (thrills) the first time  round and wanted a bit more.

It's me who would get tired of a regular not the other way round.

Yep that's pretty much my approach. A different one every time.

[akauya]

Yep that's pretty much my approach. A different one every time.

Greedy fuckers aren't we? 

[Punterperson1971]

Yep that's pretty much my approach. A different one every time.

I’ve gone the opposite way,I like a settled punt no nerves no rush to be pushed out try different things still,but occasionally i do like to do a toftt and report back.

[freeze44]

What I found out was when I first started punting, I couldn't care less about regulars and just wanted to fuck as many different girls as possible.

Then after a year or two, it levels out and you just go to girls you've seen before and where you know what you're gonna get.

Agree about things changing once more into this game although do still like seeing new wg's from time to time as well as a few regulars. The thrill of a new one is exciting and can be a top punt but can also let you down. A top regular will always deliver and be open to new things etc in my experience.

[Jerk Chicken]

OP I totally get where you're coming from.

I have had the same issue with more than one regular so ended up putting one number in the recycle bin. That's the only solution I am afraid.

That said and to put some balance on it I could punt some of my regulars very late at night long after she had finished or even early morning before she started work so those lil perks come at a price I suppose.

[JonasG]

Agree about things changing once more into this game although do still like seeing new wg's from time to time as well as a few regulars. The thrill of a new one is exciting and can be a top punt but can also let you down. A top regular will always deliver and be open to new things etc in my experience.

Yeah defo. I do still dabble in new punts here and there if I see a decent profile on AW or if a see a good review on here for one.

[Moby Dick]

For me it’s about trying new things.
This used to be variety, i.e different girls, tall, short, brunettes, blondes, redheads, purple rinse, different races/ethnicities, black, yellow, big tits, fake tits, pornstars, whatever. At the end of the day there just another fuck.

I’ve learnt I get more from a regular than I do finding a new WG each time.
For starters it is easier to arrange, you know what the baseline is and you can push boundaries (mine) with a regular. Try “almost” anything once.
Plus it becomes easier to arrange group fun, FFM, MMF etc

It’s nothing like having a wife, partner or girlfriend.
I am paying for a service where pending availability I can literally cum n go as I please.
Sure sometimes I prefer more of a relaxed GFE rather than PSE, but when complacency becomes an issue on paid time, ie telling me her problems, then I simply ask am I paying for this and put my cock in her mouth. So far never had a problem

[bobby1973]

i have 3 regulars that i see ever month or 2
then i have a couple that i may see  2 or 3 times a year
then the rest of the times i'm looking for new fun
if you find someone you have a connection with
then why not see them again

[Malvolio]

Sounds like the OP has had bad luck with regulars.  I enjoy shagging my regulars, and as I never punt the same WG twice in a row I always have variety.

There's a lot to be said for knowing exactly where the flat is and what you're going to get when the door opens.

[Kev40ish]

Sounds like the OP has had bad luck with regulars.  I enjoy shagging my regulars, and as I never punt the same WG twice in a row I always have variety.

There's a lot to be said for knowing exactly where the flat is and what you're going to get when the door opens.

I totally agree with you. I do quite like having regulars and have never noticed a drop off in service, yes there may be more chatting and familiarity, but you can relax more generally, often a bit of extra time, more services than normal.

Maybe it’s the OP rather than the SP..

[munterhunter]

There seems to be an unwritten rule.
The more times you see an escort the less sex you get and the more chat starts to fill the hour.
Plus the more requests for information the less chance of anonymity.
Got too much after being asked if I had whatsap.
I've just deleted my Twitter account to stop messages
I can understand why an escort may want a regular; regular source of income, and a known quantity.
But why would a punter?From experience I know we fish in uncertain territory, and UKpunting reviews are great for removing uncertainty, but if a punter wants a regular isn't he better off just getting a girlfriend?
Apologies for the rant. In future I will return to just writing reviews.
I just needed a place to vent

It's a fatal error for either the punter to confuse the pubting experience with anything other than it is. I mainly punt with 3 or 4 regulars I've known for some time and over time the experience for me has improved. We enjoy a bit of banter as well as the sex but within set boundaries. I still have the odd punt with a new girl. If you feel uncomfortable then it's right to bin the WG.
At the end of the day you are paying them to provide a service. If you cross the line you should expect to be binned and the same should apply to the WG.
It's a service for cash  you pay for a set amount of their time and as long as you don't try to take the piss you should get whatever is on their likes list. It"s not rocket science.

[thundercrackerxx]

Girlfriend is a full time thing. A regular escort is just whenever you want a fuck. Though personally I don't tend to have regulars as I get bored by the third meet. The whole point in escorts for me is variety.

[king tarzan]

Pay as you go... Different networks..different tariff..

Keep it utterly SIMPLETTO..

[Punterperson1971]

Pay as you go... Different networks..different tariff..

Keep it utterly SIMPLETTO..

Or play as you go simpletto

[Trex]

Regulars or Variety. I do both, I do see about 3 new girls a year. Make things interesting for me.

