Changing your punting habits

[threechilliman]

OK, I've been doing this for just over 18 months now, punting on average once a week. I've come to realise that the most memorable punts have been certain 1-2-1's, but generally 3somes, moresomes and parties are the punts which provide me with the best memories. On the whole 1-2-1's have become a bit routine - tedious even. Going forward I intend to punt less often, but seek out what I call 'Mega-punts' perhaps interspersed with recommended 1-2-1's on an occasional basis.

Has anyone else experienced a similar thing and how have your punting habits changed with experience?

tcm

[Anadin]

When I started I was under the impression that any relatively attractive WG would do but doing this for a while now I've come to realise that unless I 'really' fancy them then I won't enjoy the punt. The problem is the kind of ladies I fancy usually cost a fortune. £100 quid for 30 mins is really quite reasonable now and I could easily spend £250+ if I had it. It's meant that I now rarely see new WGs and stick with the same 3 at the moment which isn't ideal but it's ok.

[itk]

OK, I've been doing this for just over 18 months now, punting on average once a week. I've come to realise that the most memorable punts have been certain 1-2-1's, but generally 3somes, moresomes and parties are the punts which provide me with the best memories. On the whole 1-2-1's have become a bit routine - tedious even. Going forward I intend to punt less often, but seek out what I call 'Mega-punts' perhaps interspersed with recommended 1-2-1's on an occasional basis.

Has anyone else experienced a similar thing and how have your punting habits changed with experience?

tcm

I find myself in exactly the same position, found 1-2-1's getting to the point of I'm not overly hyped about them. I thought the same regarding parties, and thought they would be the thing I'm after now, but a bad experience with the last one I went to has put me off them now. I just hope that more parties become available closer to home and run by others. I did see a WG at the party, who then pissed off prior to the party starting who I would definitely see 1-2-1, looked stunning.

[vw]

I see a lot in the disillusioned people her they get set in their type and in the exact same services, basically what they think they like or should like but not necessarily what they enjoy.

I like to mix it up, odd choices, different services and fucked up venues (Smile Chuckle).

[webpunter]

OK, I've been doing this for just over 18 months now, punting on average once a week

Talk about starting late & catching up.  Respec
I tend to mix things up - routine punt say twice a month.  Usually full on massage / B2B & edging.  Which is relatively affordable. Then every once in a while i like a blow-out upping the price & action.  The only change is that i'm slowly finding myself doing both more often.  And need my daily fix logging on here

[akauya]

I'm a creature of habit and for the last 30 years (started in my late teens) or so I haven't changed my punting style much. I've done pretty much everything I wanted to do, 3soms, 4soms, parties, seedy joints, upmarket joints, picked up women off the street, fucked porn stars, etc. But I never find 1-2-1s routine, ever. It must be because I don't do repeat visits very often. I like fresh meat, so every time I go for a punt it's nearly always new pussy.

I suppose I'm lucky that living in London there is an endless supply of prossies. Were I to live in the punting deserts that some members complain about I might find a 1-2-1 with the same prossies a tedious routine too.

[threechilliman]

But I never find 1-2-1s routine, ever. It must be because I don't do repeat visits very often. I like fresh meat...

Interesting. I don't do repeats very often, but just find one girl much the same as the next.

tcm

[akauya]

Interesting. I don't do repeats very often, but just find one girl much the same as the next.

tcm

That is interesting indeed. Maybe you need a break from punting? Can punters get burnt out too? I think Hendrix and Yorks reported feeling like that.

I think I have a very high sex drive. I don't think I could go for long without feeling some pretty woman's body and having sex with her.

[vw]

Interesting. I don't do repeats very often, but just find one girl much the same as the next.

tcm

What about routine, do you do the same thing same order on 1-2-1's ?

