Seeking.com (Ireland)

[50shades1]

Just wondering if anyone's had any success using Seeking.com in Belfast or Dublin?

Very popular on the UKP forum here with our friends over the pond in London, Manc, Lpool, etc. Heard very good things.

Given the absolutely shocking quality & quantity of escorts here in Ireland these days, Seeking is something I'm strongly considering.

[Froomey]

I've used SA over the last few years for business trips to Dublin. It's worked pretty well for me for both one offs and, in a few cases, ones who have become regulars for a while.

As always with SA, you have to put in the work researching promising profiles then making contact and developing things to the point of meeting (except of course the obvious pros on the site who operate like escorts and will jump straight to discussing rates for meeting for sex).

[50shades1]

I've used SA over the last few years for business trips to Dublin. It's worked pretty well for me for both one offs and, in a few cases, ones who have become regulars for a while.

As always with SA, you have to put in the work researching promising profiles then making contact and developing things to the point of meeting (except of course the obvious pros on the site who operate like escorts and will jump straight to discussing rates for meeting for sex).

Thanks for the reply & info.

My only issue is comparing the SA scene in Dublin or Belfast to the likes of London, seems to be much more of an active user base of girls in England. On Dublin once you get past the 4th page of girls under 25 the recency of them being active is over a month ago, whereas London it could be 20+ pages of girls.

[bongobongo101]

The population of London is much greater than Dublin you know...

[50shades1]

The population of London is much greater than Dublin you know...

Lol cheers mate very productive reply

[Froomey]

Lol cheers mate very productive reply

But a very valid point. London +c9m population; Dublin c1.5m. I'd think that the numbers of women active on SA proportionate to population are broadly similar. And, of course, significantly fewer men chasing them in Dublin compared with London. I'd say overall the chance of success is roughly the same and in my experience in Dublin if you are genuinely prepared to pay a reasonable sum you'll find some very receptive women

[50shades1]

But a very valid point. London +c9m population; Dublin c1.5m. I'd think that the numbers of women active on SA proportionate to population are broadly similar. And, of course, significantly fewer men chasing them in Dublin compared with London. I'd say overall the chance of success is roughly the same and in my experience in Dublin if you are genuinely prepared to pay a reasonable sum you'll find some very receptive women

This was more so what I was getting at. Just seemed low in comparison, taking population differentials into account of course. Not much info or feedback anywhere on the Irish scene before diving in, so appreciate your info mate.

I'll definitely be pursuing going forward. Would report back and compare here but doesn't seem to be much interest in the thread from my fellow Irish punters which is disappointing.

If anyone Belfast/Dublin based cares to discuss and compare results feel free to DM me.

Mods feel free to remove the thread.

[Colin85]

I would be interested in your N.I. findings 

[Heellover86]

I had a lot of fun post covid, now though the women that are willing to meet here are ridiculous £ and are  offering what is essentially an escorting service.

Pre covid you could have had a good nights craic and a brilliant session in bed for £100.

I’ve switched back to punting again for same result, cheaper and less hassle

[50shades1]

I had a lot of fun post covid, now though the women that are willing to meet here are ridiculous £ and are  offering what is essentially an escorting service.

Pre covid you could have had a good nights craic and a brilliant session in bed for £100.

I’ve switched back to punting again for same result, cheaper and less hassle

Thanks for the info mate. Were you using in Belfast I take it?

Can't say I agree with you on regular punting being the same result (especially on E-I), finding an escort <25 & below a dress size 10 without a willy attached to her is something of days gone by unfortunately. Would rather the extra £££ and added hassle for the SA girls purely on looks & selection.

[Heellover86]

Yes Belfast area.  Most girls are looking around £200-300 a meet now which I think is utterly ridiculous lol

[Froomey]

Worth noting if you are minded to take the plunge on SA:

1) There's currently a 25% discount on offer which lessens the pain of subscription. Not sure how long it is open for.

2) Heading into the new academic year historically has been a good time to hunt for SA girls, there's often a significant increase in both quantity and quality as students return and have to start paying rent etc again.....

