If you read on saafe a lot of her threads are to do with advertising herself (even handing out business cards at events) & most days, if not everyday, she's paid to appear in the featured members bit at the top of searches along with available today. This sounds like a girl that needs bookings, but then let's herself down by not responding.
I know there's not a great deal in Derby, but Phoebe is a stones throw away and there seems to have been a recent influx of Hungarians to the area so the competition is increasing for her.