[SirFrank]

I guess as the old saying goes, if you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got. I've never punted as regular as some on here. Probably over a year, I have around 6-9 punts on average. I don't really get the point of punting parties so it's predominantly 1-2-1. I have however become increasingly selective. I hardly ever do spontaneous meets anymore, I won't see a girl with no reviews as I'm now so risk averse  and I usually spend a lot of time researching. I'm now like the punting rain man. I don't know if that's a good of a bad thing?

[threechilliman]

That is interesting indeed. Maybe you need a break from punting? Can punters get burnt out too? I think Hendrix and Yorks reported feeling like that.

I think I have a very high sex drive. I don't think I could go for long without feeling some pretty woman's body and having sex with her.

Possibly. The (nice) problem I have is that I still have a very active sex-life with Mrs tcm and enjoy having sex with her.

What about routine, do you do the same thing same order on 1-2-1's ?

Pretty much, which is why 3somes, moresomes and parties are great - change of routine.

I guess as the old saying goes, if you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got......

One for me to ponder.....

tcm

[vw]

Pretty much, which is why 3somes, moresomes and parties are great - change of routine.

I really like to fuck with things, keep it obscure.

Have done nice sweet girl turned strangler, the clothes peg session, the school woodwork project, the black girl in the field and last night my first agency delivery in a while.  While next month we have the reg choosing a 3 some partner, I'm not to know !

Think if you want to you can mix without parties to !  Just delve deep into your mind !

[smiths]

OK, I've been doing this for just over 18 months now, punting on average once a week. I've come to realise that the most memorable punts have been certain 1-2-1's, but generally 3somes, moresomes and parties are the punts which provide me with the best memories. On the whole 1-2-1's have become a bit routine - tedious even. Going forward I intend to punt less often, but seek out what I call 'Mega-punts' perhaps interspersed with recommended 1-2-1's on an occasional basis.

Has anyone else experienced a similar thing and how have your punting habits changed with experience?

tcm

When I first starting punting Aids was big news and we were all going to die of it, as a consequence the service most WGs offered me was usually cold, kissing was very rarely on offer, same with OWO. Not until EE WGs starting coming here did both become on offer and prices go down on average. Nowadays both kissing and OWO are essential to me at 121 punts.

I was getting bored in the noughties with 121s so was looking for something different and along came me finding punting sites and sex parties, it all sounded as far from up my street as it could be. However, I decided to give one a go and despite shaking like a leaf and nearly bottling I went and within a short time I knew this was my bag. Then started a period of going to a number of party providers to see which I liked best. The last I went to was LMP where I spent a whole year partying at at least 6 parties a week, often more and had great fun and it was great vfm at £200 for 2 parties or £300 for 3, I never did less than 2 parties per visit and without a doubt this time was the best time I have had in punting. Great banter with some of the other punters, and many punting friends made, also a good place to get recommendations about good WGs and which ones to avoid. However, I started to get bored with parties and needed a break anyway so took 6 months off returning refreshed but preferring 121s or threesomes or moresomes, sometimes still going to parties if I fancied it.

I have fulfilled my sexual fantasies beyond what I could imagine as a teenager and young man, I have tried everything that interests me, but who knows what I might fancy trying in the future.

[Mansell]

All depends why you are doing it TCM, for younger guys it can be lots of reasons, the thrill, different girls, parties, the list is endless etc.

Guys who aren't getting any at home any more, it can be just to replace what is missing, so 1-2-1 is fine, although the bucket list can grow quickly once you get into it 

[smiths]

That is interesting indeed. Maybe you need a break from punting? Can punters get burnt out too? I think Hendrix and Yorks reported feeling like that.

I think I have a very high sex drive. I don't think I could go for long without feeling some pretty woman's body and having sex with her.

Well I did in 2010 needing a 6 month break from punting, by then multiple naked WGs weren't turning me on anymore, the previous 18 months had been a period of intensive partying and 121s, sometimes both on the same days, punting 4-7 days a week.