[ulstersubbie]

Yes Belfast area.  Most girls are looking around £200-300 a meet now which I think is utterly ridiculous lol

Scandalous wee man, hence the reason I punt across the water and always have.

[20jay]

Scandalous wee man, hence the reason I punt across the water and always have.

Agree mate, go to England or EU .. here in Ireland is it pointless, unreliable , overpriced , shitty service . But the whole scene is going to the dogs coz there are just a small amount of real independend girls. The laws are too general, they are okay if it comes to human traficing but they grip you also on your balls if you shag a independend mature 45 old british girl working from her house .

[Froomey]

Yes Belfast area.  Most girls are looking around £200-300 a meet now which I think is utterly ridiculous lol

I'm not sure you are comparing like with like. In Dublin in general women on EI are looking for at least €200 per hour. I find that a lot of women from SA will indeed come in at €200-€300, but that often gets a 4 hour+ meet, and sometimes overnight. For VFM in my view SA wins every time, unless you want to punt at the very bottom end of the market, which I certainly do not.

[50shades1]

Been on SA for for about half a week now. Got a contact book full of girls aged under 25 in Dublin & Belfast respectively that could honestly pass for models. Scheduled a few meets in for next week - could obviously flake and that's a risk, but it would simply be on to the next. In my eyes so far there's no comparison.

The girls working in Belfast & even Dublin now on E-I & AW are absolutely shocking looking. Bottom of the barrel. If you're into ladies over 30 with a few added pounds and not the best to look at, it's fine for you. If you want higher quality girls, are willing to take the risk of paying the SA membership fee (barrier to entry) and are willing to put in the time, the results are so far superior it's a joke.

Girls on SA are charging 150 minimum, all the way up to 1000. I'd say most can be talked into under 300 for a first meet if you play your cards right. However these are not 30 min pump & run punts. You're paying for the experience, and also for the chance that they're probably staying with you for a few hours at least, maybe even overnight if you end up having a few drinks. There's also a much higher chance of an actual connection in the meet as these girls aren't seeing 10 other men a day.

[pussylover76]

Interesting thread guys. Thank you.
 

[WildWilliam]

Always put off by anything that could identify you. Obvs much less of a risk in London, but you don't need too many people to look at you in Belfast before someone knows you. Do people generally identify themselves or need to to make connections?

[50shades1]

Always put off by anything that could identify you. Obvs much less of a risk in London, but you don't need too many people to look at you in Belfast before someone knows you. Do people generally identify themselves or need to to make connections?

Have 2+ public pics from neck down, or blur your face. Have private pictures with full face - grant access to face pics once you've established some trust via messages with the girl.

Either way wouldn't really worry. I'd say 96% of girls in the Belfast section have full face pics up of themselves anyway

[Northcoastmale123]

Have 2+ public pics from neck down, or blur your face. Have private pictures with full face - grant access to face pics once you've established some trust via messages with the girl.

Either way wouldn't really worry. I'd say 96% of girls in the Belfast section have full face pics up of themselves anyway

I’m on it aswel but the £70 sign up is a bit steep for some catfishes lol

[50shades1]

I’m on it aswel but the £70 sign up is a bit steep for some catfishes lol

Easy way to avoid catfishes.... do a video call on whatsapp before the meet.

Most catfishes are just looking to sell pics anyway, mention you only want in-person meets early on they'll usually run off

[HoraceWimp$9]

There used to a "try before you buy" quirk on SA.

When you set up an account/profile you are required to validate the email address you provide.
Without validating you can still access SA search facilities to browse profiles for a limited period.

As mentioned many of the SA members in Belfast are keen to sell photos or virtual meets.
Some are happy for paid meetings.
The more work you put in the better the likely outcome.

As with punting avoid up front payments

[20jay]

Been on SA for for about half a week now. Got a contact book full of girls aged under 25 in Dublin & Belfast respectively that could honestly pass for models. Scheduled a few meets in for next week - could obviously flake and that's a risk, but it would simply be on to the next. In my eyes so far there's no comparison.

