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Offline NightKid

Nightkid

Thank you for starting up this thread, I've found it quite informative.

SA has always piqued my interest and the responses are quite interesting to note.

 :hi:

No worries, good luck with your forays into SA if you haven't jumped in already and I hope all of the advice and tips given thus far would prove to be useful.  :hi:
« Last Edit: September 05, 2019, 10:24:19 pm by NightKid »

Offline Blacksealz

Just checked in after about a year after creating this account and the offer is showing... tempted to jump back in  :P

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Offline Sparta Prada

Just checked in after about a year after creating this account and the offer is showing... tempted to jump back in  :P

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Ah, that's interesting! Clearly this is via the app rather than online. $19.99 is around £17!

The888, was your offer via the app or online?

cunningpunt

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On the closed thread I asked others to reflect so it's only fair I should do the same. I've decided that to honor the ethos of this site it is reasonable to share profile details and non identifying info about a meet including agreed rate on the understanding/in the hope that those who read this thread understand that the activities (I will not call them services) and rate are not advertised and your experience may vary.

I will not share names or any other specifics on open forum. Is that fair?

In this case it is someone I would gladly see again but I understand her financial and other needs and I'm simply not in a position to meet them so I know she will be looking elsewhere anyway.

Offline anotherwoody69

Share away.
Maybe the more who see her, then her needs will be met, her requirements reduced and you can jump on board again?

Offline NightKid

Share away buddy, I've made some 'review' posts of sorts before that was discreet enough for me yet still relatively detailed so feel free to have a look at those for ideas if you like.  :hi:

Offline Coverdad

Seems like a bad idea to link to profiles on an open thread. All sorts of reasons why that won’t end well.

Offline The888

Ah, that's interesting! Clearly this is via the app rather than online. $19.99 is around £17!

The888, was your offer via the app or online?

The offer that doesn't exist / has holes in my original claim.....?

It was via the App.

« Last Edit: September 24, 2019, 03:27:53 pm by The888 »

Offline londonroad

Seems like a bad idea to link to profiles on an open thread. All sorts of reasons why that won’t end well.

I agree - high risk could have bad ending which likely to rebound on you. Why take the risk?

Offline NightKid

Same reason why some opt for OWO or OW, differences of opinion aside.

And there's also a same thread in the Scotland regional board which begs to differ.  :hi:
« Last Edit: September 24, 2019, 09:17:29 pm by NightKid »

cunningpunt

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I agree - high risk could have bad ending which likely to rebound on you. Why take the risk?

Well there's no closed thread anymore so I guess there's no point in this thread? I think those of us with 3-4 years experience can spot the scammers pretty quick. It's hard part of the winnowing process but one I'm prepared to accept because the ends more than justify the means.

Offline lovespike

Guys need opinions on a potential scammer. Was chatting with a curvy arsed faceless profile on seeking yesterday, conversation got really down and dirty very quickly. Tried to move onto whatsapp but she insisted on using kik. I have the impression kik is where the scammers like to operate. Does the wisdom of the crowd here support that theory or have I dismissed a potentially dirty hookup?

My gut feeling is it seems fishy and too good to be true. Considering posting the profile but until it's established as a definite scam then perhaps best not too.
« Last Edit: October 07, 2019, 11:16:00 am by lovespike »

Offline DeanoDeano

What is it you want an opinion on then?

Can kik be used by scammers? Yes of course it can.
Can WhatsApp be used by scammers? Yes also.

I suspect I know the profile you refer to, and I think she’s genuine.

Why not just chat to her and work it out for yourself?

Offline lovespike

Pic used on the profile is a faceless PAWG in a pink bikini. Reckon it's a fake but wanted to get peoples opinion. I've been duped by "girls" on Tinder/bumble who wanted to move the convo over to kik where it became about money with no returns. Just got a bad memory when she mentioned kik but if you say that some girls are genuine and use kik then I'll re-engage her.

