I didn't want to hi-jack the thread about WGs providing the bare essentials, but I've recently seen a WG who asked me to put the condom on.
I'd never used condoms before I began punting because the late Mrs R L and I got married before HIV+ became common, so we naturally always went bareback.
However, since I began punting almost 10 years ago [about 18 months after Mrs R L passed on], my experience has always been that: 1] the WG provides the condom; 2] she takes it out of its foil container, presumably so that I can't deviously prick it before it goes on[?!]; then 3] she puts it on me.
Now I'm with a WG who provides a condom but won't put it on me. Even as I type this, I can imagine some [many?] of you thinking, "WTF is he going on about?"
But what she didn't realise is that she has infinitely more experience in putting them on a bloke than I do in putting one on myself. And that I found the pause while we were "discussing" the matter somewhat, erm, "deflating".
Am I alone in this experience? If not, how do others among you deal with it?