An experiment to see if being very explicit of what you want makes a difference

[xabojuro]

This is not a review but a discussion point

I am know to punting and often feel short changed and somehow walk out she did not do what I wanted so I thought if I describe my 30 mins in advance will it work.

This is my ideal 30 mins

Start with 10 mins b2b message  followed by 5 mins DFK whilst anal playing me and I am finguring you followed by 10 mins of rimming me in 69 then finish off in doggy style or CIM depending  how hard I get

Will it work?


Will start the experiment soon.

[rg41]

I always say what I want and in the main I get what I like, when I started punting I remember there was on was rather mechanical but gave me what I wanted, she does not escort now.

[fairfield]

Seems like a great idea in theory.
If only you could have a punting timetable/menu drawn up and hand it to the wg upon arrival. It would make my punts so much better.
Sadly, never come across a pro$$ie who would even remotely comply - most put the phone down as soon as i mention the dread words "FK with an OAP?"
If your timetable method does work, can you publish in full on here plz? I would be happy to give it a try.

[Billy no mates]

I wouldnt put the 'times' in (5 minutes of this followed by 10 minutes of that).

I found it certainly helps to specify exactly what you want
"I am looking for blah blah roleplay, the specfic services I would want is fingering, rimming, etc etc, is this somethng you would be interested in?"

[hungrypunt]

I wouldnt say that was too explicit, but yes 100% say what services you expect ad as long as they are on her list, she will understand. (should).

Ive sent my messages before saying what Id like us to do, and if Im wanting something excat, I say so , that way there is no confusion.
Example, I had a spell of really fancying cum in throat, so Id make sure I put this,  "and to finish Id like to cum in your throat, not mouth or back of mouth but finish in your throat, if this is a problem I understand" My cock is x inches
Sure you get knock backs for plenty things but better to get what you want from who wants to provide.

[Corus Boy]

With a lot of ladies they do not want email contact to be too explicit, thinking you may just be playing text sex.

Again with a lot of ladies they will say, that's fine I'm happy with that but the moment you meet and hand over the money the story would change.  Mind you that can happen if you stand there face to face and ask.

[xabojuro]

Seems like a great idea in theory.
If only you could have a punting timetable/menu drawn up and hand it to the wg upon arrival. It would make my punts so much better.
Sadly, never come across a pro$$ie who would even remotely comply - most put the phone down as soon as i mention the dread words "FK with an OAP?"
If your timetable method does work, can you publish in full on here plz? I would be happy to give it a try.

Will share outcome.

[xabojuro]

With a lot of ladies they do not want email contact to be too explicit, thinking you may just be playing text sex.

Again with a lot of ladies they will say, that's fine I'm happy with that but the moment you meet and hand over the money the story would change.  Mind you that can happen if you stand there face to face and ask.

Like the coming in her throat idea.

[xabojuro]

I wouldnt put the 'times' in (5 minutes of this followed by 10 minutes of that).

I found it certainly helps to specify exactly what you want
"I am looking for blah blah roleplay, the specfic services I would want is fingering, rimming, etc etc, is this somethng you would be interested in?"

Maybe best to sms followed by a call to confirm

[Billy no mates]

Maybe best to sms followed by a call to confirm

I usually use AW mail, in the first instance, if I’m after something specific.

[jackdaw]

If you use that "formula" for a 30 minute punt, don't think you'll get many takers. There's a fair combination of activities to cram in, with some at least ruling out a fair number of service providers...e.g. DFK, rimming, Cim.

And those that do will most likely "forget" to deliver part of it.

That's my prediction. Hope I'm wrong.

[Derrick101]

It doesn't matter how explicit you are with (most) EE's, what you ask for is usually agreed pre-punt, then not delivered during 

[mrhappypants]

My view:

1) Text confirmation should be shorter  - three essential services, clarifing if extras and be explicitly at discretion (“OWO, French Kissing and CIM inclusive, at your discretion, OK?) - anticipate her justifiable concern that you are a smelly fucker.

2) Put  her at ease and gauge the tone before final contracting in the room.  I bang on about the 60 second 4 S test. In the room, before you hand over the cash, ask yourself and answer 4 questions:

Sexy?
Smells good? (room / girl / bed)
Services as agreed? (As below and central to this discussion.)
Smiles?

For Services part of the discussion, describe the playbook for the session in the room, before you pay, money in hand but don’t give times.  Ask her if this is OK.

See my recent review on porn_Arina.

It only counts if you are prepared to walk, but it will save you a lot of money and increase the quality of meetings you go through with.

 

[Steely Dan]

My view.  Past service is best prediction of future service.  NOT what they say.  While asking this does no harm, it has little benefit.

Look for an escort that gave the sort of service you want to another punter.  From reviews on here.  High chance you will get service you want.

This is another reason that all reviews add value.  It is not if an escort is good or bad alone.  Is her experience what I am looking for?

[mrhappypants]

On reflection I think SD is right.

For the request above French Kissing, CIM, finger play, anal play and rimming are all generally contentious services and will form the essence of contracting.  Very few SP’s in my experience will offer all 5.  I suggest you check the board in your area and see if you can identify a regular contributor with similar tastes.  This still leaves the issue of contracting but at least gives you a starting point.

Please write reviews. 

[Analist]

It's better to be explicit and be very clear on what you're getting rather than be disappointed in the punt.

Step 1. Read the reviews on aw or here to check if they mention the services you're interested in.

Step 2. If any services are an absolute must, confirm they are available when you make the booking, regardless of what previous punters say. Be explicit in your questions and only accept a clear yes, any wavering is a danger sign.

Step 3. Regardless of a positive response in steps 1 and 2, I've had cases where the service suddenly does not become available during the actual booking. They may say ' Oh I don't feel like it today' or give some such excuse. If it's important, always verbally confirm at the start of the booking - before you hand your money over.

You may still encounter the odd scammer, but I find it's less likely if you do the step by step inquiry. And that's why UKP is such a great resource, it gives detailed information on what other punters experienced with the same WG. If the services you want are regularly on offer, then you should be in good shape.

[xabojuro]

I was thinking maybe a product  like description of the services provided  could improve things and make sure that nobody comes out of the experience disappointed. That's a big ask as we do not all have the same taste and what's good for one punter might not be so good for another.   services described as packages may be worth a shot And it may stop people who are paying for service being ripped off. I just do not have enough time to write it all down but slowly and bit by bit I will. It may not work and it sounds very mechanical and organised way to do business in an industry that's not organised.

[Jonestown]

I was thinking maybe a product  like description of the services provided  could improve things and make sure that nobody comes out of the experience disappointed. That's a big ask as we do not all have the same taste and what's good for one punter might not be so good for another.   services described as packages may be worth a shot And it may stop people who are paying for service being ripped off. I just do not have enough time to write it all down but slowly and bit by bit I will. It may not work and it sounds very mechanical and organised way to do business in an industry that's not organised.

You were right in your top post, you are new to all this. Id go out and get a few more punts under your belt before you try and write industry standards for prostitution.

[cash2spare]

Whatever you finally do O/P I'd steer clear of asking the girl to dress like an alien on a mission to earth to collect sperm as it hasn't gone down well recently 

[Punterperson1971]

With sp’s I see more than once I’ll let them know what I want like a facial etc and sometimes get a nice cheeky response like “oh can’t wait “ or “yes please” something along those lines.