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diamond_dawg

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Hi,

Thought i would see if anyone has ever found themselves in the position i find myself in (btw forgive me if at any point i sound fluffy). I have been visiting a girl i met through punting and it became clear that there was a mutual attraction that extended beyond sex. To cut a long story short I ended up asking her out and she said yes and we disclosed our real names to each other and exchanged phone numbers (she has a maid that handles her calls).

I just wanted to know if anyone has ever found themselves in this position, if they actually went out with the girl and what happened?

I have to admit i am in 2 minds as to whether to pursue this further. I am inclined to as I really like the girl.

Thanks.

Offline iPad3

Hi,

Thought i would see if anyone has ever found themselves in the position i find myself in (btw forgive me if at any point i sound fluffy). I have been visiting a girl i met through punting and it became clear that there was a mutual attraction that extended beyond sex. To cut a long story short I ended up asking her out and she said yes and we disclosed our real names to each other and exchanged phone numbers (she has a maid that handles her calls).

I just wanted to know if anyone has ever found themselves in this position, if they actually went out with the girl and what happened?

I have to admit i am in 2 minds as to whether to pursue this further. I am inclined to as I really like the girl.

Thanks.

Never done it myself and if it feels good then go for it. However I would advise caution and keep your guard up, particularly if a few weeks down the line she roles out a sob story about poor relatives or some rent that she can't pay!!

Offline Mr Farkyhars

Never done it myself and if it feels good then go for it. However I would advise caution and keep your guard up, particularly if a few weeks down the line she roles out a sob story about poor relatives or some rent that she can't pay!!

+1. Also, be prepared to get cuckolded all the time.

Offline Clooney

Yep. Me.

I was with her for around three and a half years. Still fond of her. She married an academic who was about 20 years older than her and lives in Paris now. Last saw her about a year ago. We remain very fond of each other, but lots of water under the bridge.

She was I troduced to me by my regular at time who was relatively well known in the two reputable knocking shops in soho at the time. I got on well with this girl and we began seeing each other as client and escort quite frequently and informally. She only did a couple of days a week in the soho place and was indie to a few guys she met there and liked.

Anyway, one day I called her and asked if she was available that evening. She was flying out on holiday that night, but said that she knew a girl who was very under the radar and who she really only saw for group things, but she had the occasional 1 on 1 client. She said she knew we'd get on.

So she puts the call in and confirms that mystery girl would be glad to see me. Turns out her place was only about a mile from me, so over I popped. We just clicked and we slowly realised that we liked one another.

I adored her, and wish her nothing but well, but if you have even the slightest hint of a jealousy gene, you could be in for a rough ride. Personally I don't and we actually enjoyed some quite far out experimenting and scenes. Just realise that this is what she did when she met you. You can't expect to change people to your will. Love her for who she is or let her go.

And good luck. It can work out.

C.

Offline big-paul-86

i visited someone a bunch of times and we got on very well and tired it on and was told she wasnt interested in seeing anyone at the moment, few weeks later when i saw her again she told me she had started seeing someone. i will admit that hurt

monkeyspanker1981

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My regular girl said it was unfortunate that she met me as a client because she enjoys talking to me and spending time with me. To be continued.

Offline swfinest

No, but I would. For all the valid nay saying, it is a bit of a fucking adventure, why not live it to the full.

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but only if you tell us about it :D

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Offline Belgarion

I did not know the girl was offering services, we met at a club when I was in Uni and we hit it off and were together for about 3 months. She was probably the best shag I've ever had in my life.

She always used to spend time with her parents which I found odd, then eventually she opened up to me and told me about the other side of her life. Told her she should have said it from the get go and then it dawned on me.

Relationship finished there and then, but we still meet up from time to time as fuck buddies though.

She is married now, though

Offline stayer

I should point out that she's the one taking a a risk as she could be acquiring a boyfriend who just wants free sex. I know at least two WGs have chosen not to have a boyfriend as it could make life complicated for them.