[lostandfound]

For me punting is about thinking with my dick and not my head. My head is there to inject a bit of common sense. When a punt disappoints it is often because I've let my head decide it was a good idea rather than my dick. This is why I like to punt spontaneously rather than plan ahead. If I'm not randy or my cock doesn't tingle at the thought of a punt I don't punt.

So sometimes I don't punt for a while, other times I'll have many punts in a short space of time.

[cueball]

I've punted for nearly 20 years but nowhere near as prolific as since joining ukp, the advice and rec's have proven invaluable.

But

I can feel myself changing, I'm at a stage now where I just want to do a few returns to the great lasses I've met along the way, maybe feeling a little burnt out maybe feeling disillusioned with some of the average or poor punts.

For now, I've done with new faces (unless something pops up that really catches my eye) and intend to punt less but with returns to my favourites.

A financial crossroad may be on the horizon that dictates a drop off in the amounts of punts I have too.

Good thread by the way tcm

[purple_t]

I punt once a month on average, so it always feels like a treat and never feels routine. I do repeat visits as well if I really liked it the first time, but meeting a girl for the first time is always the most exciting, I like the anticipation and exploring a new body. Still plenty of girls on my hotlist I am yet to see so it'll be a while yet until I get bored.

I am only really into 1-2-1 sessions. Parties, gangbangs etc have never appealed to me.

[PLeisure]

When I first starting punting Aids was big news and we were all going to die of it, as a consequence the service most WGs offered me was usually cold, kissing was very rarely on offer, same with OWO. Not until EE WGs starting coming here did both become on offer and prices go down on average. Nowadays both kissing and OWO are essential to me at 121 punts.

I was getting bored in the noughties with 121s so was looking for something different and along came me finding punting sites and sex parties, it all sounded as far from up my street as it could be. However, I decided to give one a go and despite shaking like a leaf and nearly bottling I went and within a short time I knew this was my bag. Then started a period of going to a number of party providers to see which I liked best. The last I went to was LMP where I spent a whole year partying at at least 6 parties a week, often more and had great fun and it was great vfm at £200 for 2 parties or £300 for 3, I never did less than 2 parties per visit and without a doubt this time was the best time I have had in punting. Great banter with some of the other punters, and many punting friends made, also a good place to get recommendations about good WGs and which ones to avoid. However, I started to get bored with parties and needed a break anyway so took 6 months off returning refreshed but preferring 121s or threesomes or moresomes, sometimes still going to parties if I fancied it.

I have fulfilled my sexual fantasies beyond what I could imagine as a teenager and young man, I have tried everything that interests me, but who knows what I might fancy trying in the future.

I feel that this 6-month hiatus could qualify as a new section of the Punting Wiki.... an entry on "Punting Breaks", if one doesn't already exist. As important as the entry on EAS or maintaining control of your finances.
You've mentioned this break in several posts and, whilst I certainly haven't read them all, this one really captures the perspective, the background and reasons why you took that break.
Others could contribute with similar break histories.

Either way, good to have the insights 

[scoobydoo88]

I'm more selective about who I book now and I do more repeat visits than I use to. I've also started ticking things off my bucket list and did my first party last month.

[Dingo1]

For me punting is about thinking with my dick and not my head. My head is there to inject a bit of common sense. When a punt disappoints it is often because I've let my head decide it was a good idea rather than my dick. This is why I like to punt spontaneously rather than plan ahead. If I'm not randy or my cock doesn't tingle at the thought of a punt I don't punt.

So sometimes I don't punt for a while, other times I'll have many punts in a short space of time.

This sounds very much like how I'm thinking about it and I need to heed some of that advice when not to punt.  I've been doing this now nearly 6 months and have lost track of the girls I've seen in 1-2-1's and threesomes.

I think I need a break to re-evaluate now that I have good(and bad) experience and think I understand how this world works a bit. 

I'm in my thirties and my sexual desire has increased to this inevitable point but, as my taste in porn went from plain to reasonably extreme to cam girls I feel I have reached the top of the pile.  All I can now go is sideways with real life experiences.

