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Offline TheOracle

A friend of mine is an escort who got a negative review that mentions her real name and she's freaking out. I thought I could write to the forum admins but it seems my account is no longer allowed to write pms to other members first (it definitely used to be the case). How can I report this without raising even more attention to the post in question?

Online daviemac

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Sent you a PM mate so you can reply and let me know which one.

I should add personal info is not allowed to be posted.
« Last Edit: June 16, 2023, 04:32:55 pm by daviemac »

Offline TheOracle

Sent you a PM mate so you can reply and let me know which one.

I should add personal info is not allowed to be posted.

Many thanks for the speedy resolution, she was really distressed.

Offline JustaPunter

If an escort trusts you with their personal information than they clearly have a level of trust between client/escort.

To breach that trust is one of the worst things I think you could ever do.

Even if your long term regular sacks you off and you are upset about it you have a responsibility to honour that trust.

Obviously I haven’t read the review and the context, my opinion is based on the information being shared , rather than the client being a stalker and finding the information without the escorts consent

Offline jamiekinkxxx

Simples IMHO... the reviewer tried to 'out' her. Very bad behaviour  :thumbsdown:

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Simples IMHO... the reviewer tried to 'out' her. Very bad behaviour  :thumbsdown:

100% this
It seems very odd to join 3 days prior to this "review" it's like they (I'm not saying he) joined just to out her, possibly ditched on seeking and wants revenge?

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The offending information has been removed and the reviewer warned in no uncertain terms, I don't think there's any more to say. Apart from he'll be watched from now on.

Offline Stevelondon

Would be my thoughts MissWolf
« Last Edit: June 16, 2023, 10:00:00 pm by Stevelondon »

Offline Trotter671

I don't know the review or SP this relates (don't need to) but extremely bad form on whoever posted personal information - discretion is key always for both the punter and the SP. Glad to hear the information was removed.

Online norwichfunseeker

Well played all concerned in this thread,  bad form from the original reviewer.

Note to op in this thread, you can always click the report button on any post, which possibly contains details which aren't permitted. I've done it a couple of times when people gave posted personal pics / locations of punts etc, and these have always been dealt with quickly,  efficiently,  and anonymously.



Offline Lou2019

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Well played all concerned in this thread,  bad form from the original reviewer.


Agreed, all too often I read details in reviews that are maybe a little bit too detailed and often irrelevant if you get what I mean. Is it purposely done? who knows   :unknown:

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Agreed, all too often I read details in reviews that are maybe a little bit too detailed and often irrelevant if you get what I mean. Is it purposely done? who knows   :unknown:
If anything posted against the rules is reported it get's taken out, we can't check every review though.

Online RandomGuy99

Agreed, all too often I read details in reviews that are maybe a little bit too detailed and often irrelevant if you get what I mean. Is it purposely done? who knows   :unknown:
I think some people like to overshare personal details like the conversations they had and what the SP thinks of this and that. It's not relevant to the booking and could do harm to the SP's business if other parties mentioned in the private conversation read it. Best to keep all that info private and not go posting it in a review that stays on here forever.

And then there's the numpties who just like sharing personal details about the SP like whether the SP has children, etc. like it shows they know the SP so well. None of those details are relevant to how well she delivers her service and should be kept private.

People need to do a little more thinking before they post.
« Last Edit: June 17, 2023, 04:19:18 pm by RandomGuy99 »

Offline Lou2019

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I think some people like to overshare personal details like the conversations they had and what the SP thinks of this and that. It's not relevant to the booking and could do harm to the SP's business if other parties mentioned in the private conversation read it. Best to keep all that info private and not go posting it in a review that stays on here forever.

And then there's the numpties who just like sharing personal details about the SP like whether the SP has children, etc. like it shows they know the SP so well. None of those details are relevant to how well she delivers her service and should be kept private.

People need to do a little more thinking before they post.

I couldn’t agree more  :thumbsup:

Offline LLPunting

I couldn’t agree more  :thumbsup:

Indeed.
And some go on about how they have to leave things for a long time so the SP forgets who they are before they review.

Offline jamiekinkxxx

I think some people like to overshare personal details like the conversations they had and what the SP thinks of this and that. It's not relevant to the booking and could do harm to the SP's business if other parties mentioned in the private conversation read it. Best to keep all that info private and not go posting it in a review that stays on here forever.

And then there's the numpties who just like sharing personal details about the SP like whether the SP has children, etc. like it shows they know the SP so well. None of those details are relevant to how well she delivers her service and should be kept private.

People need to do a little more thinking before they post.

I am not saying that some reviews (even my own have in the past) give too much infoemation so that the WG will be able to place the review to a a particular face. BUT that is 100% not what this thread is about.

This thread is about a guy who for whatever reason (spite / malicious I would imagine  :unknown:) thought it was OK to add a non public picture to his review and actually name the escort NOT by her working name BUT by her REAL NAME! That is way out of order and nothing to do with whether a review is too detailed or not.

« Last Edit: June 18, 2023, 10:15:26 am by jamiekinkxxx »

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I am not saying that some reviews (even my own have in the past) give too much infoemation so that the WG will be able to place the review to a a particular face. BUT that is 100% not what this thread is about.

This thread is about a guy who for whatever reason (spite / malicious I would imagine  :unknown:) thought it was OK to add a non public picture to his review and actually name the escort NOT by her working name BUT by her REAL NAME! That is way out of order and nothing to do with whether a review is too detailed or not.
The OP is clearly in the wrong and knew what he was doing.

The point I'm trying to make is that some reviews contain details about the SP that have absolutely nothing to do with the booking or the SP's ability to deliver a service.  We don't need to know the exact location or even the street of an SP's work location, we don't need to know about the conversations that took place on the booking, we don't need to know if they're married or have kids and how many and their ages, etc.  Just stick to the basic facts of the booking.  Revealing the irrelevant details can cause SPs and SSs problems with wronguns hanging around in the street collecting details of SSs, the SP's neighbours confronting or reporting SS car regs to the police, SSs that the SP is trying to avoid discovering where they're working and causing them problems, robbers knowing too much detail of how the SP handles their money and threatening and robbing them, ex-partners of SPs outing them, etc..  Private information should be shared on a need to know basis and us SSs don't need to know all this stuff.  The SP is not going to thank you for sharing the irrelevant details.

Also providing the details of private conversations that took place in a booking will help the SP identify who you are and they may not see members of UKP, so the next time you ask for a booking you may be denied.

You wouldn't like it if SPs shared personal information about you on forums, so respect their privacy just as they respect yours.

Think before you share.
« Last Edit: June 18, 2023, 10:42:27 am by RandomGuy99 »

Offline jamiekinkxxx

The OP is clearly in the wrong and knew what he was doing.

It's not the actual OP. He was the one that imformed the site admin/mods of what IMHO is a malicious outing of an escort.

I don't disgagree that some content is no of relevnce to a review and 'could' or 'maybe' lead some unscrupulous people trying to join the dots together and do some of the things you say. Even so I don't think that is of the same level of intent than what the guy that reviewed this escort has done IMHO.

« Last Edit: June 18, 2023, 11:26:08 am by jamiekinkxxx »

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And the "not her home" or "is her home" comments aren't relevant either. I'm visiting for a shag not to move in.

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The OP is clearly in the wrong and knew what he was doing.
Have you read the thread? especially reply #6, the OP has done nothing wrong. 

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Have you read the thread? especially reply #6, the OP has done nothing wrong.
Yes, apologies, I meant the muppet who wrote the review not the OP of this thread. Sorry.  :hi: