Massage parlours - tampon

[hornypnter]

I have recently been to couple of massage parlours (DST in Epsom & Elements in Ewell) where the girls didn't tell me that they were on their periods till they stripped and there's a tampon which is very visible.
Also picked up from some reviews where other punters have been in similar situation.

They might be genuinely on their period or is it way to avoid offering sex. Maybe the establishment way preventing of sex taking place in their premises.

I know I sound like a sceptic  but just wondering.

Any thoughts?

[Poopster]

I've no idea, but the imagery you conjured up is fucking hilarious.   

[myothernameis]

Seen an escort in the mid 90's in one of the Glasgow sauna's and sex wasn't on the cards,  So when she stripped, you could she the string hand down  from her tampon, just of putting

[Thephoenix]

Guess what!.....women have periods!

[LLPunting]

I have recently been to couple of massage parlours (DST in Epsom & Elements in Ewell) where the girls didn't tell me that they were on their periods till they stripped and there's a tampon which is very visible.
Also picked up from some reviews where other punters have been in similar situation.

They might be genuinely on their period or is it way to avoid offering sex. Maybe the establishment way preventing of sex taking place in their premises.

I know I sound like a sceptic  but just wondering.

Any thoughts?

How many times did you go?  How many times were you cock-blocked by tampons in different ladies?
Did you encounter this repeatedly with the same lady within the same month but more than a week between visits?
Did you try calling their bluff by saying you enjoy period play?
What extras did they offer?
What services did you agree?

Whilst both those places have had girls offering FS it wasn't necessarily offered by all so no guarantees.

[IAmNotFamous]

Many many years ago, I visited a joint in Reading.

I asked for FS but couldn’t go deep…turned out there was a squash up tampon there.

Fast forward to today, I suspect they genuinely on their periods…more money from FS then other services.

[mr.bluesky]

Went to see a service provider once. When I got there she told me her period had started so would not be able to have sex. Seeing the look of disappointment on my face she said she would let me have anal sex instead ( a service she didn't usually offer) result 

[sparkus]

I once saw someone with the world's longest period i.e. claimed to be on it but would 'reward' me 'next time', two weeks later "Oh no, still dirty down there, next time!"

[mr.bluesky]

I once saw someone with the world's longest period i.e. claimed to be on it but would 'reward' me 'next time', two weeks later "Oh no, still dirty down there, next time!"

Did it last longer than the Jurassic period   

[bigden40]

Sometimes they’re just on their period. 

BUT

Sometimes it’s also a way to avoid offering extra services.

[fastcar669]

Maybe if they didnt want to offer FS they could just say they dont want to instead of having to use a tampon in the first place ?

[hornypnter]

Guess what!.....women have periods!

Really! no shit!

[hornypnter]

How many times did you go?  How many times were you cock-blocked by tampons in different ladies?
Did you encounter this repeatedly with the same lady within the same month but more than a week between visits?
Did you try calling their bluff by saying you enjoy period play?
What extras did they offer?
What services did you agree?

Whilst both those places have had girls offering FS it wasn't necessarily offered by all so no guarantees.

- different ladies at two different premises at within the same month a week apart.
- with one i could see it was dry and during b2b felt it was firm rather than soft (soaked in blood) and thinking about it, it was not all fully inserted in (normally you only see the string bit hanging out). No I didn't call bluff but perhaps should have.
- at the start when I said I was expecting extras including sex both nodded and agreed but I guess they would say they didn't understand English.
- I have had FS (with condom) at both these premises previously.

[LLPunting]

- different ladies at two different premises at within the same month a week apart.
- with one i could see it was dry and during b2b felt it was firm rather than soft (soaked in blood) and thinking about it, it was not all fully inserted in (normally you only see the string bit hanging out). No I didn't call bluff but perhaps should have.
- at the start when I said I was expecting extras including sex both nodded and agreed but I guess they would say they didn't understand English.
- I have had FS (with condom) at both these premises previously.