Offline webpunter

My regular girl said it was unfortunate that she met me as a client because she enjoys talking to me and spending time with me. To be continued.
That old chestnut  :sarcastic:   I wouldn't get too excited.  A great line to draw you in.  She may well enjoy talking / spending time etc with you - this being more than with her other punters.  Once the meter stops running then IMO the talking & time will amazingly grind to a halt.  Best you'll get to is no clock watching & some added time here & there.  When she has a void period of time until the next punter is due to arrive.  Lets see how it continues.

Expl1cit

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I have been visiting a girl i met through punting and it became clear that there was a mutual attraction that extended beyond sex....

...I just wanted to know if anyone has ever found themselves in this position, if they actually went out with the girl and what happened?

Thanks.

She definitely fancies your wallet, not sure that would be a mutual attraction.  I suppose you like her assets, and she likes yours?

I've been there, done it, had a long term relationship, she stopped escorting, we moved in together, almost got married and boom it hit us! she couldn't shake off the fact I saw escorts, I couldn't handle the fact she used to be one, and it was over.

Relationships are difficult enough, throw in two fucked up people and its got less chance of lasting!

baretta

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It must take a certain type of guy to be with a women that gets fucked by other men for money. I don't see the appeal of it no matter how hot she may be  :wacko:

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There are loads of threads on here about the dangers and problems of consensual non-financial relationships and feelings with ladies who also take money for sex. Be very careful.

Offline EnglishRebecca121

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To throw a twist on it yes it can work . ive been dating a client for 18 months now no issues either side, but im thinking i could be  very small minority as it takes alot of trust
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baretta

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To throw a twist on it yes it can work . ive been dating a client for 18 months now no issues either side, but im thinking i could be  very small minority as it takes alot of trust

So he's happy sharing you with others then ? As you said I must take a lot of trust but I could or would not go down that path  :hi:

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There was one where i was smitten by...but thank god my senses came back few hours later!

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So he's happy sharing you with others then ? As you said I must take a lot of trust but I could or would not go down that path  :hi:

wouldnt say overjoyed lol but he understands i was an escort before he came along and he knows its not forever!
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baretta

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wouldnt say overjoyed lol but he understands i was an escort before he came along and he knows its not forever!

This partner of yours would not happen to be James999  :unknown:

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Offline Cunning Punt

To throw a twist on it yes it can work . ive been dating a client for 18 months now no issues either side, but im thinking i could be  very small minority as it takes alot of trust

You don't have to answer this, but as you've volunteered this.

Does he see other girls or even escorts - and are/would you be okay with that?

Again, it's up to you whether you wish to divulge. Just an interesting point.

Offline EnglishRebecca121

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As far as i know nope but i have told him i am more than happy for him to have safe fun with others as long as its just sex , i have no issue with sex but if he had an affair he would be shot :bomb:
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baretta

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You don't have to answer this, but as you've volunteered this.

Does he see other girls or even escorts - and are/would you be okay with that?

Again, it's up to you whether you wish to divulge. Just an interesting point.

Good question but by reading some of her reviews I highly doubt that he sees other women

Offline Cunning Punt

As far as i know nope but i have told him i am more than happy for him to have safe fun with others as long as its just sex , i have no issue with sex but if he had an affair he would be shot :bomb:

Yes, it would be a case of "pots, kettles and black" if you objected to him having sex with other girls if it was safe and just sex.

Thanks for answering.

lol-machine

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Relationships are difficult enough, throw in two fucked up people and its got less chance of lasting!

yeah, you need to practise urging caution. Bit rough around the edges at the moment

tonysoprano

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I wouldn't say dated but have become fuck buddies with a couple of WG's. The relationships never went further as I always knew how we met would make that impossible. Nor I would I want a GF who worked as an escort so they would have had to get a proper job which let's face it many WG's absolutely do not want to do.

Being a WG isn't a job that is conducive to having a steady BF but it's certainly not uncommon for punters and WG's to have relationships for a while at least.

vw

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Don't want to go into my car crash 7 years ago but strongly advise against it, an ex-wg maybe an active one no chance. 

You will find yourself sucked in to anything to stop you thinking about it, again long term damaging !

