Why such a hype with anal sex .. what's your opinion ??

[mrdiamond77]

It's tighter and I guess its taboo. However I prefer vaginal sex and don't tend to ask for anal.

[hungrypunt]

A few civvies I know love it up tarse and others wont even broache the subject.

 Personally Im not arsed, if the pussies tight enough this is fine for me. And sex nowadays is a lot more fun and play with various ideas toys etc than it was 20 years ago for me.

From another angle, I date a lot of girls from SA , ages 21-30 ish and Id say at least 70% have said they either want to try anal with someone trusting/experienced instead of coked up little johnny bf/mate,  ramming them senseless.

Then also pop over to marrakech, or even certain religions here in UK , up tarse is preferred if saving for marriage

Is it a generation thing influenced by porn, defo in my book,

[hendrix]

I don't punt with anybody that isn't guaranteed to offer it nowadays. Much prefer it to vaginal most of the time.

[bdyno]

Then also pop over to marrakech, or even certain religions here in UK , up tarse is preferred if saving for marriage

This is how it earned the name "Greek", I believe it's fairly common there as well.

[aronteo]

dyno, interesting that is the complete opposite of my world of experience.

For trying, I have already said, we had everything prepared ( Enema earlier ), cock was stiff after BJ, rubber over, lubricant ... very careful. It was not pleasant she said

I think dyno is a lucky man - I have never been able to even get one of my past and (current) girlfriend/s to try anal - they simply would not do it.  Or maybe it is  I  the unlucky one...

 

[Moby Dick]

I think dyno is a lucky man - I have never been able to even get one of my past and (current) girlfriend/s to try anal - they simply would not do it.  Or maybe it is  I  the unlucky one...

 

Size of ya cock comes into it, or doesn’t no matter what.

[bdyno]

I think dyno is a lucky man - I have never been able to even get one of my past and (current) girlfriend/s to try anal - they simply would not do it.  Or maybe it is  I  the unlucky one...

 

I can only go by my own experience and say you've been unlucky.  Appreciate everyone has different experiences though.

And always remember, it's the best form of contraception you can get!

[bdyno]

Size of ya cock comes into it, or doesn’t no matter what.

This is where you guys probably have me beat - I'm decidedly average in that area so maybe it's helped on this one.

[MrMatrix]

It's tighter and I guess its taboo. However I prefer vaginal sex and don't tend to ask for anal.

+1. Last time I had Anal offered I turned down and at no extra cost. However I wouldnt pay for it which I have done in the past- Got the T shirt already

[danny#3]

my ex wife liked it, I do too so have partaken many times. Plenty of other civvy girls have liked it too. They seem to be firmly in the like it or not a fucking chance camp. For me it has a different feeling and I have had a few pros who have allowed it too. I'd never pay extra for it but if the girl is clean and it is on offer for no extras then I'm in

[20jay]

my ex wife liked it, I do too so have partaken many times. Plenty of other civvy girls have liked it too. They seem to be firmly in the like it or not a fucking chance camp. For me it has a different feeling and I have had a few pros who have allowed it too. I'd never pay extra for it but if the girl is clean and it is on offer for no extras then I'm in

So the girls were always prepared? I don't think that's appetizing in case of not, for both sides .

[MrMatrix]

So the girls were always prepared? I don't think that's appetizing in case of not, for both sides .

All the times I've done As they have been prepared. Wouldnt do it otherwise

[RobinBrod]

My impression, for what it's worth, is that it is a relatively recent thing being so common, and that is probably the result of the internet and the easy accessibility of porn. Many will say that anal is a power thing, and for many it may well be. However, I tend to view it is the most intimate thing a girl can give, and so is a form of trust: you aren't going to hurt me, are you. There's no doubt that some SPs are not interested; others definitely love it and cum that way, and I suspect we can all name both types. What intrigues me are the number who used to offer it, and now no longer do. A number who used to work at e.g. Maxes and offered anal there, turned indie and do not offer it. I also suspect, and have no way of proving this at all, that almost all SPs can take anal, but know that it would take time, effort and plenty of practice, opt not to.

[20jay]

All the times I've done As they have been prepared. Wouldnt do it otherwise

My point would be rather that the spontaneity is lost. Not with the rented girls, there is nothing spontaneous, but in the partnership. And as I said the cleaning procedure is also tedious if you do it properly.