So basically they could have both been genuinely on their period.
They could be trying to discourage internal access to their pussies without getting confrontational in a language they barely speak.
  - They've all had to deal with fingers going where they have already declared off limits.
One might have put it in as a precaution because she felt it was going to get messy or she might have just changed tampons in a rush and wasn't intending to offer access below until you insisted the only extra you wanted was sex and she needed the money.
She could've hastily put one in after seeing you arrive and deciding she didn't want to service you.  You may have a reputation.

These and all manner of other reasons for them not wanting to offer sex and be more undesirable to support this when confronted with insistent punters.

[hornypnter]

So basically they could have both been genuinely on their period.
They could be trying to discourage internal access to their pussies without getting confrontational in a language they barely speak.
  - They've all had to deal with fingers going where they have already declared off limits.
One might have put it in as a precaution because she felt it was going to get messy or she might have just changed tampons in a rush and wasn't intending to offer access below until you insisted the only extra you wanted was sex and she needed the money.
She could've hastily put one in after seeing you arrive and deciding she didn't want to service you.  You may have a reputation.

These and all manner of other reasons for them not wanting to offer sex and be more undesirable to support this when confronted with insistent punters.

I doubt that very much as I am a fairly regular customer and hardly see the same girl twice due to high turnover. Also I have been given personal numbers to meet at their apartments for extras which they say they are not allowed to provide at the premise. Besides I am not one of those "insistent punters" if the girl says she doesn't provide then respect that, it's her body.

I was thinking the same i.e. it is easier to say on period to avoid getting into a conversation about sex and maybe also following the rules of the establishment as some establishments are very strict on no sex as I have been told by girls.

[hornypnter]

Maybe if they didnt want to offer FS they could just say they dont want to instead of having to use a tampon in the first place ?

I would agree that would easier but I guess there are some insistent punters trying to push it and to avoid the confrontation easier to use a tampon maybe...

[Strawberry]

I doubt that very much as I am a fairly regular customer and hardly see the same girl twice due to high turnover. Also I have been given personal numbers to meet at their apartments for extras which they say they are not allowed to provide at the premise. Besides I am not one of those "insistent punters" if the girl says she doesn't provide then respect that, it's her body.

I was thinking the same i.e. it is easier to say on period to avoid getting into a conversation about sex and maybe also following the rules of the establishment as some establishments are very strict on no sex as I have been told by girls.

This is exactly my thoughts but I've zero experience of working in massage establishments.
Comments about tampons they aren't always soaked, a period isn't necessarily a constant flow (literally can ebb and flow), also they don't always seat properly either and can stick out.Tampons are not as easy as the adverts may suggest (although because I rarely watch TV, commercial TV even less I haven't seen a recent tampon advert).

[Punterperson1971]

I asked an ex years ago if she had a used tampon and she gave me one I then took it to the antiques roadshow where I asked them ‘do they know what period it’s from’
 
I’ll get my coat

[dunhill]

- with one i could see it was dry and during b2b felt it was firm rather than soft (soaked in blood) and thinking about it, it was not all fully inserted in (normally you only see the string bit hanging out). No I didn't call bluff but perhaps should have.

Even if a tampon is at maximum capacity, it can still feel firm to the touch.

When a woman is on her period, the flow isn't constant for the duration.  Also, and this might seem contradictory, but the vagina is much drier than usual.  This can make it harder to insert the tampon properly so it can sit lower than it should.  It is also worth noting that different brands have different lengths and types of string. 

Concur with Strawberry's comments too - tampons aren't as easy.  I know I stopped using them because they were so uncomfortable to use, and most certainly wouldn't have entertained wearing one when I wasn't menstruating.

[norwichfunseeker]

Sure it was string hanging down and not tinsel.........for the Christmas period!

[Captainhowdy666]

Maybe it’s there on purpose to stop punters from getting ideas about fucking them.

[tigerbiker]

I once saw an SP who announced that she had the painters in after I had paid and the action started. She said she would take her Tampax out when I was ready for fucking and douche to clean.

