OK, part of me was dreading writing this one up.
I’d tried to do this on my normal format but that just turned into a two-page rant which, while cathartic to write 1) isn’t very fun to read and 2) not really that useful to my fellow punters. So I decided to go with simple bullet points.
This is also technically a TOFTT as this girl hasn’t been reviewed before, but UKP members have seen her some time ago (with mixed reports:
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=31133.msg435331#msg435331 ,
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=14713.msg254762#msg254762 )
I’m very new to BDSM both as a dom and as a sub (switch) and my thinking was that while in London I should see one of the most “established” BDSM girls with plenty of AW feedback and field reports, and since Violet is a gangbang/party girl so must be reliable and worth-the-money (way above my usual budget), right?
Bear in mind that the below is just the “highlights”…
General* Meet details: Outcall, £220ph (BDSM rate).
* Girls’s AW:
External Link/Members Only or
External Link/Members Only* Contact through AW email then text. Initially; very friendly and helpful. On the day; shit, confused and spikey.
* I had to text her the hotel name and number twice on the day (already emailed once).
* She turned up 25 minutes late.
* Despite discussions of discretion, she turned up looking like…well, a prostitute.
* Hadn’t brought any of the BDSM equipment she had agreed to. “Oh yeah, I forgot.”
* Was clearly (with hindsight) under the influence of something, slightly slurred speech, clumsy, alternately twitchy and “spaced out”, wide pupils that didn’t change in response to light, had to repeat myself several times to be understood. Didn’t smell of alcohol so presumably it was coke?
* Complained about the way I handed her the money (WTF?).
* Complained about the hotel room.
* Complained about my choice of luggage (yes, really).
* Was insulting and rude from the off. I initially though this was a “sense of humour” thing, but no, she was just being a bitch and taking the piss.
As a Sub* No real response to discussion of boundaries, safe-words or areas that were off limits “oh I’m happy with whatever.” “Yeah, just whack me wherever you like.”
* Seems to have confused “high pain threshold” with “submissive / masochist.” No real interest in what I was doing, absolutely not enjoying it in the slightest.
As a Dom* Again, no real discussion of what I was happy with her doing to me.
* Seemed disinterested and bored.
* A few ineffectual swipes, with no attempt to gauge what my pain response was or if I was enjoying myself.
Sex* Her “skilled lung-deep blowjob” (from her profile) consisted of putting her lips, unmoving, on the very tip of my cock and staring into space while weakly and moving her thumb and forefinger up and down the shaft, slowly.
* I called it a day at this point (half an hour still left of the booking) and just wanted her out and as far away from me and my hotel as possible.
Positives?* She was clean and smelt fine.
* Her appearance was as per her profile.
* She didn’t stab me in the kidneys or steal anything.
Summary* This girl was shockingly terrible at everything, including just being a horrible person to spend time with.
* I was left feeling pissed-off, disappointed and more than a little sad for her.
* It’s something that is often over-said, but I literally, genuinely wouldn’t see her again for free.