[20jay]

My impression, for what it's worth, is that it is a relatively recent thing being so common, and that is probably the result of the internet and the easy accessibility of porn. Many will say that anal is a power thing, and for many it may well be. However, I tend to view it is the most intimate thing a girl can give, and so is a form of trust: you aren't going to hurt me, are you. There's no doubt that some SPs are not interested; others definitely love it and cum that way, and I suspect we can all name both types. What intrigues me are the number who used to offer it, and now no longer do. A number who used to work at e.g. Maxes and offered anal there, turned indie and do not offer it. I also suspect, and have no way of proving this at all, that almost all SPs can take anal, but know that it would take time, effort and plenty of practice, opt not to.

Good point of view , I agree in wide parts ....

[MrMatrix]

My point would be rather that the spontaneity is lost. Not with the rented girls, there is nothing spontaneous, but in the partnership. And as I said the cleaning procedure is also tedious if you do it properly.

Of course you are correct. 

[Carpy]

My two Penneth for what it is worth...

With wgs I have done anal a fair bit, usually it’s been nothing special and more taboo.. as such not something i actively seek out anymore and definitely don’t pay for it as a extra.

As I got more experienced with punting I have got into anal play on me and been pegged several time’s, I have loved it and hated it in equal measures with different girls, but would say I do like it on average. I find a wg’s experience in delivering it to be key.

I have recently been with a civvy woman in her 40s.... she loves sex but has never tried anything other then the gfe type things.... tried anal in past and hated it. Took me a few goes but she finally let me try and she loved it.... once she realised that when she relaxed and I went slow the initial pain went away, she really got into it. Fast forward a few months and she actively seeks it and really take a hard pounding. Even has now started to train her ass with a butt plug to get over the initial pain bits.

Next on the list of a dp with a toy 

[Californian]

In the Land of the Free (the USA) it's still illegal in some States.

(But of course you can easily buy a gun).

That hasn’t been the case in decades.

[millbush]

Well I've only tried it once but it's the taboo aspect I liked the thought of,got to say it's much tighter than a pussy and it wasn't quite like it is in the films so to speak.

[Doc Holliday]

..got to say it's much tighter than a pussy

Surely that should hardly come as a surprise .... with you being a doctor?

[Doc Holliday]

Agree with others about the influence of porn etc ... which leads to experimentation .... which usually results in a 'marmite' response.

Everyone should try it. It feels very different for both. DP adds another dimension ..try it with a toy at least.

I've posted before that it's 'not what nature intended' which can cause issues.

Mrs Holliday loves it. I could live without it.

[John Johnson]

For me it has been a major focus since my early twenties. I had a relationship with a divorcee many years older than me, we tried it one night and she loved it. After that she wanted it all the time. A later girlfriend could orgasm within two minutes of anal penetration. The thing that both of them had in common was a submissive nature.

[winkywanky]

I don't punt with anybody that isn't guaranteed to offer it nowadays. Much prefer it to vaginal most of the time.

....I wondered how long it would be before you made an appearance on this thread hendrix  .

[8-VUU]

I enjoy it. It is omething different and I can penetrate deeper. To each their own. I would suspect, if given the choice most SP would prefer OW than OWO. OW would be a deal-breaker for me and many punters with a SP. So as far as whether or not your partner “ likes it or not”, I guess it would be ok so long as they agree to it. (I personally don’t need DFK, but I see that there are many that require it).

There are many things that as a guy, I would not agree to do, that women regularly enjoy - like being penetrated. Yes, I can have a butt plug up my ass, but it doen’t mean I have to try it. I also don’t wear make-up, high heels, or drink sprinkling wines....

[winkywanky]

When you speak of drinking 'sprinkling wines', is that a euphemism for receiving watersports (or more likely, the autocorrect on your phone)?

[millbush]

Only time I’ve tried it was with Sweet Sexy Amy External Link/Members Only .

An absolute stunner she is. I found the entry was tight and inside it loosens up....is that the norm?

Enjoyable and got it off the ‘to do list’ but prefer pussy.

Yes this is what I found,unexpected.

[mradventures]

yeah, think you have the anus ring, and the inside is bigger
i guess if shes not cleaned out, the poop will take up some space/add texture 

[GingerNuts]

An absolute stunner she is. I found the entry was tight and inside it loosens up....is that the norm?

The entry (normally the exit) needs to be tight otherwise leakage occurs.

[Malvolio]

I feel the taboo element is a big part of the appeal for us blokes.

[B4bcock]

A couple of years ago there was a good vfm SP at a parlour I frequent.   I saw her a few times and at every meeting she would mention that she was an "anal virgin".   My reply was that she was virgin on the ridiculous, but I often wondered how many gullible guys shelled out £££ to be the "first".

[jimbobted]

I think dyno is a lucky man - I have never been able to even get one of my past and (current) girlfriend/s to try anal - they simply would not do it.  Or maybe it is  I  the unlucky one...

