I wonder if she's mates with Mike's wife...
My main reason for posting it of course is as a warning to some of the newbies that get carried away, either on of off the forum. I don't think most men really think the woman they married could be such a devious fuckhead while smiling nicely at him over his cornflakes.
I think people get very dependent on marriage after a bit. They forget the take-off drill can apply at any time during the flight. They avoid thinking of the possibility of it ending and so become unprepared to live life on their own feet. So they panic if they think they've been 'betrayed' by the other half of that disgustingly shitty old-fashioned contract (excuse the adjectives, but it is phrased like servitude between two free adults of presumably competent age).
People are free agents. It helps to remember that, honest. You stay with someone as a matter of free will. You have a right to shag who the fuck you like, and if you choose not to exercise that due to someone satisfying your needs, well enjoy it while it lasts and remember it is a choice you make, and he or she makes, daily, on an independently moral basis.
And while you are extending that nuptial honeymoon bliss, if you notice one day that it is less than mutual, ask yourself if he or she is (or is still) also your best friend. Best friends don't go round digging up dirt on each other. They are prepared to accept, or, in the event that something overthrows everything else about that friendship, to walk away with love and respect for the person you've cherished. If you don't do it like that, you are calling yourself an idiot for making a longtime bad choice, and that really hurts and goes on hurting. Like the American tv show says, try to love and respect yourself -- and each other.