What I'm struggling with is where to find the girls who will do what I want (nothing too extreme may I add). Despite doing this I'm still relatively shy in asking for services, I thought I found a girl who was up for exactly what I wanted, penned her an email only to find out that this is her last weekend punting ever and she wouldn't do what I wanted as she never enjoyed doing it when she did!! (This makes me think of another topic I want to explore.. Can a working girl ever truly retire?)

Anyway I feel like I'm ranting but in someways it's quite therapeutic!!
 

[Hawkwind71]

OK, I've been doing this for just over 18 months now, punting on average once a week. I've come to realise that the most memorable punts have been certain 1-2-1's, but generally 3somes, moresomes and parties are the punts which provide me with the best memories. On the whole 1-2-1's have become a bit routine - tedious even. Going forward I intend to punt less often, but seek out what I call 'Mega-punts' perhaps interspersed with recommended 1-2-1's on an occasional basis.

Has anyone else experienced a similar thing and how have your punting habits changed with experience?

tcm

Not so much that issue for me. I still love the one to one.

What has changed is how I book. I am doing my last advance bookings this week. Had three last minute cancellations.

From now on its all going to be same day with couple hours notice.

Love and care for all the working girls but  FUCK their rules.

And you know what else, fuck their 'at discretion'.

#notmad   
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[webpunter]

From now on its all going to be same day with couple hours notice.

+1 - well sort 1st thing in the morning for later in the day.  I have to wake up with the horn.  The exception is when i'll be in another part of the country & book this in

[LL]

I've tried to change my punting habits. I'd like to save up a whole month of punting money and spend it on one really good punt (e.g a threesome). Trouble is I'm a slave to punting and can barely last a week before I think, fuck it, have one of my normal cheap punts, meaning I can't afford the "special" punt any more and have to wait till next month, and then the next month...

[OakTree]

Not so much that issue for me. I still love the one to one.

What has changed is how I book. I am doing my last advance bookings this week. Had three last minute cancellations.

From now on its all going to be same day with couple hours notice.

Love and care for all the working girls but  FUCK their rules.

And you know what else, fuck their 'at discretion'.

#notmad   
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That's why I mainly use agencies. I can ring and within a couple of hours I'm there.

[Hawkwind71]

That's why I mainly use agencies. I can ring and within a couple of hours I'm there.

Totally appreciate and have considered that route. But at this point I still like the challenge of the indie. But watch this space if I change my mind again.

[threechilliman]

I've tried to change my punting habits. I'd like to save up a whole month of punting money and spend it on one really good punt (e.g a threesome). Trouble is I'm a slave to punting and can barely last a week before I think, fuck it, have one of my normal cheap punts, meaning I can't afford the "special" punt any more and have to wait till next month, and then the next month...

You sound as though you're in a similar boat to me. I have two 'biggies' planned in a couple of weeks and haven't punted since last weekend, which means a 20 day gap - twice my normal gap at least. I'm tempted by one reg this week as she's a great punt and inexpensive, but I can remember my last outing with her - if I punt her again it'll be enjoyable but pretty much a replay of last time.

tcm

[LL]

You sound as though you're in a similar boat to me. I have two 'biggies' planned in a couple of weeks and haven't punted since last weekend, which means a 20 day gap - twice my normal gap at least. I'm tempted by one reg this week as she's a great punt and inexpensive, but I can remember my last outing with her - if I punt her again it'll be enjoyable but pretty much a replay of last time.

tcm

Yep. My problem is that I get tempted by all the hot women I see close up, every day when using the tube. It's difficult to last a whole week with those mental images filling and overloading my wank-bank.

[threechilliman]

Yep. My problem is that I get tempted by all the hot women I see close up, every day when using the tube. It's difficult to last a whole week with those mental images filling and overloading my wank-bank.