Sure enough when the time came, she sat on the bog, tugged it out and douched whilst I watched and I then had a nice fuck - no mess to be seen and no smell.

Having said that I'm not period squeemish - I used to fuck the ex when she was full on (used a black towel so mess could not be seen) - she was always horny at that time and enjoyed doing it - slight smell but if I'm honest, I quite liked because it smelt like sex to me.

[LLPunting]

I doubt that very much as I am a fairly regular customer and hardly see the same girl twice due to high turnover. Also I have been given personal numbers to meet at their apartments for extras which they say they are not allowed to provide at the premise.
...

Depends on how regular and if you make a point of asking for the new girls.  The management may have you pegged even if they don't tell the new girls.  Any veteran girls may well spread the gossip.
So they only ever gave you their numbers unprompted after you had to settle for a massage with no extras? 
DST and Elements have been around for years and by all previous reports and personal experience extras have been available at least the last 5.

[hornypnter]

Depends on how regular and if you make a point of asking for the new girls.  The management may have you pegged even if they don't tell the new girls.  Any veteran girls may well spread the gossip.
So they only ever gave you their numbers unprompted after you had to settle for a massage with no extras? 
DST and Elements have been around for years and by all previous reports and personal experience extras have been available at least the last 5.

I don't ask for new girls it is due to turnover and I don't go every week. Prior to pandemic it used to be twice a month. Not sure what there is to gossip as I have not got into any confrontation nor have been a "difficult customer".
Yes they have provided their numbers when they saw my sad face  after telling me they can't provide FS as they will get in trouble with the premise management. I have accepted and not pushed which you would have picked up when you suggested perhaps I could have called the bluff on the tampon by saying I enjoyed period play.
Yes prior to the pandemic a wide variety of extras were on offer including FS (with condom) was provided but in the last couple months I have been it more limited.
Have you been to these two premises recently and had different experience i.e. were you offered all extras including FS?
 

[LLPunting]

I don't ask for new girls it is due to turnover and I don't go every week. Prior to pandemic it used to be twice a month. Not sure what there is to gossip as I have not got into any confrontation nor have been a "difficult customer".
Yes they have provided their numbers when they saw my sad face  after telling me they can't provide FS as they will get in trouble with the premise management. I have accepted and not pushed which you would have picked up when you suggested perhaps I could have called the bluff on the tampon by saying I enjoyed period play.
Yes prior to the pandemic a wide variety of extras were on offer including FS (with condom) was provided but in the last couple months I have been it more limited.
Have you been to these two premises recently and had different experience i.e. were you offered all extras including FS?

How you think you behave and how the girls see it can be just as disperate as interpretations of what's said in posts on this board by OPs and their readers.  The fact you ask for FS in a massage parlour regardless of past experiences or reports may be enough.  Girls will also "gossip" to protect their individual interests so again you don't necessarily have to be a genuine undesirable.

I haven't been to either in the last yearish so if those genuine restrictions have come in that recently for you then we'll have to see if  other veterans who are similarly current at those places to speak up about what's happened for them, there are a handful at least if they want to pipe up.
For other areas across London where I have been sampling recently I've not found any revocation of services amongst established SPs at parlours or newbies saying new rules restrict their offering at places where FS has been had.  Blaming people not in the room is a next-step way of trying to refuse services without confrontation with insistent punters or ones they don't want to deal with.  I never ask an unknown SP for extras in massage parlours, it's always up to the girl to offer first regardless of my previous experiences there or reports here.  B2B is the most I'll ask about during the brief discussion.  Whether that evolves into more is down to how well she engages in b2b, I'm not going to be inclined to seek more if she's showing a clear inability and lack of enthusiasm or starts declaring a ladder of ever more extra prices.  If she is engaged in the encounter and permits RO and we're both getting wound up for FS then it's "natural" that she might mention the next price point which might then bring a halt to the progression with an unreasonable amount.  I don't go to massage parlours with the intent to shag unknowns, if I must fuck then I'll either book a known FS girl or go straight to an FS SP or have some FS options for after the massage.

