I must admit 90% of the punts I've had have resulted in good mutual fun. Selecting the right ones from Good sources always helps.
I always love the what do you like comment at the beginning of every punt. My response is whatever you like aswell, I always make the point of saying its gotta be fun for us both. I know boundaries, it's just simple respect. Call me fluffy, or whatever, but climbing on a bit of flesh that just takes it whilst thinking of whatever ain't my kind of fun. Id rather have a free wank.