You've just got to hold out and in honesty, I think it'll do me good. Two biggies end of the month and then nothing til the end of Nov. The good thing is it gets cash in hand so if a touring girl I want to see pops up, I can punt her. Play the game to suit yourself, which is surely the advice seasoned punters would give.

tcm

[JEH7376]

Yep. My problem is that I get tempted by all the hot women I see close up, every day when using the tube. It's difficult to last a whole week with those mental images filling and overloading my wank-bank.

Thats a good point, generall I would prefer not to impulse-punt, but the pressure can really build up.if I happen to have crossed paths with lots of unbearably gorgeous girls in a particular day or couple of days, the chances of an inpulse-punt go up dramatically

[Titi]

I am new to punting and in a way understand what you're saying. I punt once a month so as not to get bored and find it better than punting once a week. It gives me something to look forward to and enough time to plan ahead. I suppose it's not about quantity but quality.

[OakTree]

From a slightly different angle. One of the drawbacks of this pastime is that it can become all consuming. There have been times where I've spent far too much time scouring the Internet for the next fuck. Every time I picked my phone up it would be to look at something to do with punting. Basically it becomes the major occupation through out the day. I realised that it was a habit that was damaging my way of life and at the end of the day it's just a fuck. I still do spend too much time "researching" but not nearly as much as I used to.

I try not to see it as a habit now but just something I do now and again and I've made it a much lower priority in my day to day life. At the end of the day it really is just a fuck.

[PLeisure]

From a slightly different angle. One of the drawbacks of this pastime is that it can become all consuming. There have been times where I've spent far too much time scouring the Internet for the next fuck. Every time I picked my phone up it would be to look at something to do with punting. Basically it becomes the major occupation through out the day. I realised that it was a habit that was damaging my way of life and at the end of the day it's just a fuck. I still do spend too much time "researching" but not nearly as much as I used to.

I try not to see it as a habit now but just something I do now and again and I've made it a much lower priority in my day to day life. At the end of the day it really is just a fuck.

This pretty much echoes where I am at present - except that you have a better handle on things. Much as I enjoy the camaraderie/ invaluable exchange of intel and crazy humour on here, I need to wean myself off and get back to work.
Online activity is almost predominantly this forum now 

[threechilliman]

Every time I picked my phone up it would be to look at something to do with punting. Basically it becomes the major occupation through out the day. I realised that it was a habit that was damaging my way of life and at the end of the day it's just a fuck.....

I reckon most of us have been there...

tcm

[LL]

I reckon most of us have been there...

tcm

...and still are!

[Lowie1973]

My habits have definitely changed over the years.
20 years ago my first punts were out of a desperate need for sex. I was young and inexperienced and would have fucked pretty much anyone.
Then about 10 years ago I had moved on and was definitely in my randy phase. Had I the money I would have punted at least weekly - but in those days there was a wife who saw the bank statements
Since I found myself single and over 40 I thought I'd go mad and be punting everyday - but interestingly I'm more choosy. I know what I want these days and I don't like disappointment so I tend to revisit a small group of regulars.
The other change for me is my tastes - I used to be very vanilla in my tastes - but these days I push the boundaries more - love a good party - and enjoy some bdsm- all stuff I would have been too shy to try in my youth

[Hawkwind71]

From a slightly different angle. One of the drawbacks of this pastime is that it can become all consuming. There have been times where I've spent far too much time scouring the Internet for the next fuck. Every time I picked my phone up it would be to look at something to do with punting. Basically it becomes the major occupation through out the day. I realised that it was a habit that was damaging my way of life and at the end of the day it's just a fuck. I still do spend too much time "researching" but not nearly as much as I used to.

I try not to see it as a habit now but just something I do now and again and I've made it a much lower priority in my day to day life. At the end of the day it really is just a fuck.