Offline Coverdad

Pic used on the profile is a faceless PAWG in a pink bikini. Reckon it's a fake but wanted to get peoples opinion. I've been duped by "girls" on Tinder/bumble who wanted to move the convo over to kik where it became about money with no returns. Just got a bad memory when she mentioned kik but if you say that some girls are genuine and use kik then I'll re-engage her.

Using Kik means they are probably more likely to be a scammer, but that’s obviously not definitive. Some girls prefer to use Kik at first because it means they don’t have to expose their number. Not having a face pic is also not a good sign, but again it doesn’t necessarily prove anything, she might be a genuine SB who is cautious about face pics.

The only real method to tell if she’s a scammer is move on to arranging a meeting and see if she asks for last minute payments up front for train fare or whatever.

Offline DeanoDeano

Pic used on the profile is a faceless PAWG in a pink bikini. Reckon it's a fake but wanted to get peoples opinion. I've been duped by "girls" on Tinder/bumble who wanted to move the convo over to kik where it became about money with no returns. Just got a bad memory when she mentioned kik but if you say that some girls are genuine and use kik then I'll re-engage her.

How could anyone tell you if she's a fake or not with the limited info you provide...?

As stated, scammers can use kik. But they also try and scam on the site, on whatsapp, on email, whatever.

If you identify them as such on whatever app, just block them or move on.

Offline Apu

My adultwork average price is £150-180.

How much damage on Seeing is the average ? After joining fee that is .
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Offline massagepuntingfan

My limit is £300, the least I've spent is £200. Many girls I chat to start high and come down.

Offline NightKid

Guys need opinions on a potential scammer. Was chatting with a curvy arsed faceless profile on seeking yesterday, conversation got really down and dirty very quickly. Tried to move onto whatsapp but she insisted on using kik. I have the impression kik is where the scammers like to operate. Does the wisdom of the crowd here support that theory or have I dismissed a potentially dirty hookup?

My gut feeling is it seems fishy and too good to be true. Considering posting the profile but until it's established as a definite scam then perhaps best not too.

As others have mentioned, yes the general consensus is that scammers are more likely to use KIK. But there's also a remote possibility that it could turn out to be genuine too so the best way to know is to play along until you get hit by the money upfront request.

Having said that ... another thing about KIK is that it's supposed to be shutting down soon though so if you want to move it to WhatsApp then there's a ready made excuse?

Offline Coverdad

My adultwork average price is £150-180.

How much damage on Seeing is the average ? After joining fee that is .

In my experience it ranges from paying for lunch/dinner to £250 per meet. Some SBs don’t want cash but want a sugar daddy to buy them things (which could be stupidly expensive handbags/shoes or something more reasonable like textbooks/software). Obviously there are also those who expect £2k/month.

It’s way more negotiable and variable than AW and probably depends a lot on how much she likes you/you remind her of her dad etc. Definitely worth establishing expectations early on.

Offline Apu

Just signed up. Needs tips for a dummy.

How do I filter out the girls that will provide sex sessions in exchange for:

-Cash
-Expensive dates
-Gifts

Pretty much want Adultwork but with the exclusive access to them. Like a expensive booty call.

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Offline DeanoDeano

Sounds like you’ve wasted £70 tbh.

 :lol:

Sorry that’s not much help.

There is no such filter. The filter is your brain and common sense once you’ve spoken to them.

But if you’re thinking that SA is anything like AW you are going to be very disappointed.
« Last Edit: October 08, 2019, 09:59:07 pm by DeanoDeano »

Offline Apu

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Offline Sparta Prada

Just signed up. Needs tips for a dummy.

How do I filter out the girls that will provide sex sessions in exchange for:

-Cash
-Expensive dates
-Gifts

Pretty much want Adultwork but with the exclusive access to them. Like a expensive booty call.

Seeking can be very very random. You would imagine that profiles tagged with Friends With Benefits and NSA would be your best bet, but a lot of the younger girls tick them without knowing what they mean!