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I don't think its a good idea to date WGs... Especially if you know she is one...
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I have but never again. Far too many issues to list, best keep it separate and keep life simple.

Offline Mr Farkyhars

You will find yourself sucked in to anything to stop you thinking about it, again long term damaging !

Unless you're one of the (apparently many) men who have no problem with the other half 'being unfaithful' :hi:

Offline fitasfuck

As far as i know nope but i have told him i am more than happy for him to have safe fun with others as long as its just sex , i have no issue with sex but if he had an affair he would be shot :bomb:

Not surprising. Women, in general, seem to put a partner's affair (emotional & mental involvement with another girl regardless of whether they have sex or not) in a much worse category than just physical adultery.

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As far as i know nope but i have told him i am more than happy for him to have safe fun with others as long as its just sex , i have no issue with sex but if he had an affair he would be shot :bomb:


But when does just sex become (or not become) an affair?

It's the age-old question, and it's fraught with danger.

Offline stevedave

As far as i know nope but i have told him i am more than happy for him to have safe fun with others as long as its just sex , i have no issue with sex but if he had an affair he would be shot :bomb:

That's a very sensible approach - can you have a word with my Mrs please?

Hmm, on second thoughts maybe not  :lol:

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I'm in regular contact with a hot Chinese chick I went with one time for half-hour. It's got to the point where we Whatsapp each each other regularly, checking what the other ones had for dinner, and stuff like that. I think we both are playing games a little bit...I offered to teach her how to learn english and swim etc, she said yes but let's see if she does it...

The main rule is: Expect, at best, a fling or privileges. 99 times out of a hundred it wont go any further. Just as long as you know that.

Offline Nagilum

I can certainly understand how this would come about. You visit a girl and she takes on the role of a girlfriend, is pleasant, adorable, fun and sexy.

Remember if you feel attracted and comfortable it means she is very good at her job. Don't let the act deceive you.

No doubt feelings change in time perhaps, but could you take it knowing what other men are doing to her daily?

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As far as i know nope but i have told him i am more than happy for him to have safe fun with others as long as its just sex , i have no issue with sex but if he had an affair he would be shot :bomb:

As a man I know that men only have affairs for the sex.  It's an ego trip that they feel sexually desired, so if he has sex he is having and affair and vice versa.

vw

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As a man I know that men only have affairs for the sex.  It's an ego trip that they feel sexually desired, so if he has sex he is having and affair and vice versa.
Speak for all men do you ? 

Offline Tonyleung

OP apologies in advance for going off your topic. - My 2cp before going off topic. Earlier someone said live life to the full - I agree take a chance, it might work out.

Anyway - Does anyone remember that Poster/Troll pouring out his sad misbegotten drivel about a Sohowalk up he fell in love with and used to stand outside her door crying as punter's walked up? That was the funniset stuff, I've ever read, even if it was very sad and um twisted.  :wacko:

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OP apologies in advance for going off your topic. - My 2cp before going off topic. Earlier someone said live life to the full - I agree take a chance, it might work out.

Anyway - Does anyone remember that Poster/Troll pouring out his sad misbegotten drivel about a Sohowalk up he fell in love with and used to stand outside her door crying as punter's walked up? That was the funniset stuff, I've ever read, even if it was very sad and um twisted.  :wacko:
Tony done some searching is this the guy

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=38312.0

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As a man I know that men only have affairs for the sex.  It's an ego trip that they feel sexually desired, so if he has sex he is having and affair and vice versa.

well i think you are complety wrong!!sex is just sex ! :unknown:
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Expl1cit

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As a man I know that men only have affairs for the sex.  It's an ego trip that they feel sexually desired, so if he has sex he is having and affair and vice versa.

well i think you are complety wrong!!sex is just sex ! :unknown:

Both of you are completely wrong, because neither of you speak for everybody!  As a man myself I don't just see WG's or Civvies for the sex, and I also don't believe sex is just sex.  That's usually a prostitutes viewpoint who wants to associate sex as simply a physical act with no meaning for their sanity.