I would like to feel I was at the same stage as you. I had a sheltered youth, few girlfriends and then married early. I see my current punting life as making up for lost youth. I have a lot of respect for the wg and what they go through. But as long as I can afford it and as long as they are willing to accomodate while being safe then I intend to take this into my dotage. I dont see myself tiring any time soon....

[Dingo1]

I would like to feel I was at the same stage as you. I had a sheltered youth, few girlfriends and then married early. I see my current punting life as making up for lost youth.

I feel exactly the same, I'm glad I'm not the only one but I'm not at that stage, I had a very misspent teens (not criminal) that prevented me from enjoying the usual sharking and going on the pull so I am very much making up for lost time... When does it stop though!!

[charger70]

From a slightly different angle. One of the drawbacks of this pastime is that it can become all consuming. There have been times where I've spent far too much time scouring the Internet for the next fuck. Every time I picked my phone up it would be to look at something to do with punting. Basically it becomes the major occupation through out the day. I realised that it was a habit that was damaging my way of life and at the end of the day it's just a fuck. I still do spend too much time "researching" but not nearly as much as I used to.

This is very true for me, actually I find it the most corrosive aspect of the whole punting issue!  Regarding the OP's point about changing habits, I find that I prefer to use fewer regular WG's whom I can get more comfortable with, and then exchange ideas (My punts are generally more fetish based than vanilla anyhow) and I then find myself exploring some of the other aspects and specialities that are out  there, but I had not previously  considered, so this way I am still enjoying the journey (Although still some what wary of exploring the party scene, but perhaps the inhibitions will reduce asI progress!)

I suspect that the other problem the OP has, is that he is getting plenty at home (albeit I think  he intimates somewhat vanilla) and maybe this coupled with punting once a week, is leaving him shagged out!

[Silver Birch]

I probably haven't been punting long enough to have developed habits to change, but I now try to choose wgs that score a potential 8+/10 looks & service on my rating scoresheet, whereas in the early days I would sometimes compromise appearance if the location was convenient. Now I need to find the wg for damned attractive or the punt doesn't satisfy for me.

[threechilliman]

I suspect that the other problem the OP has, is that he is getting plenty at home (albeit I think  he intimates somewhat vanilla) and maybe this coupled with punting once a week, is leaving him shagged out!

Not shagged out but you may be right on the vanilla front - my 1-2-1 punts tend to be similar to the sex at home - I'm not massively adventurous but get a great deal of pleasure from a good, honest shag!!

tcm

[RedKettle]

I am also getting jaded with the actual punting, although still enjoying UKP!!!

I find myself looking through AW searches for something "different" but I am not sure what that is.....

There have been a few days when I was going to punt and I just decided I could not be bothered and spent the time doing something else.  For me I think the change in habit is to make it less of a habit for a while and just do a few punts when it appeals and keep looking for that something different.

[KidCandyShop]

My punting habits have changed, mainly parties now (but cutting back) with occasional 1-1 with a regular where we are both comfortable with pushing each others boundaries a bit further each meet. Often look at new talent on AW get tempted and than think it will probably be a mediocre vanilla punt. So has to be well reviewed and up my street to make it on to the to do list nowadays. 

[Silver Birch]

I find myself looking through AW searches for something "different" but I am not sure what that is.....

This is me exactly. My bucket list is pretty much all ticked, and not sure what I'm looking for as new & exciting experiences.

[claretandblue]

Can associate with a lot of the things on this thread,over the past couple of months I have punted quite a bit and not had many nights out with mates,have also probably spent too long on here especially during the mcfly /culumbo episode, still going on with punting but aiming to reduce it in the next couple of months to get a better balance

[vw]

Can associate with a lot of the things on this thread,over the past couple of months I have punted quite a bit and not had many nights out with mates,have also probably spent too long on here especially during the mcfly /culumbo episode, still going on with punting but aiming to reduce it in the next couple of months to get a better balance

The Christmas drought usually helps reign things in a bit to, looking forward to a Christmas MILF profile though before a few weeks hibernation and socialising normally.