Regular is good because she knows what you like etc. If you like her, keep sponsoring her other wise she will leave the location you are in or back to her own country.

I had one hot Hungarian that I really liked but only see her twice and about 1 year later she gone. Yeah I wish I did a review on here but this was about 3 years ago and I was new to this site at that time.

[Third Man]

I've been lucky over the years in having several regulars, and how it's worked is more or less when one has stopped or left, another has come along. Now I've one regular and have an occasional punt with a new girl or one I've seen a couple times before. To me I love a reg as I know what I'll get and won't be wasting cash.

[Punterperson1971]

I've been lucky over the years in having several regulars, and how it's worked is more or less when one has stopped or left, another has come along. Now I've one regular and have an occasional punt with a new girl or one I've seen a couple times before. To me I love a reg as I know what I'll get and won't be wasting cash.

this is why I see my regular

[Ali Katt]

There seems to be an unwritten rule.
The more times you see an escort the less sex you get and the more chat starts to fill the hour.
Plus the more requests for information the less chance of anonymity.
Got too much after being asked if I had whatsap.
I've just deleted my Twitter account to stop messages
I can understand why an escort may want a regular; regular source of income, and a known quantity.
But why would a punter?From experience I know we fish in uncertain territory, and UKpunting reviews are great for removing uncertainty, but if a punter wants a regular isn't he better off just getting a girlfriend?
Apologies for the rant. In future I will return to just writing reviews.
I just needed a place to vent

Once again I don't get asked the stupid questions anymore. If I get asked about Facebook or Whatsapp which has never happened -I don't use Facebook because it is a waste of time, I don't use Whatsapp due to their privacy breach a few years ago.

You're presuming all punters want a girlfriend and more to the point can attract a girlfriend. Also, punting and dating are two separate entities.

I think you are having your time talked away, maybe get better at leading. I've never had a boring chat for a few years now, I mainly talk about BDSM, but I have had my time talked away when I was younger.

[The Owl]

I've found having a reg or two can be a lot more fun. Yes, you do get to know each other a bit more than you should and there is the possibility of it becoming more social, if you're a gas bag like me, but you can also build on the sexual pleasure if the escort picks up on what you like more.

It's up to punters to be smart and make sure they get something they're happy to pay for without any expectations of genuine intimacy once the door shuts behind them. If you're punting with an escort and letting her completely dictate how a session goes to the extent that she's offering less of a sexual service then you're to blame for letting her treat you as an easy booking or at least one of you is blurring the lines between a service transaction and something a bit more personal.

[stewpid]

I've had a regular or two on the go at all times since I started punting properly. Although I also like to seek out new girls I prefer the familiarity and easiness of sessions with someone I already know, it saves me the work of constantly trawling this site and AW to find new prospects and when I want a guaranteed fuck I know exactly what will be behind the door. I think during the last few years I've experienced most of the kind of regular types you can have both good and bad:

1) My most long-term regular, who I still see today, is actually the escort I first saw when I took up regular punting and have now seen her for over 4 years (apart from about a year when she semi-retired and her availability dropped off). I still find her extremely attractive, sexy and good company. She's professional and easy to deal with in booking in advance which suits my schedule (although not for last minute bookings unfortunately) and although services are mostly vanilla in nature she delivers them in a sensual way that appeals from time to time. In fact in opposite to the length of time we have know each other the sessions have not gotten boring and have in the last year been even better as we have become even more comfortable with each other. The sex used to be fairly soft but now I can pound the shit out of her which she actually enjoys and makes my day. Despite all this there is no EAS at all on either side, we meet, we enjoy our fuck and then then that's it until the next time - as it should be and why she remains my main go-to.

2) When 1 above dropped off in availability to give civvie life more of a go I saught out a new regular, returning to a WG I tried the year before and enjoyed. She was a little older than 1 but just as sexy and more playful and fun which appealed. Easy to book she was a safe option but after a while it felt like complacency crept in a bit on her part and I seemed to be doing all of the work in the sex and there was more chat afterwards than at first. So when a new regular option (see 3 below) came on the scene my regularity with her dropped off and I then stopped completely.

3) When I first saw this WG there was an immediate spark, the sex was a whole new level and although I didn't return straight away for a while when I came back it got more intense with each session. I will admit now that I probably started to develop a little bit of EAS here (was hard not to) but I would never have done anything about it, respected the boundary and enjoyed the regular great sex. However after about 8 visits the opposite happened and she asked me out for a drink, I said yes but we agreed that we wouldn't do anything until she stopped working but I continued to see her with more regularity and we also messaged on whatsapp and she told me her real name and bits of her life etc. Eventually she stated she was retiring and so we arranged a real-world date, we met but outside of what had come before it was strange. Although we were very sexually compatible we couldn't really connect personally and so we went our separate ways, she has now returned to whoring but, although I would like to, I will not see her again and have cut all contact. The problem with that is it was all a major head-fuck and I'm still suffering from that, it actually would have been better if she had never crossed the line and I should have binned her the minute it happened. I guess we both made mistakes there.