For those that provided numbers to you were they genuine numbers?  Did you follow through?  Were/are those girls listed as FS providers elsewhere?
Many of us have gotten "private" numbers but for me it wasn't because the girls were circumventing rules about services.

[jlike]

Don't know the answer to the original question but just remember, how can you trust someone who bleeds for 7 days but does not die!.

[hornypnter]

How you think you behave and how the girls see it can be just as disperate as interpretations of what's said in posts on this board by OPs and their readers.  The fact you ask for FS in a massage parlour regardless of past experiences or reports may be enough.  Girls will also "gossip" to protect their individual interests so again you don't necessarily have to be a genuine undesirable.

I haven't been to either in the last yearish so if those genuine restrictions have come in that recently for you then we'll have to see if  other veterans who are similarly current at those places to speak up about what's happened for them, there are a handful at least if they want to pipe up.
For other areas across London where I have been sampling recently I've not found any revocation of services amongst established SPs at parlours or newbies saying new rules restrict their offering at places where FS has been had.  Blaming people not in the room is a next-step way of trying to refuse services without confrontation with insistent punters or ones they don't want to deal with.  I never ask an unknown SP for extras in massage parlours, it's always up to the girl to offer first regardless of my previous experiences there or reports here.  B2B is the most I'll ask about during the brief discussion.  Whether that evolves into more is down to how well she engages in b2b, I'm not going to be inclined to seek more if she's showing a clear inability and lack of enthusiasm or starts declaring a ladder of ever more extra prices.  If she is engaged in the encounter and permits RO and we're both getting wound up for FS then it's "natural" that she might mention the next price point which might then bring a halt to the progression with an unreasonable amount.  I don't go to massage parlours with the intent to shag unknowns, if I must fuck then I'll either book a known FS girl or go straight to an FS SP or have some FS options for after the massage.

For those that provided numbers to you were they genuine numbers?  Did you follow through? - Yes
Were/are those girls listed as FS providers elsewhere? - Don't know as I haven't visited them in other other place of work
Many of us have gotten "private" numbers but for me it wasn't because the girls were circumventing rules about services.

[RandomGuy99]

Newsflash: Women really do have periods and some use a tampon. It's not a tactic to avoid having sex with you. They are working in a massage parlour and probably aren't expecting to fuck anyone. They still need to do their job and make money to pay their bills.

Apologies for the disappointment.  You'll get over it in time. I promise.

[FLYING BLUE]

Guess what!.....women have periods!

I rather think the question isn't "do women have periods" - more, "should they really be working in the paid sex business with a tampon in the undercarriage"   

[GingerNuts]

I rather think the question isn't "do women have periods" - more, "should they really be working in the paid sex business with a tampon in the undercarriage"   

If you go back to the OP the venues he's talking about are massage shops (although he says parlours) so a woman being on her period is rather less of an issue.

[dunhill]

I rather think the question isn't "do women have periods" - more, "should they really be working in the paid sex business with a tampon in the undercarriage"   

Well of course they can.  Thankfully in the UK, women are not sent off to stay in period huts for the duration of their menses.

[Blackpool Rock]

Well of course they can.  Thankfully in the UK, women are not sent off to stay in period huts for the duration of their menses.

Thankfully for who  Not Men   

[dunhill]

Thankfully for who  Not Men   

Sigh. 

Maybe External Link/Members Only before making such a flippant comment.

[Blackpool Rock]

Sigh. 

Maybe External Link/Members Only before making such a flippant comment.

Sigh
About time you realise a joke when you see one 

[LLPunting]

Sigh
About time you realise a joke when you see one 

Taking a moment to understand the context of the comment before seemingly glibly condoning or justifying the practice with a joke might've stopped you from being an ass.
Your attempt at humour was ill-judged and in poor taste, perhaps an admission of being ignorant and remorseful might've salvaged some respect but just rolling your eyes at Dunhill, who was clearly talking from a serious perspective, paints you as one more inclined to be dismissive of a woman's point of view.

