When I lived abroad, I initially never punt near home but the fact that I had to drive quite a distance became tedious. I found a wonderful young lady just about 3kms from my front door. Saw her often. Saw her in my local store and Post Office etc. We spoke, just greetings and passing the time, as you would anyone. It was cool, knowing that in 20 or 30 minutes you would be undressing her.....lol
We actually became good friends, I still paid for her time but every now and again, it was on the house, or she needed help with something. I used to throw a large BBQ each year for work mates, always invited her and one of her friends. They never let on what they did, just that they were neighbours.
I found it nice that we could meet in public and in private and the two were kept separate but together somehow.
Now, here, I find myself looking further afield for my fun but who knows, what might be just around the corner....