The girls working in Belfast & even Dublin now on E-I & AW are absolutely shocking looking. Bottom of the barrel. If you're into ladies over 30 with a few added pounds and not the best to look at, it's fine for you. If you want higher quality girls, are willing to take the risk of paying the SA membership fee (barrier to entry) and are willing to put in the time, the results are so far superior it's a joke.

Girls on SA are charging 150 minimum, all the way up to 1000. I'd say most can be talked into under 300 for a first meet if you play your cards right. However these are not 30 min pump & run punts. You're paying for the experience, and also for the chance that they're probably staying with you for a few hours at least, maybe even overnight if you end up having a few drinks. There's also a much higher chance of an actual connection in the meet as these girls aren't seeing 10 other men a day.

If that's what you want, but who wants that?

I don't want to pay a minimum of 300 quid
I don't want any models, I prefer the next door girl
I don't want the girl for hours
I don't want a connection, kindness is enough for me

I just want a nice half hour and that's it .. simple a decent price-performance ratio

[50shades1]

If that's what you want, but who wants that?

I don't want to pay a minimum of 300 quid
I don't want any models, I prefer the next door girl
I don't want the girl for hours
I don't want a connection, kindness is enough for me

I just want a nice half hour and that's it .. simple a decent price-performance ratio

That's why I said if that's what you want, stick with it. If other's want better looking girls at a higher cost & effort, leave them to it. Stick to what you like.

Some people like to pay extra for a 2021 Mercedes, but some people are happy with their beat up 2001 Mazda. It's personal preference. Much like punting, both of them serve the same purpose.

[20jay]

That's why I said if that's what you want, stick with it. If other's want better looking girls at a higher cost & effort, leave them to it. Stick to what you like.

Some people like to pay extra for a 2021 Mercedes, but some people are happy with their beat up 2001 Mazda. It's personal preference. Much like punting, both of them serve the same purpose.

Sure, everyone to its own, I just assume the majority of punters can't pay 300 quid or more per visit. I usually visit the ladies twice a week, I'm definitely not a poor man, but I would be if I had to put 300 quid on the table every time.

[OnTheSly]

Wasn’t sure if this was the best place to put this or if I should start a new thread…

I’ve been visiting Dublin a few times this year and decided to see if I could have much luck over there. I tried an escort website with no luck at all - and have had some good experiences on SA. So thought I’d give my feedback…

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Amazing Italian lady who looks better than her pics, and her pics are amazing. Wanted €600 per visit no time restrictions (including overnight). She is sex mad and just loves it, pretty much everything is on the table (inc anal). Met for a couple of drinks to see if we had a “connection” and then back to my hotel for an overnight where we fucked about 4 times in total before and after sleep.

She works at the airport and has some funny shift patterns (I think she’s cabin crew - seems to be a lot on SA from RyanAir). Wasn’t that easy to pin a date down, but definitely worth the effort if you’re in town and need some overnight company.

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Tried to arrange a meet multiple times but we couldn’t get a date that worked. Really nice on WA, and think we’d get on great if we could meet. Wanted €400 a meet and wanted a coffee first before going to hotel. Will continue trying to arrange

There was one other who’s no longer on the site, we made arrangements and the day before she pulled out because of work - never managed to re-arrange.

All in all, I’ve found Dublin quite successful on SA, the escort website escort-Ireland.com just didn’t work for me at all.

A bit pricey, but if you work on a per fuck or per hour basis, I think I did very well with the first one!

[maxQ]

Due to Covid and the housing problems, EI will continue to be at best a mixed bag, we keep losing quality escorts, Rubina being the best example, but there are still quality girls to be found, just keep an eye on the reviews here

I'd rather roll the dice at €100 for 30 minutes than pay over the odds on SA

[Deaconfool]

If a none Subscribe member msg a sugar babe on Sugar Daddys can the baby read it ?
I'm not keen on leaving any evidence on a bank statement for the partner to see so been trying to touch base with a few girls on Pm. Pity there's no other way to pay

[Deaconfool]

Sorry seeking arrangements  site.

[munchman]

If a none Subscribe member msg a sugar babe on Sugar Daddys can the baby read it ?
I'm not keen on leaving any evidence on a bank statement for the partner to see so been trying to touch base with a few girls on Pm. Pity there's no other way to pay

Do you not have to subscribe to send a message? I know for sure anytime my subscription runs out, I can't read any replies until I resubscibe.

