Author Topic: corporal punishment. (Read 4055 times)

sam1 · « **on:** May 03, 2015, 01:43:35 pm »

Have any of you actually received a caning or given a caning to a wg.If so what was it like. This interests my but im unsure if it really takes place or is all fantasy

Jimmyredcab · « **Reply #1 on:** May 03, 2015, 01:59:28 pm »

Yes, it dies really take place, very much so.

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Grey Punter · « **Reply #2 on:** May 03, 2015, 04:41:15 pm »

You are unlikely to find any WG who will accept a caning except under very controlled conditions. However if you wish to receive a sound thrashing that's a different matter!

The first piece of advice is, if corporal interests you then go to a specialist who provides domme services. The reason is that they will take the time to talk to you about it, ascertain exactly what it is you want to try and then proceed in a safe manner. Because they are experienced they will monitor you throughout and ensure that the activity remains within your limits.

I am not saying that an enthusiastic amateur (aren't we all!) will not be OK, but if they get it wrong you could suffer quite serious injury.

As you may find out, there's a lot more to pain than just the laying on of the rod with a strong arm! Given time you may even decide to book your self a trip to Other World Kingdom (OWK) as shown in the video on the preceding post. Now that is for the real aficionados

Grey Punter

lancspunter · « **Reply #3 on:** May 03, 2015, 04:47:57 pm »

Sound advice from Grey Punter .. seek professional, specialist services if you are a sub seeking. As for a WG receiving ... well firstly that would be foolhardy, dangerous and bad for their work, given that caning does lead to marks that last. Hardly discreet. As GP mentioned, the one with the cane has to know what he or she is doing - it is certainly not something for the inexperienced to launch headlong into.

closeshave · « **Reply #4 on:** May 03, 2015, 05:12:50 pm »

Receive it from my mistress

Exilerating

Each to their own though

dkn · « **Reply #5 on:** May 03, 2015, 07:05:14 pm »

Quite like a bit of BDSM myself. However, I remember the first time I ever had a cane used on me. My response very quickly turned into a "fuck off and so this right now". And that first time was my last.

Happy with some light CBT (squeezing, slapping, even a gentle kicking) and love some moderate nipple biting. But caning went way past enjoyment for me. And, based on that, I'd never even want to inflict it on a girl.

Zeusthedoc · « **Reply #6 on:** May 03, 2015, 07:35:04 pm »

I dont mind a bit of aggression but I'm not really in to much in the way of pain etc.

I have tried a wartenberg wheel, Personally i wouldnt recommend it- unless you're in to that of course.

I can recommend a Dom if that's what you'd want (i'll PM you), but I would have to agree with the above-advice....
a good dom would know the necessity for safety and boundaries etc....as such, a novice dom could cause unwarranted pain/discomfort.
As a novice, that would mean any girl who was a sub to you would be at more risk etc....

Hope you end up finding what you're looking for!

MancSean · « **Reply #7 on:** May 03, 2015, 08:38:49 pm »

If you want to cane a wg it is possible but you really should see a girl that specialises in this. They normally charge per stroke. Also best to go early in the day after she's been off a couple if days as they can have brushing or welts from it. Personally although I have done it I prefer using my hand a paddle flogger etc. Some girls are good though and take it well though

BiggishSi · « **Reply #8 on:** May 03, 2015, 08:54:39 pm »

I'd recommend taking a look at External Link/Members Only

This lists more specialists in this field. Most won't engage in sex also though. There is a page of escorts who take a spanking but they are unlikely to go as far as a caning.

I did a great bit of spanking with a WG in Newport once. Young girl called Holly I think. She was beautiful and loved all things rough. Sadly, she disappeared...

sticko · « **Reply #9 on:** May 03, 2015, 09:15:18 pm »

Quote from: dopebeats on May 03, 2015, 07:35:04 pm

I have tried a wartenberg wheel, Personally i wouldnt recommend it- unless you're in to that of course.

