Question - what is a realistic cost of a sugar baby in Kent / South East?

[DrMILFLover]

I’m sorry if I’ve put this question in the wrong place and I know there are existing threads about sites like Seeking Arrangement and Sugar babies on this forum. However, I would rather ask direct and look like an idiot for 5 minutes in order to learn.

I would be grateful for anyone who can give me some realistic numbers and expectations in the current market coming up for December 2022. I’m aware the current cost of living crisis in the UK is changing everything. I’ve noticed that escorting rates have decreased, you can get a much hotter girl for the same money now as the start of this year and the girls are more grateful for the business. The girl I saw yesterday on tour told me that all the people contacting he except for me had been time wasters on her current tour so far.

I’m completely new to sugar babies but not escorting. For me to get a sugar baby as a sort of girlfriend replacement; what should I realistically be prepared to spend? I’ve seen members on this forum negotiate much better PPM prices that are often far less than a similar escort would charge for an overnight booking

In terms of having a girl constantly as a pseudo-girlfriend with an allowance; what are realistic rates to pay? I’m a total noob and I’m hoping to learn from smarter, more experienced men hence I’m asking to try and dramatically shorten the learning curve

I’m early 30s, work with computers, a bit socially awkward, a good earner and I’m physically in good shape. Do my stats matter in terms of getting a more favourable arrangement or do you they charge fixed rates like escorts? I have not messaged any women on sugar dating sites yet. I would like to find a nice young pretty sugar baby for sex and companionship. Online dating isn’t what it used to be. I used to get loads of matches on Tinder and stuff but in the last few years women seem to have unrealistic expectations on those apps. My friend who is a tall good looking millionaire no longer gets many matches so if he can’t get matches; it’s clear the market has changed. Hence I’m looking to try something new

I can’t send DMs / private messages on this forum yet (I can reply if you message me first I think) because my profile hasn’t got enough points yet. I’ve been trying to leave reviews and comments on girls I’ve met on this forum to add more value and earn my stripes

Any information, advice and comments are all appreciated. I’m all ears and open to learning here

[southcoastpunter]

as you say, there is a dedicated seeking thread on the general/national board and on this one for the SE
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=277868.0.

its a long answer to your questions - the short answer is - it depends on so many factors. I suggest, have a read and come back with a few specific questions. but in general terms it is probably best to wait now to the new year as some guys are reporting it as very quiet atm

[timsussex]

really is a how long is a piece of string question
It depends on both your expectations and hers
Are you looking for once a week meets or monthly
what sort of meets - just sex or evenings out ?
just the two of you or with friends - ie an escort arrangement or a real pseudo girlfriend ?
Holidays ?

[southcoastpunter]

really is a how long is a piece of string question

i took it as ....i can't be bothered to read back on the threads i know exist so tell me.......

as you say - how long is a piece of string and as i said...it depends! The Op really will be best to invest and hour or two to read back a bit and get lots of info, ideas and probably the answer to most of his questions.

[timsussex]

Oh and one further thought
as you mention overnight try a reverse booking - you will be surprised how many escorts who clearly state no negotiation will respond to reasonable offers

[Saco]

Hey Dr!
For me 150-250 for an afternoon of hotel fun, for around 3 hours, plus drinks to lubricate proceedings along.
All the best with your sa adventure, I’ve not been on there in a while but thinking of getting back on it as my reg sb is not in the UK at the moment.
Can’t beat the sa experience for me, it’s so much better than seeing escorts imho.
Enjoy !