Best bet for you (particularly where you have membership for just a week) will be to mass message as many girls as you are interested in, and shift those who reply onto WhatsApp or texting on your burner phone ASAP. Do not talk about allowances on the site messaging service as you could get banned. In my experience you will typically get up to 20% that will respond to to your initial message on Seeking, and an even smaller percentage will swap numbers with you.

Offline yeahbaby

Had a look.
Not much in the way of choice and when you assume a good number of those will be scammers or £1000+ requests. seems a lot of work for the off chance of some non pro pussy..... for £300  :unknown:


Offline Apu

Just had my first SA punt.

- Italian, Kylie Jenner resemblance lookalike
- £200 for 2.5 hours, declined her offer of £200 for the half day.
- Quite enjoyable compared to Escort punts.
- 3 rounds. OWO(CIM),sex in 4 positions and oral again.
- Two joints smoked in between. We had something in common.
- Ate room service together. Chemistry from the chat, was the same in person.

Best punt in ages in terms of casual and VFM.
She said my age/looks/online chat will make me popular with the SB's looking for easy money from a dude like me. She was right I have 30+ SB numbers all messaging me their pics, lowering rates down to £150-300 rates for multiple hour sessions. I even reject girls based on their looks and rates with ease due to the overwhelming choice .

Maybe its just me, but I feel very overwhelmed. The £300 girls are heavenly and the £150 -200 girls are uni students available as soon as I message.

There's a bird that looks like Kim K in her 20's. about £300 offering me hardcore rough sex for an day/overnight.

Surely SA cannot be this perfect in London. From my POV feels like to good to be true...

I've had my share of cancellations/ghosters/blockers/allowance whingers/clinger on's/delusional but luckily easily sussed them out .

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Offline Ams11

Just had my first SA punt.

- Italian, Kylie Jenner resemblance lookalike
- £200 for 2.5 hours, declined her offer of £200 for the half day.
- Quite enjoyable compared to Escort punts.
- 3 rounds. OWO(CIM),sex in 4 positions and oral again.
- Two joints smoked in between. We had something in common.
- Ate room service together. Chemistry from the chat, was the same in person.

Best punt in ages in terms of casual and VFM.
She said my age/looks/online chat will make me popular with the SB's looking for easy money from a dude like me. She was right I have 30+ SB numbers all messaging me their pics, lowering rates down to £150-300 rates for multiple hour sessions. I even reject girls based on their looks and rates with ease due to the overwhelming choice .

Maybe its just me, but I feel very overwhelmed. The £300 girls are heavenly and the £150 -200 girls are uni students available as soon as I message.

There's a bird that looks like Kim K in her 20's. about £300 offering me hardcore rough sex for an day/overnight.

Surely SA cannot be this perfect in London. From my POV feels like to good to be true...

I've had my share of cancellations/ghosters/blockers/allowance whingers/clinger on's/delusional but luckily easily sussed them out .

That sounds awesome - Did you post your picture? and if your comfortable what is the sweet spot to put on a profile to get so much of a positive reaction?

Offline Apu

That sounds awesome - Did you post your picture? and if your comfortable what is the sweet spot to put on a profile to get so much of a positive reaction?

Yes I posted a picture. The responses have been an ego boost.
I followed the advice of Sparta Prada tbh. Put in the work.
Literally my profile says exactly what I want. But worded subtly.

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Offline Ams11

Thanks for the response. I wish you continued success!!!!

Offline Loverboy01

I agreed to meet a girl who i found via seeking.com (very new there), she agreed to meet in a hotel and agreed the price (150), we exchanged numerous message and pics.

anyway before she was about to come to hotel she said she needs to money up front and would meet in the bar downstairs etc.
this should have rung alarm bells, but i have met a number of escorts in hotels over the years and did not suspect.
anyway i said i will only handover the money in room so she came straight up to the room we had a bit of chat etc and i gave the money like you would to any escort.
with a min of so she got message and replied once again i was naive and did not suspect anything
after a min of so i get a knock on the door and there comes this guy who pushes me and says party over etc etc. i was trying to molest her etc and she scoots off, i try to go behind them but he blocks me, i am neither tall no well built and recently had an operation so wasnt going to get into a fight
so all in all i was scammed of 150


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Offline DeanoDeano

Sorry to hear that.