[Blackpool Rock]

Taking a moment to understand the context of the comment before seemingly glibly condoning or justifying the practice with a joke might've stopped you from being an ass.
Your attempt at humour was ill-judged and in poor taste, perhaps an admission of being ignorant and remorseful might've salvaged some respect but just rolling your eyes at Dunhill, who was clearly talking from a serious perspective, paints you as one more inclined to be dismissive of a woman's point of view.

My use of emojis made it clear that it was a joke / tongue in cheek, banter is all part and parcel of the ebb and flow on here, Dunhill posted the link to the serious article After my initial joke

[Hobbit]

You could always try pulling the string to see what happens. It could be like a Christmas cracker and lead to a surprise.

[Blackpool Rock]

You could always try pulling the string to see what happens. It could be like a Christmas cracker and lead to a surprise.

Careful making jokes mate 

[LLPunting]

My use of emojis made it clear that it was a joke / tongue in cheek, banter is all part and parcel of the ebb and flow on here, Dunhill posted the link to the serious article After my initial joke

The link wasn't necessary to prompt some consideration.  What she originally wrote should've been sufficient.

Posting emojis, like KT used to?  Just laughing while you're saying it doesn't diffuse the insult, nor unambiguously indicate you know exactly what she's talking about or indeed that you agree with her concern and are somehow making fun in a wholly innocuous way.   

People laugh to mock, people laugh along without knowing why something is or isn't funny, people laugh from embarassment and various other reasons, which of those were you trying to indicate with your emojis?

Banter can be jovial and convivial but it can also be barbed and totally sown with contempt, how exactly were you signalling how your implication and laughter was to be taken?  All you did was quote her and then said what you said. Emojis are not facial expressions or body language or volume or inflection.

It's not like you're known for being the board's resident Bill Burr, Benny Hill, Jimmy Carr or Michael McKintyre.

[Hobbit]

Careful making jokes mate 

It's just a joke. I am sure women joke about us all the time. There are comedians out there that make far more controversial jokes than this and people find them funny.

Humour in life is very important, otherwise, we end up becoming grumpy old men like Victor Meldrew.

[norwichfunseeker]

Humour in life is very important, otherwise, we end up becoming grumpy old men like Victor Meldrew.

I dont beleive it! 😊

[Hobbit]

I dont beleive it! 😊

Hilarious! 

[Blackpool Rock]

The link wasn't necessary to prompt some consideration.  What she originally wrote should've been sufficient.

Posting emojis, like KT used to?  Just laughing while you're saying it doesn't diffuse the insult, nor unambiguously indicate you know exactly what she's talking about or indeed that you agree with her concern and are somehow making fun in a wholly innocuous way.   

People laugh to mock, people laugh along without knowing why something is or isn't funny, people laugh from embarassment and various other reasons, which of those were you trying to indicate with your emojis?

Banter can be jovial and convivial but it can also be barbed and totally sown with contempt, how exactly were you signalling how your implication and laughter was to be taken?  All you did was quote her and then said what you said. Emojis are not facial expressions or body language or volume or inflection.

It's not like you're known for being the board's resident Bill Burr, Benny Hill, Jimmy Carr or Michael McKintyre.

You have taken my comment totally out of context but now appear to be choosing to get offended / offended on someone else behalf etc
Emojis make a huge difference in conveying the nature and intent of a post and how it should be received but you've been on here long enough to know that surely, stop trying to blow it out of proportion

I could argue that comparing my use of emojis to KT is offensive but instead i'll let it go like water off a ducks back, i'm not really one for getting into a pissing contest with anyone so perhaps agree to differ about the context etc and move on

Edit - If i've genuinely caused any offence or upset anyone then I apologise 

[Bobbyplastic]

Once, after I had nutted, I withdrew only to find the condom covered with blood. Yep, she was on her period.