I've been on Seeking for near enough exactly two years and met 31 girls. Not that I've kept count 

[OnTheSly]

If a none Subscribe member msg a sugar babe on Sugar Daddys can the baby read it ?
I'm not keen on leaving any evidence on a bank statement for the partner to see so been trying to touch base with a few girls on Pm. Pity there's no other way to pay

When you first join you can send 10 messages and yes, the ladies can read and respond without paying. But you need to pay for membership to read their responses. Also when you are a free member each message is checked by a human - so if you try to put your email or phone number on, they will delete that part.

So to use SA, you must pay. Search this forum, there’s lots of 33% discount links - I’ve never paid full price. Also the statement is really vague - but I use a separate bank account for this so there’s no trace.

I’ve only been on for 8 months now, but already have about 50 ladies numbers and keep them to hand when I fancy meeting up. Never had any major issues, and most girls are up for one off fun. Already have plans for my next trip to Dublin next week for both evenings. Last week met 5 different ladies and had a great time. 3 of them didn’t even want money for the first meet, but we used the time to check we were compatible and made agreements for future meets.

Yes, SA is hard work and can be expensive - but the quality of the experiences are so much better than anything else I’ve tried. And it’s not that expensive really, had an overnight with a really fit South American for €400! You’d never get that anywhere else…

[Deaconfool]

Sounds like I'm missing out . Anyone want to let me use their
Debit card for a large commission 😡

[Deaconfool]

When you first join you can send 10 messages and yes, the ladies can read and respond without paying. But you need to pay for membership to read their responses. Also when you are a free member each message is checked by a human - so if you try to put your email or phone number on, they will delete that part.

So to use SA, you must pay. Search this forum, there’s lots of 33% discount links - I’ve never paid full price. Also the statement is really vague - but I use a separate bank account for this so there’s no trace.

I’ve only been on for 8 months now, but already have about 50 ladies numbers and keep them to hand when I fancy meeting up. Never had any major issues, and most girls are up for one off fun. Already have plans for my next trip to Dublin next week for both evenings. Last week met 5 different ladies and had a great time. 3 of them didn’t even want money for the first meet, but we used the time to check we were compatible and made agreements for future meets.

Yes, SA is hard work and can be expensive - but the quality of the experiences are so much better than anything else I’ve tried. And it’s not that expensive really, had an overnight with a really fit South American for €400! You’d never get that anywhere else…

You get 10 free msg when joining, ladies can read but you need to upgrade/pay to read their reply.
I see you can subscribe with Google play.  Have to work how to do that now

[munchman]

Do you not have to subscribe to send a message? I know for sure anytime my subscription runs out, I can't read any replies until I resubscibe.

I've been on Seeking for near enough exactly two years and met 31 girls. Not that I've kept count 

Update, 32 girls 

[Yesman0987]

How much are meets with them ?

[Greg05]

What’s the story with seeking? A £60 monthly subscription to be able to talk to the girls then fees as arranged?

[munchman]

How much are meets with them ?

No set price. My cheapest has been £60, dearest £200. Most are between £100 -150, with the majority at the higher end.

Some girls ask stupid money, I just move on. Some drop their price when they aren't getting any takers, most disappear.

[munchman]

What’s the story with seeking? A £60 monthly subscription to be able to talk to the girls then fees as arranged?

That's it in a nutshell.

[50shades1]

That's it in a nutshell.

Have you been meeting Belfast girls mate or where are you based?

Would be keen on exchanging messages as I've met quite a few as well. My number is much lower than 32 but I'm pretty picky with my girls, I prefer them under 24 & slim.

Not much point in sharing within this thread as the majority here on the Irish side on the site only seem interested in escorts.

[Greg05]

Had a look again last night and set the bar 26+ and surprised to know a few from other avenues of life

Also seemed closer to £100, may have been looking at it wrong though.

Seems a lot of effort to pay once then still have to message, charm and haggle to then lay again. Maybe hit the odd diamond in the rough and value for money but…