I’d suggest reporting the profile on SA at the very least.

Understand why you might not want to do more than that, but quite obviously robbery is a criminal offence. Think about going to the police.

Offline Coverdad

I agreed to meet a girl who i found via seeking.com (very new there), she agreed to meet in a hotel and agreed the price (150), we exchanged numerous message and pics.

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Seems like she’s either gone or I blocked her already... can you post the username too?

Offline londonroad

I agreed to meet a girl who i found via seeking.com (very new there), she agreed to meet in a hotel and agreed the price (150), we exchanged numerous message and pics.

anyway before she was about to come to hotel she said she needs to money up front and would meet in the bar downstairs etc.
this should have rung alarm bells, but i have met a number of escorts in hotels over the years and did not suspect.
anyway i said i will only handover the money in room so she came straight up to the room we had a bit of chat etc and i gave the money like you would to any escort.
with a min of so she got message and replied once again i was naive and did not suspect anything
after a min of so i get a knock on the door and there comes this guy who pushes me and says party over etc etc. i was trying to molest her etc and she scoots off, i try to go behind them but he blocks me, i am neither tall no well built and recently had an operation so wasnt going to get into a fight
so all in all i was scammed of 150


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Sorry to hear about this. Was this in London? Can you post a photo please?

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I’ve recently had a bunch of girls give me their WhatsApp on the first message. Seems suspicious

Offline NightKid

I’ve recently had a bunch of girls give me their WhatsApp on the first message. Seems suspicious

Not really, it's a way to communicate off the site without having to be subjected to SA's dislike of certain terms and risk being randomly banned for it either so that's a very common occurrence.

The suspicious part would be any red flags raised during the WhatsApp chat itself where you'd have to be on the lookout for.

Offline NightKid

I agreed to meet a girl who i found via seeking.com (very new there), she agreed to meet in a hotel and agreed the price (150), we exchanged numerous message and pics.

anyway before she was about to come to hotel she said she needs to money up front and would meet in the bar downstairs etc.
this should have rung alarm bells, but i have met a number of escorts in hotels over the years and did not suspect.
anyway i said i will only handover the money in room so she came straight up to the room we had a bit of chat etc and i gave the money like you would to any escort.
with a min of so she got message and replied once again i was naive and did not suspect anything
after a min of so i get a knock on the door and there comes this guy who pushes me and says party over etc etc. i was trying to molest her etc and she scoots off, i try to go behind them but he blocks me, i am neither tall no well built and recently had an operation so wasnt going to get into a fight
so all in all i was scammed of 150


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Reposting a quoted post with a picture of the lowlife as well ... and I'm sorry to hear about your experience, but as you said you were naive and too trusting.

SA has a different rule when it comes to payment and you should only be doing it after the deed is done, so now you know. Could you describe the guy also perhaps?

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« Last Edit: October 25, 2019, 12:42:51 am by NightKid »

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Offline roohi

Sorry to hear. I was in touch with this lady on SA but seemed fishy as her stories didn't matchup. So didn't meet her. Posting some pics that she shared for others.

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Offline NightKid

Sorry to hear. I was in touch with this lady on SA but seemed fishy as her stories didn't matchup. So didn't meet her. Posting some pics that she shared for others.

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Nice one, should help with identifying her better in future if she resurfaces ... cheers fella.  :hi:

Offline tazz

Ive seen this women twice, shes a gym instructor gives a good service but is a bit messed up. I should have known from her FB profile that she might not be right having had depression and saying shed been sexually assaulted. Shes basically a compulsive liar, its an illness, lies about most things from sums shes earning to sums sugar daddy's have given her. Made out to me one guy was doing £2k a meet for a few hours. Im used to prossies lying about lots of things but dont want to be around a compulsive liar as i just cant take most of what they say seriously.

