I've never self-harmed; but, because of being born with a disability, have had a series of major operations over the years. Among other consequences, these include: a huge scar across my back; a leg which is permanently straight from having been immobilized for a number of years in a Thomas Splint, and the removal of four toes from the foot on that leg.
I never thought to mention these when I went for my first-ever Parlour visit; I was too preoccupied with buying me some sex!
I said to the Receptionist at the Parlour that I was a very nervous 58-y-o visiting a Parlour for the first time - I'm sure she could tell!
- and wanted to see the lass who'd be best for such a nervous punter.
I never thought to explain or apologise to the lass for the various operation scars and missing toes and it was only some time into what was effectively a two-year career of visiting Parlours that I took to explaining to some of the girls I saw there what the scars related to and the fact that I only had one left toe.
However, it was when I 'found' AW and started booking to visit SPs in their own premises that I thought I ought to explain what I looked like when making the booking. I didn't want to travel 30, 40 miles only to be told that she didn't want to see me. It was, of course, never a problem and it was only after a few visits that it dawned on me that any imperfections in my appearance were outweighed by the attraction of the folding money I handed over more or less as soon as I arrived!