 

One of my exes told me the first time we fucked that her arse was "a one way valve" and that one no account was anything to be inserted there.
Then a while later she goes and shoves a finger up my butthole whilst we're shagging. Felt bloody amazing but I could never persuade her to try it.

[8-VUU]

When you speak of drinking 'sprinkling wines', is that a euphemism for receiving watersports (or more likely, the autocorrect on your phone)?

My bad. Autocorrect on my phone.
Nothing against people who enjoy sparkling wines, just not a wine I choose. Although I never considered sprinkling wines, but may have to try it with a SP.
 Thx for the correction.

[winkywanky]

Only time I’ve tried it was with Sweet Sexy Amy External Link/Members Only .

An absolute stunner she is. I found the entry was tight and inside it loosens up....is that the norm?

Enjoyable and got it off the ‘to do list’ but prefer pussy.

Well yes, the rectum is a flexible storage space into which waste accumulates (ready for evacuation), it wouldn't do for it to have tight muscles which prevent it performing this function.

Conversely, the anus is a sealage sphincter immediately below, which prevents undesired leakage before voluntary evacuation.

So performing anal on someone will tend to feel tight going in, and then once in place your cock will be gripped tightly at the base. A skilled receiving-anal practitioner can use their (strong) rectal and anal muscles to vary this feeling though, both for their own pleasure and for the variation in feel for the giver.

[winkywanky]

The other thing which tends to happen is that the anal sphincter instinctively 'grips closed' in pursuit of its function (ie stop leakage).

Once it has been breached by a cock or a toy for some time, it will mould itself to its new diameter. Hence the 'gaping' which occurs after a while.

[aronteo]

One of my exes told me the first time we fucked that her arse was "a one way valve" and that one no account was anything to be inserted there.
Then a while later she goes and shoves a finger up my butthole whilst we're shagging. Felt bloody amazing but I could never persuade her to try it.

I can only sympathise with what you say: my current girlfriend even did some research and found out some online sources claiming that anal sex can be dangerous in the long run and cause anal leakage and prolapse......; after that it was fuck all......

[20jay]

The other thing which tends to happen is that the anal sphincter instinctively 'grips closed' in pursuit of its function (ie stop leakage).

Once it has been breached by a cock or a toy for some time, it will mould itself to its new diameter. Hence the 'gaping' which occurs after a while.

This will not be funny in everyday life when closing and sealing stops working properly .. no ?

[Grumpy Pumpy]

I know how painful a prostate exam is. And that's just a finger!

So I take my hat off to any one - SP, civvy, or gay guy - that receives anal.

It's not something I look for in a punt. Though I wont turn it down if it's offered

[winkywanky]

This will not be funny in everyday life when closing and sealing stops working properly .. no ?

Yes, in exactly the same way as your lunch in a Tupperware container  .

Seriously though, I have no idea of any long-term implications for those who stretch their rear end on a regular basis.

[mh]

What's the hype? Well with some girls it is a non-event. If they don't have a tight asshole then it is nothing to write home about, though it is a taboo or novelty. But with the right girls it is amazing. I used to have anal on around 50% of punts, I no longer seek it out so the proportion has been reducing but I'll still take it if on offer. I've had half a dozen experiences where it far exceeds the physical pleasure I've ever had from fucking a pussy.

My missus likes it, but when she is in the right mood.

She says, it doesn’t really feel particularly different (other than it being a different hole). For her it’s about being ‘used’ and treated like a slut/whore. So it’s more a mental stimulus for her. She says it does ‘hurt’, but in a way that she enjoys, like spanking or pinching her nipples.

I was gobsmacked when my to then futile attempts at anal with my wife were rewarded. She often very much enjoyed the tip of my cock touching her butthole, it clearly turned her on but there was no sign that she'd go any further. Then one day she was obviously in a very dirty frame of mind and let me in and kept on at it until I came inside. It was a good while before she wanted another go but we've had several now, not usually to completion though. If I hadn't already done it with a WG I may not have had the courage to try at all.

my current girlfriend and several before her all prefer anal

Blimey the correlation there sounds like you're choosing a certain type of girl. 

I found the entry was tight and inside it loosens up....is that the norm?

That's what I've found - in girls who have a tight asshole of course, some just don't.

[Mr_Vanila1]

Is it a cultural acceptation thing with some girls, many years ago I had a Greek and a Turkish girlfriends both from Cyprus and the only sex I got from them was blowjobs and anal sex . I remember the greek girl telling me a story that her mate had to have surgery so her future husband didn’t click on that she was not a virgin!!   Not sure how much I believed her story, but I do remember how much I wanted to fuck them in the pussy which was off limit to me.