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Anyone else encountered this?

Offline Fab0577

This is highly addictive.

Joined with the 7 days trial, used a scattergun approach with a message where I was very clear or what I wanted. Either a coffee and back at my place or fun in a day use hotel room.

Got around 30 numbers and WhatsApp chats, saw three girls all for 100 ppm

Two uni students, one American and one Norwegian, one British twenty something studying for her accountant qualification.

Not super models look but young fit next door looking girls.

I am 32 and in decent shape, added a pic of myself on the app.
The Norwegian girl clearly told me she usually gets 3/400 pm but was happy to see me for 100 after she had fun at our coffee meet.

I now have several new messages I can't read as subscription expired.

Offline Joelawerence

This is highly addictive.

Joined with the 7 days trial, used a scattergun approach with a message where I was very clear or what I wanted. Either a coffee and back at my place or fun in a day use hotel room.

Got around 30 numbers and WhatsApp chats, saw three girls all for 100 ppm

Two uni students, one American and one Norwegian, one British twenty something studying for her accountant qualification.

Not super models look but young fit next door looking girls.

I am 32 and in decent shape, added a pic of myself on the app.
The Norwegian girl clearly told me she usually gets 3/400 pm but was happy to see me for 100 after she had fun at our coffee meet.

I now have several new messages I can't read as subscription expired.

Well done on 100 ppm in London  :thumbsup: How much were the other costs like hotel room and drinks/dinner?

Offline Fab0577

Well done on 100 ppm in London  :thumbsup: How much were the other costs like hotel room and drinks/dinner?

Really drinks and fancy dinners I didn't even bother.. it was just coffee outside first and then back at my place. (All of the meets were day time)

I actually agreed 200 for an overnight with the American girl but I had to cancel that.. would have been fun.

The hotel meet was a repeat visit with the norwegian girl, paid 60 for day use at the ibis in aldgate. No other expense that day not even a coffee..

I wish I had more time/freedom but if you are in London and able to host there is some serious fun to be had.

Don't get me wrong I had a few refusals at my 100 offer, mostly from the model looking girls, but even they were getting back to me lowering their request the next day or considering my 100 if I was very clear like I want to see you tomorrow at this time would you be happy with 100.

Actually this is what happened with the Brit girl, she quoted me 200 but then one day I told her 'I really like you would love to meet you tomorrow morning but can do 100'.. she was in

Offline Fab0577

PS: Any tip for cheap day use hotel rooms in central London please share.. I know the Ibis chain always have availability at 60 for 10 to 5pm

Offline Rock4ages

check day use .com, per hour hotel or any other pay per use hotel sites  :hi:

Offline Fab0577

Yeah checked day use, but couldn't really find anything under 100 apart from the ibis

Offline NightKid

Yeah checked day use, but couldn't really find anything under 100 apart from the ibis

Only one I know which could match that on dayuse if it comes up is Qbic near Whitechapel.

Their room decor can be considered quirky though.

Offline Apu

This is highly addictive.

Joined with the 7 days trial, used a scattergun approach with a message where I was very clear or what I wanted. Either a coffee and back at my place or fun in a day use hotel room.

Got around 30 numbers and WhatsApp chats, saw three girls all for 100 ppm

Two uni students, one American and one Norwegian, one British twenty something studying for her accountant qualification.

Not super models look but young fit next door looking girls.

I am 32 and in decent shape, added a pic of myself on the app.
The Norwegian girl clearly told me she usually gets 3/400 pm but was happy to see me for 100 after she had fun at our coffee meet.

I now have several new messages I can't read as subscription expired.

Same thing. Banged some girls already who would never find on AW or agencies.
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Offline Shadowb3831

check day use .com, per hour hotel or any other pay per use hotel sites  :hi:

Dayuse.com doesn't seem any cheaper than using top secret hotels on lastminute.com