So there is both good and bad to having regs but you're better off with finding ones like number 1 than the others...

[ulstersubbie]

To me I love a reg as I know what I'll get and won't be wasting cash.

Exactly. I have one regular Domme who I see more than any others, simply because she is an excellent BDSM provider and I know I am getting my money's worth.

[Brokenshed]

Looks like I just need to be a bit more assertive, sex in the time I pay for, chat afterwards in her time.
I posted after a punt, where the wg hadn't seen me for a while hand wanted to fill me in about everything that had happened to her since we last met and I  just wanted to fill her in. I was then questions about Whatsapp which started to make me uncomfortable, as does constant wittering about her kid, which I don't like cos I'm not gonna reply by telling her about my private life..

[bonapati]

Girlfriend is a full time thing. A regular escort is just whenever you want a fuck. Though personally I don't tend to have regulars as I get bored by the third meet. The whole point in escorts for me is variety.

I did have 2 regulars on the go once upon a time - I used to hunt for the variety in between which was good but they suspected and got “jealous” too of course only because another hooker was taking their wages from me. I stopped seeing the a few years back and realised I have a extra £1600 in my account at the end of every month since. Now I could decide to have a one off albeit expensive but good experience punt that would keep me going for weeks instead of bed hoping whenever I get the horn.
At the end of the day regulars are like duos... someone has to miss out you might be a player but you’re not likely to be the winner.

[the_exile]

I've found having a reg or two can be a lot more fun. Yes, you do get to know each other a bit more than you should and there is the possibility of it becoming more social, if you're a gas bag like me, but you can also build on the sexual pleasure if the escort picks up on what you like more.

It's up to punters to be smart and make sure they get something they're happy to pay for without any expectations of genuine intimacy once the door shuts behind them. If you're punting with an escort and letting her completely dictate how a session goes to the extent that she's offering less of a sexual service then you're to blame for letting her treat you as an easy booking or at least one of you is blurring the lines between a service transaction and something a bit more personal.

Pretty much how I have found things, getting to know each other a bit makes the meets easier and often more fun.

Havent had a problem with regulars getting jealous was usually seeing girls at parlours/flats where different WGs worked different days, they knew I was doing other girls.

TBH I have found it is hard to find regular girls with the sort of punts Ive done, many girls don't work for long, especially in parlours, and Asian places often have the girls there only for a week. Some return, but it is not the rule. On the other hand I have enjoyed fucking different girls from China, Hong Kong, Malaysia and Taiwan, so fun all the same.

[Boates]

I had a regular for two years. There was a lot of conversation as the number of visits increased but there was never any clock watching and always invited to stay way beyond the allocated time so I guessed it evened itself out.
Eventually it did get boring and it was time to move on to more variety. We do keep in touch though and we're even friends on Facebook but under very strict guidelines!

[Colston36]

There seems to be an unwritten rule.
The more times you see an escort the less sex you get and the more chat starts to fill the hour.
Plus the more requests for information the less chance of anonymity.
Got too much after being asked if I had whatsap.
I've just deleted my Twitter account to stop messages
I can understand why an escort may want a regular; regular source of income, and a known quantity.
But why would a punter?From experience I know we fish in uncertain territory, and UKpunting reviews are great for removing uncertainty, but if a punter wants a regular isn't he better off just getting a girlfriend?
Apologies for the rant. In future I will return to just writing reviews.
I just needed a place to vent

None of that has happened to me. Nor do I fish in unknown territory. I have about 7 I see regularly and whose company I enjoy, besides the sex. I have three faves, keep looking for ones I might add to the roster; talk to them online a lot because I find them interesting, and usually gossip when I see them. As for girlfriends, I'm too old for that.

[Colston36]

I’ve gone the opposite way,I like a settled punt no nerves no rush to be pushed out try different things still,but occasionally i do like to do a toftt and report back.

One thing I forgot. I have arranged sessions with two or more regulars I have met separately. They then go on to work together. I have just arranged a session with two exceptionally filthy ladies who didn't know each other. It should start them working together. I like their company; they make me laugh; sessions always overrun with both of them; I know a lot about their lives and worries. I find whores interesting.

[king tarzan]

I did have 2 regulars on the go once upon a time - I used to hunt for the variety in between which was good but they suspected and got “jealous” too of course only because another hooker was taking their wages from me. I stopped seeing the a few years back and realised I have a extra £1600 in my account at the end of every month since. Now I could decide to have a one off albeit expensive but good experience punt that would keep me going for weeks instead of bed hoping whenever I get the horn.
At the end of the day regulars are like duos... someone has to miss out you might be a player but you’re not likely to be the winner.

I bet physically they were not super honey deliciano czechnymphomaniac!!
Well done for that!!👍👍👍👍👏👏👏👏👏

[bonapati]

I bet physically they were not super honey deliciano czechnymphomaniac!!
Well done for that!!👍👍👍👍👏👏👏👏👏

No they were not!!! 😂😂😂😂