Just learned something new:

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Even if they don't feel that bad the look of the things are enough to put me right off my stroke...

closeshave · « **Reply #10 on:** May 03, 2015, 09:49:02 pm »

You gotta feel one of them over your erection.

Zeusthedoc · « **Reply #11 on:** May 04, 2015, 12:17:12 am »

Quote from: closeshave on May 03, 2015, 09:49:02 pm

You gotta feel one of them over your erection.

been there, done that!

bucket list, providing it's done lightly enough, it's a tingly/pleasurable sensation...
I asked for it to remain light.

closeshave · « **Reply #12 on:** May 04, 2015, 09:56:15 am »

I had no option to state how. Had to take what was given

Zeusthedoc · « **Reply #13 on:** May 05, 2015, 07:58:41 pm »

Quote from: closeshave on May 04, 2015, 09:56:15 am

I had no option to state how. Had to take what was given

I guess that's the problem with a Dom.
I was fortunate in so far as I was able to negotiate a Dom/gfe type experience. Best of both worlds. Sexy and sweet and whilst being tied up etc....

davidgood · « **Reply #14 on:** May 06, 2015, 07:23:11 am »

Quote from: sam1 on May 03, 2015, 01:43:35 pm

Have any of you actually received a caning or given a caning to a wg.If so what was it like. This interests my but im unsure if it really takes place or is all fantasy

Sam, I can assure you that this takes place and is not all fantasy.

There are plenty guys out there who get off on being caned and plenty of girls happy to do it for the money.

Finding a girl to take a caning is much harder and can be very expensive and as has been said may not lead to any sex.

I was lucky to find a mature but great looking lady a few years ago who was a true sub and we used to meet at her friend's dungeon room where there was all manner of implements including canes.

I preferred to use a short cane on her bum as I had more control over it.

She used to allow me to cum and would assist with her hands but the frustrating thing was she would not allow full sex.

Since then I have met up a few times with different ladies who are happy with some spanking with a flat stick or riding crop but will then allow me to finish off properly.

Regards,

davidgood

Boundless · « **Reply #15 on:** May 06, 2015, 07:44:56 am »

Got Submissive Charlotte in my HL, you can fuck her as well, but a bit far away.
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Always fancied seeing Andrea, she used to be on AW but can't seem to find her at the moment, don't know if she's still working. She used to spend her time between Kidderminster and Blackpool. As far as I'm aware it's only BDSM and no sex though.

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firemansam · « **Reply #16 on:** May 06, 2015, 09:58:25 am »

I gave it a go a few days ago, one stroke was enough for me! I have to say I did enjoy giving it to her but didn't realise how easily it can leave marks she had to take a few days off work because of it

TomR · « **Reply #17 on:** May 06, 2015, 11:40:21 am »

There are a number of submissive escorts available. There is a good selection on spankee finder website. For someone who is new to this I would recommend Summer. She is a natural submissive and loves being spanked and caned. She also provides personal servcies as well. I am sure she used to charge for her time, then £10 a stroke for junior cane, £20 for heavy cane. She is very friendy and genuine so ideal for someone starting out.

Tom

IAMBATMAN · « **Reply #18 on:** May 07, 2015, 08:00:16 pm »

this girl might
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read her profile and look at her arse in her gallery

Boundless · « **Reply #19 on:** May 07, 2015, 08:10:03 pm »

Quote from: IAMBATMAN on May 07, 2015, 08:00:16 pm

this girl might
External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only+
read her profile and look at her arse in her gallery

Ouch, that looks like quite a caning.