[RogerBoner]

I started a thread about anal sex on UKE a couple of years ago and several WGs commented on the thread. Some were enthusiastic (or touting) and others said that they had "a friend" who had suffered from pain and from prolapse. In the UK many Thai girls have it included in the price and I have done it to quite a lot of them. But one who retired a few years ago still has some pain and takes painkillers daily. Another famous for taking it like a trooper said that she preferred it as she couldn't feel anything, just the sensation of being full.

I watch it in porn because the pussy is still visible so it's aesthetically pleasing. But I stopped after a woman in Phuket went into a beautiful prone praying position with her arse up and spread out. It felt exactly the same in both orifices so I thought what's the point? Then she said that she wanted to feel me come up her backside. It put me off a bit and then this happened in the UK. So now I probably won't ever do it again.

p.s. It's just slightly gay isn't it?

[Jeremy]

p.s. It's just slightly gay isn't it?

If it's gay to stick your cock in a woman's arse because men have arses too, then it's gay to stick your cock in a woman's mouth or get wanked off by one surely?

[winkywanky]

Is it a cultural acceptation thing with some girls, many years ago I had a Greek and a Turkish girlfriends both from Cyprus and the only sex I got from them was blowjobs and anal sex . I remember the greek girl telling me a story that her mate had to have surgery so her future husband didn’t click on that she was not a virgin!!   Not sure how much I believed her story, but I do remember how much I wanted to fuck them in the pussy which was off limit to me.

Yes, in some cultures/religions, technically a girl is (or is deemed to be) a virgin if she hasn't had penetrative vaginal sex. Islam is one of them, certainly guys that go to say, Morocco to punt are frequently offered anal sex instead of vaginal. I wouldn't mind betting that's the same in many other places too, I guess anywhere where a young girl is intimately inspected before marriage by female family members to make sure she's still 'intact'. Or places where the husband finds out on the wedding night that someone else 'got there first', and then he kicks the shit out of her or sets her on fire. Lovely.

As for Greek girls, well certainly the old-fashioned term for anal used to be 'Greek' (a bit like 'French' for oral), but I always thought this was due to the ancient habit of Greek warriors fucking their horses up the bum to sate their sexual desires before battle, in the absence of their women?

[winkywanky]

If it's gay to stick your cock in a woman's arse because men have arses too, then it's gay to stick your cock in a woman's mouth or get wanked off by one surely?

Exactly.

Just because gay men only have one available orifice for penetrative sex and therefore have to use it, doesn't mean others who also enjoy anal sex are gay. So calling anal sex 'gay' is pretty wide of the mark.

[bdyno]

Exactly.

Just because gay men only have one available orifice for penetrative sex and therefore have to use it, doesn't mean others who also enjoy anal sex are gay. So calling anal sex 'gay' is pretty wide of the mark.

+1

Being gay, straight or anything in between has nothing to do with what you get up to, it's about who you get up to it with.

[RogerBoner]

If it's gay to stick your cock in a woman's arse because men have arses too, then it's gay to stick your cock in a woman's mouth or get wanked off by one surely?

And  don't call me Shirley! 

[winkywanky]

Well my dear, you shouldn't talk absolute Ballas  .

[mradventures]

Yes, in some cultures/religions, technically a girl is (or is deemed to be) a virgin if she hasn't had penetrative vaginal sex. Islam is one of them, certainly guys that go to say, Morocco to punt are frequently offered anal sex instead of vaginal. I wouldn't mind betting that's the same in many other places too, I guess anywhere where a young girl is intimately inspected before marriage by female family members to make sure she's still 'intact'. Or places where the husband finds out on the wedding night that someone else 'got there first', and then he kicks the shit out of her or sets her on fire. Lovely.

As for Greek girls, well certainly the old-fashioned term for anal used to be 'Greek' (a bit like 'French' for oral), but I always thought this was due to the ancient habit of Greek warriors fucking their horses up the bum to sate their sexual desires before battle, in the absence of their women?

i havent heard that about the horses?. and a kick from a horses legs can easily kill/maim a guy. so bit dubious on that.

buuuut the spartarns did have a thing for the young boys servicing the older soldiers/teachers...

[davidgood]

For my 1 to 1s anal is a must have as I just like doing it and it is different to the lots of more vanilla sex I usually get at parties.

Regards,

davidgood

[matthew1986]

From my perspective, I love the intimacy and closeness that anal sex gives me with the wife (she enjoys is too) but when I shag SPs my reason for doing so is to have a shag and to be depraved in a way my wife doesn’t like. If anal is offered and at no charge then may or may not take the offer on the day depending on how I feel.

Gay, no. Taboo and exciting, yes.