Looks like she's got a bit more than puppy fat in the pictures.

dieseldriver · « **Reply #20 on:** May 15, 2015, 04:23:42 pm »

Try ITC-mag.com

MancSean · « **Reply #21 on:** May 15, 2015, 06:35:12 pm »

Quote from: sam55 on May 06, 2015, 07:44:56 am

Got Submissive Charlotte in my HL, you can fuck her as well, but a bit far away.
External Link/Members Only

Always fancied seeing Andrea, she used to be on AW but can't seem to find her at the moment, don't know if she's still working. She used to spend her time between Kidderminster and Blackpool. As far as I'm aware it's only BDSM and no sex though.

External Link/Members Only

If only she did owo and cim. Funny a lot of the decent subs in London don't offer owo

Justanotheruser · « **Reply #22 on:** May 15, 2015, 07:23:11 pm »

This girl (Whiskyv) is pretty into it: External Link/Members Only

closeshave · « **Reply #23 on:** May 15, 2015, 07:56:48 pm »

Experienced the double wartenberg wheel today and it was wired. Bloody hell what an experience ad the shock went through your bits

spkmstr48 · « **Reply #24 on:** May 15, 2015, 08:29:32 pm »

Quote from: closeshave on May 04, 2015, 09:56:15 am

I had no option to state how. Had to take what was given

But a good Dom/Domme will read what you can take and adjust pressure accordingly. Also tolerance increases with level of arousal so start soft.

Plenty of girls will take caning but you have to respect their limits or at best she won't see you again, at worst her security will appear and throw you out the door.

Three words are key with BDSM safe, sane and consentual.

Some slaves have high pain tolerance and so only a cane or similar will do if punishment is required.

Personally I prefer an equestrian riding crop, I find it gives better control.

Munching32 · « **Reply #25 on:** May 16, 2015, 01:30:17 am »

Crazy...!!! Scary Infact..!!!

closeshave · « **Reply #26 on:** May 16, 2015, 07:32:02 am »

Riding crop is great to receive. It's so accurate and at times bloody hurts. Good fun though

od13218 · « **Reply #27 on:** May 16, 2015, 11:02:51 am »

Quote from: sam1 on May 03, 2015, 01:43:35 pm

Have any of you actually received a caning or given a caning to a wg.If so what was it like. This interests my but im unsure if it really takes place or is all fantasy

I have received a few times, but don't do it any more as I bruise easily, and I can't have marks left as I'm married.
To be honest for me it was right on the edge of what I could take- but the thrill was putting myself in that situation where I was restrained and totally in the Donme's power. Never do anything like this without agreeing safeword- no good Domme would do it without one anyway.
There are a lot of less extreme "punishments" you could look into it you wanted to dip your toes in the water- spanning, paddles, etc. It depends exactly what makes you tick: is it the pain itself, the thrill of being in someone's control, the idea of punishment, the specific sensations? Some aficionados speak with great passion about different types of impact and the effect they have- the feel of a hand, a paddle, a whip and a cane are all different.
Personally I love a good paddling while in bondage to warm my cheeks up for a strap-on fucking, but each to his own!
I can recommend experienced Donmes who will do this sensibly if you're intetested...
Good luck!
Doug

davidgood · « **Reply #28 on:** May 16, 2015, 11:49:33 am »

Quote from: drumsticks on May 15, 2015, 04:23:42 pm

Try ITC-mag.com

Agreed, this is a good source as it has current adverts, rather than historic stuff.

I found my sub Hannah there but she seems to have retired now.

Regards,

davidgood

closeshave · « **Reply #29 on:** May 16, 2015, 06:17:28 pm »

Had hand, flogger, cane and paddle yesterday. But there again I deserved it.

Nice marks left not permanent at all.

spkmstr48 · « **Reply #30 on:** May 16, 2015, 06:59:12 pm »

Quote from: closeshave on May 16, 2015, 06:17:28 pm

Had hand, flogger, cane and paddle yesterday. But there again I deserved it.

Nice marks left not permanent at all.

I hope you didn't forget to thank her for correcting you?

closeshave · « **Reply #31 on:** May 16, 2015, 07:30:41 pm »

Oh yes otherwise it would have been even worse

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